Refamulating podcast

Refamulating

Refamulating is a podcast that celebrates different ways to make a family. A generation ago, most Americans were guided by the idea of the nuclear family: a mom, a dad, two kids, and a derpy dog. Many still have a family like this, and that’s great! But the numbers show it doesn't represent the majority of American households. In fact, there is no one-size-fits-all for what a family should look like. We’re collectively reformulating our understanding of what makes a family in today’s world. We call this refamulating, and this show invites us to understand it one story at a time. On each episode of Refamulating, host Julia Winston delivers emotionally honest stories of real people with nuanced experiences that census data could never tell us. Think queer parents, egg and sperm donors, surrogates, blended families, child-free folks, tales of communal living, and much more.

Refamulating is a podcast that celebrates different ways to make a family. A generation ago, most Americans were guided by the idea of the nuclear family: a mom, a dad, two kids, and a derpy dog. Many still have a family like this, and that’s great! But the numbers show it doesn't represent the majority of American households. In fact, there is no one-size-fits-all for what a family should look like. We’re collectively reformulating our understanding of what makes a family in today’s world. We call this refamulating, and this show invites us to understand it one story at a time. On each episode of Refamulating, host Julia Winston delivers emotionally honest stories of real people with nuanced experiences that census data could never tell us. Think queer parents, egg and sperm donors, surrogates, blended families, child-free folks, tales of communal living, and much more.

 

#33

REFAM CHAT: A New Way To Freeze And Donate Your Eggs with Lauren Makler

Years ago, [Lauren Makler] (https://www.cofertility.com/all-authors/lauren-makler) was dia... more

26 Aug 2025

41 MINS

41:53

26 Aug 2025


#32

REFAM CHAT: How We’re Re-examining Wedding Traditions

Julia and Claire are both getting married this year (cute!) and the wedding planning proce... more

29 Jul 2025

34 MINS

34:41

29 Jul 2025


#31

REFAM CHAT: How To Find Your People (And Community) with Katherine Goldstein

For a lot of Americans, it’s getting harder and harder to find community. Fewer people are... more

24 Jun 2025

45 MINS

45:52

24 Jun 2025


#30

REFAM CHAT: It’s Okay To Put Friendship At The Center Of Your Life (with Rhaina Cohen)

Our culture spends a lot of time talking about the importance of romantic love: finding it... more

27 May 2025

36 MINS

36:18

27 May 2025


#29

REFAM CHAT: Cracking ‘The Mother Code’ with author Ruthie Ackerman

When [Ruthie Ackerman] (https://www.ruthieackerman.com/) was in her late 30s, she realized... more

22 Apr 2025

39 MINS

39:24

22 Apr 2025


#28

20 I Refriendulating: A celebration of platonic soulmates

To wrap season 2, we honor and celebrate the unsung heroes of our emotional lives—our clos... more

11 Mar 2025

50 MINS

50:10

11 Mar 2025


#27

19 I Finding Peace with Parents Who Don't Fully Accept You with Jedidiah Jenkins

Show Notes:  Disagreeing with your family is nothing new. But in the last decade, as polit... more

25 Feb 2025

50 MINS

50:33

25 Feb 2025


#26

18 I There’s Nothing Wrong With You! You’re Just Single

Almost half of American adults are single, yet we still treat being unpartnered as a probl... more

11 Feb 2025

46 MINS

46:50

11 Feb 2025


#25

17 I Caregiving & Family Pt 2: The Realities of Caring For Children with Disabilities

Erica spent her childhood living with a disability and needing a lot of care from her mom.... more

28 Jan 2025

50 MINS

50:28

28 Jan 2025


#24

16 I Caregiving & Family Pt 1: What It's Really Like To Receive Long-Term Care When You Have a Disab...

In this episode we meet Kathleen Downes- a 31-year-old woman who lives with her parents an... more

21 Jan 2025

44 MINS

44:54

21 Jan 2025


#23

15 I Family Preservation in Foster Care: Building a bridge between two families through radical comp...

Aaliyah and Jamyla have three moms - their birth mother Nicole, their foster mom (soon to ... more

07 Jan 2025

1 HR 00 MINS

1:00:28

07 Jan 2025


#22

REFAM CHAT: Recognizing All Of Our Milestones

Something we’ve realized while working on this project is that the nuclear family has infi... more

26 Dec 2024

46 MINS

46:23

26 Dec 2024


#21

14 I The Single Greatest Choice: Embracing solo motherhood

Katie Bryan grew up in a nuclear family in Texas, and always dreamed her future family wou... more

10 Dec 2024

58 MINS

58:57

10 Dec 2024