Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer podcast

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Dating can be a hot mess, from getting ghosted by your crush to realizing you've been catfished by a Tinder match. Enter Why Won't You Date Me? Nicole Byer's multi-award-winning podcast where she dives into all things love, dating, and romance. Join Nicole, the perpetual singleton, as she welcomes comedians, friends, and even ex-flings to share their wildest dating stories and relationship insights. Nothing is off-limits. New episodes every Friday!

Dating can be a hot mess, from getting ghosted by your crush to realizing you've been catfished by a Tinder match. Enter Why Won't You Date Me? Nicole Byer's multi-award-winning podcast where she dives into all things love, dating, and romance. Join Nicole, the perpetual singleton, as she welcomes comedians, friends, and even ex-flings to share their wildest dating stories and relationship insights. Nothing is off-limits. New episodes every Friday!

 

#369

We Met Playing Call of Duty (w/ Sarah Silverman)

Comedian [ Sarah Silverman] (https://www.sarahsilverman.com/) sits down with Nicole to discuss meeting her boyfriend over Call of Duty, the challenges of dating as a female comic, and how many health studies are skewed against women. Plus, Nicole shares her experience getting hit on at Comic-Con. See Sarah Silverman live on her POST MORTEM tour at [ sarahsilverman.com] (https://www.sarahsilverman.com/) . WATCH this episode on YouTube at: [youtu.be/eOdSuFrUl4s] (https://youtu.be/eOdSuFrUl4s) Write to Nicole!Send your dirty messages to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com with the subject line "Dirty Message," and Nicole may read it in a future episode. Sponsors: Betterhelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at [betterhelp.com/DATEME] (http://betterhelp.com/DATEME) and get on your way to being your best self. Follow Nicole Byer: Website: [nicolebyerwastaken.com] (https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) X: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) This is a [Headgum] (https://headgum.com/) podcast. Follow Headgum on [Twitter] (https://x.com/headgum) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/headgum/) , and [Tiktok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@headgum) . Advertise on [Why Won't You Date Me?] (https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer) via [Gumball.fm] (http://gumball.fm/) . See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

08 Nov 2024

58 MINS

58:39

08 Nov 2024


#368

Men Who Lie About Their Height (w/ Lauren Lapkus)

We're back - and now in video form! Comedian and actress [Lauren Lapkus] (https://www.instagram.com/laurenlapkus) ( [Newcomers podcast] (https://headgum.com/newcomers) ) joins Nicole to discuss why men lie about their heights, motherhood, and her recent trip to Victoria's Secret. Plus, they play a special game of F*ck, Marry, Kill: Newcomers Movies Edition. Watch this episode! Check it out on our new YouTube channel at [youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] (https://youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast) . Write to Nicole! Send your dirty messages to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com with the subject line "Dirty Message," and Nicole may read it on a future episode. Sponsors: Lume: Control Body Odor anywhere with @lumedeodorant and get 15% off with promo code DATEME at [LumeDeodorant.com] (http://LumeDeodorant.com) . #lumepod Betterhelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at [betterhelp.com/DATEME] (http://betterhelp.com/DATEME) and get on your way to being your best self. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) This is a [Headgum] (https://headgum.com/) podcast. Follow Headgum on [Twitter] (https://x.com/headgum) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/headgum/) , and [Tiktok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@headgum) . Advertise on [Why Won't You Date Me?] (https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer) via [Gumball.fm] (http://gumball.fm/) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

01 Nov 2024

56 MINS

56:26

01 Nov 2024


#367

BEST OF: How to Hack Into Your Partner's Phone (w/ Keke Palmer)

In this best of episode, Emmy-award winning actress [Keke Palmer] (https://www.instagram.com/keke) (Nope, Lightyear)shares with Nicole how she got her first kiss from MySpace, why she avoids posting relationships on social media,and how she's learning to trust again after her boyfriend slept with her best friend.Plus, is it ever okay to hack into your partner's phone? Keke teaches, in great detail, exactly how to do it. We're starting a YouTube channel! Subscribe at [youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast] (https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast) for upcoming full length video podcast episodes. We'll be back next week with a brand new episode! Crazy dating story? Looking for advice? Let Nicole and her guest help you out. Submit your stories, questions, or dirty pick-up lines towhywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.comfor a chance to have it read on-air. Netflix's The Ultimatum is NOW CASTING long-term couples in committed relationships for an all-new season! Go to [theultimatumcasting.com] (https://theultimatumcasting.com/) to learn more and apply. See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

25 Oct 2024

45 MINS

45:21

25 Oct 2024


#366

BEST OF: Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber)

While we're on hiatus, we're bringing you the best of the podcast – completely ad-free! In this episode, Nicole’s close friend [Francesca Amber] (https://www.instagram.com/francescaamber) (host of [Law of Attraction Changed my Life] (https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/law-of-attraction-changed-my-life/id1517137653) ) opens up about the challenges of being a single mother to twins, the rising trend of 'co-parenting', and how she uses the Law of Attraction to manifest her dream partner. Meanwhile, Nicole counts down the days until her dick appointment. Originally aired on July 16, 2021. We’re launching a [YouTube channel] (https://www.youtube.com/@whywontyoudatemepodcast) ! Subscribe now for upcoming full-length video podcast episodes. We're looking for more dirty message submissions! Submit a dirty message to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: X: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

18 Oct 2024

58 MINS

58:35

18 Oct 2024


#365

BEST OF: Top or Bottom? (w/ Jon Gabrus, Nick Wiger, and Mike Mitchell)

In this iconic episode, Gabrus ( [High & Mighty] (https://headgum.com/high-and-mighty) ), Nick Wiger and Mike Mitchell ( [Doughboys] (https://headgum.com/doughboys) ) join Nicole fresh off a power-hour to discuss how they would want to die, their favorite sex positions, and if they're into ass play. They also answer audience questions about post-sex snacks, favorite porn genres, and their craziest sex stories. Plus, Nicole helps officiate a live marriage proposal. We now have a YouTube! [Subscribe here] (https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast) for upcoming full length video podcast episodes. Listen to the High & Mighty Power-Hour they recorded here: [https://headgum.com/high-and-mighty/212-chicago-power-hour-w-nick-wiger-mike-mitchell-and-nicole-byer] (https://headgum.com/high-and-mighty/212-chicago-power-hour-w-nick-wiger-mike-mitchell-and-nicole-byer) This was recorded at Thalia Hall for Headgum Live in Chicago. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: [nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates] (https://www.nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates) Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Facebook: [www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy] (https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

11 Oct 2024

1 HR 25 MINS

1:25:51

11 Oct 2024


#364

BEST OF: Proposal Gone Wrong (w/ Paul Scheer)

While we're on hiatus, we're revisiting one of Nicole's favorite episodes! Comedian and actor [Paul Scheer] (https://twitter.com/paulscheer) (The League,Black Monday) joins Nicole to chat about how his proposal to [June Diane Raphael] (https://twitter.com/msjunediane?lang=en) went terribly wrong, how June's wedding ring was stolen from her finger, and why you should never propose in a hot air balloon. June sits nearby, fact-checking Paul's stories. Originally aired 05/21/2021. California! New York! Come see Nicole live in October. Get tickets at [linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken] (https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken) . Watch full video episodes of the podcast on our upcoming YouTube channel! Subscribe to [Why Won't You Date Me on YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast) . Follow Nicole Byer: Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) X: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

04 Oct 2024

1 HR 04 MINS

1:04:03

04 Oct 2024


#363

BEST OF: Same Guy Club (w/ Skyler Hurt)

We’re bringing you the best of Why Won’t You Date Me?—completely ad-free! In this episode, Nicole is joined by Skyler, who she met on Tinder. Things got awkward quickly when they realized they dated the same man. Nicole asks Skyler why she swiped right, why they kept dating despite Nicole's smoking, and whether she would’ve still gone out with her if she didn’t know about her work. And finally, Skyler gives Nicole the cold, hard truth about why they stopped dating. Spoiler alert: things get really awkward. You can check out Skyler's Austin account at [@austinunscripted] (https://www.instagram.com/austinunscripted/) . Originally aired 02/14/2019. Follow Nicole Byer: See Nicole live at [Nicolebyerwastaken.com] (https://nicolebyerwastaken.com/) . X: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Facebook: [www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy] (https://www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

27 Sep 2024

1 HR 05 MINS

1:05:29

27 Sep 2024


#362

BEST OF: Getting Paid for Sex (w/ Meatball and Big Dipper)

As we continue our hiatus, we're bringing back one of Nicole's all-time favorite episodes! And oh boy, buckle up, because this one is WILD. Nicole is joined by her pals, drag queen [Meatball] (https://www.instagram.com/spiciestmeatball/?hl=en) and rapper [Big Dipper] (https://www.instagram.com/bigdipperjelly/?hl=en) .They share a wild hookup story involving a dirty diaper, talk about how they like to be choked in bed, and swap stories about the times they were paid for sex. By the end, Nicole is convinced to hire a male escort for her next birthday. Originally aired 05/25/2018. For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify: [https://spoti.fi/3fg8Epu] (https://spoti.fi/3fg8Epu) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

20 Sep 2024

1 HR 03 MINS

1:03:39

20 Sep 2024


#361

BEST OF: Booty Call Horror Story (w/ Jameela Jamil)

Actress [Jameela Jamil] (https://www.instagram.com/jameelajamil/?hl=en) (The Good Place) joins Nicole to share her most horrifying booty call story. They dive into the wild pressure women face to be sexy, why so many play it small for men, and how the relentless pursuit of the 'bad boy' often leads to heartbreak—and HPV. Originally aired 09/06/2018. Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions towhywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.comfor a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

13 Sep 2024

1 HR 00 MINS

1:00:39

13 Sep 2024


#360

A lil update from Nicole

We’re taking a short hiatus, but don’t worry—we’ll be back soon with brand new episodes, including more video podcasts! In the meantime, I’m re-releasing some of my all-time favorite episodes of the podcast, completely ad-free. Stay tuned for updates and all the latest news by following me on Instagram [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/?hl=en) . We can’t wait to share what’s coming up next with you! See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

12 Sep 2024

00 MINS

00:36

12 Sep 2024


#359

Dating Michael Jordan, Larry David, and a $6K Dating App Fail (w/ Garcelle Beauvais)

Actress [Garcelle Beauvais] (https://www.instagram.com/garcelle/?hl=en)  (The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills) joins Nicole to discuss dating the likes of Michael Jordan, Larry David, and Eddie Murphy. She shares her experience working at a Playboy club under a fake ID, and the time she accidentally spent $6,000 on a dating app, without landing a single date. Nicole and Garcelle fantasize about a world with Yelp-style reviews for dating.    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

06 Sep 2024

55 MINS

55:49

06 Sep 2024


#358

Dating Scraps (w/ Riki Lindhome)

Comedian [Riki Lindhome] (https://www.instagram.com/rikilindhome/?hl=en) (Garfunkel and Oates, AfrAId) joins Nicole to discuss her harrowing fertility journey, dating someone new just two weeks before her baby was due, and what it means to "soft-partner" or date a "scrap." Meanwhile, a man tries to move into Nicole's house, leading her to seek relationship advice from WikiHow. Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

30 Aug 2024

54 MINS

54:24

30 Aug 2024


#357

Orgasmic Meditation (w/ Chloe Fineman)

Comedian and actress [Chloe Fineman] (https://www.instagram.com/chloeiscrazy/?hl=en) (SNL) joins Nicole to discuss orgasmic meditation and the strange men behind the practice. She shares stories of attending a “slutty” theater school where her friends ended up in a crazy gangbang, dating a 700-pound man who used meth to lose weight, and dating another guy with "school shooter vibes." Chloe also talks about the most ridiculous arguments that have led to her breakups and offers advice on the best dating app.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

23 Aug 2024

54 MINS

54:16

23 Aug 2024


#356

When Your Dad’s a Movie Icon (w/ Sophia Stallone)

[Sophia Stallone] (https://www.instagram.com/sophiastallone/?hl=en)  (The Family Stallone) shares what it's like to date when your dad is Sylvester Stallone. Sophia recounts cringey dates where the guy was more interested in meeting Rocky than getting to know her, the challenges of navigating her dad’s overprotective nature, and how she’s worked to overcome the anxieties that come with dating in the spotlight. Nicole and Sophia also reminisce about being dummies on the set of Are You Smarter Than a Celebrity.    Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

16 Aug 2024

1 HR 01 MINS

1:01:25

16 Aug 2024


#355

Sex Goals (w/ Akeem Woods)

Comedian and "ho-fessional" [Akeem Woods] (https://www.instagram.com/akeemwoods/?hl=en) joins Nicole to share his crazy sexcapades. He tells the story about his first Pride parade where he hooked up with a dozen guys in a single day, his experiences having sex with pornstars, accidentally attending an orgy, and having sex with a stranger in a Staples bathroom. He looks back on the time he was still in the closet and made a MySpace account for his fake girlfriend. Nicole gets fisted.   Write to Nicole! Submit your dirty pick-up lines, dating stories, or questions to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

09 Aug 2024

55 MINS

55:13

09 Aug 2024


#354

Don't Break Up Like This! (w/ Ryan Beck)

Comedian [Ryan Beck] (https://www.instagram.com/iamryanbeck/?hl=en) (Girl Code) joins Nicole to discuss the worst places to be broken up with and debate when it’s acceptable to end a relationship over text. Nicole shares her experiences with threesome requests at meet & greets and the time she and her friend hooked up with long-lost brothers on a set of bunk beds.   Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

02 Aug 2024

57 MINS

57:36

02 Aug 2024


#353

Modelling on OnlyFans (w/ Luenell)

Comedian [Luenell] (https://www.instagram.com/luenell) (Borat, Hacks) joins Nicole to discuss the decision that led her to start an OnlyFans, dating a man who slid into her DMs, and her experience robbing $50,000 from a bank.   Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

26 Jul 2024

59 MINS

59:00

26 Jul 2024


#352

Forget About the Dating "Icks" (w/ Boman Martinez-Reid)

Actor/TikToker [Boman Martinez-Reid] (https://www.instagram.com/bomanizer/?hl=en) ( [@Bomanizer] (https://www.tiktok.com/@bomanizer?lang=en) ) joins Nicole to discuss the pitfalls of launching your relationship on social media, witnessing his ex compete on a TV dating show and become a fan favorite, and his advice on why we should all forget about the "icks" when dating. Meanwhile, Nicole has started bargaining with her house spiders. Got a dirty message for Nicole? Write it to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

19 Jul 2024

58 MINS

58:48

19 Jul 2024


#351

Background Check Your Dates (w/ Lala Kent)

[Lala Kent] (https://www.instagram.com/lalakent/?hl=en) (Vanderpump Rules) joins Nicole to reveal why she chose a sperm donor for her pregnancy and explain the tier system of sperm options. She shares the reasons she background checks all her dates and spills some of the craziest discoveries she's made. Plus, Lala opens up about her experience co-parenting her daughter and dating while pregnant.   Follow Nicole Byer: Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

12 Jul 2024

1 HR 02 MINS

1:02:43

12 Jul 2024


#350

Dating a Cult Leader (w/ Poppy Liu)

Actress [Poppy Liu] (https://www.instagram.com/poppyrepublic/?hl=en)  (Hacks) joins Nicole to discuss how she accidentally dated a cult leader, her exhausting year as a dominatrix in the BDSM lifestyle, her queer awakening watching Titanic, and her experiences doing experimental nude theatre in New York. Nicole shares the story of the time she was fingered by a dishwasher. Check out Poppy Liu's new movie, [Space Cadet] (https://www.primevideo.com/detail/Space-Cadet/0MW8G24CLDXNZI3YP3TUA5E6KU) , on Prime Video. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: [linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken] (https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken) Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

05 Jul 2024

47 MINS

47:37

05 Jul 2024


#349

Dominant Women (w/ Clark Jones)

Comedian [Clark Jones] (https://www.instagram.com/clarklarewjones/?hl=en) joins Nicole to discuss a wild hookup after a drug-fueled comedy show, the experience that turned him onto dominant women, and the story of performing stand-up naked. Plus, he shares his scheme of joining a ballet team in order to lose his virginity. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates: [linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken] (https://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken) Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

28 Jun 2024

1 HR 00 MINS

1:00:34

28 Jun 2024


#348

Your Relationship Needs a Song (w/ Keith Robinson)

Comedian [Keith Robinson] (https://www.instagram.com/keithrobinson438/?hl=en) has faced two strokes that have affected half his mobility and speech. He shares with Nicole how he experienced a stroke after taking Viagra on an airplane ahead of a date, his crazy run-in with the police,  and his advice on why every relationship needs a song.  See Keith Robinson's new special, Different Strokes, [on Netflix] (https://www.netflix.com/title/81718294) .  Write something dirty to Nicole! Submit it to whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com for a chance to have it read on air.   Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

21 Jun 2024

42 MINS

42:38

21 Jun 2024


#347

Anxiety (w/ Tony Hale)

Actor [Tony Hale] (https://www.instagram.com/mrtonyhale/) (Veep, Arrested Development, Inside Out 2) joins Nicole to discuss how he accidentally themed his marriage proposal around a play about suicide, how he overcame his anxieties in a relationship, his experience working as Beyoncé's 'assistant', and provides Nicole with some heartfelt advice on dating.  See [Inside Out 2] (https://movies.disney.com/inside-out-2) , now playing in theatres.    Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

14 Jun 2024

55 MINS

55:16

14 Jun 2024


#346

You Smell Like Me (w/ David Gborie)

Comedian [David Gborie] (https://www.instagram.com/coolguyjokes87/?hl=en) (voice of Comedy Central, [All Fantasy Everything] (https://headgum.com/all-fantasy-everything) , [My Momma Told Me] (https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-my-momma-told-me-69919303/) ) joins Nicole to discuss the hottest porn, why two comedians can't date, how women improve the lives of men, and looking like a pervert at The Nutcracker. Nicole daydreams about what she would do if she had a dick for a day, and shares the story of hooking up with a coworker, which led them to quit. Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746)   See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

07 Jun 2024

1 HR 03 MINS

1:03:25

07 Jun 2024


#345

The 90 Day Fiancé Interview (w/ Alex Roshon)

Relationship therapist and star of 90 Day Fiancé: Love in Paradise, [Alex Roshon] (https://www.instagram.com/alexroshon/) , is here to answer all of Nicole's burning relationship questions. What's it like to apply for 90 Day Fiancé? What's her foolproof method for approaching someone for a threesome? Alex shares her terrible dating stories that led her to date overseas, and her experience dating a man who loved to wear women's panties. Nicole tries to find love at the Sonic The Hedgehog-themed cafe. Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

31 May 2024

44 MINS

44:01

31 May 2024


#344

Interview with a MILF from MILF Manor (w/ Crystal)

This season of MILF Manor takes a wild turn as MILFs date young men and their fathers at the same time. Nicole sits down with MILF and celebrity makeup artist [Crystal Jennings] (https://www.instagram.com/aboutfacemakeup_1/)  to discuss how she got cast on MILF Manor, her preference for dating younger men versus their fathers, and to answer all of Nicole's burning questions about the show. Plus, she shares her expert sex tips for giving 'pornstar head.' Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

24 May 2024

51 MINS

51:27

24 May 2024


#343

The Hookup Queen (w/ Mistress Isabelle Brooks)

Drag queen [Mistress Isabelle Brooks] (https://www.instagram.com/mistressisabellebrooks/?hl=en) (Finalist of RuPaul's Drag Race S15) joins Nicole to discuss her dating life as 'The Hookup Queen,' their body counts, and what she items she stole from the set of Drag Race. Mistress shares the story of the time she broke her ankle on stage in front of 1000 people. Nicole remains horny.  For more drag queen interviews, check out our episode playlist on Spotify:  [bit.ly/wwydmdrag] (https://bit.ly/wwydmdrag) Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

17 May 2024

58 MINS

58:57

17 May 2024


#342

Love in Theater (w/ Jesse Tyler Ferguson)

Actor [Jesse Tyler Ferguson] (https://www.instagram.com/jessetyler/?hl=en) (Modern Family) joins Nicole to share his proposal story and how it was hilariously overshadowed by Sofía Vergara. They chat about food as a love language, their shared love for musical theatre, and the aftermath of the "Take Me Out" Broadway show nude leak. Jesse reflects on the challenges of working on Modern Family during a time when there were no gay writers. Plus, the wild story of getting hit by an accidental squirting. Watch this episode here:   [https://youtu.be/LJq7jZHB5ao?si=Y9bUJrs9eMbC9piN] (https://youtu.be/LJq7jZHB5ao?si=Y9bUJrs9eMbC9piN) Check out Jesse's podcast, [Dinner's On Me] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dinners-on-me-with-jesse-tyler-ferguson/id1683905652) .    Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

10 May 2024

55 MINS

55:01

10 May 2024


#341

Forever Single Friends (w/ Jessica Gao)

Writer Jessica Gao (She Hulk: Attorney at Law, Rick & Morty) joins Nicole to discuss male friends who are "single for a reason", the pressures of dating in the Chinese culture, people sticking in bad relationships in order to avoid dating again, and how hormones from an IUD can significantly affect your attraction levels. Plus, she shares her experience writing Rick and Morty's iconic 'Pickle Rick' episode, and the targeted backlash she received from fans.    Follow Nicole Byer:  Twitter: [@nicolebyer] (https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en) Instagram: [@nicolebyer] (https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/) Merch: [podswag.com/dateme] (http://www.podswag.com/dateme) Nicole's book: [indiebound.org/book/9781524850746] (https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

03 May 2024

55 MINS

55:27

03 May 2024