Drag queen icon <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bendelacreme" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">BenDeLaCreme</a> (Drag Race 6, All-Stars 3) joins Nicole to spill some major breaking news: they've been secretly separated from her partner of 8 years. They talk about the effort it takes to try to stay friends with an ex, the confusing reality of jumping back into the LA dating pool in your mid-40s, and why it's impossible to tell if a guy wants to date you or just wants exclusive Drag Race gossip. Plus, DeLa breaks down her brilliant move to self-eliminate on All-Stars 3, and Nicole reveals the unhinged manifestation trick she used to lock down the nice man in her life.See The Jinkx and DeLa Holiday Show on tour in a city near you! Get tickets and buy the upcoming book at <a href="https://www.jinkxanddela.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.jinkxanddela.com</a>.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast</a>Support this podcast by checking out our sponsors:» <a href="https://www.squarespace.com/DATEME" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Squarespace</a>: Head to <a href="https://www.squarespace.com/DATEME" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.squarespace.com/DATEME</a> to save 50% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code DATEME.» <a href="http://plannedparenthood.org/defend" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Planned Parenthood</a>: Donate to support Planned Parenthood now at <a href="https://plannedparenthood.org/defend" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://plannedparenthood.org/defend</a>» <a href="http://hin.ge/WhyWontYouDateMe" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Hinge</a>: Try Hinge’s new feature, Friend’s Take. Send your link to the group chat and let the people who know you best do the talking. <a href="https://www.hin.ge/WhyWontYouDateMe" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.hin.ge/WhyWontYouDateMe</a>» <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/dateme" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Betterhelp</a>: This show is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit <a href="https://www.betterhelp.com/dateme" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.betterhelp.com/dateme</a> today to get 10% off your first month.Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes at <a href="http://wwydm.notion.site/sponsors" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">wwydm.notion.site/sponsors</a>.Follow:All Links: <a href="https://linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme</a>Tour Dates: <a href="http://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken</a>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@whywontyoudatemepod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@whywontyoudatemepod</a>&nbsp;Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>X: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>This is a <a href="https://headgum.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Headgum</a> podcast. Advertise on <a href="https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me?</a> via <a href="http://gumball.fm/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Gumball.fm</a>.See Privacy Policy at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.

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