Sex With Emily podcast

Sex With Emily

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

 

#1435

Unleash your Kink w/ Justine Cross

Do you want a little more kink in your life, but aren’t sure how to get started? If so...you’ll definitely want to tune into my interview with professional dominatrix & kink expert, Mistress Justine Cross. We discuss the myths and basics of BDSM starting with what the hell it even means (bondage, discipline, domination, submission and masochism). We show you how to begin exploring your kinks even if you are brand new to the game and we discuss some of the most common fantasies. We also answer your questions about: techniques for restraining your partner (fun!), the importance of communicating your fantasies, and how to explore dom/sub dynamics. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to explore BDSM, from restraint play to introducing kinks. ---The biggest myths about BDSM and why it’s not all whips and chains. ---Simple ways to master consent, boundaries, and better communication. Show Notes: ---More Justine Cross: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/thejustinecross/?hl=en) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/justineplays?lang=en) | [Dominatrix Website] (https://www.losangelesdominatrix.com/) | [Dungeon East ] (https://dtladungeon.com/) | [OnlyFans] (https://onlyfans.com/justineplays) | [Youtube] (https://www.youtube.com/c/justinecross) ---Try the Je Joue HERA FLEX today! (Head to [sexwithemily.com/hera] (sexwithemily.com/hera) and use code “EMILY30” at checkout for 30% off.) --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/unleash-your-kink-w-mistress-justine-cross/) ... Read more

Yesterday

39 MINS

39:37

Yesterday


#1434

My Top Tips for 69ing & Oral Sex

Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’re having sex, you’re going to come across the famous, the controversial, 69 sex position. Why not learn some pointers to make the whole thing more hot, and more comfortable?   First, I share research with you that might motivate you to put 69 on regular rotation in your sex life. Next, I give you techniques for being an excellent oral giver, and strategies like mindful masturbation, to help you become a more relaxed and erotic receiver. Finally, I talk position tips like the Sideways 69 and the Power 69 for you to play with, and take all your pressing questions on 69ing and oral sex. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Game-changing 69 positions to maximize pleasure. ---Oral sex tips to elevate giving and receiving. ---How to relax and fully enjoy receiving pleasure. Show Notes: ---This episode is brought to you by: [Just Thrive] (https://justthrivehealth.com/discount/SEXWITHEMILY) (Visit [justthrivehealth.com] (https://justthrivehealth.com/discount/SEXWITHEMILY) and use code “SEXWITHEMILY” at checkout for 20% off your order) --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/my-top-tips-for-69ing-oral-sex/) ... Read more

17 Dec 2024

34 MINS

34:28

17 Dec 2024


#1433

WTF is “Normal” Sex w/ Dr. Maria Uloko

Ever wonder if your penis/vulva/genitalia are normal? In this episode, I’m joined by urologist Dr. Maria Uloko who’s revolutionizing sexual healthcare. We get into why vulva-owners need testosterone, what happens when penis-owners masturbate too aggressively, how shame can interfere with getting the care you need, and how common it is to experience sexual dysfunction. I also answer your questions including when it’s time to date again after a toxic relationship, what to do when your partner’s porn preferences look nothing like you, how to be dominant in the bedroom and toy recs to amplify oral sex on a vulva. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to address common causes of pain during sex ---Treatments for sexual health challenges ---Why there’s no “normal” when it comes to sexual health Show Notes: ---More Dr. Maria Uloko: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/mariaulokomd/?hl=en) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/mariauloko?lang=en) | [MUMD Sexual Health Beverly Hills] (http://www.mariaulokomd.com/) ---VULVAi.co: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/squarespace/) | [Website] (www.VULVAi.co%20)   ---Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at  [https://www.paired.com/SWE] (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.paired.com/SWE&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1716594943513388&usg=AOvVaw3upImqq7L6GEjkChG7HTZc)   --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/wtf-is-normal-sex-w-dr-maria-uloko/) ... Read more

13 Dec 2024

37 MINS

37:31

13 Dec 2024


#1432

Hotline Calls: Wetter is Better

On today’s show, it’s all about finding answers to your trickiest questions and unleashing your full pleasure potential. How do you orgasm when you don’t know how? Or have sex for the first time, when you’re a virgin? How do you ease into an open relationship or threesome? How do you find balance in your masturbation routine? Whether you’re too dry (and it’s puzzling your partner), or too wet (and it’s puzzling both of you) I help you figure out solutions to overcome your biggest sexual challenges. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to break through orgasm barriers with self-pleasure tips. ---The essentials for navigating open relationships and threesomes. ---Why embracing the messiness of sex leads to better intimacy. Show Notes: ---Try VIIA Today! Head to [https://bit.ly/viiaemily] (https://bit.ly/viiaemily)  and use code "EMILY"! --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/hotline-calls-wetter-is-better/) ... Read more

10 Dec 2024

40 MINS

40:31

10 Dec 2024


#1431

Finding Your Bedroom Voice w/ Lake Bell

When it comes to your sexual style, have you ever thought about your voice? Do you moan? Slow things down? Pitch up or down an octave?  Actor, writer and director Lake Bell is obsessed with the human voice. On today’s show, we’ll discuss her audiobook Inside Voice, which explores this obsession, including the “sexy baby voice” phenomenon - which happens to be her least favorite choice for bedroom talk. We also discuss your takes on dating in your 40s, and why things often get better with age when it comes to the pursuit of romance. All this and more with my amazing guest, Lake Bell. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How your voice can enhance intimacy and authenticity in and out of the bedroom. ---Why playful and respectful communication is the key to better sex. ---The joys of dating in your 40s, from confidence to self-awareness. Show Notes: ---More Lake Bell: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/lakebell/) | [X] (https://mobile.twitter.com/lakebell) ---Lake Bell's Audiobook, Inside Voice: My Obsession with How We Sound: [Audible] (https://www.audible.com/pd/Inside-Voice-Audiobook/B0BGM99JY5?source_code=GO1GB547041122911G&gclid=Cj0KCQiA45qdBhD-ARIsAOHbVdG1eraZ4g0ty2v7f_e9xaTxUg_FXOCxKZv5zvjcesE5J3z7NlzHHV0aAkBIEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds) | [Pushkin] (https://www.pushkin.fm/audiobooks/inside-voice) ---Try the Enigma Wave Today! Visit  [lelo.com] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodNovEDSBF)  and use code “SEXWITHEMILY” at checkout for an additional 25% OFF any existing sales. --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/finding-your-bedroom-voice-w-lake-bell/) ... Read more

06 Dec 2024

42 MINS

42:58

06 Dec 2024


#1430

Hotline Calls: Should You Make Up or Break Up?

It’s the question everyone has asked themselves at least once. Should I break up with my partner? Relationship success depends on so many factors - communication, emotional intimacy, and of course - sexual connection. Figuring out which problems are worth solving and which ones are directing you to the exit sign can be confusing, exhausting and painful. So on today’s show, I take your questions - live - to figure out if you should make up or break up. Is bad sex worth leaving someone over? What about an age gap that puts both of you in much different life stages? Or how do you know if an affair has the potential to turn into something real? We learn so much from other people’s relationships. No matter where you are in your own, this will teach us all how to make better choices going forward. In this episode, you’ll learn: --- How to navigate the crossroads of making up or breaking up—and what signs to look for in your relationship. ---Why communication, boundaries, and therapy are game-changers when deciding whether to stay or go. ---The truth about age gaps, open relationships, and the role of emotional honesty in finding real compatibility. Show Notes: --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. ---Ready to grow your business? Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at  [shopify.com/swe] (https://shopify.com/swe) --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/hotline-calls-should-you-make-up-or-break-up/) ... Read more

03 Dec 2024

50 MINS

50:01

03 Dec 2024


#1429

Pick Me Girls w/ Violet Benson

I am joined by Violet Benson, host of the podcast Almost Adulting and creator of the wildly popular Instagram account @DaddyIssues_. Over the last couple of years, Violet has become well known for her irreverent relationship and dating advice.  In this interview, Violet reveals why she has stopped dating (for now), what exactly a “pick me girl” is and how attraction is not always dependent on good looks. And because this is a sex show after all, Violet shared some tips for avoiding potentially embarrassing moments in the bedroom. This is a good one! In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Why taking a break from dating can reset your emotional boundaries ---How to embrace authenticity in relationships ---Practical tips to avoid awkward bedroom moments Show Notes: ---Try VIIA Hemp!  [https://bit.ly/viiaemily] (https://bit.ly/viiaemily)  and use code "EMILY"! ---More Violet Benson: [@DaddyIssues_] (https://www.instagram.com/daddyissues_/) | [@VioletBenson] (https://www.instagram.com/violetbenson/?hl=en) | --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/pick-me-girls-w-violet-benson/) ... Read more

29 Nov 2024

47 MINS

47:11

29 Nov 2024


#1428

The Ultimate Pleasure Guide

‘Tis the season to give and receive! In this episode, I’m unwrapping the 2024 Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide to help you bring more pleasure to your loved ones—and yourself—this year. From wellness essentials to stocking stuffers and, of course, must-have sex toys, there’s something for everyone on your list (yes, even your grandparents!). I’ll share my top picks, tips for introducing a partner to toys, and why the gift of pleasure is truly the gift that keeps on giving. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---When and how to gift a sex toy. ---Tips for introducing toys into your relationship. ---Emily’s favorite pleasure-filled gifts for the holidays. Show Notes: --- [Sex With Emily Holiday Gift Guide: 2024 Edition ] (https://sexwithemily.com/trending-2024-pleasure-gifts-for-lovers-friends/) --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Episode Sponsored By: --- [Try Popstar Volume + Taste Supplement! (Use code "EMILY" for 20% off (excl. 3-pack)) ] (popstarlabs.com/emily) --- [ILY Pebble Vibrator by Je Joue (Use Code "EMILY30" for 30% off your order)] (sexwithemily.com/hera) --- [VIIA High Love Gummies + Vape Bundle (11/19-12/3: 25% Off Sitewide & Up to 50% Off Other Select Items & Bundles Sitewide (No Code)- After 12/3: Use code "EMILY" for 15% off)] (https://bit.ly/viiaemily) --- [Morgasm CBD- Infused Lube & "O" Lube (11/19 - 12/2: Purchase any single tube or discounted bundle and receive a free lube with code "EMILYBF"] (https://morgasm.com/sexwithemily) --- [Solaray Her Life Stages ( Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" for 15% off your order)] (https://solaray.com/emily) --- [Just Thrive Total Body Boost (11/23-12/3: Use code "SWE" for 25% off sitewide)] (https://justthrivehealth.com/discount/SWE) --- [Je Joue Hera Flex Rabbit Vibrator (Head to sexwithemily.com/hera and use code “EMILY30” at checkout for 30% off.)] (https://sexwithemily.com/wp-admin/sexwithemily.com/hera) --- [Try the LELO Enigma Double Sonic (Visit lelo.com and use code “EMILY20” at checkout for an additional 20% OFF any existing sales.)] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodNovEDSBF) --- [Bathmate Penis Pumps( 11/25-12/4: Up to 35% off all pumps (no code); After 12/4: Use code EMILY for 10% off your order)] (https://bathmatedirect.com/pages/bfcm24-giveaway-sign-up-home) --- See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/the-ultimate-pleasure-guide/) ... Read more

26 Nov 2024

23 MINS

23:16

26 Nov 2024


#1427

The Key To Happiness w/ Dr. Amen

What if being happy was a moral obligation, like voting and recycling? Would you take steps to be happier? Today, I’m joined by brain health expert, and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how our thinking patterns shape our lives in and outside of the bedroom. We discuss the ways stress affects your sexual performance, give tips to combat your automatic negative thoughts (ANTS), and discuss his book Your Brain is Always Listening.  We answer a question from a habitual cheater on how to break the cycle and discuss how Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD) can get in the way of your orgasm. Come along on a fascinating deep dive into how shifting your mindset can transform your brain, your relationships, and your pleasure. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to silence negative thoughts with easy daily habits to rewire your brain ---Why a healthy brain means better sex, from focus to pleasure ---How to break toxic cycles and build stronger, happier relationships Show Notes: ---More Dr. Daniel Amen: [Website] (https://danielamenmd.com/) | [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/doc_amen/?hl=en) | [Amen University] (https://www.amenuniversity.com/?tw_source=google&tw_adid=720283535673&tw_campaign=21885214253&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiA0fu5BhDQARIsAMXUBOLBAWxxqhkjdoz6mOlIhXcLXnm5IxsdPuFHnEsJYLUfCfSWYxLSx4saAmgCEALw_wcB) | [Your Brain is Always Listening] (https://amzn.to/3AQMfPK) --- [Take The Dragon Quiz Today! ] (https://knowyourdragons.com/) ---Try the [Enigma Double Sonic Today!] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodNovEDSBF) Visit  [lelo.com] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodNovEDSBF)  and use code “EMILY20” at checkout for an additional 20% OFF any existing sales. --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/the-key-to-happiness-w-dr-amen/) ... Read more

22 Nov 2024

42 MINS

42:49

22 Nov 2024


#1426

Talk Your Way to Better Sex

Here’s a secret. The #1 obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing: communication. It’s not a cliche - it’s a skill, and on today’s Ask Emily show, we’re talking our way to better sex. So let’s bravely face the awkwardness, with communication hacks for even the most nerve-wracking of convos. Clamming up during sex talks? I’ve got a confidence-building solution for that. How about giving tough feedback, like asking for better handjobs, or addressing a funky smell? We get into it! Finally, we tackle tough topics like telling a friend you have feelings for them, whether or not to open a relationship, and if you should stay in a partnership if the sex is just OK. Communication is lubrication, but you know what? It’s also liberating, and by the end of this episode, you’ll be feeling a lot more free. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to confidently speak up about your needs in the bedroom ---Why communication is the ultimate lubricant for better sex ---The secret to navigating relationship dilemmas—whether it’s mismatched libidos, feelings for a friend, or trying non-monogamy for the first time. Show Notes: ---Try The Je Joue Hera Flex Today! Head to [sexwithemily.com/hera] (https://www.jejoue.com/products/hera-flex-rabbit-vibrator?utm_source=SWE&utm_medium=SWEHeraFlex) and use code "EMILY30" at checkout for 30% off.  --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/talk-your-way-to-better-sex/) ... Read more

19 Nov 2024

51 MINS

51:44

19 Nov 2024


#1425

Out of Your Head and Into Bed w/ Nikki Glaser

On this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Nikki Glaser, comedian, and host of The Nikki Glaser Podcast. We discuss how to take oral sex to the next level, why a great orgasm can lead to an intense connection, and the power of tapping into a person’s “energy” on a date. Nikki also shares her go-to sex toys, favorite types of porn, experience with squirting, and personal journey with mental health and body acceptance. We also dive into the hidden pleasure of canceled plans, why feeling horny can be like being drunk, and why your flaws DON’T make you a bad person. In this episode, you’ll learn: --- How taking charge of your orgasms can boost your connection with partners and why having a vibrator isn’t “cheating" ---Explore the journey of accepting yourself fully—flaws, quirks, and all—and learn why self-confidence is the ultimate turn-on. ---Get real about setting boundaries in relationships, from balancing power dynamics to knowing when to wait before taking things to the next level. Show Notes: ---More Nikki Glaser: [Website] (https://www.nikkiglaser.com) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/OfficialNikkiGlaser) | [Twitter (X)] (https://twitter.com/NikkiGlaser?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor) | [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/nikkiglaser/?hl=en) | [The Nikki Glaser Podcast] (https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-the-nikki-glaser-podcast-79573913/) --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/out-of-your-head-and-into-bed-nikki-glaser/) ... Read more

15 Nov 2024

50 MINS

50:16

15 Nov 2024


#1424

Hotline Calls: Better Oral & Honeymoon Sex

On today’s show, I am answering all of your pressing calls from the Sex with Emily hotline! We get into some great topics like how to start enjoying receiving oral sex, ways to spice up your honeymoon sex without actual penetration, and what to do if you aren’t getting as wet as you used to during sex. Plus, new methods for giving oral sex to prevent discomfort and how to decide if it’s worth staying in your relationship after seven years (and three children). In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Oral sex tips to prevent discomfort ---How to make your wedding night intimate without penetration ---How to build confidence with communication Show Notes: --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. ---Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at  [https://www.paired.com/SWE] (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.paired.com/SWE&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1716594943513388&usg=AOvVaw3upImqq7L6GEjkChG7HTZc)   --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/hotline-calls-better-oral-honeymoon-sex/) ... Read more

12 Nov 2024

50 MINS

50:52

12 Nov 2024


#1423

Prostate Play & All Things Pleasure w/ Dolly Josette

In this episode of Sex With Emily, my friend and somatic sexologist Dolly Josette, The Pleasure Muse, returns to help us reconnect with our bodies and unlock deeper pleasure. She shares how to pleasure yourself and communicate those desires to your partner. You’ll walk away knowing how to heal trauma in your genitals, access the prostate for an epic orgasm (for all bodies!), and deepen intimacy with yourself and your partner to enhance your life. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Why embodiment is the key to unlocking deeper pleasure and connection. ---Why releasing stored trauma (yes, even in your genitals!) can transform your sex life and help you feel more during intimacy. ---How to access the prostate for mind-blowing orgasms and greater sexual fulfillment. Show Notes: ---More Dolly Josette: [Pleasure Muse] (http://www.pleasuremuse.com/) | [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/pleasuremuse/)  | [Nashville Relationship Reboot Retreat] (https://www.pleasuremuse.com/nashville-relationship-reboot) ---Try the [Enigma Double Sonic Today!] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodNovEDS1) Visit  [lelo.com] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodNovEDS1)  and use code “EMILY20” at checkout for an additional 20% OFF any existing sales. --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/prostate-play-all-things-pleasure-dolly-josette/) ... Read more

08 Nov 2024

52 MINS

52:54

08 Nov 2024


#1422

How Social Media is Blocking Your Intimacy

Social media is becoming the “third'' partner in so many of our relationships, but it’s not the threesome most of us are craving. Sure, it’s a great way to connect, but it can take a major toll on our sex lives. Today’s episode gets into the good, bad, and questionable impacts of social media. I answer your top questions like, what does it mean if my partner follows a bunch of Instagram models? If my partner is paying for Only Fans, does it count as cheating? And is it okay to check my partner's phone? (We surveyed our listeners and you might be surprised how many of you have snooped.) Also, how does all the endless scrolling affect your confidence? I offer advice on how to manage the relationship with your phone, so you can stop the “compare and despair” mindset and build stronger relationships with yourself and others. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How Social Media Becomes a “Third Wheel” in Relationships ---The Sneaky Ways Social Media Can Undermine Your Confidence ---Micro-Cheating, Doomscrolling, and the Need for Digital Detox Show Notes: --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. ---Ready to grow your business? Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at [shopify.com/swe] (https://shopify.com/swe) --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-social-media-is-blocking-your-intimacy/) ... Read more

05 Nov 2024

35 MINS

35:11

05 Nov 2024


#1421

Prenups & Breakups w/ Laura Wasser

You may think of her as divorce attorney to the stars, and Laura Wasser is certainly that. But Laura is also a sharp thinker on marriage and communication, and is here to tell us what every couple needs to know before saying "I do." She says that couples who have the prenup conversation are actually more likely to stay together than those who don't, and that money is an even bigger conversational taboo than sex. She also tells us what it's like repping actor clients vs. musician clients, why we're seeing a celebrity-led trend of "gentle separations," and how social media has changed the game for divorce cases. Plus, I take your divorce questions! When is it time to say "I don't," and get the hell out? Or how about if you're single, and have a tendency to hook up with older, separated men -- are they just your type? Or...are there some deeper conversations you need to be having, with them, and with yourself? Let's talk dating as a divorcee: when is it OK to tell the kids you've met someone new? And finally, after being married for so long, how do you tell the difference between love and lust, when you're back on the scene? All this and more, on today's divorce show. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Why open conversations about finances are just as crucial as discussing intimacy in relationships ---The power of the “prenup conversation” for a stronger relationship ---Why understanding each other’s relationship expectations can prevent major conflicts down the line Show Notes: ---More Laura Wasser: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/laurawasserofficial/?hl=en) | [Office] (https://wcmfamilylaw.com/laura-wasser/) ---Divorce.com: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/divorcedotcom/) | [Website] (divorce.com) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/divorcedotcom) | [Twitter (X)] (https://twitter.com/divorcedotcom) | [Youtube] (https://www.youtube.com/@thedivorcedotcom) | [Tiktok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@divorcedotcom) --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides.  --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/)   ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/prenups-breakups-w-laura-wasser/) ... Read more

01 Nov 2024

57 MINS

57:42

01 Nov 2024