Sex With Emily podcast

Sex With Emily

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Order her new book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Order her new book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

 

#1349

Best Of: You're Kinkier Than You Think

When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensive understanding of BDSM because let's face it, who really knows what "BDSM" stands for anyway? Then, we'll explore the psychology behind power dynamics and the core desires behind kinky practices. And last but certainly not least, we'll serve up some tantalizing tips for bringing a bit of kink into your bedroom – whether you're flying solo or have a partner in crime. So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?), because we're about to embark on a journey into the wild and wonderful world of kink! In this episode, you’ll learn: ---What BDSM and Kink are really about  ---The psychology behind dom/sub dynamics ---How to fearlessly bring kink into the bedroom Show Notes: --- [What NOT to Say to Your Partner When Talking About Sex] (https://sexwithemily.com/what-not-to-say-to-your-partner-when-talking-about-sex/) --- [How to Squirt (For Real)] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-squirt-for-real/) --- [Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) --- [LELO Tiani Duo] (https://www.lelo.com/tiani-duo) --- [We-Vibe Melt] (https://bit.ly/3ShB8DW) --- [5 BDSM Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life Tonight] (https://sexwithemily.com/5-bdsm-games/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. ... Read more

23 Feb 2024

33 MINS

33:27

23 Feb 2024


#1348

Manifest Your Best Sex Life w/ Gabby Bernstein

In today's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with #1 NYT Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein. As a spiritual leader and motivational speaker, Gabby shares how you can manifest the sex life you want but through a practical, less woo, lens and how to work through sexual trauma and change your core beliefs around sex. We also get into Internal Family Systems therapy and how young women today speak about sex differently than our generation. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: ---How spirituality can enhance your sexuality ---How to boost your confidence (in and out of the bedroom) ---Tools for working through trauma See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com.] (https://sexwithemily.com/) Show Notes: --- [My appearance on the Dear Gabby podcast!] (https://gabbybernstein.com/podcast/sex-spirituality-and-self-love-big-talk-with-emily-morse/) ---More Gabby Bernstein: [Website] (https://gabbybernstein.com/) | [Instagram ] (https://www.instagram.com/gabbybernstein/?hl=en) --- [Happy Days] (https://gabbybernstein.com/book/happy-days/) --- [The Universe Has Your Back] (https://gabbybernstein.com/book/the-universe-has-your-back/) ---Self Help (coming 2/31/24) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure?_pos=1&_sid=e20d83d05&_ss=r) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X ] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

20 Feb 2024

39 MINS

39:18

20 Feb 2024


#1347

Hotline Calls: Squirting, Toys & Threesomes

We all want to grow and become better versions of ourselves. And no where is that more true than our sex lives. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from.  In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to find solid friends with benefits ---Masturbation techniques ---The anatomy of the vulva! See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/3w914KS) . Show Notes: --- [The Psychology of Your Kink] (https://sexwithemily.com/the-psychology-of-your-kink/) --- [How to Squirt (For Real)] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-squirt) --- [Promescent.com/Emily] (https://www.promescent.com/emily) (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout) --- [Playground Lube] (https://bit.ly/49rZYrH) --- [Je Joue Mimi] (https://bit.ly/3OEUYrN) --- [Je Joue Hera] (https://bit.ly/48cqO6l) --- [Magic Wand] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/magicwand) --- [Insertion Toys] (https://bit.ly/4byjiFz) --- [Dual Stimulation Toys] (https://bit.ly/3HRZxLR) --- [#Open] (https://hashtagopen.com/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

16 Feb 2024

36 MINS

36:40

16 Feb 2024


#1346

Seduce Yourself: Solo Sex Tips

It’s the season of love - self love! That’s right, this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got all of you singles covered. In today’s Best Of episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How often you should masturbate in a relationship ---How to try masturbation when you never have ---The magic of mutual masturbation See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/48hdbTk) . Show Notes: --- [The Psychology of Your Kink] (https://sexwithemily.com/the-psychology-of-your-kink/) --- [How to Squirt (For Real)] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-squirt) --- [Your February Solo Sex Challenge] (https://sexwithemily.com/your-february-solo-sex-challenge/) --- [LELO DOT] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodFeb2) (up to 50% off until the end of February, code EMILY10 for an additional 10% off) --- [We-Vibe Touch] (https://bit.ly/49uHU09) --- [Je Joue Mimi] (https://bit.ly/3HUJgpq) --- [We-Vibe Rave] (https://bit.ly/3uviMYl) --- [We-Vibe Nova] (https://bit.ly/3SQyiHJ) --- [Pjur Water-Based Lube] (https://bit.ly/49p2wYl) --- [Aneros Prostate Massager] (https://bit.ly/3ui0dac) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

13 Feb 2024

41 MINS

41:31

13 Feb 2024


#1345

AITA for Watching Porn While in a Relationship?

Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before we walked down the aisle? Or how about: Am I the asshole for just feeling plain bored with our sex life? You’re not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I read your AITA questions and let you know if you’re approaching asshole territory. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: ---How to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma ---How to get clearer on your sexual desires ---About the experiences of sex workers See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/42xoyoW) . Show Notes: --- [How to Give a Prostate Massage] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-give-a-prostate-massage/) --- [15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/blogs/shop-read/15-sex-toys-that-make-amazing-valentines-day-gifts) --- [VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies] (https://bit.ly/viiaemily) (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) --- [Erika Lust porn] (https://erikalust.com/) --- [Vice Series: Sex Before the Internet] (https://video.vice.com/en_us/show/sex-before-the-internet) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

09 Feb 2024

34 MINS

34:45

09 Feb 2024


#1344

Orgasms, Explained.

Orgasms are one of the most pleasure-filled parts of sex. But what’s actually happening in your body when you have one? Today, I’m breaking down the physiological process of different kinds of orgasms and explaining how to have them. I also reveal how to find your G-area and have a G-spot orgasm, what it means to have a dry orgasm, what squirting really is and how to do it. Plus, I get into your orgasm questions. In this episode, you’ll also learn: ---The anatomy of the clitoris, vulva, and penis so you can better stimulate them ---The many benefits of orgasms, for both your mental and physical health ---Tips for communicating with a partner if you no longer want jackhammer sex See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/3HPT4B6) . Show Notes: --- [How to Give a Prostate Massage] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-give-a-prostate-massage/) --- [15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/blogs/shop-read/15-sex-toys-that-make-amazing-valentines-day-gifts) --- [LELO Tiani Duo] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodTDFeb) (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

06 Feb 2024

39 MINS

39:41

06 Feb 2024


#1343

How to Bounce Back from a Sex Slump w/ Dr. Emily Nagoski

I’m bringing you all into a LIVE conversation I had with renowned sex educator and researcher, Dr. Emily Nagoski, during a recent event in New York! After releasing her bestselling book on sex, Come As You Are, in 2015, Emily’s own sex life took a hit. Today, we discuss how she brought her sex life back from the dead, the Pleasure Thieves, and why it’s okay to stop sex once it’s already started. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to identify your sexual brakes and accelerators ---About the connection between wearing socks and having more orgasms ---How stress impacts your sex drive desire See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/3UsVFIv) . Show Notes: --- [The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)] (https://sexwithemily.com/the-sexiest-valentines-date-ideas/) --- [Magic Wand Micro] (https://bit.ly/46ZbHN7) --- Come Together, Dr. Emily Nagoski: [Amazon] (https://www.amazon.com/Come-Together-Science-Creating-Connections/dp/0593500822) | [GoodReads] (https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/62926962) | [Bookshop] (https://bookshop.org/p/books/come-together-the-science-and-art-of-creating-lasting-sexual-connections/18895520) ---More Dr. Emily Nagoski: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/enagoski/) | [Website] (https://www.emilynagoski.com/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

02 Feb 2024

46 MINS

46:20

02 Feb 2024


#1342

The Do’s and Don’ts of Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I’m here to make sure it’s your best one yet. First, I get into some common Valentine’s Day myths and things you should never do on the sexy holiday. After that, I’ll share some creative ways you should celebrate to ensure that your Valentine’s Day is hot, intimate and of course, sexy. Plus, I share some of my listeners’ favorite Valentine’s Day moments for some hot inspiration. In this episode, you’ll learn:  ---How to incorporate blindfolds into sexual play ---Which toys can be used during penetration ---How to cultivate sexual desire & intimacy See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/49ePax0) . Show Notes: --- [The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)] (https://sexwithemily.com/the-sexiest-valentines-date-ideas/) --- [How to Do the Kivin Method] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-do-the-kivin-method/) --- [LELO Tiani Duo] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodJanTD) (up to 50% off sitewide until the end of February 2024) --- [Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) --- [Massage Candles] (https://bit.ly/49fpHUu) --- [Le Wand Crystal] (https://bit.ly/49fWeJJ) --- [Glass Dildo] (https://bit.ly/48QwMLm) --- [Cozy Earth] (https://bit.ly/3SfFDyU) (code “SEXWITHEMILY” for 35% off) --- [Magic Wand] (https://bit.ly/46ZbHN7) --- [Masterclass] (https://www.masterclass.com/?utm_medium=POD&utm_term=Aq-Prospecting&utm_content=EMILYVDAY&utm_campaign=pp_%7c_brd_%7c_uns&utm_source=POD&promo_id=emilyvday) (use link for 15% off the 1st year of an annual subscription) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

30 Jan 2024

44 MINS

44:18

30 Jan 2024


#1341

Hotline Calls: I Can’t Stop Thinking About My Ex

On today’s Best Of episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily Hotline. We get into: how to handle it when your partner wants to have sex with someone else and stay in your relationship, what it means when you fantasize about your ex, how soon is too soon to start dating someone new after a breakup, and ways to avoid ghosting. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to set intentions for new relationships ---How cannabis can improve your orgasms and intimacy ---How to guide a partner during oral sex See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com. Show Notes: --- [The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)] (https://sexwithemily.com/the-sexiest-valentines-date-ideas/) --- [How to Do the Kivin Method] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-do-the-kivin-method/) --- [The Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides) --- [VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies] (https://bit.ly/viiaemily) (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) --- [EMDRIA] (https://www.emdria.org/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

26 Jan 2024

1 HR 02 MINS

1:02:46

26 Jan 2024


#1340

Best Of: Stop Blocking Your Sex Life

When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from a mental pattern that’s blocking your pleasure, we all experience sexual roadblocks. Never fear: you can have a sex reset! On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m helping you ID the obstacles to your sexuality, from trauma to a repressive upbringing, to a disconnect with a partner. And one by one, I help you figure out solutions that open the door to self-exploration. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---What “spectatoring” during sex means, and how to overcome it ---Tips for sharing a sexual fantasy with a new partner ---How to navigate mismatched libidos in a long-term relationship See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/3HvAdLu) . Show Notes: --- [10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)] (https://sexwithemily.com/10-common-kinks-fetishes-what-they-mean/) --- [Solaray] (https://solaray.com/pages/her-life-stages?utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=social&utm_campaign=_herlifestages_sexwithemilypodcast) (code 20STAGES for 20% off) --- [We-Vibe Nova Shop Site] (https://bit.ly/4b3FbfL) ---Podcast: [Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm?] (https://sexwithemily.com/hotline-calls-why-cant-i-orgasm/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

23 Jan 2024

46 MINS

46:20

23 Jan 2024


#1339

Hotline Calls: I Can’t Trust My Partner

To feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. So today, I’m taking some of my favorite Hotline calls on trust and how to repair it. What happens if your spouse cheated on you, and now sex feels sorta gross? What if you tell a new partner you love them, and they don’t reciprocate? Or how about being “too picky” of a dater - is it really because they’re all duds, or are there some underlying trust issues there? The bottom line is this: when we feel free, we feel sexy. And on today’s Best Of episode, I’m helping you radically reclaim your erotic freedom. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: ---How to move forward after infidelity, whether you were the cheater or the cheated on ---Tips for feeling comfortable with new partners ---What to do when it feels like the “spark” is gone See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/42c70yv) . Show Notes: --- [10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)] (https://sexwithemily.com/10-common-kinks-fetishes-what-they-mean/) --- [Promescent.com/Emily] (https://www.promescent.com/emily) (use this link to automatically save 15% at checkout) ---Podcast: [Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex w/ Ian Kerner] (https://sexwithemily.com/tell-me-about-the-last-time-you-had-sex-w-ian-kerner/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

19 Jan 2024

35 MINS

35:51

19 Jan 2024


#1338

Hotline Calls: Is My Kink Normal?

I’m answering my listeners’ most personal sex and relationship questions LIVE today. Can you only orgasm with straight legs? I’ve got positions and recommendations to help you get there. Nervous that chastity play is giving your partner delayed ejaculation? I ease your worries and help you collaborate with your partner for mutually fulfilling sex. Plus, we get into other kinky calls like erotic lactation and anal sex. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to teach your body new ways to orgasm ---Common causes of vaginal pain ---About chastity play and penis cage safety Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at [sexwithemily.com/askemily] (http://sexwithemily.com/askemily) . See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/48YqPM1) . Show Notes: --- [How to Initiate Sex] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-initiate-sex/) --- [LELO Hugo 2 Remote] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodJanH2R) (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

16 Jan 2024

36 MINS

36:36

16 Jan 2024


#1337

AITA for Wanting Less Sex?

Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: ---Creative solutions for mismatched libidos ---What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship ---Tips for healthy sex conversations See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/3NZBeiv) . Show Notes: --- [How to Initiate Sex] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-initiate-sex/) --- [Bathmate] (https://bathmatedirect.com/sexwithemily) (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide) --- [Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

12 Jan 2024

38 MINS

38:34

12 Jan 2024


#1336

Hotline Calls: I’m Kinky, But My Partner Isn’t

Today I am bringing back LIVE Hotline Calls! Not only that, holistic psychologist, author, and my newest friend, Dr. Scott Lyons, joins me back on the show to help me answer your questions. From concerns about sexual compatibility to avoiding jackhammer sex, you will hear the change in these callers’ voices as we help them in real-time. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Effective ways to tell your partner you want to explore sexually ---How to have sex talks with a partner who gets uncomfortable ---How to feel confident going into a date See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/47vmEWC) . Show Notes: --- [Magic Wand Micro] (https://bit.ly/46ZbHN7) ---Dr. Scott Lyons: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/drscottlyons) | [Website] (https://www.drscottlyons.com/) --- [The Embody Lab] (https://www.theembodylab.com/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA1-6sBhAoEiwArqlGPtIAPaLR4kLGJCErQl5bqE_0BIkvFWP0_mIvf1O37uwCAu4kkEvkERoCe7UQAvD_BwE) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

09 Jan 2024

47 MINS

47:02

09 Jan 2024


#1335

F These Dating Myths w/ Damona Hoffman

Burnt out from dating? Do you feel like you’ll never meet “the one?” In today’s episode, celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman dispels common dating myths and suggests new dating pillars. Plus, she tells us which dating rules to follow (and which to disregard), the #1 expectation for men on dates with women, and how to make your online dating profile stand out. In this episode, you’ll also learn: ---How much chemistry really matters on a date ---Who should make the first move ---How to track your dates to be more strategic See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/3S6nm8r) . Show Notes: --- [5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024] (https://sexwithemily.com/5-ways-to-be-a-better-lover-in-2024/) --- [F the Fairy Tale] (https://damonahoffman.com/f-the-fairy-tale/) , Damona Hoffman: [Amazon] (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1541602250) | [Barnes & Noble] (https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/f-the-fairy-tale-damona-hoffman/1143421534) ---More Damona Hoffman: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/damonahoffman/) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@damonahoffman) | [X (Twitter)] (https://twitter.com/DamonaHoffman) | [Website] (https://damonahoffman.com/) ---Dates & Mates Podcast: [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/1pfK3OJCf8oKr7qbZMgWkZ) | [Apple Podcasts] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dates-mates-with-damona-hoffman/id606100490) | [Website] (https://damonahoffman.com/dates-and-mates-podcast/) --- [DamonaHoffman.com/DateTracker] (https://damonahoffman.com/DateTracker) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. ... Read more

05 Jan 2024

53 MINS

53:16

05 Jan 2024


#1334

Best Of: More Foreplay, More Orgasms

I dive into the psychology of foreplay and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips. I also talk about what to do if foreplay and overall sex with your partner has gotten a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself, what to do if your partner doesn’t want to explore new things, and how to handle a partner who won’t reciprocate foreplay. Plus, I answer your questions! In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to set the mood for hotter, more intimate sex ---Specific sex tips to seduce a partner ---The key differences between couples with ‘great’ vs. ‘bad’ sex lives See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/3GZgBix) . Show Notes: --- [How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-have-the-best-nye-kiss-ever/) --- [5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024] (https://sexwithemily.com/5-ways-to-be-a-better-lover-in-2024/) ---Podcast: [The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation] (https://sexwithemily.com/the-gottmans-on-compatability-conflict-conversation/) --- [Flavored Lubes] (https://bit.ly/3vcZWVS) --- [Massage Candles] (https://bit.ly/3RLkRHr) ---Article: [Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?] (https://sexwithemily.com/ask-emily-how-do-i-get-more-comfortable-with-dirty-talk/) ---Podcast: [Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel] (https://sexwithemily.com/talk-dirty-to-me-w-joanna-angel/) ---Article: [6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation] (https://sexwithemily.com/6-tips-for-mastering-the-game-changing-technique-of-mindful-masturbation/) --- [Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

02 Jan 2024

40 MINS

40:02

02 Jan 2024


#1333

Your Top Sex Questions of 2023

I’m answering your top asked sex questions of 2023 and taking a trip through the hottest moments of the year. It’s the last episode of 2023, and there were definitely some standout episodes you all loved the most. So I’m playing some of the highlights, from my fascinating conversation with Esther Perel to my top Hand Play tips, before answering your top questions. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---What squirting really is and how to do it ---How often the average couple has sex ---How to have satisfying sex on SSRIs See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/48hCKoi) . Show Notes: --- [How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-have-the-best-nye-kiss-ever/) ---Podcast: [Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel] (https://sexwithemily.com/why-do-couples-stop-having-sex-w-esther-perel/) ---More Esther Perel: [Website] (https://www.estherperel.com/) | [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/estherperelofficial/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/estherperel) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

29 Dec 2023

41 MINS

41:44

29 Dec 2023


#1332

Have Better Sex in 2024

I’m always encouraging you all to set goals for yourself in your sex life and relationships, and there’s arguably no better time than in the New Year. Today, Producer Erica and I review predictions for 2024 sex and relationship trends, make some of our own predictions, and suggest some New Year’s resolutions to make 2024 your sexiest year yet. In this episode you’ll learn: ---About the living apart, together movement ---What pleasure mapping is, and how to do it ---What percentage of successful couples schedule sex See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/48hv1Xm) . Show Notes: --- [VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies] (https://bit.ly/3mxDLWs) (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) --- [Get to Know Your Body with “Vulva Mapping”] (https://sexwithemily.com/vulva-mapping-zumio/) --- [LELO Dot] (https://bit.ly/48sSzrO) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

26 Dec 2023

38 MINS

38:26

26 Dec 2023


#1331

Hotline Calls: I Fantasize About My Partner with Other People

Is it okay to get turned on thinking about my partner with someone else? How can we maintain intimacy amid financial stress? Is it possible to be a feminist and also want to be submissive in the bedroom? Should I be honest with my partner that I’ve never had penetrative sex before? You all ask the best questions, and I’m here to answer them in today’s juicy Hotline Call episode. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to create new fantasies, when you always have the same one ---How to watch porn creatively with a partner ---How to prioritize pleasure, even during your busiest weeks See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/4axxheA) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/47NnfUD) --- [2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide] (https://bit.ly/47JvLnC) --- [Last-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & Friends] (https://sexwithemily.com/last-minute-amazon-prime-panic-gifts-for-lovers-friends) --- [Bathmate] (https://bathmatedirect.com/sexwithemily) (code EMILY10 for 10% off sitewide) --- Opening Up: [Amazon] (https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X) | [Barnes & Noble] (https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/opening-up-tristan-taormino/1100393812) --- The Ethical Slut: [Amazon] (https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664) | [Barnes & Noble] (https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-ethical-slut-third-edition-janet-w-hardy/1125362419) --- Open Deeply: [Amazon] (https://www.amazon.com/Open-Deeply-Building-Conscious-Compassionate-Open-Relationships/dp/164742335X) | [Barnes & Noble] (https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/open-deeply-kate-loree-lmft/1140124722) --- [Insight Timer] (https://insighttimer.com/) --- [Breathe App] (https://apps.apple.com/us/app/breathe/id1459455352) --- [Where Should We Begin? Card Game] (https://game.estherperel.com/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) | [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

22 Dec 2023

39 MINS

39:25

22 Dec 2023


#1330

Best & Worst Sex Advice of 2023

Some sex and relationship advice is better than others. Today, Producer Erica and I review some of the most trending sex and relationship advice from TikTok this year, from “how to make them fall in love with you” and love bombing, to when you should sleep with someone or if the “bird test” will tell you whether you should stay with your partner or not. While reviewing all this advice, we’ll let you know if we agree or disagree. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to maintain sexual tension in long-term relationships ---How to avoid “mothering” your partner ---Whether it’s possible to make someone fall in love with you See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/474OU27) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/47NnfUD) --- [2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide] (https://bit.ly/47JvLnC) --- [How to Use a Penis Pump] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-use-a-penis-pump) --- [Last-Minute Amazon Prime Panic Gifts For Lovers & Friends] (https://sexwithemily.com/last-minute-amazon-prime-panic-gifts-for-lovers-friends) --- [LELO Sona 2 Travel] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodNovST2) (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

19 Dec 2023

44 MINS

44:37

19 Dec 2023


#1329

The Top 3 Sex Positions & How to Make Them Better

Today, we’re diving into a topic I know you all love: sex positions! Today, I’m answering your juiciest positions questions before breaking down the top 3 sex positions, giving you the pros and cons of each one and adaptations to make them even better. Sex positions are often the first things people ask me about when looking to spice up their sex lives - so I’m giving you some options! In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to feel confident on top ---Why pillows are the secret weapon to upleveling sex positions ---Pleasurable positions for curved penises and tilted uteruses See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/41mhqv0) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/47NnfUD) --- [2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide] (https://bit.ly/47JvLnC) --- [Why You Should Try Anal (& How to Do it the Right Way) ] (https://sexwithemily.com/why-you-should-try-anal-how-to-do-it-the-right-way/) --- [How to Use a Penis Pump] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-use-a-penis-pump) --- [Je Joue Gift Sets] (https://bit.ly/3uLybDN) (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off) --- [6 Ways to Upgrade 69] (https://sexwithemily.com/6-ways-to-upgrade-your-69/) --- [We-Vibe Rave] (https://bit.ly/3TssqoG) --- [LELO Loki Wave] (https://bit.ly/482mvev) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

15 Dec 2023

36 MINS

36:26

15 Dec 2023


#1328

Hotline Calls: I’m Tired of “Vanilla” Sex

On today’s Hotline show, I take your calls about having sex talks like: How to relax into oral sex and give your partner tips to make you scream. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. And how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this Best Of episode, and see if your next sex talk is a little bit easier.  In this episode, you’ll also learn: ---All about the Kivin Method ---Whether age gaps really matter in relationships ---How to share sex toys safely See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/4ajWbyb) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/47NnfUD) --- [2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide] (https://bit.ly/47JvLnC) --- [Sexy Stocking Stuffers & How to Use Them] (https://bit.ly/41f2RJR) --- [Why You Should Try Anal (& How to Do it the Right Way) ] (https://sexwithemily.com/why-you-should-try-anal-how-to-do-it-the-right-way/) --- [FirmTech] (https://myfirmtech.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=referral+&utm_campaign=emily20&utm_id=sex_with_emily) (bundle the Tech Ring with a 1:1 consultation and save $230 with code EMILY) --- [Best Of: Oral Sex Master Class] (https://sexwithemily.com/best-of-oral-sex-master-class/) --- [Everybody Loves Oral] (https://sexwithemily.com/everybody-loves-oral/) --- [Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method] (https://sexwithemily.com/oral-kivin-method/) --- [Sex With Emily Vesper Vibrating Necklace] (https://www.lovecrave.com/emily) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

12 Dec 2023

33 MINS

33:30

12 Dec 2023


#1327

How to Spice Up Your Masturbation Routine

Solo sex is an integral part of being sexually healthy. But how do you spice up your masturbation routine? And how do you get rid of shame surrounding solo sex? I get into all this and more in today’s Best Of episode, including: the health benefits of masturbation, common masturbation fantasies, and whether or not your vibrator is desensitizing your clitoris. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How often the SWE community has solo sex ---How to practice mindful masturbation ---How to establish a healthy masturbation routine See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/3uQncsI) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/47NnfUD) --- [2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide] (https://bit.ly/47JvLnC) --- [How to Find the G-Spot] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-find-the-g-spot/) --- [Sexy Stocking Stuffers & How to Use Them] (https://bit.ly/41f2RJR) --- [Morgasm CBD Arousal Lubricant] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/morgasm) (45% off sitewide, code EMILY for an additional 15% off) --- [Edging 101 & Other Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

08 Dec 2023

29 MINS

29:04

08 Dec 2023


#1326

Hotline Calls: Why Masturbate When I Can Have Sex?

Ever felt like orgasming with a partner is like solving a Rubik's cube blindfolded? Well, you're not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I dive headfirst into this problem with a few tricks up our sleeves. Next on the agenda: how to tell your loving partner you want to be humiliated in the bedroom. I give you the tools to help your partner feel more comfortable with the idea. Then we discuss the ever growing debate: is masturbating with a cam girl considered cheating? Stick around to hear my two cents. And finally, we're talking about masturbating, even when you've got a willing partner on standby. We'll weigh the pros and cons, and why solo sex deserves just as much love as partnered sex. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---About core erotic desires ---The benefits of masturbation (by yourself and with a partner) ---How to communicate your fantasies to a partner See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/47IKzTv) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/49XWaQd) --- [2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide] (https://bit.ly/3N6YPgt) --- [6 Ways to Upgrade Your 69] (https://sexwithemily.com/6-ways-to-upgrade-your-69/) --- [How to Find the G-Spot] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-find-the-g-spot/) --- [Magic Wand Micro] (https://bit.ly/46ZbHN7) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

05 Dec 2023

36 MINS

36:36

05 Dec 2023


#1325

AITA for Wanting Sex More than My Partner?

From cheating to sexless marriages, we’re back with another juicy Am I the Asshole? episode. Today, Producer Erica and I let you know if you’re being an asshole in your sex life and relationships, answering questions like: AITA for wanting to leave my partner after he cheated, when I cheated first? Or AITA for not wanting my fiancé to talk about sex with my best friend? Tune in to find out and let me know what you think in my socials! In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Why you should practice new positions after a sex session ---How to navigate mismatched libidos ---The importance of establishing new goals for a relationship after infidelity Send us your AITA questions for the chance to have yours featured on the show at [sexwithemily.com/aita] (https://sexwithemily.com/aita) . See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/414OkA1) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/49XWaQd) --- [2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide] (https://bit.ly/3N6YPgt) --- [How to Give a Sex Gift: 6 Tips to Consider] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-give-a-sex-gift-6-tips-to-consider/) --- [6 Ways to Upgrade Your 69] (https://sexwithemily.com/6-ways-to-upgrade-your-69/) --- [VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies] (https://bit.ly/3mxDLWs) (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

01 Dec 2023

36 MINS

36:27

01 Dec 2023


#1324

Best Of: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed

In today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking all about fantasies. Specifically, the ones you, the Sex With Emily community, shared with me! From threesomes to cuckolding to CNC - consensual nonconsent, I break down each one and also answer your top fantasy questions. What if you have a hard time visualizing your desires? What if you’re nervous to try sex acts you’ve already done with previous partners? I get into all this and more. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---The psychology behind our top sexual fantasies ---How to accept your fantasies, even when they feel like the most shameful ---Success stories from listeners who turned their fantasies into realities See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/47xF2yW) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/40X434c) --- [2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide] (https://bit.ly/3MYuLn9) --- [How to Give a Sex Gift: 6 Tips to Consider] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-give-a-sex-gift-6-tips-to-consider/) --- [LELO Sona 2 Travel] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodNovST2) (code SEXWITHEMILY for 25% off sitewide) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

28 Nov 2023

38 MINS

38:54

28 Nov 2023


#1323

How to Give the Gift of Pleasure

Holiday season is near, and the Sex With Emily 2023 Holiday Gift Guide is here! We’re all about giving and receiving here, particularly when it comes to the gift of pleasure. So how about gifting some pleasure into your loved ones’ lives (and your life!) this holiday season? Today, Producer Erica and I discuss our favorite, pleasure-filled gifts. Plus, we discuss: How do you know if someone is open to receiving a sex toy? And how do you gift one to them? Stay tuned. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: ---At what point in a relationship it's appropriate to gift someone a sex toy ---How to introduce sex toys to a new partner ---My top gift recommendations for your loved ones Hottest Gift Guide Ever: [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/3uoSkzf) See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/40QaxSl) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/3uoSkzf) --- [2023 Shop With Emily Gift Guide] (https://bit.ly/3G8llSx) --- [The Giftables Collection by Plus One] (https://myplusone.com/product-category/giftables/?utm_source=SexwithEmily&utm_medium=Podcast&utm_campaign=TheRose&utm_id=Q4Gifting&utm_term=BlackFriday) (30% off orders over $50, 30% off sitewide on Cyber Monday) --- [The Rose by PlusOne] (https://myplusone.com/product/plusone-rose-arouser-6747/?utm_source=SexwithEmily&utm_medium=Podcast&utm_campaign=TheRose&utm_id=Q4Gifting&utm_term=BlackFriday) --- [VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies] (https://bit.ly/3mxDLWs) (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample) --- [Magic Wand Micro] (https://bit.ly/46sMfPu) --- [Je Joue Couples Collection] (https://bit.ly/40UrzPw) --- [Playground Mood Maker] (https://bit.ly/3Rbd0Uj) --- [Je Joue Mimi] (https://bit.ly/3SU1qOB) --- [OSEA Essential Hydrating Oil] (https://bit.ly/40O2Hc1) --- [Brooklinen Super-Plush Bath Towels] (https://bit.ly/3SZ5uNP) --- [Bearaby Weighted Blanket] (https://bit.ly/47OU3wh) --- [Contigo Stainless Steel Travel Mug] (https://amzn.to/3FWX1Tx) --- [Sex Toys for Penises by Arcwave] (http://arcwave.site/sexwithemilybf) --- [LELO LOKI Wave] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodNovLW2) (code EMILY10 for an extra 10% off existing sales) --- [Omala Skin Balm Candle] (https://shrsl.com/4arsm) --- [HigherDose Red Light Face Mask] (https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1874366&u=1304286&m=87497&urllink=&afftrack=) --- [Morgasm CBD Arousal Gel] (http://morgasm.com/sexwithemily) --- [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

24 Nov 2023

42 MINS

42:13

24 Nov 2023


#1322

Sex Over the Holidays: From Hooking Up to Breaking Up

‘Tis the season… for more sex! Today, Producer Erica and I dive into the reasons why people have more or less sex over the holidays, how to maintain intimacy when you’re staying with relatives, and my top discreet toy recs. We also get into relationship dynamics over the holidays: Should you break up before or after? Should you bring them home to meet the parents? Should you hang out with your holiday hookup? And so much more. In today’s episode, you’ll learn: ---Why sex drives peak and decline over holiday breaks ---The best places to have sex while home for the holidays ---Things to notice in a partner while traveling See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/3GajkoY) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/3R3eFvd) --- [Je Joue Mimi, G-Spot Bullet Vibrator & More] (https://bit.ly/3FJ3OAc) --- [LELO Dot Clitoral Vibrator] (https://bit.ly/3QLZ9ST) --- [Womanizer Premium 2 Suction Toy] (https://bit.ly/3RbAM2I) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

21 Nov 2023

30 MINS

30:40

21 Nov 2023


#1321

Hotline Calls: How to Not F*ck Up Your Threesome

The Hotline is ringing, and we’re answering! Producer Erica and I answer all your juicy questions, from discomfort around a partner’s sexual history to how to find a third for a threesome. We also discuss prioritizing solo sex during stressful times like divorce, as well as how to manage premature ejaculation when you’ve started foreplay outside the bedroom. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to send sexy texts with confidence, even if you’ve never sexted with your partner before ---Suggested steps before bringing someone else into the bedroom ---Navigating age differences in relationships See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://bit.ly/40FS9M6) . Show Notes: --- [2023 Holiday Gift Guide: My Top Picks for the Hottest Holidays Ever] (https://bit.ly/3R3eFvd) --- [Feeld.co/Emily] (https://feeld.co/emily) for 30 Days of Free Majestic Membership --- [Promescent.com/Emily] (https://www.promescent.com/emily) for 15% off sitewide ---Podcast: [Sex Party 101] (https://sexwithemily.com/sex-party-101/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $69) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://bit.ly/44C2QQJ) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily)   ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. Hosted on Acast. See [acast.com/privacy] (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information. ... Read more

17 Nov 2023

50 MINS

50:38

17 Nov 2023