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Sex With Emily

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Dr. Emily Morse

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Join SmartSX, her exclusive membership community, for expert-led workshops, intimate discussions, and everything you need to elevate your pleasure! Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.

#1418

How to Have a Playful Date

Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?” Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Tips on how to align your dates with your unique arousal style, whether it’s through touch, adventure, or conversation, to keep things fresh and fun ---Fun, creative date ideas—like role-playing as sexy strangers or planning a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market—that spark connection and curiosity ---How to break free from routine and create exciting, playful dates that build sexual tension and enhance intimacy Show Notes: ---Try VIIA Hemp! [https://bit.ly/viiaemily] (https://bit.ly/viiaemily) and use code "EMILY"! --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-have-a-playful-date/) ... Read more

11 hrs Ago

38 MINS

38:16

11 hrs Ago

#1417

Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin

It’s time to debunk the toxic myths around sex and age. Does sexual satisfaction drop off as you get older? Absolutely not! In fact, the data tells us the exact opposite is true. Today, anthropologist, bestselling author and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin and I lay out the facts, which is fitting: we’re both in our fifties! If you’re not in your fifties yet, here’s what you can look forward to. It’s the decade many of us hit the reset button on our sexual desires. It’s the decade you start purely having sex for pleasure. And it’s the decade your confidence and communication get even better because you’ve honed your relationship (and career!) skills. Wednesday and I talk about why your fifties are so sexy, the signs of perimenopause and menopause and how to treat both, and our best advice for younger women. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Why your 50s are a time for empowerment, confidence, and embracing your desires. ---Tips for navigating bodily changes and maintaining intimacy in midlife. ---Understanding the impact of menopause on your body and libido, and how to adapt for a fulfilling sex life. Show Notes: ---More Dr. Wednesday Martin: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/wednesdaymartinphd/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/WednesdayMartin) | [Website] (http://wednesdaymartin.com/) | [Book] (https://amzn.to/4hbW8rG) ---Enter the Solaray giveaway now! Entries end on 10/21 at 11:59 PM PT and the winner will be chosen on 10/22. ---Follow [@solarayvitamins ] (https://www.instagram.com/solarayvitamins/?hl=en) and [@sexwithemily] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/?hl=en) on instagram ---Like our giveaway post on our Instagram ---Tag your friends in the comments – each tag gets you an entry, so go ahead and tag all your people! --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/sex-gets-better-with-age-w-dr-wednesday-martin/) ... Read more

18 Oct 2024

1 HR 01 MINS

1:01:12

18 Oct 2024

#1416

Confidence, Communication & Sex w/ Lisa Bilyeu

Housewife turned billion-dollar co-founder Lisa Bilyeu is the picture of confidence: she’s got a thriving business, a partner she adores, and basically, is a literal boss. But she also overcame illness, insecurity, and massive relationship challenges to get where she is today. In her book Radical Confidence, Lisa shares the lessons that changed her life, and helped her become the hero of her own story. On today’s show, I ask her about keeping the sexual spark alive in a long term relationship, the “purgatory of the mundane,” and how to have a growth mindset with your partner. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Radical confidence is built by taking action, even when you’re scared. ---How to escape the “purgatory of the mundane” by making small changes and stop waiting for the perfect moment. ---All about validating yourself—don’t rely on others for approval, celebrate your own wins. Show Notes: --- [WIN FREE VIBRATORS] (https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast) ! Bellesa and I are giving away *free toys* to everyone – sign up here: [bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast] (http://bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast) ---More Lisa Bilyeu: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/?hl=en) | [Youtube] (https://www.youtube.com/@LisaBilyeu) | [Twitter] (https://x.com/lisabilyeu?lang=en) | [Book: Radical Confidence] (https://www.radicalconfidence.com) | [Impact Theory] (https://impacttheory.com/) --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. ---Try the [LELO SORAYA WAVE today] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodOctSW) ! (Use code "EMILY10" for an additional 10% OFF at checkout, exclusions may apply) --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides:] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/confidence-communication-sex-lisa-bilyeu/) ... Read more

15 Oct 2024

1 HR 15 MINS

1:15:39

15 Oct 2024

#1415

Lasting Longer & Low Libido

When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m tackling your top sex questions in this episode. From raising your libido to acing your oral, we cover a lot of ground in this one. How do you talk to your partner about sex? I teach you how to broach this conversation with compassion, and how to normalize sex talks in general. How about amping up your sex drive? There are hacks for that! Maybe you want to last longer in bed, get better at oral, or spice up your sex life. There’s a whole world of solutions for those, and I walk you through them. Whether it’s toys, technique, or just a good talk, this episode is all about finding answers, so you can have the pleasure you deserve. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to talk to your partner about sex or trying something new ---How to get better at oral ---How to spice up your sex life ---How to increase your sex drive ---How to last longer during sex Show Notes: --- [WIN FREE VIBRATORS] (https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast) ! Bellesa and I are giving away *free toys* to everyone – sign up here: [bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast] (http://bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast) --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. ---Try VIIA Hemp! [https://bit.ly/viiaemily] (https://bit.ly/viiaemily) and use code EMILY! ---Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at [https://www.paired.com/SWE ] (https://www.paired.com/SWE%C2%A0) --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/lasting-longer-low-libido/) ... Read more

11 Oct 2024

46 MINS

46:28

11 Oct 2024

#1414

All Things Anal w/ Dr. Evan Goldstein

Anal sex isn’t as taboo as it once was but many people are still too shy to explore it. Today, I’m talking with nationally renowned anal surgeon and expert Dr. Evan Goldstein, about all things anal. From how to clean up before backdoor play (did you know you can be too clean?), to tips to enhance pleasure and the wide variety of things to try while you’re back there, we’ve got you covered. Dr. Evan gives tips on how to relax, toys that can help, and which lubes are best for every act imaginable. We also break down lube shooters, how to minimize the risk of exposing yourself to STIs and what to consider whether you’re a top or a bottom. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---Why communication and preparation are key to a positive anal experience with your partner. ---Expert tips on easing into anal play without discomfort or pain. ---Safe and effective cleaning practices to maintain a healthy and pleasurable anal routine. Show Notes: --- [WIN FREE VIBRATORS] (https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast) ! Bellesa and I are giving away *free toys* to everyone - sign up here: [bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast] (http://bboutique.co/vibe/emilymorse-podcast) ---More More Dr. Evan Goldstein: [Instagram ] (https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein/?hl=en) | [Website] (https://drevangoldstein.com/) | [Bespoke Surgical] (https://bespokesurgical.com/) | [Future Method ] (https://futuremethod.com/) --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. ---This episode is brought to you by: [Just Thrive] (https://justthrivehealth.com/discount/SEXWITHEMILY) (Visit [justthrivehealth.com] (https://justthrivehealth.com/discount/SEXWITHEMILY) and use code “SEXWITHEMILY” at checkout for 20% off your order) --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/all-things-anal-w-dr-evan-goldstein/) ... Read more

08 Oct 2024

53 MINS

53:18

08 Oct 2024

#1413

Unlocking Your Fantasies

What’s your biggest fantasy? It might be watching your partner with someone else, group sex, or sex in a public place. All answers are welcome because there’s no shame in your fantasy game! In this episode, I discuss the psychology behind your fantasies, how to bring them up with a partner and why having a rich fantasy life is an important part of your overall sexual health. Then I reveal the top fantasies you shared with me on Instagram. I also answer your questions including, what to do if you fantasize about a best friend, how to be a third in a threesome, and explore latex, panty, and foot fetishes. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to embrace your sexual fantasies without shame—they’re healthy and common. ---Learn how to communicate your fantasies with your partner for deeper intimacy. ---The difference between Fantasies and Fetishes Show Notes: --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. ---This episode is brought to you by: [VIIA] (http://bit.ly/viiaemily) (Visit [Viiahemp.com] (http://bit.ly/viiaemily) and use code “EMILY” at checkout for 15% off your order) --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/unlocking-your-fantasies/) ... Read more

04 Oct 2024

42 MINS

42:43

04 Oct 2024

#1412

Get to Know Your Vulva

How well do you know the vulva and vagina? In this episode, I’m joined by two guests to break down all things V. We’re talking about how to take care of your vulva, and so much more. My first guest is OB/GYN, author of the She-Ology book series, and an expert in all things women’s sexual health, Dr. Sherry Ross. She shares the benefits of getting to know your (or your partner’s) vulva, the relationship between insecurity and porn, solutions for painful sex, and of course, squirting. Next, we have Dr. Pablo Gonzalez, who specializes in obstetrics and gynecology for the last 10 years and is the pioneer in regenerative gynecology. We talk about the company V-health and how beneficial it is for all vulva owners. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---The impact of aging, hormonal changes, and lifestyle factors on vaginal wellness. ---How the V-Health serum can improve moisture and overall sexual pleasure. ---The importance of taking proactive steps for your sexual wellness Show Notes: ---More Dr. Sherry | [Website] (https://www.drsherry.com/) | [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/drsherryr/?hl=en) ---More Dr. Pablo Gonzalez | [Website] (https://aesthrix.com/drpablogonzalez-clinic/) | [V-Health] (https://getvhealth.com/) --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) --- This episode is brought to you by: [V-Health ] (https://getvhealth.com/) (Visit [getvhealth.com] (https://getvhealth.com/) and use code "EMILY20" for 20% off at checkout) --- [Try Solaray her life Stages Today! ] (https://solaray.com/pages/her-life-stages) Use code "SEXWITHEMILY" to get 15% off your entire order! ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/get-to-know-your-vulva/) ... Read more

01 Oct 2024

42 MINS

42:16

01 Oct 2024

#1411

Manifest Your Best Sex

Let’s manifest our dream partners and our best sex. Because listen: if our romantic lives aren’t aligned with the people we actually are, we have an opportunity to change that. Today, I’ll tell you how I manifested my own partner, the specific steps used to get there, and why the science behind this practice works. I’ll also answer your questions about finding the one and how manifestation can apply to your everyday dating and sex dilemmas. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---What is manifestation ---How to manifest your ideal partner ---Key questions to deepen connections and understand compatibility when dating. Show Notes: --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) --- This episode is brought to you by: [VIIA] (https://viiahemp.com/) (Visit [Viiahemp.com] (https://viiahemp.com/) and use code "Emily" at checkout for 15% off your order) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/manifest-your-best-sex/%20) ... Read more

27 Sep 2024

31 MINS

31:51

27 Sep 2024

#1410

Keep the Honeymoon Going

Ahh, the honeymoon phase. You know that euphoric period of time at the beginning of a relationship where your partner seems perfect and you can’t keep your hands off one another? Fast forward a few months (or sometimes years) and that initial spark begins to fade and those feel-good chemicals start to wear off. What then? Today, I share why the honeymoon phase is so intoxicating, why our feelings change over time, and how to strengthen your relationship so that it survives the initial fading of happy hormones. I answer your questions about what to do when your partner asks you to be in a threesome but it’s not your fantasy, how to communicate to your partner that their Instagram habits make you uncomfortable, and what to do when you feel like you have become more friends than lovers with your significant other. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How to navigate conversations about spicing up your relationship ---Understanding boundaries around threesomes ---How to handle narcissistic tendencies in relationships Show Notes: --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) --- This episode is brought to you by: [Promescent] (https://www.promescent.com/collections/all?utm_source=sexwithemily.com&utm_medium=sponsor&utm_campaign=sex-with-emily-podcast) (Visit the link for 15% off, or go to promescent.com/emily) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/?p=38102&preview=true) ... Read more

24 Sep 2024

39 MINS

39:13

24 Sep 2024

#1409

Ask Emily: Orgasms, Orientation & Oral

On today’s show, I answer your sex and relationship questions. I cover what to do if you’re questioning your sexuality while married with kids, how to initiate your first threesome, when (if ever) you should tell your partner how many people you’ve slept with, and ways to get more comfortable while giving oral sex. I also talk about what to do if the porn you watch makes you feel guilty, how to approach exploring a fetish without shame, what to do if you disagree with your partner about having another child and what it means when you cry after sex. In this episode, you’ll learn: ---How honest, heartfelt conversations about intimacy can reignite connection and strengthen emotional bonds with your partner. ---Techniques to overcome sexual conditioning and experience pleasure in new ways through mindfulness and open communication. ---The importance of exploring sexual fantasies with clear boundaries and how they can evolve as part of a healthy sexual journey. Show Notes: --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) --- This episode is brought to you by: [LELO] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodSCSept) (Use code “SEXWITHEMILY” for 25% off your order, exclusions may apply.) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/sexy-emails-with-emily/) ... Read more

20 Sep 2024

39 MINS

39:07

20 Sep 2024

#1408

Moms Have Rizz, Too! (A Chat With My Mom About Modern Sex & Dating)

In today’s episode, I’ve brought my Mom back on the show to dive into a range of topics from the hilarious to the profound. We reminisced about growing up as women in an ever-changing world, trying to date and have sex! Our conversation covered the early passionate days of relationships to the mundane, finding time for sex and reviving your libido. I also had some fun quizzing my mom on modern dating slang. Her take on each word made me laugh. I think you’ll love hearing about the many stages of sex from my mom's seasoned perspective. Exploring dating terms with my mom was a fantastic way to demystify modern relationships! I asked her about breadcrumbing, DTR, red flags, situationships, ghosting, pegging, and rizz, aka…charisma. Learning points from the episode: ---The evolution of relationships from passion to domesticity. ---The impact of menopause on intimacy. ---The many layers of modern dating terms. ---Insights into maintaining a long-term relationship. Tune into these articles: --- [I Asked My Mom 5 Things About Sex, Sexuality and Aging: Here’s What She Said] (https://sexwithemily.com/i-asked-my-mom-5-things-about-sex-sexuality-and-aging/) --- [8 Most Common Sexual Struggles for Couples (& How to Solve Them)] (https://sexwithemily.com/8-most-common-sexual-struggles-for-couples/) This episode is brought to you by Solaray. If you're seeking a healthier cycle or mood support, you have to check out these products. For 15% off your entire order, go to: [www.solaray.com/sexwithemily ] (http://www.solaray.com/sexwithemily) Solaray Disclaimer: The FDA has not evaluated any of these statements, and these products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. Additionally, I've personally had a great experience with Solaray, but each woman’s experience is unique. The Solaray "HER LIFE STAGES" formulas shared in this episode are not intended to address every symptom or concern mentioned, but they are designed to provide powerful life-stage support. SMARTSX: I'm thrilled to announce SmartSX, an exclusive membership that's revolutionizing the way you will approach sexual wellness. Last week, I kicked off this exciting journey, inviting you to join a community that's all about transforming your sex life. Whether you're looking to deepen connections or explore new kinks, SmartSX is your gateway to all things sexy and insightful. Embrace your pleasure potential with an open heart and mind. As a member, you'll embark on a journey to discover your unique desire style and boost your Sex IQ. You’ll gain invaluable tools for a healthier sex life through engaging discussions, expert guests, and direct interactions with me. Each month, we'll dive into themes based on my 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with 'Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.' [CLICK HERE TO JOIN] (https://laylo.com/dremily/SmartSX) ... Read more

18 Sep 2024

32 MINS

32:17

18 Sep 2024

#1407

How To Ask For What You Want

So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls about how to ask for exactly what you want, or conversely, don’t want. I also give advice about how to achieve orgasm without relying too heavily on porn or toys, what to do if your partner’s penis is too big for anal, what to do if YOU like giving oral but your partner isn’t as down to receive, and how to enjoy casual dating. In this episode you’ll learn: ---How past negative experiences can impact your current reactions to physical affection, and discover strategies to rebuild a positive relationship with touch. ---Understand the importance of transparent dialogue with your partner about your needs and boundaries, and how to approach these conversations constructively. ---Explore the challenges of casual dating and the significance of self-awareness in identifying what type of relationship dynamic suits you best. Show Notes: --- [Join the SmartSX Membership] (https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx) : Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) : Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [ Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? Visit the [Sex With Emily Website] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) | [Threads] (https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily) | [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial) ---Let’s text: [Sign up here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your email inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-ask-for-what-you-want/) ... Read more

13 Sep 2024

51 MINS

51:26

13 Sep 2024

#1406

The Pleasure Gap with Our CEO Amy Friedlander

Hey, pleasure seekers! I'm super excited about today's episode. I always encourage you to discuss sex with your friends, so I've invited Amy Friedlander, my CEO and brilliant friend, to join this conversation. We're both fed up with the pleasure gap, a topic The New York Times highlighted in a recent article, " [The Orgasm Gap Isn’t Going Away for Straight Women] (http://The%20%E2%80%98Orgasm%20Gap%E2%80%99%20Isn%E2%80%99t%20Going%20Away%20for%20Straight%20Women) ." Today, Amy and I are actively seeking ways to bridge this gap. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. We're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life. We're sharing our sexual histories, addressing the pitfalls of faking orgasms, and talking about negative sex-pectations set by porn and extreme media portrayals. Together, we're talking about methods to prioritize pleasure and close the orgasm gap. Tune in to be part of this change and close the gap with us! You deserve a richer, more fulfilling sex life. In this episode, you'll learn: ---Why the Orgasm Gap Persists: We'll unpack how inadequate sex education continues to widen this divide. ---The Dangers of Faking It: Discover why being authentic in expressing your sexual needs is essential for true pleasure. ---The Role of Media: We'll debunk harmful myths and foster a healthier dialogue around sex. ---Also, don't miss our discussions on whether sleeping apart can enhance your sex life and how Kegel trainers can lead to more intense orgasms. Tune into these articles: --- [Does Sleeping Apart Help Your Sex Life?] (https://sexwithemily.com/does-sleeping-apart-help-your-sex-life/) --- [Kegel Trainers for Bigger, Badder Orgasms] (https://sexwithemily.com/kegel-trainers-for-bigger-badder-orgasms/) More: ---Try the LELO SILA CRUISE Today. [Link here!] (https://lelo.to/SWEPodSCSept) ---Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at [https://www.paired.com/SWE] (https://www.paired.com/SWE) 💖 SMARTSX ANNOUNCEMENT 💖 Today, September 10th, 2024, we're thrilled to launch SmartSx, our membership platform where pleasure meets education. Join our community to transform your intimate life, whether you're deepening connections or exploring new kinks. SmartSx is your gateway to all things sexy and insightful. Embrace your pleasure potential with an open heart and mind. As a member, you'll embark on a journey to discover your unique desire style and boost your Sex IQ. You’ll also gain tools for a healthier sex life through engaging discussions, expert guests, and direct interactions with me. Each month will feature themes based on my 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with 'Sexual Connection is a Skill Set.' [CLICK HERE TO JOIN] (https://laylo.com/dremily/SmartSX) ... Read more

10 Sep 2024

57 MINS

57:05

10 Sep 2024

#1405

Astrological Desire Styles: Talking Pleasure with The AstroTwins

In this episode, Dr. Emily welcomes her friend and fellow Michigan native, Ophira from The AstroTwins, to discuss their new book, The Astrology Advantage, and their revolutionary I*AM system. This unique system or framework blends astrology with the Enneagram and Meyers Briggs to unlock insights into your personality-- your buttons, skills, passions, and life path. As a bonus, Ophi reads Emily's chart, revealing how the I*AM system shapes her career, sex, desire, and goals. They explore the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes, offering a fresh perspective on understanding yourself through astrology. Tune in to learn how astrology influences desire and sexuality and how to align with your authentic sexual self. Get your copy of The Astrology Advantage to dig deeper into your I*AM archetype! Ophi describes the I*AM System as “an astrological personality test” and “Atomic Habits meets The Wisdom of The Enneagram.” You need this book! I could not put it down. [Purchase: The Astrology Advantage] (https://astrostyle.com/astrology-advantage/) [More about The AstroTwins] (https://astrostyle.com/) What You'll Learn: ---The I*AM System Explained: Discover how the Authority, Innovator, and Maven archetypes correlate with the 13 planets in astrology and your chart. ---Astrology Meets Enneagram: Learn how each IAM archetype connects with the 12 zodiac signs, offering a new lens to understand your personality, desires, and behavior. ---Sex, Shame, and Kink: Understand how your I*AM archetype influences your sexual expression and how to overcome shame or embrace kink through astrological insights. ---Body Confidence and Sexual Fulfillment: Explore how aligning with your archetype helps you feel more comfortable in your body as you pursue pleasure and intimacy. ---Sexual Authenticity: Learn how your sexual style—whether you're an Innovator, Authority, or Maven—affects how you engage with partners and express desire authentically. Also, SmartSx, my new membership, launches on September 10th. Please join me and this incredible community of open-minded pleasure-seekers! Here's a sneak peak of what you'll experience when you sign up: ---SmartSX is a community and app for individuals prioritizing pleasure and sexual well-being, helping members explore desires and create a fulfilling sex life. ---Great lovers are made, not born: Anyone can learn how to have the best sexual experiences of their lives. ---SmartSX members can directly interact with her and ask questions in the community. ---Inclusive membership: SmartSX caters to everyone—whether you're a beginner or experienced, single or partnered—focusing on understanding, giving, and receiving pleasure. ---Members will uncover their unique desire style, increase their Sex IQ, enhance sexual communication, and gain essential tools for a healthy sex life through discussions, special guests, and experts. Each month features a theme based on Dr. Emily's 12 Universal Truths About Sex and Pleasure, starting with Sexual Connection is a Skill Set. --- GET ON THE WAITLIST: [CLICK HERE] (https://laylo.com/dremily/SmartSX) ... Read more

06 Sep 2024

37 MINS

37:13

06 Sep 2024

#1404

Healthy Dating Habits

Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and how can you break them? I asked you to tell me what negative dating patterns you’re trying to change, and you all delivered! On today’s show, I’m addressing your top dating problems so we can solve them together. Having sex too soon, trying to “fix” less-than-ideal partners, fear of asserting yourself, having misaligned expectations, the tendency to audition people for the role of life partner – we’re covering it all, so you can feel empowered with new partners and have an amazing time with existing partners. In this episode you’ll learn: ---How to Identify and Break Negative Dating Patterns ---The Importance of Assertiveness in Dating ---Strategies for Building Self-Confidence in Dating Show Notes: --- [Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: ] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/pages/smartsx) Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? Guide ] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) --- [Shopify.com/swe] (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/be159dc8-3a6e-11ee-9747-9b3d81a5f497/podcasts/39bf6c96-a9b0-11ee-b1ce-e7d53bc6d37e/episodes/1d5e80c4-2240-11ef-97d7-6fdefc439860/Shopify.com/swe) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com/live] (https://sexwithemily.com/healthy-dating-habits/) . ... Read more

03 Sep 2024

43 MINS

43:32

03 Sep 2024

#1403

Behind Closed Doors: A Peek into Sex Parties

Let's explore the world of sex parties! Are you curious if this scene is for you? This episode is your go-to guide for everything about sex parties. We'll cover the various types available, from kink-centric gatherings to more relaxed swinging events. I'll guide you through finding these parties, understanding the etiquette, and what to expect when you arrive. We'll discuss how to mingle effectively and, importantly, what to wear to blend in or stand out. So join me at this podcast, Sex Party! Don't forget to join the waitlist for SmartSX, which launches on September 10th, 2024. This incredible membership will offer you access to exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Smart SX: join our waitlist! ] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/pages/smartsx?utm_source=the+today+show&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=7/25) --- [FetLife] (https://fetlife.com/) --- [Feeld] (https://feeld.co/) --- [#Open] (https://hashtagopen.com/) --- [Kinky Rabbit Club] (https://www.kinkyrabbitclub.com/) --- [Just Thrive (code BOGOSWE)] (https://justthrivehealth.com/products/probiotic?gad_source=1&gc_id=18023363164&gclid=CjwKCAjwuMC2BhA7EiwAmJKRrCAXprzZ7_AehqDP5fF8FuJqFnds2CxJcuVLkWtSvpFU64ypdKm9QhoC6m8QAvD_BwE&h_ad_id=616180782128&nb_adtype=&nb_ap=&nb_fii=&nb_kwd=just%20thrive%20probiotic&nb_li_ms=&nb_lp_ms=&nb_mi=&nb_mt=e&nb_pc=&nb_pi=&nb_placement=&nb_ppi=&nb_ti=kwd-303293276585&nbt=nb%3Aadwords%3Ag%3A18023363164%3A145729041531%3A616180782128&variant=40805432262721) --- [Shop With Emily!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Read this week's Articles: [How to Have Vigorous Sex] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-have-vigorous-sex-the-right-way/) | [How to *Actually* Dirty Talk] (https://sexwithemily.com/how-to-actually-talk-dirty/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular.] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) ... Read more

30 Aug 2024

40 MINS

40:31

30 Aug 2024

#1402

5 Sex Myths We All Believe

Let’s be honest: there are certain myths about sex that are SO common, they seem like truth. Things like: what it means to be wet, what it means to be hard, and what it means if you use a vibrator a lot. But guess what? A ton of the things you and I have both heard about sex aren’t based on science - they’ve just been repeated a lot. So on today’s show, I’m debunking the top sex myths I see and hear, and giving you the actual facts. What does it mean about your sexual ability if you’ve had a lot of partners - or conversely, hardly any? We talk about it. How about if you’re not getting wet during sex. Does that mean you’re not turned on? We discuss! Let’s say you use a vibrator a lot - can you get addicted to it? Or my favorite: does having an orgasm mean the sex was good? I tackle both of these. And finally, we face the truth about anal sex, because spoiler alert...it’s not just for gay men. In this episode you’ll learn: ---About the wide range of orgasms people can experience and why each is unique. ---Why libido levels vary between individuals and how this impacts sexual relationships. ---How pornography can shape unrealistic expectations and affect real-life sexual experiences. Show Notes: --- [Join the Waitlist for my SmartSX Membership Community: ] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/pages/smartsx) Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. --- [Yes! No! Maybe? Guide ] (https://sexwithemily.com/guides/) --- [SHOP WITH EMILY!] (https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ) (free shipping on orders over $99) ---The only sex book you’ll ever need: [Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure] (https://shop.sexwithemily.com/products/smart-sex-how-to-boost-your-sex-iq-and-own-your-pleasure) ---Want to try Promescent's Delay Spray or Arousal Gel? Visit [Promescent.com/emily] (https://www.promescent.com/collections/all?utm_source=sexwithemily.com&utm_medium=sponsor&utm_campaign=sex-with-emily-podcast) for 15% off your order! ---Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at [https://www.paired.com/SWE] (https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.paired.com/SWE&sa=D&source=editors&ust=1716594943513388&usg=AOvVaw3upImqq7L6GEjkChG7HTZc) ---Want more? [Sex With Emily: Home] (https://sexwithemily.com/) ---Let’s get social: [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/) | [X] (https://twitter.com/sexwithemily) | [Facebook] (https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily) | [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily) ---Let’s text: [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/text) ---Want me to slide into your inbox? [Sign Up Here] (https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe) for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at [sexwithemily.com/live.] (https://sexwithemily.com/listen/) ... Read more

23 Aug 2024

35 MINS

35:39