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Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled podcast

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting philosophy, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics. Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website ( [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) ) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at [NoBadKidsCourse] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) and [JanetLansbury] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, and free at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ) with a trial subscription. Featured in the The New Yorker, recommended 'Best Parenting Podcast' by The Washington Post, The New York Times, The Bump, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more. Copyright JLML Press (2023) All Rights Reserved

In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting philosophy, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics. Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website ( [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) ) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at [NoBadKidsCourse] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) and [JanetLansbury] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, and free at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ) with a trial subscription. Featured in the The New Yorker, recommended 'Best Parenting Podcast' by The Washington Post, The New York Times, The Bump, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more. Copyright JLML Press (2023) All Rights Reserved

 

#282

Preparing Our Children to Be Emotionally Healthy Teens (With Phinnah Chichi)

Janet’s guest this week is Phinnah Chichi, an author, lecturer, and parenting coach whose inspired ideas and worldview help to educate and empower both teens and their parents. Phinnah’s work and philosophy dovetail with Janet’s focus on infants and toddlers. Both prioritize communication, trust, and connection to encourage emotional and social skills, and ultimately to forge lasting parent/child relationships.  Phinnah's website: [parentingteenssolutions.com] (http://www.parentingteenssolutions.com) . Her [book is available on Amazon] (https://amzn.to/3JA7TYC) . Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at  [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com)  and  [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, and free at Audible ( [https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ] (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ) ) with a trial subscription. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

21 Mar 2023

35 MINS

35:27

21 Mar 2023


#281

What To Do (and Not Do) When Kids Have Meltdowns, Tantrums, Strong Emotions

What do children need from us when they're experiencing intense feelings? What are the best things to say and do to calm their emotional storms? Janet responds to notes from three insightful professionals who express concerns that what they're doing isn't working. Janet validates their perspectives and explains why. Then she offers specific recommendations for navigating children's outbursts in a manner that fosters their resilience and a healthy attitude toward emotions while also nurturing trusting relationships. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at  [NoBadKidsCourse] (http://www.nobadkidscourse.com/)  and  [JanetLansbury] (http://www.janetlansbury.com/) . Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, Google Play, and free at Audible (https://adbl.co/2OBVztZ) with a trial subscription. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

14 Mar 2023

24 MINS

24:36

14 Mar 2023


#280

Stuck in a Pattern of Frustration and Anger

A mother laments the close relationship she used to enjoy with her daughter before having another child. Lately, her daughter has been testing limits, and she has found herself losing both her patience and her temper. “I really don’t want to continue this way with my daughter.” She’s wondering if Janet has any advice how she can remain calm and confident when her daughter seems intent on pushing her buttons. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at  [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.nobadkidscourse.com/)  and  [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.janetlansbury.com/) . Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

07 Mar 2023

19 MINS

19:28

07 Mar 2023


#279

How We Invalidate Our Kids Without Meaning To (And What to Do Instead)

With the best of intentions, we can invalidate our kids in subtle ways that make it harder for them to move through their feelings in a healthy manner. Janet responds to three questions from listeners who each recount a specific difficulty they’re experiencing with their kids’ behaviors. These are thoughtful, patient, respectful parents, yet their problems seem to persist. They feel they just can’t get through to their child. Janet identifies a common thread in these parents’ stories and explains how and why they could be inadvertently invalidating their children’s feelings. She offers suggestions for how they might look beyond the problem to understand and address the cause. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at  [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.nobadkidscourse.com/)  and  [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.janetlansbury.com/) . Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

28 Feb 2023

24 MINS

24:01

28 Feb 2023


#278

Shouldn't They Know Better By Now?

It can be confounding when our children behave in negative ways after we've told them umpteen times it’s wrong. Surely they’re aware that we don’t approve! And yet, they repeat the behavior no matter how frustrated, annoyed, or angry we get. Janet offers her perspective on this dynamic while answering a question from the mom of a short-tempered 6-year-old. This boy's father believes certain behaviors are simply unacceptable because their son is “old enough to know better,” but this mom isn't as sure and wonders if Janet can clarify what they should realistically expect for a child their son’s age. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at  [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.nobadkidscourse.com/)  and  [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.janetlansbury.com/) . You can find the Mr. Chazz videos that Janet mentions at: [tiktok.com/@mrchazzmrchazz.] (http://www.tiktok.com/@mrchazzmrchazz.) Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

21 Feb 2023

24 MINS

24:03

21 Feb 2023


#277

Becoming Untriggered (with Lavinia Brown and Andrew Lynn)

Trauma informed coaches Lavinia Brown and Andrew Lynn join Janet to discuss how they help parents identify triggers and heal wounds that are preventing them from being the parents they wish to be and otherwise negatively impacting their daily lives. Andrew says: "Trauma robs you of the freedom to choose how you react." Lavinia and Andrew describe some of the common signs of trauma and repressed emotions, how they recognized their own, and how their respective coaching practices enable parents to process these emotions by connecting with the needs of their inner child. Reach Lavinia at [LaviniaBrown.com] (http://www.LaviniaBrown.com) . Her Instagram is LaviniaBrownCoaching. Reach Andrew at [AndrewLynn.net] (http://www.AndrewLynn.net) , or on Instagram at Andrew.g.Lynn. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) and [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

14 Feb 2023

46 MINS

46:28

14 Feb 2023


#276

Love Doesn't Mean Walking on Eggshells

In this week’s podcast, Janet breaks format slightly by sharing back-and-forth interactions she's had with listeners and her reflections about these exchanges. In the first, a parent eloquently describes a revelation about his children’s challenging behaviors and how they can bring out his best self. The second exchange explores the nuances of navigating boundaries and the messages we unintentionally give children by walking on eggshells vs. welcoming their feelings. Janet connects these discussions by noting how they both express what putting love into action really means with our kids.  Exciting news: Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available now at: [NoBadKidsCourse] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com)  Check it all out and receive an introductory discount! Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

07 Feb 2023

22 MINS

22:02

07 Feb 2023


#275

Weird, Worrying Behaviors That Our Child Keeps Repeating

Janet responds to 3 separate messages from parents who are having issues with their children that are making them confused and unsure of themselves. While the details of the children's behaviors all differ, Janet identifies a common theme in the parents’ reactions and attitudes that she believes is perpetuating the behavior. She offers suggestions for how these parents can shift their perspective, gain more confidence in their role as leaders, and respond in a manner that resolves the true need behind the "wants" their children are expressing. Janet's No Bad Kids Master Course is available now: [http://nobadkidscourse.com] (http://nobadkidscourse.com) Check it all out and receive an introductory discount! Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

31 Jan 2023

23 MINS

23:44

31 Jan 2023


#274

Worn Down by a Toddler's Screaming, Testing, and Demands

A frustrated parent writes that she and her partner are feeling like failures because their 2.5-year-old is pushy and demanding to the point that they end up losing their patience and yelling. Most challenging of all is that the toddler screams when she doesn’t get her way -- and sometimes for no reason at all. Occasionally, they've screamed right back. “I know,” this parent admits, “a very low point.” Janet offers insights as to the cause of the child's behavior and a perspective shift to help ease this mom’s concerns while also improving their parent-child relationship dynamics.   Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at  [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.nobadkidscourse.com/)  and  [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.janetlansbury.com/) . For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble, and Apple Books. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

24 Jan 2023

21 MINS

21:48

24 Jan 2023


#273

Is Parenting Too Hard? You May Be Doing Too Much

No matter how we approach raising our children, there are times we'll feel physically, mentally, or emotionally exhausted. Maybe all of the above. We’re only human, of course, but it may also be that we're taking on more than we need to --- depleting our energy with roles and tasks that are better left to our child. In this episode, Janet offers ideas for lightening our workload by recognizing and trusting our children's intrinsic abilities. Janet's job description reframe can help save our energy, nurture self-confidence, and at the same time foster a flourishing parent-child relationship.  Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) and [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble, and Apple Books. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

17 Jan 2023

26 MINS

26:15

17 Jan 2023


#272

More Kids, More Conflict - How Can We Keep the Peace?

The parent of three young boys is struggling to deal with their demands and the conflicts between them. If she accommodates one boy’s wishes, the other two react with an opposing desire, jealousy, and fighting. She’s wondering how to cope with her situation when everything feels like a compromise. “Most of the time I feel like they’re either fighting with each other or fighting over me,” she says. “It’s exhausting.” Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) and [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) . Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

10 Jan 2023

22 MINS

22:17

10 Jan 2023


#271

Controlling, Rigid, Argumentative Behavior (What It Means and What We Can Do)

Janet replies to the concerns of 3 different families who all share that they're struggling with their children's controlling, inflexible, and, in one case, possessive behaviors. The children range in age from 2 to 6, and Janet observes they all appear to have personalities on the intense side. One parent is particularly worried about how her son treats his peers when he doesn't get his way. She writes: "I worry he will lose friends or be unable to form deep connections if he yells and screams at his friends like this." Janet suggests a point of view for understanding and addressing these behaviors which can apply to almost any issue parents might face. She also offers examples of responses for the specific behaviors in each of these situations. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available for pre-order at [NoBadKidsCourse] (http://nobadkidscourse.com) and [JanetLansbury] (http://janetlansbury.com) . For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books in paperback at Amazon ( [https://amzn.to/3VTmJ1j] (https://amzn.to/3VTmJ1j) ) and in audio at Audible ( [adbl.co/2OBVztZ] (https://gate.sc/?token=fc50fa-1-1670289555458&url=http%3A%2F%2Fadbl.co%2F2OBVztZ) ). Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

03 Jan 2023

34 MINS

34:29

03 Jan 2023


#270

(Encore) A Pep-Talk for Parents: Embracing Our Power to Be Confident Leaders

Janet shares what she describes as her most valuable advice for parents -- a mindset that brings clarity to our role in our children's lives, makes our job more enjoyable and successful, and may even offer us personal growth. Janet explains why and how this perspective works, offers practical examples, and touches on some of the common issues that can get in our way. As parents, we tend to question ourselves: are we doing this parenting thing right, or are we failing? Janet's message is to afford ourselves the same trust and grace we hope to give to our children, to fully believe that we can do this! Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is now available at [www.NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) and [www.JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble and Apple Books. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

27 Dec 2022

26 MINS

26:22

27 Dec 2022


#269

The Upside of Toddler Tantrums

A parent is uncomfortable with her toddler's tantrums because her child seems so unreachable at these times. The parent's instinct is to reach out, soothe and reassure her child, but she realizes there is no way to get through to her when she's in the midst of it. She's hoping Janet has advice for how she might connect with respect and compassion.  Janet's 'No Bad Kids Master Course' is available for pre-order on her website [www.janetlansbury.com] (http://www.janetlansbury.com) or at [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) . Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

20 Dec 2022

15 MINS

15:17

20 Dec 2022


#268

Nurturing a Deeper Connection to Nature and Heritage (with Ashley Causey-Golden)

Educator Ashley Causey-Golden was drawn to Montessori principles but felt something missing that she longed to provide: cultural relevancy. She wondered, "What would it look like to create a Montessori space that uplifted, affirmed, celebrated Black children?" Fulfilling this desire has been a journey of discovery and grace (with a lot of mistakes along the way). Ashley's ultimate success gave her the courage to pursue another passion: nature education. As the co-founder of Gather Forest School and creator of Afrocentric Montessori, Ashley has a wealth of experience to share with all families and educators interested in nurturing our children's spirit, sense of community, and connection to the natural world.  For more about Ashley and her resources and projects, please visit: [https://afrocentricmontessori.com/] (https://afrocentricmontessori.com/) Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at  [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.nobadkidscourse.com/)  and  [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.janetlansbury.com/) . Janet's books are available in paperback ( [https://amzn.to/3VTmJ1j] (https://amzn.to/3VTmJ1j) ) and ebook at Amazon.com, and in audio at Audible. Thanks again to Ritual Vitamins for sponsoring this episode. Get 10% off your first 3 months when you shop online at [ ritual.com/respect] (ritual.com/respect) . Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

13 Dec 2022

35 MINS

35:03

13 Dec 2022


#267

Best Ways to Encourage Independent Play

Janet addresses a parent’s concerns about her daughter’s unwillingness to play independently. She seems to need constant stimulation and entertainment. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at [www.nobadkidscourse.com] (http://www.nobadkidscourse.com) or [www.JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books in paperback at Amazon ( [https://amzn.to/3VTmJ1j] (https://amzn.to/3VTmJ1j) ) and in audio at Audible ( [adbl.co/2OBVztZ] (https://gate.sc/?token=fc50fa-1-1670289555458&url=http%3A%2F%2Fadbl.co%2F2OBVztZ) ). Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

06 Dec 2022

23 MINS

23:52

06 Dec 2022


#266

Navigating Get-Togethers with Relatives, Friends, and Their Kids

We may not always agree with the parenting styles of our relatives and friends, and that's okay. Get-togethers can still be enjoyable, positive social experiences for us and for our kids. In this episode, Janet offers her perspective on some of the common challenges that arise in gatherings with friends, family, and in public situations with other kids and parents. Her suggestions include: --- How to set ourselves up for success ---Being proactive, rather than reactive ---Effective interventions with other parents’ children (as well as our own) Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at  [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.nobadkidscourse.com/)  and  [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.janetlansbury.com/) . For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: [adbl.co/2OBVztZ.] (adbl.co/2OBVztZ) Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon at [https://amzn.to/3VTmJ1j] (https://amzn.to/3VTmJ1j) , Google Play, Barnes & Noble, and Apple Books. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

29 Nov 2022

26 MINS

26:17

29 Nov 2022


#265

It's Hard to Feel Compassion for Unreasonable Emotions

A concerned parent writes that her 3-year-old seems to be in a constant state of frustration or anxiety, and she makes outlandish demands and cries when she doesn’t get her way. While this mom tries to be compassionate, it’s getting more and more difficult, and she worries that her own postpartum anxiety may have modeled the behavior. She’s looking for healthy ways to help them both cope. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at [wwwnobadkidscourse.com] (http://wwwnobadkidscourse.com) and [www.JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . For more advice on common infant/toddler parenting issues, please check out Janet's books at Amazon and Audible ( [adbl.co/2OBVztZ] (https://gate.sc/?token=3a60fd-1-1669085369685&url=https%3A%2F%2Fadbl.co%2F2OBVztZ) ). Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

22 Nov 2022

20 MINS

20:30

22 Nov 2022


#264

Raising Creative, Critical Thinkers in a Commercialized World (with Susan Linn)

Janet's guest is psychologist, writer, researcher, and Harvard lecturer Susan Linn. For decades, Susan has been a passionate advocate for our children and a steadfast fighter against the infiltration of Big Business and Big Tech into kids' lives (and parents' pocketbooks). In an eye-opening discussion, Susan describes how digital culture is designed to indoctrinate children into consumerism and brand loyalty, and how it's geared to create dependencies on games and devices for stimulation and soothing. She explains how games and devices teach values that are often diametrically opposed to our own, how they can affect learning by shrinking our children’s world and even interfere with parent-child relationships. Ultimately, Susan and Janet focus on the positive actions we can take to lessen the impact of manipulative marketers while realistically acknowledging the role of digitized culture in all of our lives. More to learn in this episode: ---How to choose the most beneficial toys and programs for our kids ---How advertisers capture children's attention and encourage them to nag us for more, more, more ---Why combatting commercialized culture isn't only a family issue, but a societal one ---What Alexa offers to "bored" children ---Computer games are less "active" for kids than we might believe For more on Susan, her work, and her books, visit: www.https://www.consumingkids.com/ Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at  [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.nobadkidscourse.com/)  and  [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.janetlansbury.com/) . For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble, and Apple Books. Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

15 Nov 2022

37 MINS

37:29

15 Nov 2022


#263

End of the Day Crazies with Kids

Many of us imagine late afternoons or evenings with our children as the perfect time to wind down and connect after a busy day. Unfortunately, this is often precisely when our children need to unload the day’s stresses. Which means that instead of enjoying restorative quality time together, we're faced with challenging behavior, high emotions, and discontent. Janet unpacks some of the reasons why evenings can be so difficult for kids and what we can do to help them (and ourselves!).   Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) and [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) . For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble, and Apple Books.  Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

08 Nov 2022

26 MINS

26:08

08 Nov 2022


#262

Boundaries We Need and Deserve (with Nedra Tawwab)

Janet is joined by Nedra Tawwab: therapist, relationship expert, and author of the NY Times best-seller “Set Boundaries, Find Peace.” Nedra and Janet discuss how our personal boundaries with friends, family, co-workers, and children are crucial for building positive, healthy relationships. Nedra emphasizes how boundaries begin with being kinder to ourselves. "We are in relationships from the time we're born,” Nedra says, “and the biggest relationship, the most consistent relationship we have is the one with ourselves. And that is the relationship that I'm constantly trying to improve." Ultimately, the boundaries and self-image we nurture for ourselves teach our children what they deserve in their relationships, now and in the future. For more information and resources from Nedra, including her best-selling book "Set Boundaries, Find Peace," go to: https://www.nedratawwab.com/ Janet's NO BAD KIDS MASTER COURSE is now available at [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) and [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . Paperbacks and e-books are available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble, and Apple Books.  Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

01 Nov 2022

26 MINS

26:25

01 Nov 2022


#261

When We're Too Late to Stop the Behavior (Now What?)

A parent with a family in transition writes about a series of mischievous and sometimes destructive incidents perpetrated by her toddler. She’s wondering how to address these situations, especially after the fact when the deed is already done. Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at [NoBadKidsCourse.com] (http://www.NoBadKidsCourse.com) and [JanetLansbury.com] (http://www.JanetLansbury.com) . For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are also available at Amazon, Google Play, Barnes & Noble, and Apple Books.  Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com). Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a> ... Read more

25 Oct 2022

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