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How To!

You’ve got questions. Together, we get answers. We all need advice, but sometimes it’s hard to know where to turn. Each week, Courtney Martin and Carvell Wallace bring a listener on to the show to solve their toughest problems with the help of world-class experts. It’s free therapy, and you’re invited.

You’ve got questions. Together, we get answers. We all need advice, but sometimes it’s hard to know where to turn. Each week, Courtney Martin and Carvell Wallace bring a listener on to the show to solve their toughest problems with the help of world-class experts. It’s free therapy, and you’re invited.

 

#233

How To Grieve an Estranged Parent

A parent’s main job is to protect. But what happens when your parent doesn’t protect you? What happens when they not only let bad things happen to you, but they doubt and dismiss you when you ask them for help? Our listener, Haylie, decided to go no-contact with her father after multiple attempts to reconcile their relationship. Now she wants to know how to grieve the death of the relationship. On this episode of How To!, [Patrick Teahan] (https://www.patrickteahantherapy.com/?_gl=1%2A6vcpj%2A_ga%2AMjM0MjkwOTE0LjE2OTYzNjkzNTc.%2A_ga_ZRFB68CHB3%2AMTcwMDUyODc0Mi42LjAuMTcwMDUyODc0Mi42MC4wLjA.) , [licensed clinical social worker] (https://www.patrickteahantherapy.com/healing-community/?_gl=1*1bzzxix*_ga*MjM0MjkwOTE0LjE2OTYzNjkzNTc.*_ga_ZRFB68CHB3*MTcwMDUyODc0Mi42LjAuMTcwMDUyODc0Mi42MC4wLjA.) and [childhood trauma therapist] (https://www.youtube.com/@patrickteahanlicswtherapy) , joins us to explain why cutting off a parent is so difficult, why we grieve these relationships, and how to start healing.  If you liked this episode, check out: [How To Walk Away from an Impossible Parent] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2020/06/family-therapist-joshua-coleman-on-how-to-fix-a-broken-relationship) Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. How To’s executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson, with Kevin Bendis and Jabari Butler.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

28 Nov 2023

47 MINS

47:33

28 Nov 2023


#232

How To Talk Politics Without Wrecking Relationships (Encore)

On a recent phone call Shannon’s mom didn’t mince words: The only way she’d vote for Joe Biden is if Jesus himself comes down and tells her to. Growing up in a conservative household, Shannon understands her parents’ support for Trump. But she no longer sees eye-to-eye with them and every time they talk about politics it turns into a fight. The result is a complete fraying of their relationship. In this episode of How To!, we bring on [Bill Doherty] (https://www.cehd.umn.edu/fsos/directory/DohertyB.asp) , professor of family social science at the University of Minnesota, and co-founder of the non-profit [Braver Angels] (https://braverangels.org/) , to help Shannon and her parents navigate this heated election season. The most important thing to remember, Bill says, is that you can’t change your parents’ minds. But you can still save your relationship by recognizing shared values and treating each other as people, not political opponents. If you liked this episode, check out “ [How To Get a Stubborn Parent to Listen] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2020/05/comedian-jim-breuer-on-caring-for-an-aging-parent) .” Do you have a relationship you’d like to mend? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. [ Sign up] (https://my.slate.com/plus?utm_medium=link&utm_campaign=plus_pod&utm_content=How_To&utm_source=show_notes) now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

21 Nov 2023

34 MINS

34:39

21 Nov 2023


#231

How To Get Through Menopause

Hot flashes, fatigue, and vaginal dryness were some of Katie’s first clues that her body was changing. Half the population will experience menopause, yet misinformation still abounds—with doctors ill-prepared to talk to patients about this major life transition. On this episode of How To!, journalist [Susan Dominus] (https://www.nytimes.com/by/susan-dominus) joins us to share the knowledge she gained from working on her viral magazine piece, “ [Women Have Been Misled About Menopause] (https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/01/magazine/menopause-hot-flashes-hormone-therapy.html) .” She explains why women’s pain has been ignored for so long, where to look for information, and how to connect with others during this confusing phase of life.  If you liked this episode, check out: [How To Make Aging Easier for Everyone] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2023/07/how-to-plan-for-aging) . Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Resources mentioned:  “ [If Men Could Menstruate] (https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/23293691.2019.1619050) ” by Gloria Steinem [What Fresh Hell Is This?: Perimenopause, Menopause, Other Indignities, and You] (https://heathercorinna.com/project/what-fresh-hell-is-this-perimenopause-menopause-other-indignities-and-you-a-guide/) by Heather Corinna [The Menopause Manifesto: Own Your Health with Facts and Feminism] (https://drjengunter.com/the-menopause-manifesto/) by Dr. Jen Gunter [Hot Flash Sonnets] (https://www.spdbooks.org/Products/9780983620945/hot-flash-sonnets.aspx) by Moira Egan [Alloy] (https://www.myalloy.com/) [Midi] (https://www.joinmidi.com/) How To’s executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson, with Kevin Bendis and Jabari Butler. By the way, [S] (mailto:howto@slate.com) late Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds! Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

14 Nov 2023

48 MINS

48:03

14 Nov 2023


#230

How To Build a Marriage That Lasts

To celebrate their third wedding anniversary, Anjali and Rahul are each selecting a surprise activity to do together. This happy couple loves spontaneity, so they’re concerned about someday growing bored in their relationship. They’re also feeling pressure to mark the traditional milestones of marriage, including having kids. On this episode of How To!, authors Caryl and Jay Casbon join us to share the wisdom they gained from interviewing other married couples for their book [Side by Side] (https://www.amazon.com/Side-Sacred-Couples-Aging-Wisdom/dp/1959921045?tag=slatmaga-20) . The Casbons draw upon their own 22-year marriage to urge Anjali and Rahul to face conflict with openness and focus on individual “inner work”—in order to grow together.  Learn more about Caryl and Jay Casbon [here] (https://sidebysideaging.com/) . If you liked this episode, check out an episode that Anjali loved: [How To Decide Whether to Have a Baby] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2019/10/cheryl-strayed-author-of-wild-having-a-baby-wasnt-an-easy-choice) with Wild author Cheryl Strayed.  Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. How To’s executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson, with Kevin Bendis and Jabari Butler.  Slate Plus members get bonus segments and ad-free podcast feeds. Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

07 Nov 2023

45 MINS

45:24

07 Nov 2023


#229

How To Hit “Reset” on Your Career

Our listener Abdullah has reached a plateau. A mid-career manager at a large electronics engineering corporation, he feels intellectually unstimulated. Even though Abdullah has a stable job with seniority, he dreams of going back to school and pursuing his true passion: economics. But with a family to support, should Abdullah make a risky leap? On this episode of How To!, host Carvell Wallace is joined by Freakonomics co-author and University of Chicago economist [Steven Levitt] (https://pricetheory.uchicago.edu/levitt/) . Well-known for out-of-the-box thinking, Levitt shares surprising tips (including a simple coin flip strategy) that can help anyone on the edge of a huge decision. If you liked this episode, check out:  [How To Know When to Quit Your Job] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2022/11/how-to-quit-your-job) Do you have a question we can help you solve? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001. We might invite you on the show! Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Podcast production by Kevin Bendis, Derek John, Joel Meyer, and Rosemary Belson. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on How To!. Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) to help support our work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

31 Oct 2023

39 MINS

39:21

31 Oct 2023


#228

How To Let Go of Kid Clutter

Kids generate so…much…stuff. A lot of it is memorable. Videos of their first words? So cute. Colorful drawings that progressively get better? Masterpieces. Trophies, stuffies, books? All valuable. The problem: There’s no way to keep everything. So how do you figure out what to cherish and what to toss? On this episode of How To!, co-hosts [Carvell Wallace] (https://www.carvellwallace.com/about) and [Courtney Martin] (https://courtneyemartin.com/about-me/) bring in [Nonnahs Driskill] (https://www.instagram.com/getorganizedalready/?hl=en) , professional organizer and founder of [Get Organized Already] (http://getorganizedalready.com/blog-organizing-tips/) . She has lots of insight into why we value certain items, what it means to have an organizing mindset, and how to archive your child’s life in a way that works for you.  If you liked this episode, check out: [How To Be a Lazy Genius] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2022/05/how-to-organize-your-home) and [How To Style Your Home Like a Pro] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2023/02/how-to-style-your-home) .  Do you have a question we can help you solve? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001. We might invite you on the show! Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Podcast production by Derek John, Joel Meyer, and Rosemary Belson. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on How To!. Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) to help support our work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

24 Oct 2023

38 MINS

38:12

24 Oct 2023


#227

How To Build Trust With Co-Workers

The beginning of the school year is a gauntlet for Andrea, who coaches teachers for a living. She needs to get to know the 52 educators she’ll work with in the coming months. All of them are new faces to her. Which means she’s starting from scratch. Time is tight, so Andrea is wondering how to make every interaction count. On this episode of How To!, co-host [Courtney Martin] (https://courtneyemartin.com/about-me/) brings in [Marlon Styles] (https://marlonstyles.com/home/#about) , who has been in Andrea’s shoes. As an educator and motivational speaker, Marlon is a pro at making connections. His wisdom will resonate with anyone who is looking to build trust, work together on goals, and connect in a more meaningful way with your colleagues.  If you liked this episode, check out: [How To Help Teachers Thrive] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2023/06/how-to-help-teachers) .  Do you have a question we can help you solve? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001. We might invite you on the show! Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Podcast production by Derek John, Joel Meyer, Rosemary Belson, and Jabari Butler. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on How To!. Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) to help support our work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

17 Oct 2023

35 MINS

35:53

17 Oct 2023


#226

How To Find Love Where You Least Expect It

Camila is torn. She wants a partner. Someone who is ambitious. Someone who is financially secure. Someone who checks in with her at the end of the day. But most of her dates have turned out to be duds and she’s starting to think she’ll never find real romance. Should she keep searching for ‘the one,’ or should she focus on being happy on her own? On this episode of How To!, new co-host [Courtney Martin] (https://courtneyemartin.com/about-me/) brings in [Samhita Mukhopadhyay] (https://www.samhitamukhopadhyay.com/) to guide Camila. Samhita is [an author] (https://www.samhitamukhopadhyay.com/writing/) and [feminist] (https://www.samhitamukhopadhyay.com/writing/feministing/) . She was the executive editor of Teen Vogue and her first book was about [dating] (https://www.samhitamukhopadhyay.com/writing/outdated/) . She has a ton of smart advice for understanding the narratives we have around dating, expanding where we find love, and ultimately healing our hearts.  If you liked this episode, check out: [How To Ditch the Apps & Actually Find a Date] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2022/05/how-to-actually-find-a-date) Do you have a question we can help you solve? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001. We might invite you on the show! Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Podcast production by Derek John, Joel Meyer, Rosemary Belson, Kevin Bendis, and Jabari Butler. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on How To!. Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) to help support our work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

10 Oct 2023

40 MINS

40:55

10 Oct 2023


#225

How To Get Out of Debt Faster Than You Think (Encore)

Irina and her husband are more than $100,000 in debt. They’re working to pay it off, but between monthly credit card bills, student loan payments, 401k contributions and spending on their new baby, their money is spread too thin. In this episode of How To!, Charles Duhigg bring on Rachel Cruze, [a personal finance expert] (https://www.rachelcruze.com/) and author of [Know Yourself, Know Your Money] (https://www.amazon.com/Know-Yourself-Your-Money-WHAT/dp/1942121318?tag=slatmaga-20) , to help Irina create a budget that she can actually follow. It will seem hard at first, Rachel says, but if you cut up your credit cards and pause your retirement investments, you can get out of debt much sooner. If you liked this episode, check out “ [How To Get That Promotion You Deserve] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2020/07/how-to-ask-for-a-raise) .”  Do you have a conundrum? Send us a note at howto@slate.com or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

03 Oct 2023

30 MINS

30:07

03 Oct 2023


#224

How To Say Goodbye to Your Pet

Like many pet parents, [Zak Rosen] (http://zakrosen.com/) and his wife lived for years in a state of denial about their beloved dog, Rumi. Then they learned that Rottweilers only tend to live about eight to 12 years, and there was no denying it: Rumi is already in her twilight years. In the not-so-distant future, they’ll have to make some truly tough decisions.  On this episode of How To!, Zak seeks out advice about end-of-life pet care from Dr. Ellen LaFramboise, owner of [Crossroads Veterinary Hospice] (https://crossroadsvethospice.com/) , and fellow pet parent Gabby Santos, who shares how she prepared for the death of her 18-year-old miniature pinscher, Bob’i. Their conversation might change the way you think about your furry pal’s final days (and maybe even your own). Zak Rosen is the host and creator of [The Best Advice Show] (https://bestadvice.show/) , and co-host of Slate’s parenting podcast [Mom and Dad Are Fighting] (https://slate.com/podcasts/mom-and-dad-are-fighting) .  If you liked this episode, check out “ [How To Get Your Dog To Stop Barking (Without Barking Back] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2021/11/how-to-train-your-dog-to-stop-barking) ).” Do you have a question we can help you solve? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001. We might invite you on the show! Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Podcast production by Zak Rosen, Rosemary Belson, Derek John, Joel Meyer, and Merritt Jacob. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on How To!. Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) to help support our work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

26 Sep 2023

36 MINS

36:16

26 Sep 2023


#223

How To Follow Your Small Business Dream

Sarah is a part-time pet groomer who dreams of opening up her own business. Having worked long hours for low wages, she can’t help thinking that she could earn more money and control her schedule if she starts her own pet salon. The only problem? Sarah has no idea where to start. On this episode of How To!, Carvell Wallace brings in [Mae Chan] (https://www.reallifeoakland.com/about) to guide Sarah. Mae is a [business alignment coach] (https://www.reallifeoakland.com/) who helps entrepreneurs figure out their dreams and scale their businesses. Her questions for Sarah will help anyone considering a leap into self-employment think more about what they really want—and how to achieve it with minimal risk.  If you liked this episode, check out: [How To Advance Your Career By Quitting Your Job] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2021/11/how-to-find-your-dream-job) Do you have a question we can help you solve? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001. We might invite you on the show! Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Podcast production by Derek John, Joel Meyer, Rosemary Belson, Kevin Bendis, and Jabari Butler. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on How To!. Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) to help support our work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

19 Sep 2023

35 MINS

35:28

19 Sep 2023


#222

How To Learn Any Language Fast

Niky just isn’t jibing with Spanish. She’s tried courses, podcasts, apps, and even private tutors in order to make a connection with Spanish speakers around Toronto, at her job, and while traveling. But years into her language-learning journey, she’s not even close to being fluent. On this episode of How To!, Carvell Wallace introduces Niky to [Luca Lampariello] (https://www.lucalampariello.com/) . A speaker of 14 languages, Luca is a teacher and the founder of the [Smart Language Learning Academy] (https://smartlanguagelearning.teachable.com/) . He offers up tons of insight into why we learn the way we do, making what we learn actually stick, and how to have fun along the way. If you liked this episode, check out: [How To Remember Everything] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2019/12/usa-memory-champion-joshua-foer-on-improving-your-memory) Do you have a question we can help you solve? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001. We might invite you on the show! Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Podcast production by Derek John, Joel Meyer, Rosemary Belson, Kevin Bendis, and Jabari Butler. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on How To!. Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) to help support our work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

12 Sep 2023

38 MINS

38:52

12 Sep 2023


#221

How To Find Your People

Katie was ready to graduate from college when the pandemic interrupted everything. Unceremoniously cut-off from her group of friends, she’s now in a new chapter of her life but struggling more than ever to find her people. Katie’s friendships at work feel surface-level and she’s anxious about opening up too much for fear of rejection. On this episode of How To!, host Carvell Wallace brings in friendship coach [Danielle Bayard Jackson] (https://www.daniellebayardjackson.com/) . Don’t worry about finding your next BFF, Jackson says. Instead if we focus on making deeper, more lasting human connections with those around us, genuine friendships will naturally occur. If you liked this episode, check out: [How To Make Friends as an Adult] (https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2021/10/how-to-make-friends-as-an-adult) Do you have a question we can help you solve? Send us a note at [howto@slate.com] (mailto:howto@slate.com) or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on [Apple] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-with-charles-duhigg/id1469631127) , [Spotify] (https://open.spotify.com/show/2sTpPBvpoGHZlDwgSKI7EZ?si=bD7WdR-vTjuCva13Wdn5qw) or wherever you listen. Podcast production by Derek John, Rosemary Belson, Kevin Bendis, and Jabari Butler. If you enjoy this show, please consider signing up for Slate Plus. Slate Plus members get an ad-free experience across the network and exclusive content on many shows—you’ll also be supporting the work we do here on How To!. Sign up now at [slate.com/howtoplus] (http://www.slate.com/howtoplus) to help support our work. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

05 Sep 2023

41 MINS

41:46

05 Sep 2023