Seeing Other People podcast

Seeing Other People

Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Seeing Other People is your go-to podcast for honest conversations about dating, relationships, and everything in between. Each week features three types of episodes: Cohosts for Life on Mondays, where Ilana and her husband Jake open up about the everyday moments that shape their relationship; Tuesday episodes with impactful guests who help you navigate the complexities of modern dating; and Unfiltered episodes on Thursdays, where anonymous guests share their most raw and relatable experiences. No matter your relationship status, this show is here to help you a little less alone.

Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Seeing Other People is your go-to podcast for honest conversations about dating, relationships, and everything in between. Each week features three types of episodes: Cohosts for Life on Mondays, where Ilana and her husband Jake open up about the everyday moments that shape their relationship; Tuesday episodes with impactful guests who help you navigate the complexities of modern dating; and Unfiltered episodes on Thursdays, where anonymous guests share their most raw and relatable experiences. No matter your relationship status, this show is here to help you a little less alone.

 

#519

"How EMDR Therapy Saved My Dating Life"

Maddy, friend and former SOP intern, joins the pod to talk about surviving a break-in, nav... more

11 Dec 2025

50 MINS

50:33

11 Dec 2025


#518

What Your Work Life Says About Your Love Life

I’m joined by [Emily Durham] (http://instagram.com/emily.the.recruiter) , recruiter, creat... more

09 Dec 2025

49 MINS

49:26

09 Dec 2025


#517

Am I Working Hard Enough?

Jake and I catch up on life and our ongoing messiness at home before getting into a really... more

08 Dec 2025

47 MINS

47:03

08 Dec 2025


#516

How Losing Her Job Changed Her Entire Dating Life

I’m joined by my friend Jude Cohen to talk about dating in your 30s and rebuilding your li... more

04 Dec 2025

51 MINS

51:30

04 Dec 2025


#515

I Had a Surrogate…and Then I Got Pregnant Too

I’m joined by Alyssa Tucker, teacher, creator of [@livefromsnacktime] (http://instagram.co... more

02 Dec 2025

52 MINS

52:46

02 Dec 2025


#514

Why Are Married Men Flirting With Me & Other Mixed Signals

We're recording from Westchester while recovering from days of Thanksgiving meals and left... more

01 Dec 2025

44 MINS

44:35

01 Dec 2025


#513

What Dating as a 34-Year-Old Guy Is Really Like

In this Unfiltered, Harry comes back to talk about what dating, healing, and growing in yo... more

26 Nov 2025

55 MINS

55:42

26 Nov 2025


#512

You, Your Husband and His Mother

I’m joined by Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, couples therapist, author of You, Your Husband, and You... more

25 Nov 2025

55 MINS

55:39

25 Nov 2025


#511

The Stories We Never Told About Getting Fired

We’re on week 3 of lockdown after Jake’s surgery and shockingly, we’re thriving. This week... more

24 Nov 2025

54 MINS

54:31

24 Nov 2025


#510

What Moving On and Feeling Secure Actually Looks Like

In this Unfiltered, a returning guest shares how she finally got over her ex and why getti... more

20 Nov 2025

49 MINS

49:33

20 Nov 2025


#509

Are You “Doing the Work” or Just Performing It? with Therapist Rebecca Marcus

Therapist Rebecca Marcus, LCSW, is back to talk about what it actually means to “do the wo... more

18 Nov 2025

47 MINS

47:43

18 Nov 2025


#508

Breaking News, Syracuse Recap & How Jake’s Really Doing

I’m fresh off a total bucket list moment, going back to Syracuse to speak at the launch of... more

17 Nov 2025

50 MINS

50:22

17 Nov 2025


#507

Solo Q&A: "Help, My Best Friend Disappeared Into Their Relationship"

In this solo Q&A, I’m answering your dating and life questions — from moving cities for lo... more

13 Nov 2025

46 MINS

46:38

13 Nov 2025


#506

The Love Story You Didn’t See on Love Is Blind

Kelly Chase (@chaselifewithkelly) opens up about what really happened after Love Is Blind,... more

11 Nov 2025

1 HR 02 MINS

1:02:03

11 Nov 2025


#505

Is Having A Boyfriend Embarassing?

Jake’s been recovering from surgery with nonstop movie marathons, while I got upsold by a ... more

10 Nov 2025

56 MINS

56:17

10 Nov 2025


#504

What If You Haven’t Been Loved the Way You Deserve Yet?

Heidi Friedman (@lovelessons104) went on 104 dates before finding the love of her life — a... more

06 Nov 2025

47 MINS

47:02

06 Nov 2025


#503

What Running The NYC Marathon Actually Felt Like

I trained for months dreaming of the NYC Marathon finish line… and instead found myself si... more

05 Nov 2025

1 HR 26 MINS

1:26:35

05 Nov 2025


#502

What Healthy Intimacy Actually Looks Like (& How To Built It)

Most of us never learned how to talk about sex—so we assume everyone else just figured it ... more

04 Nov 2025

56 MINS

56:04

04 Nov 2025


#501

Why Men Are Getting Dating Wrong—And What Women Actually Want

Dating advice is everywhere, but most of it is useless. From ghosting after a “perfect” da... more

30 Oct 2025

59 MINS

59:14

30 Oct 2025