This Is Actually Happening podcast

This Is Actually Happening

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What if you were trafficked into a cult...or were mauled by a grizzly bear...or were stabbed 27 times by a serial killer - what would you do? This is Actually Happening brings you extraordinary true stories of life-changing events told by the people who lived them. From a man who woke up in the morgue to a woman stranded in a Mexican desert fighting to survive, these stories will have you on the edge of your seat waiting to hear what happens next. Listen to exclusive episodes of This is Actually Happening ad-free by joining Wondery+ in the Wondery App, Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Start your free trial by visiting [wondery.com/links/this-is-actually-happening/] (https://wondery.com/links/this-is-actually-happening/) now.

What if you were trafficked into a cult...or were mauled by a grizzly bear...or were stabbed 27 times by a serial killer - what would you do? This is Actually Happening brings you extraordinary true stories of life-changing events told by the people who lived them. From a man who woke up in the morgue to a woman stranded in a Mexican desert fighting to survive, these stories will have you on the edge of your seat waiting to hear what happens next. Listen to exclusive episodes of This is Actually Happening ad-free by joining Wondery+ in the Wondery App, Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Start your free trial by visiting [wondery.com/links/this-is-actually-happening/] (https://wondery.com/links/this-is-actually-happening/) now.

 

#245

344: What if you spent 7 years in a Thai prison?

After developing a severe heroin addiction as a teenager, a woman winds up incarcerated in Thailand, facing unimaginable conditions. Today’s episode featured Holly Deane-Johns. You can email her at [admin@hollydeanejohns.com.au] (mailto:admin@hollydeanejohns.com.au) or [holly@hollydeanejohns.com.au] (mailto:holly@hollydeanejohns.com.au) . Holly’s Socials Facebook: @hollydeanejohns Instagram: @hollydeanejohns LinkedIn: [Holly Deane-Johns - Motivational Speaker - Self-employed | LinkedIn] (https://www.linkedin.com/in/holly-deane-johns-15b11429b) Holly Deane-Johns is a motivational speaker with lived experience of heroin addiction and recovery. She grew up in the well-to-do Perth suburb of Mount Lawley and heroin addiction entered her family’s life after her parents separated. She was first arrested at the age of 20 and she has spent a total of 17 years in prisons in Australia and Thailand for drug crimes. She has been drug-free since 2001. Three members of her family lost their lives to heroin overdoses. Holly is a qualified youth worker and counsellor who has suffered from severe PTSD. She shares her story to help others to overcome addictions and trauma. WEBSITE: [ https://www.hollydeanejohns.com.au/] (https://www.hollydeanejohns.com.au/) BOOK: Holly's Hell: Seven Years in a Thai Prison Podcast guestings and events here: [https://www.hollydeanejohns.com.au/news-and-events] (https://www.hollydeanejohns.com.au/news-and-events) Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz Content/Trigger Warnings: heroin/drug abuse and addiction, death due to drug overdose, suicide & suicide attempts, domestic violence/abuse, child SA, arrest, prison, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter/X: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Aviva Lipkowitz: [avivalipkowitz.com] (http://avivalipkowitz.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Uncertain Outcomes Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

17 Dec 2024

1 HR 01 MINS

1:01:45

17 Dec 2024


#244

Listen Now: A Fine Mess in conversation with Whit Missildine

On this special episode, we’re featuring A Fine Mess’s conversation with Whit Missildine and host Sabrina Merage Naim. Created by our friends at Evoke Media, this new podcast was recently named a “must-listen” by The Guardian and Apple Podcasts. On A Fine Mess, venture capitalist and philanthropist Sabrina Merage Naim interviews expert guests about the most thought-provoking topics of our time. On this show, understanding replaces assumptions and commonalities replace divides. Along the way, Sabrina helps listeners learn how to better approach difficult conversations and foster tolerance and inclusivity. On this episode, Whit shares with Sabrina what he's learned from years of listening to people's deeply personal, life-changing stories on his podcast. He then shares how the lessons he's learned from others helped him through his own near-death experience. Most importantly, they discuss how we can gain these valuable insights without experiencing a traumatic event. Listen to more episodes of A Fine Mess and follow the podcast:<a href="https://link.chtbl.com/uZ_Oqv_c?sid=gravy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"></a> [https://link.chtbl.com/tgng-Yvh?sid=tiah] (https://link.chtbl.com/tgng-Yvh?sid=tiah) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

16 Dec 2024

47 MINS

47:10

16 Dec 2024


#243

343: What if you were caught in a spiral of violence?

A young woman, haunted by anxiety, cycles through toxic relationships, culminating in a harrowing witness to a lover's final act. Today’s episode featured Julianne. You can reach out to her at [rosejulianne00@gmail.com] (mailto:rosejulianne00@gmail.com) . Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic abuse/violence, gun violence, suicide by gun, divorce, extra-maritial affair, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Jason Blalock: [jasonblalock.com] (http://jasonblalock.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Union Flow Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

10 Dec 2024

53 MINS

53:53

10 Dec 2024


#242

342: What if you suffered decades of excessive punishment?

After robbing an undercover police officer, a bright, ambitious kid faces a life sentence in prison, and after enduring 31 years of confinement, uses his freedom to help others find theirs. Today’s episode featured William Palmer. If you want to reach out to him, you can email him at [williammpalmer2@gmail.com] (mailto:williammpalmer2@gmail.com) . If you’d like to Support William's Fight for Justice & Advocacy, please find his GoFundMe here: [https://gofund.me/14b9126f] (https://gofund.me/14b9126f) For more information about William’s non-profit, please visit [www.lifeafternext.org/home] (http://www.lifeafternext.org/home) You can also find William on: Instagram: @cafe.revolution.podcast TikTok: @soulbrotha9 LinkedIn: [Here] (https://www.linkedin.com/in/william-palmer-947855183?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app) Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock Content/Trigger Warnings: child sexual assault allegation, assault, gunfire, gunshot/bodily injury, racism, incarceration/prison, sodomy, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Jason Blalock: [ jasonblalock.com] (http://jasonblalock.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Re-Entry Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

03 Dec 2024

58 MINS

58:09

03 Dec 2024


#241

341: What if you had an unquenchable thirst for danger?

A man, who grew up seeking danger and adventure, pursues greater and greater risks despite many losses and his own brushes with death. Today’s episode featured Kerry McCauley. You can reach out to him at [kerrymccauley@hotmail.com] (mailto:kerrymccauley@hotmail.com) or [kerrymccauley.com] (http://kerrymccauley.com/) , or on his socials: Instagram @kerry_d_mccauley Facebook @Kerry D McCauley YouTube @kerryDmccauley Kerry has written two best selling books: "Ferry Pilot" and "Dangerous Flights". He is also one of the main pilots on the Discovery docuseries: "Dangerous Flights". Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock Content/Trigger Warnings: death by accident, plane crash, skydiving accident/death, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Jason Blalock: [ jasonblalock.com] (http://jasonblalock.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Cylinder Four Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

26 Nov 2024

56 MINS

56:55

26 Nov 2024


#240

340: What if you kept knocking at death’s door?

A man, scarred by a troubled childhood, finds comfort in alcoholism, but when he faces a terrifying, violent encounter with two strangers, his addiction deepens, ultimately leading to a tragic accident that forces him to confront his past and forge a new identity. Today’s episode featured Tom. You can reach out to him at metzie04@yahoo.com. Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Forrest Chiras Content/Trigger Warnings: alcohol use/abuse, child custody, divorce, robbery, grievous bodily harm, stranger danger, boating accident, medical scenes including death or near dying, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Forrest Chiras: [https://linktr.ee/stegoforrest] (https://linktr.ee/stegoforrest) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Ambient Themes Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

19 Nov 2024

49 MINS

49:11

19 Nov 2024


#239

Listen Now - REDACTED: Declassified Mysteries with Luke Lamana

Behind the closed doors of government offices and military compounds, are hidden stories and buried secrets from the darkest corners of history. Each week, Luke Lamana, a Marine Corp Reconnaissance Veteran, pulls back the curtain on what once was classified information exposing the secrets and lies behind the world’s most powerful institutions. From the hitmakers at Wondery and Ballen Studios, we bring you REDACTED: Declassified Mysteries with Luke Lamana. The stories are real, and the secrets are shocking. Listen Now: [http://wondery.fm/REDACTED] (http://wondery.fm/REDACTED) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

18 Nov 2024

07 MINS

07:00

18 Nov 2024


#238

339: What if someone gave up everything to save you?

Haunted by the chaos of her family and teenage years, a young woman finally finds refuge and belonging in a solid new group of friends, but after a camping trip ends in tragedy, she must find a new pathway to acceptance. Today’s episode featured Kristen Smith. You can reach out to Kristen at [kristendsmith2@gmail.com] (mailto:kristendsmith2@gmail.com) or on Instagram @kristendsmith_ You can also find out more about her and what she does at kristendawnsmith.com. Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Cathy Sitzes Content/Trigger Warnings: child SA, abuse, teen kidnapping, drowning, death, grief, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Cathy Sitzes: cathysitzes.com Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Uncertain Outcomes Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

12 Nov 2024

59 MINS

59:22

12 Nov 2024


#237

338: What if you thought you got away with it?

Growing up a lonely latchkey kid, a young boy numbs himself with drugs and alcohol, but after one night of binging, a surge of violent rage changes his life forever, spiraling from depths of depravity to the heights of redemption. Today’s episode featured Patrick Hibbard. If you would like to reach out to Patrick, you can email him at [patrickhibbard4@gmail.com] (mailto:patrickhibbard4@gmail.com) . To learn more about a network in which he finds support, please visit ficgn.org (Formerly Incarcerated College Graduates Network), and a network he supports because of their amazing work isfromprisoncellstophd.org (From Prison Cells to Phd). Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Sara Marinelli Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic abuse, divorce, drug and alcohol use/abuse, intravenous drug use,murder & death, incarceration, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Sara Marinelli: [saramarinelli.com] (http://saramarinelli.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Union Flow Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

05 Nov 2024

57 MINS

57:37

05 Nov 2024


#236

337: What if they delighted in your misery?

A self-described geek finds his voice as a sci-fi author and amasses an audience on social media, but after he posts a seemingly innocuous tweet, a hoard of internet stalkers fixate on destroying his life. Today’s episode featured Patrick S. Tomlinson. If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email him at [patrickstomlinson@gmail.com] (mailto:patrickstomlinson@gmail.com) , or you can find him on Twitter@stealthygeek, on Threads @pstomlinson and on Blue Sky @stealthygeek.bsky.social Visit [www.patrickstomlinson.com] (http://www.patrickstomlinson.com/) to find out more information about Patrick and his books. Producers: Whit Missildine Content/Trigger Warnings: cyber stalking, physical stalking, gun violence, suicide/suicidal ideation, infidelity & divorce, pregnancy, threats of suicide, threats of violence, threats of murder, elder pet (no harm), CPTSD, authoritarianism, lawsuit, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Re-Entry Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

29 Oct 2024

51 MINS

51:26

29 Oct 2024


#235

336: What if you escaped a polygamous cult?

A woman born into the notorious Mormon cult, Church of the Firstborn, grows up in constant fear of their fatal practice of “blood atonement”, but after suffering under the oppression of her husband and caretaking his multiple wives, she plots a daring international escape. Today’s episode featured Pamela Jones. If you’d like to reach out to her, you can email her at hello@pamelaspeaks.live, or you can find her on Instagram @pamela_speaks Visit pamelaspeaks.live to find out more about her life as an author, speaker and coach. She also has another project about the hypocrisy, secrecy and scandals of the cult: wickedconfessionsuncensored.com. Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz Content/Trigger Warnings: cult, religious abuse/trauma, polygamy/plural marriage, child bride/child marriage, abuse, fraud, blood atonement/death, murder (religious & cartel), the afterlife, poverty, birth control, rape/sexual coercion, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Aviva Lipkowitz: [avivalipkowitz.com] (http://avivalipkowitz.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Cylinder Four Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

22 Oct 2024

1 HR 00 MINS

1:00:48

22 Oct 2024


#234

335: What if you were left for dead?

After rising as a teenage drug dealer in Oklahoma, a man joins a larger operation after meeting his soulmate and shadowy chemist, but as his power grows, he becomes a guinea pig in an underworld much darker than he bargained for. Today’s episode featured Brandon Andres Green. If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email him at [brandonAndresGreen@gmail.com] (mailto:brandonAndresGreen@gmail.com) , or you can find him on Facebook or on Instagram at BrandonAndresGreen. Brandon's story came to us by way of Amy Chesler. Amy is a storyteller featured as our guest in Episode 303. You can find her book Working for Justice on Amazon. Amy also has her own podcast, What Came Next, which chronicles in greater depth her experiences with the criminal justice system and the media, as well as other firsthand accounts from survivors and advocates throughout history. You can also find her on Instagram @amybchesler, and on her website [amybchesler.com] (http://amybchesler.com/) . A special thanks to Amy for referring today's guest. Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Jason Blalock Content/Trigger Warnings: childhood sexual curiosity/touching, teen drug use, religious guilt, guns, grievous bodily assault and injury, explicit bodily injury, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Jason Blalock: [jasonblalock.com] (http://jasonblalock.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

15 Oct 2024

1 HR 03 MINS

1:03:35

15 Oct 2024


#233

334: What if your parachute didn’t open?

After coming out and finding self-acceptance, a man faces his greatest physical and emotional struggle yet when a celebratory skydive takes a terrifying turn. Today’s episode featured Brad Guy.If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email him at [hello@bradguy.com] (mailto:hello@bradguy.com) , or you can find him on Instagram and TikTok @bradjguy. Visit bradguy.com to order his memoir “Freefall” and to book him for speaking engagements. Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz Content/Trigger Warnings: childhood obesity, being in the closet, self-hatred, serious accident,serious bodily injury, falling from a plane, parachute malfunction, death, suicidal ideation, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Aviva Lipkowitz: [ avivalipkowitz.com] (http://avivalipkowitz.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Uncertain Outcomes Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

08 Oct 2024

52 MINS

52:28

08 Oct 2024


#232

333: What if you saw the black mass of death?

After facing years of abuse, a determined woman dedicates her life to the pursuit of success, becoming a renowned broadcaster, fundraiser and cyclist; but after a grueling, multi-continental bike ride, she faces ultimate darkness, forcing her to confront the deepest wounds of all. Today’s episode featured Charlie Webster. If you’d like to reach out to her, you can visit her website at [charliewebster.com/contact] (http://charliewebster.com/contact) or you can find her on Instagram @charliewebster, on Twitter @charliecw or on TikTok @charlieaswebster. She has a new book called “Why It's Ok To Talk About Trauma” which you can find onAmazon or her website charliewebster.com. She also has an ABC TV docuseries premiering on October 9th, which is based on her podcast, Scamanda. The docuseries has the same name. Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz Content/Trigger Warnings: domestic abuse, child abuse, sexual abuse, suicide, severe physical illness, blood, coma, near death experience, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Aviva Lipkowitz: [ avivalipkowitz.com] (http://avivalipkowitz.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Union Flow Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

01 Oct 2024

1 HR 00 MINS

1:00:15

01 Oct 2024


#231

332: What if the worst was yet to come?

After healing from a major trauma as a teenager, featured in Episode 111 of this show, our storyteller returns to share a dramatic follow up. In this episode, in the wake of his grandmother’s death, he begins taking a volatile medication cocktail and suffers a severe manic break, living on the streets among society’s most disregarded, confronting his deepest shadows and being forced to piece his life back together once again. Today’s guest requested to remain Anonymous. If you want to reach out to him, please email him at jraffinot@gmail.com. Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz Content/Trigger Warnings: drug use, death, grooming, sexual exploitation, sexual assault & rape, manic break/manic behavior, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Aviva Lipkowitz: [ avivalipkowitz.com] (http://avivalipkowitz.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Re-Entry Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

24 Sep 2024

55 MINS

55:28

24 Sep 2024


#230

What if you had to relearn who you are?? [Rebroadcast #111]

A teenage boy comes of age through an eclectic mentor, but ends up in the arms of a predator. Producer:Whit Missildine Social Media:Instagram: @actuallyhappening Website: [www.thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Support the Show:Support The Show on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Shop at the Store:The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [www.actuallyhappeningstore.com] (http://www.actuallyhappeningstore.com/) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Content/Trigger Warnings:explicit language Intro Music:""Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed:"Cylinder Four" "Cylinder Five" - Chris Zabriskie Outro Music:"The Moon is Down" - El Diablo & Adam Schraft (Rojo y Negro) @ [eldiablosf] (https://soundcloud.com/eldiablosf) @ [rojo-y-negro] (https://soundcloud.com/rojo-y-negro) [www.eldiablobass.com/] (http://www.eldiablobass.com/) Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline:1-800-273-8255 National Alliance on Mental Illness:1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Crisis Text Line:Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

20 Sep 2024

40 MINS

40:13

20 Sep 2024


#229

331: What if you killed the wrong person?

Growing up in poverty with an absent father, a boy finds family in a gang, but after his best friend is murdered, he unravels into a spiral of rage, violence, prison, and ultimately, an unexpected forgiveness. Today’s episode featured Chris Diep. If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email him at [chrisdiep2023@gmail.com] (mailto:chrisdiep2023@gmail.com) , or you can find him on LinkedIn as Christopher Diep. Special thanks to Yoana Tchoukleva for bringing us Chris's story. Producers:Whit Missildine, Andrew Wait, Aviva Lipkowitz Content/Trigger Warnings:Vietnam war, graphic violence, gang violence, familial separation, drug use, robbery, prison, death of a parent, death of a child, racism, suicide, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Aviva Lipkowitz: [avivalipkowitz.com] (http://avivalipkowitz.com/) Support the Show:Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus:All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service.To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store:The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts:Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music:"Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: “Cylinder Four” - Chris Zabriskie Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline:Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness:1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

17 Sep 2024

57 MINS

57:26

17 Sep 2024


#228

330: What if your son was murdered at Sandy Hook?

An ambitious mother settles with her two sons into the quiet, idyllic life of her dreams, but after losing her son in a massacre that shakes the nation, she dedicates her life to carrying on her son’s message of love. Today’s episode featured Scarlett Lewis. Scarlett founded the Choose Love Movement after her six-year-old son, Jesse, was murdered during the Sandy Hook Elementary School tragedy in December 2012, which remains one of the worst mass shootings in U.S. history. Through the Choose Love Movement, Scarlett teaches everyone from young children to prison inmates how to deal with feelings of anger before they escalate into violence. The Choose Love curriculum has been accessed in over 14,500 schools across 120 countries. Scarlett is the author of two best-selling books: Nurturing Healing Love: A Mother’s Journey of Hope & Forgiveness, and From Sandy Hook to the World: How the Choose Love Movement Transforms Lives. If you’d like to learn more about Scarlett, you can find her on Instagram @ChooseLoveMovement, on Twitter/X @ChooseLoveM, on Facebook @JLChooseLove and on her website: chooselovemovement.org, or email: info@jesselewischooselove.org Scarlett’s story came to us by way of Todd Rennebohm. Scarlett was originally featured on Todd's podcast, Bunny Hugs and Mental health, which focuses on conversations with survivors, professionals and families of those who have lost someone to mental illness and addictions. So please check out Bunny Hugs and Mental Health, and a special thanks to Todd for referring today's guest. Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits, Aviva Lipkowitz Content/Trigger Warnings: divorce, guns/gun violence, suicide, homicide, murder, school shooting, death, death of children, funeral, Sandy Hook, Sandy Hook denier, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [ andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Website for Aviva Lipkowitz: [avivalipkowitz.com] (http://avivalipkowitz.com/) Support the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus: All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service. To access the full catalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [ thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music: "Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed: Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

10 Sep 2024

1 HR 04 MINS

1:04:19

10 Sep 2024


#227

What if you were on the 68th floor? [Rebroadcast #203]

A Port Authority employee narrowly escapes from the 68th floor after a plane hits the World Trade Center on September 11th, 2001, but the most devastating impact comes from the psychological wounds that haunt her life for decades after. Today's episode featuredKaylaBergeron. In addition toserving as chief of public and government affairs for The Port Authority of New York and New Jersey,Kaylahas also served in senior roles for the New York State Housing Finance Agency and South Florida Water Management District, the lead agency restoring America's Everglades. Kaylacurrently resides in Suwanne, Georgia and serves as Program Director, and as a Certified Peer Support Specialist -Addictive Disease (C.P.S.- A.D.), for The Connection Forsyth, a 501c3 non profit recovery community organization, based in Cumming, Georgia.Kaylaworks as a social media consultant for Special Equestrians of Georgia, in Milton, Georgia, also a 501c3 non profit, where she participates in equine-assisted therapy. Kaylarecently started a gofundme for Special Equestrians of Georgia, where she receives equine-assisted therapy for PTSD. Last year, Special Equestrians of Georgia (SEG), based in Milton, GA, had to close down its hippotherapy program due to COVID-19 and safety concerns. As a result, many of the horses had to be rehomed. Currently, SEG provides equine-assisted therapy for teens and adults with mental health challenges, including depression, PTSD, anxiety and trauma. With COVID-19 Delta variant hovering, Special Equestrians of Georgia may be forced to shut down its doors -- for good. It costs approximately $3,000 to fund the program, which includes feeding and special dietary needs, farrier, veterinarian, medicine and facility maintenance. Please help by donating to Special Equestrians of Georgia. This episode is part of a special, four-part series called The Long Shadow. Twenty Years after the attacks of September 11th changed the world as we knew it, this month the This Is Actually Happening podcast dives deep into the stories of four survivors whosejobs brought them face to face with the unthinkable. For those called to manage an impossible tragedy up close, the events of September 11th represented a uniquely horrifying challenge.Among the harrowing details of that day,we explorethe long shadows of trauma and resilience that continueto inform the looming uncertainties that remain with us today. Producers:Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Content/Trigger Warnings:violence, sexual assault, injury, terrorism, mention of suicide, alcoholism, addiction, mental illness explicit language Website: [www.thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [www.andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Wondery Plus:All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service.To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [https://wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Support the Show:Support The Show on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Shop at the Store:The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts:Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music:"Illabye" – Tipper Music and Sound Design by:Marcelino Villalpando Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline:1-800-273-8255 National Alliance on Mental Illness:1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Crisis Text Line:Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

03 Sep 2024

50 MINS

50:34

03 Sep 2024


#226

What if a horrifying loss led to a grand adventure? [Rebroadcast #179]

A horrific accident leaves a man severely disabled, but after hitting rock bottom in his recovery a new life opens he could never have imagined Today’s episode featured Dustin Reynolds. Since this interview, Dustin has made it down to Colombia, and is planning on heading to Panama, Galapagos, and Polynesia before returning to Hawaii. To find out more about Dustin, see pictures and follow his journey or donate to help him complete the voyage, go to thesinglehandedsailor.com. You can follow him on Instagram and Facebook @thesinglehandedsailor. You can also support him on Patreon and GoFundMe: Patreon: [https://www.patreon.com/thesinglehandedsailor] (https://www.patreon.com/thesinglehandedsailor) GoFundMe: [https://www.gofundme.com/f/hngchb-support-the-single-handed-sailor] (https://www.gofundme.com/f/hngchb-support-the-single-handed-sailor) Producers:Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Content/Trigger Warnings:car crash, severe injury, amputation, explicit language Website: [www.thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [www.andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Wondery Plus:All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service.To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [https://wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Support the Show:Support The Show on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Shop at the Store:The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts:Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music:"Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed:“Cylinder Four/Cylinder Five” - Chris Zabriskie Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline:1-800-273-8255 National Alliance on Mental Illness:1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Crisis Text Line:Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

27 Aug 2024

49 MINS

49:55

27 Aug 2024


#225

What if your cry for help led to an unthinkable tragedy? [Rebroadcast #173]

A mother faces the ultimate tragedy at the hands of those who are supposed to protect and serve. Today’s episode featured Taun Hall. To find out more about Taun and Miles and the Miles Hall Foundation, go to [justiceformileshall.org] (http://justiceformileshall.org/) . There you can see the video mentioned in the episode, donate to the campaign, learn more about the case or get involved. You can also join the community on Instagram @justiceformileshall or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/justiceformileshall Producers:Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Content/Trigger Warnings:mental illness, racism, violence, murder, police brutality, explicit language Website: [www.thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Andrew Waits: [http://andrdewwaits.com/] (http://andrdewwaits.com/) Wondery Plus:All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service.To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [https://wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Support the Show:Support The Show on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Shop at the Store:The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts:Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music:"Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed:“Re-Entry” – Lee Rosevere Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline:1-800-273-8255 National Alliance on Mental Illness:1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Crisis Text Line:Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

20 Aug 2024

44 MINS

44:20

20 Aug 2024


#224

What if you couldn't stop shining? [Rebroadcast #189]

Growing up in a home of abandonment and neglect, a teenager finds a grand, new reality in the rabbit hole of addiction until they can no longer find their way back. Today’s guest prefers to remain anonymous, but if you’d like to reach out to them, you can email at [artichoke.heart456@gmail.com] (mailto:artichoke.heart456@gmail.com) Producers:Whit Missildine, Andrew Waits Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Content/Trigger Warnings:psychosis, drug use, child neglect, childhood trauma, explicit language Website: [www.thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Andrew Waits: [www.andrdewwaits.com] (http://www.andrdewwaits.com/) Wondery Plus:All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service.To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [https://wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Support the Show:Support The Show on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Shop at the Store:The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts:Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music:"Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed:“Enter the Lair/Drone” – SkyeVoyager [https://linktr.ee/SkyeVoyager] (https://linktr.ee/SkyeVoyager) Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline:1-800-273-8255 National Alliance on Mental Illness:1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Crisis Text Line:Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

13 Aug 2024

47 MINS

47:07

13 Aug 2024


#223

What if you faced the monster in the mirror? [Rebroadcast #215]

Growing up in the projects and a broken home, a man learns survive on the streets through dealing drugs and brutal violence, when a desperate moment leaves him with a choice that changes everything. Today’s episode featured Kenneth Ginlack, Sr. Kenneth has been the Director of Outpatient Programs for Milwaukee County Behavior Health Division (BHD), an ad-hoc instructor at the University of Wisconsin Continuing Education extension program, president of the board of directors for Revive Youth and Family Services, and a board member for SALS Recovery Houses and Coaching. Kenneth is now Chief Executive Officer (CEO) of Serenity Inns. You can find out more about Kenneth by going to kgsctc.com Producers:Whit Missildine Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Content/Trigger Warnings:explicit violence, gun violence, domestic abuse,drug use, drug addiction, suicide, murder, explicit language Website: [www.thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Support the Show:Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus:All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service.To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store:The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts:Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music:"Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed:Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline:1-800-273-8255 National Alliance on Mental Illness:1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Crisis Text Line:Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

06 Aug 2024

1 HR 01 MINS

1:01:07

06 Aug 2024


#222

The 82 Percent: Podcast Live Event at Mannys

This episode is a recording of a live event held at Manny’s in San Francisco on July 24th, 2024. In this live recording of the event, Whit Missildine hosts conversations with two of the storytellers in the 82 Percent series, David Jay and Koe Creation, as well as with members of the Modern Family Institute including Lily Lamboy, Heath Schechinger and Marlon Williams. If you’d like to find out more about the Modern Family Institute, donate to help advance their work, or get engaged, please visit their website, [modernfamilyinstitute.org] (http://modernfamilyinstitute.org/) . Producers:Whit Missildine Content/Trigger Warnings: sexual themes, explicit language Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Website: [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Support the Show:Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus:All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service.To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store:The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts:Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music:"Illabye" – Tipper Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline:Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness:1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):1-800-656-HOPE (4673) See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

01 Aug 2024

1 HR 48 MINS

1:48:02

01 Aug 2024


#221

What if they died in your hands? [Rebroadcast #220]

An obstetrician must find healing and forgiveness after an unexpected tragedy opens old wounds. Producers:Whit Missildine, Jason Blalock Social Media: Instagram: @actuallyhappening Twitter: @TIAHPodcast Content/Trigger Warnings:sexual molestation of a minor, incest,death, infant death, pregnancy trauma, medical trauma, explicit language Website: [www.thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Website for Jason Blalock:jasonblalock.com Support the Show:Support The Show on Patreon: [patreon.com/happening] (https://www.patreon.com/happening) Wondery Plus:All episodes of the show prior to episode #130 are now part of the Wondery Plus premium service.To access the fullcatalog of episodes, and get all episodes ad free, sign up for Wondery Plus at [wondery.com/plus] (https://wondery.com/plus) Shop at the Store:The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: [thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop] (https://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop) to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts:Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, [thisisactuallyhappening.com] (http://www.thisisactuallyhappening.com/) Intro Music:"Illabye" – Tipper Music Bed:Ambient Themes by Nigel Coutinho Services If you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline:1-800-273-8255 National Alliance on Mental Illness:1-800-950-6264 National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN):1-800-656-HOPE (4673) Crisis Text Line:Within the US, text HOME to 741741 See Privacy Policy at [https://art19.com/privacy] (https://art19.com/privacy) and California Privacy Notice at [https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info] (https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info) . ... Read more

30 Jul 2024

52 MINS

52:04

30 Jul 2024