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What Drives You with Kevin Miller podcast

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What Drives You with Kevin Miller

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  Kevin Miller | YAP Media  

From host Kevin Miller: When I was 7 years old and got out of line, my parents would give me an “attitude adjustment” and make me listen to motivational speakers like Zig Ziglar. I didn’t appreciate it at the time but the experience gave me awareness of how powerful our minds and outlook on life are. I went on to become a pro athlete, have 9 kids, start 17 businesses and become addicted to performance and production. Till I burnt out. Multiple times. That started a quest to not just pursue performance, but to uncover my true potential which was far more than just what I did. It became about who I was and could be. I started podcasting as host of The Ziglar Show, in a stroke of irony. After countless conversations with the most influential thought leaders on the planet, I wrote a book called What Drives You to look at what we really want and understanding why we want it. I now host a podcast of the same name, What Drives You. I’ve had deep talks with over 270 experts in the Human Potential Movement and my shows have had over 70 million downloads. I’ve walked with well over 1,000 people as they pursue their own personal evolution. Today I don’t seek out the most popular leaders, but the most knowledgeable. I find the professors teaching classes, the therapists counseling with patients and the researchers in labs who understand what causes us to transform in today’s world. And what keeps us stuck. We don’t need more ideas. We need better understanding. I’m pursuing my own personal growth and evolution and invite you to learn and grow with me. Join me on the What Drives You podcast.

From host Kevin Miller: When I was 7 years old and got out of line, my parents would give me an “attitude adjustment” and make me listen to motivational speakers like Zig Ziglar. I didn’t appreciate it at the time but the experience gave me awareness of how powerful our minds and outlook on life are. I went on to become a pro athlete, have 9 kids, start 17 businesses and become addicted to performance and production. Till I burnt out. Multiple times. That started a quest to not just pursue performance, but to uncover my true potential which was far more than just what I did. It became about who I was and could be. I started podcasting as host of The Ziglar Show, in a stroke of irony. After countless conversations with the most influential thought leaders on the planet, I wrote a book called What Drives You to look at what we really want and understanding why we want it. I now host a podcast of the same name, What Drives You. I’ve had deep talks with over 270 experts in the Human Potential Movement and my shows have had over 70 million downloads. I’ve walked with well over 1,000 people as they pursue their own personal evolution. Today I don’t seek out the most popular leaders, but the most knowledgeable. I find the professors teaching classes, the therapists counseling with patients and the researchers in labs who understand what causes us to transform in today’s world. And what keeps us stuck. We don’t need more ideas. We need better understanding. I’m pursuing my own personal growth and evolution and invite you to learn and grow with me. Join me on the What Drives You podcast.

 

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#1449

Expectations: How To Have High Expectations & Not Disappoint Yourself

The topic of expectations continues to come up as I talk with people in the human potential movement. As an aspiring person who would be listening to a podcast like this, of course you have some positive expectations for yourself. And yet I’d say the enemy of expectations is disappointment. So how do we have high expectations but not set ourselves up for disappointment? I’m bringing back a podcast from when I did The Ziglar Show, with Christine Hassler. Christine made expectations a focus and wrote a book called, Expectation Hangover: Free Yourself From Your Past, Change your Present and Get What you Really Want. Right off the bat you’ll hear Christine say, “Managing your expectations is not about lowering your standards.” Christine Hassler is the best-selling author of multiple books. She left her successful job as a Hollywood agent to pursue a life she could be passionate about. She is a keynote speaker, retreat facilitator, spiritual psychologist and life coach, and host of the top-rated podcast “Over it and On With It”, www.christinehassler.com Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

18 hrs Ago

1 HR 04 MINS

1:04:39

18 hrs Ago

#1448

Introducing Elevate with Robert Glazer

Robert Glazer is an award winning entrepreneur, best selling author and host of The Elevate Podcast with Robert Glazer. The show is very much in the spirit of What Drives You with a business focus, and I hope you'll check it out. ... Read more

19 hrs Ago

02 MINS

02:15

19 hrs Ago

#1447

Non-Productive Activities: Can Help You Be More Productive

Wrapping up this series on productivity that started with my conversation with Israa Nasir about the message in her book, Toxic Productivity: Reclaim Your Time and Emotional Energy in a World That Always Demands More, I’m looking at un-productive activities. But it’s not just idle time and entertainment. Think of it more like play, which may be a foreign term for you at this point in life. I want to look at activities that aren’t necessarily producing anything, you are just doing them to do them and for the joy and energy they give you. And looking at how they can fuel to be actually be more productive overall. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

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#1446

Busyness: Is Your Busyness Attracting Or Repelling People?

I continue to ponder the message from Israa Nasir in her book, Toxic Productivity: Reclaim Your Time and Emotional Energy in a World That Always Demands More. And I’m thinking about the people in and around my life and what attracts me to some and not others. And I’m realizing that the really busy people, even if they might seem important, don’t inspire me to pursue them. And the people that are more available, I innately have more respect and desire for. Which has me looking at myself and considering how I come off to others and how I’m probably limiting my opportunities for relationships and connection. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

20 Nov 2024

13 MINS

13:22

20 Nov 2024

#1445

Proving Ourselves: Who We Are Trying To Impress & Why

In my previous episode with Israa Nasir we talked about the message in her book, Toxic Productivity: Reclaim Your Time and Emotional Energy in a World That Always Demands More. Looking at being addicted to productivity and busyness, I want to look at our motives. To a degree, I feel we are often trying to prove ourselves. Prove our worth. Why? Well, our self-worth must be in question. And who are we trying to prove it to? Others, or ultimately, ourselves?  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

19 Nov 2024

14 MINS

14:35

19 Nov 2024

#1444

Toxic Productivity: How To Detach Your Self-Worth From How Much You Produce w/ Israa Nasir

I think we’re all well aware that our culture has fallen into the idea of being busy is being important. But I’ll admit that even in trying to shed this, I still find myself busy. I just agree to things without counting the cost. But then I find myself struggling mentally with bitterness and burnout and I just want to escape. So when this book, Toxic Productivity: Reclaim Your Time and Emotional Energy in a World That Always Demands More, came across my desk, I was eager to have the author on. Israa Nasir is a New York City-based psychotherapist, writer, and the founder of WellGuide—a digital community for mental health awareness. She has a big following on Instagram at well.guide. In her focus on Toxic Productivity she tries to dismantle the myth that “doing more makes you more worthy,” and this is where I dig in with her in this show. My primary interest was how we associate our identity with what we do, and Israa and I really landed a lot on intention, asking ourselves why we do all we do? What is the outcome we are expecting and what need of our own are we trying to fulfill. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

18 Nov 2024

1 HR 55 MINS

1:55:18

18 Nov 2024

#1443

Invest In You: Spend 3-5% Of Your Income On Your Personal Growth w/ Dan Miller

I pay attention to shows people refer to, and often in talking about spending money on our personal growth, people will ask me, “What was it your Dad used to say? What percent should you spend on your personal growth?” The answer is 3-5%. My Dad was Dan Miller, famed author of 48 Days To The Work & Life You Love. In 2017 he published a blog at 48days.com titled, ““Your Success is Guaranteed – If You Do This.” In it he cited Brian Tracy who turned him on to the idea, saying that successful people we all listen to and follow habitually invest at least 3-5% of their income directly toward their personal growth. Many spend far more. And as you’ll hear, what follows is your income generally increases as a result and you’re able to spend more and more each year. I greatly appreciate the tangible metric. If you make $7,000 per month, you can be looking for $350 to spend on your personal growth every month. So I’ve brought back this episode with my Dad, back from when I hosted The Ziglar Show, which you’ll hear us reference. You can still find all the gold my Dad has to offer at 48days.com Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

15 Nov 2024

1 HR 00 MINS

1:00:42

15 Nov 2024

#1442

Threat: When Are You Really At Risk Physically & Psychologically?

Anxiety is a feeling of fear, dread, or uneasiness that can be a normal reaction to stress. So, what is stress? Stress is a natural response to a perceived threat or challenge that can cause mental or physical tension. The only reason we would feel stress and anxiety is because we feel a threat. Threat is when we feel an intention to inflict pain, injury, damage, or other hostile action. I’ve been looking at myself for a while and asking why I feel threatened? I expect that very few people listening to this are often, if ever, in physical threat. When you are, anxiety is a wonderful and appropriate signal to act in self-protection. However. What about when the threat is not physical? When it’s psychological? What is being threatened? I was recently given some insight on this by a therapist, which I’ll share next.  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

14 Nov 2024

15 MINS

15:53

14 Nov 2024

#1441

Symptomatic Society: How & Why To Address The Core Issues & Find Wellness

I believe this world and this life is at the core, truly beautiful and glorious. And, we have some very concerning trends to address. Health care is the number one GNP in America. We spend more money, not on our health, but our unhealth, than on anything else. Why? Lifestyle. Just do the research. It’s not happening to it, we are doing it to ourselves. A very unpopular perspective, but in truth, isn’t that the best news? You have power, otherwise you are claiming victimhood. Healthcare in America has become sick-management. And we address the symptoms. Even cancer, which my Dad just died of, is a symptom. We try to beat cancer and don’t ask…what is causing cancer. We create a new drug to treat every growing problem, without asking why the problem exists and keeps growing. Let’s ask. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

13 Nov 2024

14 MINS

14:15

13 Nov 2024

#1440

Anxious Food: Sugar & Caffeine Are Not The Only Culprits

Let’s take a quick look at foods in regards to anxiety. And I’ll admit up front, I don’t like the messages that put the food and drink I like in their cross hairs. Food is just about my favorite drug. I love loving it. And I don’t abstain from the foods I like. But I might moderate the amounts or the timing. Let’s take a quick look at some food and drink issues I’ve experienced causing issues with anxiety. My muse is from the conversation in the last episode with MD, holistic psychiatrist, acupuncturist, and yoga teacher Ellen Vora, and her new book, The Anatomy of Anxiety: Understanding and Overcoming the Body's Fear Response. Find the book anywhere and find her on IG @ellenvoramd  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

12 Nov 2024

15 MINS

15:41

12 Nov 2024

#1439

Anxiety: It's Not All In Your Head But Probably On Your Plate Or Your Screen w/ Ellen Vora

Anxiety is the new norm, and conventional medicine tends to view anxiety as a “neck-up” problem - that is, one of brain chemistry and psychology. So all the treatments are focused there. At the mind. At calming our minds. Getting calm. I agree with those, as part of the treatment. But what about our overall health? How does it factor in? My guest cites that the origins of anxiety are rooted in the body. Ellen Vora is an MD with her B.A. from Yale, a holistic psychiatrist, acupuncturist, and yoga teacher. She takes a functional medicine approach to mental health, considering the whole person and addressing imbalance at the root. Ellen offers a paradigm shift in our understanding of anxiety and mental health, suggesting that anxiety is not simply a brain disorder but a whole-body condition. It’s coming just as much from what we eat and how much we move and what we watch, as a neck up chemical imbalance. More actually. She has a book titled The Anatomy of Anxiety: Understanding and Overcoming the Body's Fear Response, which is my initial muse for this conversation. Find the book anywhere and find Ellen at [instagram.com/ellenvoramd/] (https://www.instagram.com/ellenvoramd/) Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

11 Nov 2024

1 HR 57 MINS

1:57:51

11 Nov 2024

#1438

Personal Accountability: This May Be The Ultimate Goal For A Successful Life w/ John Miller

We begin life with built in accountability. We have our caregivers, maybe siblings, then we go to school and have teachers. Hopefully we have close friends. Eventually we have bosses. We may have a spouse or significant other. Even our children can be a source of accountability to how we behave and how we live our lives. But at the core, the greatest source of accountability is from ourselves. If the only thing holding us in line is those in our lives, it’s somewhat artificial. Twenty years ago John Miller wrote a book called QBQ! The Question Behind the Question: Practicing Personal Accountability at Work and in Life. It literally became a classic in the business world, but the message is for all of us as individuals. I sat down with John some years back, along with Tom Ziglar, and we dug into what had made the message so popular and equipping. John said QBQ gets to the core of success: ourselves. Our actions and behaviors and responsibility. You can connect with John at QBQ.com. This conversation will give you insight into a core accountability you haven’t fully grasped and leveraged. The accountability with yourself. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

08 Nov 2024

1 HR 01 MINS

1:01:55

08 Nov 2024

#1437

Resonate vs Integrate: Considering What Actually Changes Us

When I wrote my book, What Drives You, I initially impressed myself with the width and depth of my knowledge, drawing on the messages and resources of the 250 leaders in human development I’d had on this show. This is my 1500th episode. I’d gotten exposed to more incredible information that most will in 5 lifetimes. Then it also dawned on me that with so many of the great messages and insights…I hadn’t done anything with them. It was wisdom I hadn’t implemented. I hadn’t changed. Working with a client the other day I was referencing a book I was rereading, seeing my notes from a couple years ago, and told her, “I see my notes, and the message obviously resonated with me, but I didn’t integrate it into my life. Let’s talk about this for a moment. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

07 Nov 2024

12 MINS

12:21

07 Nov 2024

#1436

Values: What Would A Week's Video Of You Show About Your Values?

Every Friday I meet with three guys at a coffee shop to talk about life. Our lives. Last week we were talking about our values. I asked, “If you were videotaped for a week, would it show you were supporting what you say you value?" A couple of the guys were really impacted by the concept. I've heard aspects of this idea before and you normally follow it with questioning if your values are really what you say they are. But, I think our values are generally solid, we just often fail to make supporting them a true priority. Let's walk through the Ziglar Wheel of Life and consider what values we are and are not supporting. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

06 Nov 2024

14 MINS

14:50

06 Nov 2024

#1435

Peace: Do You Even Want It Or Is It Boring?

In the last show I talked with licensed therapist and renowned relationship expert, Nedra Glover Tawwab. Her new book is called, Consider This: Reflections For Finding Peace. As I chew on the message, I’m wondering if “finding peace” is honestly attractive to people. Before my mid forties, if you’d tried to entice me with the hope of finding peace, I’m not sure I would have given you much attention. The prior 25 years I spent going full tilt. Anxiety was fine. I think I thought it was even fun. And yet it was in my mid 40s that I started experiencing the consequences of a lack of peace. The question is then, what is your relationship with peace? And it’s opposite, anxiety? Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

05 Nov 2024

12 MINS

12:36

05 Nov 2024

#1434

A Therapist’s Attempt To Find Daily Peace For Herself and Millions Of Others w/ Nedra Glover Tawwab

Nedra Glover Tawwab is the author of the New York Times bestsellers Drama Free and Set Boundaries, Find Peace and I’ve had her on this show to talk about the messages in both of those books. Boundaries specifically is an area I greatly struggle with. Nedra is a licensed therapist and renowned relationship expert and has appeared as an expert on The Red Table Talk, The Breakfast Club, Good Morning America, and CBS This Morning, to name a few. She has a popular Instagram account @ [nedratawwab] (https://www.instagram.com/#) with over 1.8 million followers and recently spent a year posting what she called, daily nuggets, with the goal of uplifting, supporting and guiding her audience deeper into themselves. But what she revealed was that her primary muse was herself. These writings were what she needed to hear and hold onto for herself. She created a book from the entire year called, Consider This: Reflections For Finding Peace. The book has no chapters and is more like a daily devotional for peace. As you’ll hear at the top of our discussion, I feel like the book is an antidote for anxiety. I literally started at the first page and just started pulling out topics that resonated with me. We covered topics such as being aware of the energy we feel from others and guarding ourselves against negative energy. The benefit of making new friends and questioning some of our old friends. Paying attention to the signs when our peace is eroding and Nedra talked about an eye twitch she gets that’s a tell tale sign for her.. When it's appropriate to share about yourself. The difference between a grudge and a boundary. When is anxiety warranted? I think you’ll be inspired and equipped. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

04 Nov 2024

1 HR 29 MINS

1:29:35

04 Nov 2024

#1433

Love vs Respect: When & How Do You Lead With Which? w/ Dr Emmerson Eggerich

Love & Respect. This is a book that first published in 2004. 20 years ago. I just looked at Amazon and it’s ranked at #885 in all books right now. All. Why is the book so popular? Because it resonates so much with so many people. This week we’ve talked about peacemaking and respect and I thought it relevant to bring this episode back where I talked with the one and only, Dr Emmerson Eggrichs, author of Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs. Please don’t get hung up on the gender aspects. We all desire levels of love and respect. The point Emmerson makes in the book is how they are different and you’ll find some people who feel and speak more towards love or respect and recognizing this will help you understand and connect with people better, especially those closest to you. In this episode I was joined by Tom Ziglar, CEO of Ziglar and son of Zig Ziglar, as we questioned and learned from the master…Dr Emmerson Eggerichs. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

01 Nov 2024

1 HR 22 MINS

1:22:03

01 Nov 2024

#1432

Bias: How To Get Educated Instead Of Just Being Confirmed

I’m sure you’re aware that the online world is working to get your attention and cater to your desires. But I don’t think many are aware how far the online world is going to cater to your bias and desires. When you type into google or a search engine, it’s feeding you information that is altered to cater to you. When you go look at the news, it may be including or omitting content based on your interests and history. At the end of the day, any online source makes money by catering to you. This is their job. I don’t see it as a conspiracy but just a reality that money leads business. And I don’t see it as a terrible thing in and of itself, but what it ends up doing is feeding us what we want. Not the truth, but what we want. And this skews our lives by having our biases constantly confirmed, and to be truly educated, we need our perspectives questioned and challenged. Let’s look at how. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

31 Oct 2024

13 MINS

13:55

31 Oct 2024

#1431

Knowledge: Does It Make Sense To Be Knowledgeable On Every Issue?

As a guy who has focused too much of his life on doing and producing, I am acutely aware that everything I say yes to, everything I give attention to, has a cost. Something else doesn’t get done. Something else doesn’t get attention. There is only so much time in a day and so much space in my brain. In my recent show with Steven T. Collis, law professor at the University of Texas-Austin and one of the nation’s leading thought leaders on the First Amendment and civil discourse, he hits on this in the first chapter of his book, Habits of a Peacemaker: 10 Habits to Change Our Potentially Toxic Conversations into Healthy Dialogues. Habit One in his book is, Intellectual Humility and Reframing and the first sentence of the chapter says, “Most of us need to recognize that, most of the time, we don’t know what we’re talking about.” I’m giving focus to all the issues in our culture. All the front page headlines and stories. All the social media topics. All the current political topics. How on earth are we expected to be on top of them all, and know enough to have a staunch opinion and stance? Let’s look at giving ourselves permission to not know so much about everything.  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

30 Oct 2024

14 MINS

14:43

30 Oct 2024

#1430

Respect: How To Know When It’s Not Deserved

In the last episode I talked with Steven T. Collis, law professor at the University of Texas-Austin and one of the nation’s leading thought leaders on the First Amendment and civil discourse. He just wrote a book, Habits of a Peacemaker: 10 Habits to Change Our Potentially Toxic Conversations into Healthy Dialogues. Steven’s focus is not upholding people’s rights and enforcing law. It’s helping people connect, and remain connected even when they disagree. At the end of the day I felt Steven leading us to the benefit for ourselves and others, or being respectful no matter what. Notice I didn’t say “giving respect,” but being respectful. It’s about you, not them. If I ask most religious people, under what condition would they renounce their beliefs, many would adamantly state, “None! I’d never do it!” Or if I asked many people in America under what conditions would they vote for the other party, they’d say, “Never!” So let me ask, “Under what conditions should you not give respect?” I’m afraid most everyone has a list. Let’s talk about it. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

29 Oct 2024

13 MINS

13:22

29 Oct 2024

#1429

10 Habits Of A Peacemaker: Being Right vs Making A Difference with Steven T. Collis

The First Amendment. Freedom of religion, speech, press, assembly, and petition. It is meant to protect our freedom of religion, speech, press, assembly, and petition. On this show I sit down with Steven T. Collis. Steven is a law professor at the University of Texas-Austin. He’s a former research fellow at Stanford Law School and is the founding faculty director of the Bech-Loughlin First Amendment Center and is one of the nation’s leading thought leaders on the First Amendment and civil discourse. When there are issues and conflict around First Amendment rights, Steven is one of the first people called in by our nation. He recently wrote a book and the title itself reveals something profound to me. The title of the book is Habits of a Peacemaker: 10 Habits to Change Our Potentially Toxic Conversations into Healthy Dialogues. What does it say about how our culture is treating the First Amendment when one of it’s leading experts doesn’t write a book about what the First Amendment is or how to follow it, but instead speaks instead to the heart of human conflict around people’s conflict with each other? Steven takes his expertise and platform to address what he feels is more important than legalities and right, and goes to where he feels the most hope is. The heart. Habit One in his book is titled, Intellectual Humility and Reframing, and starts off with this statement, “Most of us need to recognize that, most of the time, we don’t know what we’re talking about.” It just gets better. I’m having all my kids listen to this so we can discuss it together. I’d like everyone to hear this before the next election, and I’d recommend giving Steven’s new book, Habits of a Peacemaker: 10 Habits to Change Our Potentially Toxic Conversations into Healthy Dialogues to everyone for Christmas. Actually, give it to them before Thanksgiving and reduce the family tensions by 95%. We argue and make things worse instead of making a difference. Let’s you and I be different.  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

28 Oct 2024

1 HR 53 MINS

1:53:05

28 Oct 2024

#1428

Hope: Your Future Success Equals The Size Of Your Hope w/ Zig Ziglar

Think about that statement - Your Future Success Equals The Size Of Your Hope. First, how do we define hope? The most common definition is: a feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen. Do you expect good things? The opposite of hope is despair. And I’d say, pessimism. Cynicism. And expectation of poor outcomes. It’s what I think of when you complain about something and someone responds with, “Right?!” As if to confirm negative outcomes. Where are you on the scale from complete despair to complete hope? So now imagine if someone offered you $1,000 for every percentage of hope you had inside you. And today you’re at, say 25%. A cool $25,000. You can take that all the way up to 89% and $89,000. But if you hit 90%, you get a million. How would you conduct your life and steer your mental trajectory? What you’re about to hear is a 13 minute clip from Zig Ziglar. One of the most hopeful people I’ve ever encountered. He was possibly the world’s greatest purveyor of hope. A few episodes ago you heard me have a conversation with Seth Godin, who cites Zig as one of his greatest mentors ever, and I felt it was a good time to give Zig some airtime. I believe the following 13 minutes with Zig is worth its weight in gold. Following Zig’s talk I’m joined by his son and longtime CEO of Ziglar, Tom Ziglar, to discuss hope further. I’m bringing back this recording from one of my first podcasts when I was host of The Ziglar Show, from 2016. It still remains one of the most downloaded episodes we ever had on The Ziglar Show. This is an absolute classic. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

25 Oct 2024

56 MINS

56:01

25 Oct 2024

#1427

Want: What We Want & How To Offer Others What They Want

To wrap up this series on strategy, there is no need for a strategy and systems and improvement unless there is something that we want. In my conversation with Seth Godin talking through the messages in his new book, This Is Strategy: Make Better Plans, as he focused on marketing, he said there are 3 things people want. Which means, they are the same three things we want. I found it to be a needed reminder as I try to serve an audience, and…I am an audience, for the world. I’ll take you through them in a moment. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

24 Oct 2024

12 MINS

12:04

24 Oct 2024

#1426

Improvement: The 3 Options To Improve Our Lives

Two episodes ago I talked with renowned influencer, Seth Godin about the message in his new book, This Is Strategy: Make Better Plans. In it he tells a story that points out two options for changing our strategy. I've added a third that I feel he would agree with. Let me tell you a story Seth shared and we'll contemplate what options suit us best in the key areas of life we want to improve. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

23 Oct 2024

12 MINS

12:18

23 Oct 2024

#1425

Systems: We Have One. If We Want Different Results We Must Alter Our Systems

Like you, I’ve worked hard to gain more knowledge. Create healthy habits. And I’ve seen results. From this, I really want to wake up, have a good day, and have everything in my life progress. I get healthier. I get wealthier. My relationships just get richer. I feel spiritually connected. My work is more fulfilling. I'm more peaceful and joyful. What I find however, is that things plateau. Maybe stagnate, or even start eroding. Changing systems in my life often created good change and progress. Until they didn’t. And as I hold on to them, I live out the definition of insanity; doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. W. Edwards Deming famously stated, “Every system is perfectly designed to get the result that it does.” Even if a system gave positive results, if it’s not now, then…it’s not. And “it” won’t change until we change. What does that look like? Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

22 Oct 2024

12 MINS

12:00

22 Oct 2024

#1424

Strategy: How To Understand & Create A User Friendly Strategy For Business & Life w/ Seth Godin

I’ve grown up in the human potential movement and world of entrepreneurship. Having a goal, which I refer to as a destination, is paramount, as if we don’t know where we are going, we can never get there. However, to get there, you need a strategy. We generally think we have one, but we very often misinterpret what a real, effective strategy is. So I have for you…the expert. Seth Godin. Seth is known as one of the most pervasive voices in the business world, but just as many people follow him for personal insight. I know so many people who have read his daily blog for well over a decade. Seth has a discerning perspective on a meaningful life and a business that matters and succeeds.. Seth was one of my first guests when I hosted The Ziglar Show, as he cites Zig Ziglar as one of the most influential mentors of his life, again, personally and professionally. I recently sat down with Seth to talk about strategy and as usually, he popped a lot of myths about what is and isn’t strategy. He has culminated it in a new book called, This Is Strategy: Make Better Plans. As you’re about to hear, he asks as many great questions as he makes great statements. He asks, “If we don't have a strategy, what do we have?” He says, “A strategy isn’t a map—it’s a compass,” and I think you’ll want to hear how he clarifies this. I asked him where we most miss out on what an actual strategy is. And while the topic is headlined as strategy, Seth gives a lot of focus to systems that work. Again, in our personal lives and in our work. Again, the brand new book is This Is Strategy: Make Better Plans, and you’re going to hear some of the headline topics I wanted to learn more about.  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

21 Oct 2024

1 HR 20 MINS

1:20:04

21 Oct 2024

#1423

How To Limit Your Roles In Relationships & Let Go Of Bitter Giving with Laura Tremaine

To wrap up this focus on doing too much and how we run ourselves ragged, I’m looking at our relationships, from family to friends and in our work, with a focus on how we tend to be all things for all people and we do a disservice to ourselves and others. So I’m sharing a show I did with Laura Tremaine. Laura is host of the 10 Things To Tell You podcast and author of Share Your Stuff. I’ll Go First. Laura worked in film and television production for many years at MTV, VH1, Fox, and Paramount Pictures before pursuing writing full time. She writes primarily to women about friendship, anxiety, motherhood, and marriage. But her book, The Life Council: 10 Friends Every Woman Needs, got my attention a couple years ago and I refer to it often. She focused on the niche for women but I resonated completely as a guy. In it she profiles different friend styles and the benefit of having friends for specific needs. It hit a chord for me as I had become concerned with our growing cultural isolation and tendency to look at one friend or family member or our spouse to fulfill all our relational needs. And conversely, how others will look to us to fulfill all their relational needs. And we can’t. And we shouldn’t. And we not only end up doing too much, but fulfilling roles in the relationships in our lives that drain us and aren’t even serving those we care about that well. I think you’ll get great value from this talk with Laura Tremaine as you address you may be doing too much in your life. Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

18 Oct 2024

1 HR 24 MINS

1:24:21

18 Oct 2024

#1422

Key Signs You Might Be Drunk On Responsibility

As I wrap up this series on doing too much, I’m looking at the issue of responsibility. I was a superhero of responsibility. I did it all. No limits. No excuses. People were awed at how much I took care of. Until…I couldn’t. It reminds me of the attribute of being able to hold your liquor. It was a sign of strength, how many shots or beers you can have and still function. Which mainly means you’ve built up a tolerance to a toxin. How is that something to be proud of? This is what I did with responsibility and I’m thinking many of you can relate. I’ve got a concept to walk you through that I think will give you freedom from and a desire to divest yourself of some responsibilities.  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

17 Oct 2024

14 MINS

14:00

17 Oct 2024

#1421

How To Separate What You Do From Who You Are

Imagine meeting someone new and them asking, “So, who are you?” Instead of, “What do you do?” How would you even answer? Famed author Donald Miller writes about attending a therapy retreat and for the first three days nobody could share what they did vocationally. He said it was excruciating not to be able to tell people he was a successful author, and he realized how much his identity was wrapped around his roles. I never knew myself outside of what I did, until…far too recently. Here I’m going to unpack some thoughts around this concept.  Sign up for a $1/month trial period at [shopify.com/] (http://shopify.com/) kevin Go to [shipstation.com] (http://shipstation.com/) and use code KEVIN to sign up for your FREE 60-day trial Get 20% off your first probiotic membership order at [pendulumlife.com/drivesyou] (http://pendulumlife.com/drivesyou)  Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to [Kajabi.com/kevin] (http://kajabi.com/kevin) Go to [cozyearth.com/driven] (http://cozyearth.com/driven) and use code DRIVEN for an exclusive 40% discount Join thousands of parents who trust Fabric to protect their family. Apply in minutes at [ meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU] (http://meetfabric.com/WHATDRIVESYOU) . If you're concerned about OCD, visit NOCD.com to schedule a free 15-minute call with their team. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

16 Oct 2024

13 MINS

13:42

16 Oct 2024