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The Jordan Harbinger Show

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Jordan Harbinger

(Apple's Best of 2018) In-depth conversations with people at the top of their game. Jordan Harbinger unpacks guests' wisdom into practical nuggets you can use to impact your work, life, and relationships. Learn from leaders (Ray Dalio, Simon Sinek, Mark Cuban), entertainers (Moby, Tip "T.I." Harris, Dennis Quaid), scientists (Neil deGrasse Tyson, Bill Nye), athletes (Kobe Bryant, Dennis Rodman, Tony Hawk) and an eclectic array of fascinating minds, from art forgers and arms traffickers to spies and psychologists.

#1107

1106: Amanda Ripley | The Secrets to Surviving an Unthinkable Disaster

Want to survive a disaster? [The Unthinkable] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593796721/?tag=jordanharbing-20) author Amanda Ripley explains why knowing your neighbors matters more than hoarding supplies. What We Discuss with Amanda Ripley: ---Contrary to popular belief, people rarely panic in disasters. Instead, the biggest challenge is often lethargy and denial — people tend to freeze or remain passive rather than exhibit chaotic behavior. This denial phase can be deadly as it delays taking necessary action. ---In most disasters, the people who save lives are regular civilians, not first responders (who often can't arrive quickly enough). However, this dynamic is being threatened by declining trust — not just in institutions, but between neighbors and community members. ---Our risk assessment is driven more by emotion ("dread") than rational calculation. This explains why people often fear the wrong things — like choosing to drive instead of fly, even though driving is statistically much more dangerous. ---In disasters, humans experience significant sensory and cognitive impairments: vision can narrow by up to 70%, people can temporarily lose sight or hearing, and time perception becomes distorted. This is why having prior training and clear protocols is crucial. ---The good news is that disaster response skills can be learned through simple, practical steps: Practice box breathing (4 counts in, hold 4, out 4, hold 4) to stay calm under stress, take free CERT (Community Emergency Response Team) training in your area, and create basic emergency plans like identifying exits in buildings you frequent. These small preparations can make a huge difference in a crisis. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1106] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1106) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

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#1106

1105: DNA | Skeptical Sunday

From criminal cases to designer babies, DNA is reshaping humanity's future. [Michael Regilio] (https://www.instagram.com/michaelregilio/) unravels this double helix of discovery on Skeptical Sunday! Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition ofThe Jordan Harbinger ShowwhereJordanand a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and [podcaster] (https://www.michaelregiliocomedy.com/podcast) Michael Regilio! On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss: <ul> <li>DNA is simultaneously microscopic and massive in scale — while coiled up tightly in each cell's nucleus, if you unraveled all the DNA in a single human body and laid it end-to-end, it would stretch to the sun not once, but 600 times! This mind-bending fact perfectly illustrates how we're all walking around with an astronomical amount of genetic information packed into our cells.</li> <li>The ethical implications of DNA databases are more complex than a double helix — even if you never take a genetic test yourself, your relatives' DNA decisions can expose your genetic information. It's like playing genetic poker where someone else can accidentally show your hand. This raises serious concerns about privacy, insurance discrimination, and how genetic information could be weaponized by bad actors.</li> <li>CRISPR technology has opened Pandora's genetic toolbox — while it offers incredible potential for treating diseases like sickle cell anemia, it also enables the possibility of "designer babies" and genetic enhancements that could create new forms of social inequality. We're essentially writing code for humans now, but without a clear user manual for the consequences.</li> <li>DNA evidence has revolutionized criminal justice — but it took decades to establish proper standards and protocols. From its first use in catching Colin Pitchfork (whose villainous name seems almost too on-the-nose) to modern genetic genealogy solving cold cases, DNA has become the ultimate witness that never forgets and never lies.</li> <li>Understanding and working with DNA is becoming increasingly accessible and beneficial — from personalized medicine to ancestry exploration to crop improvements, we all have opportunities to engage with and benefit from DNA science. By staying informed about genetic advances while thoughtfully considering their implications, we can help shape a future where this powerful technology serves humanity's best interests rather than our darker impulses.</li> <li>Connect with Jordanon [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) , and [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/c/THEJORDANHARBINGERSHOW) . If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at [jordan@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:jordan@jordanharbinger.com) and let him know!</li> <li>Connect with Michael Regilioat [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/Michaelregilio1) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/michaelregilio/) , and<a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpXvzUcF00hUwrjKkABEjpQ?view_as=subscriber"... ... Read more

19 Jan 2025

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19 Jan 2025

#1105

1104: Rich Abuser Admits Crime But Won't Spare a Dime | Feedback Friday

Religious pressure to forgive meets decades-old family assault. When the perpetrator has wealth but won't aid healing, what's next? It's Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger ( [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) ) and Gabriel Mizrahi ( [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) ) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) . Now let's dive in! On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss: ---Your cousin and her daughter were both sexually assaulted by members of the same family, decades apart. Now the perpetrator is wealthy, dismissive, and unwilling to help with therapy costs while flaunting his success. There's a complex web of family dynamics and religious pressure to "forgive and forget" — but should justice have an expiration date? [Thanks to attorney [Corbin Payne] (https://twitter.com/the_sue_chef) for helping us answer this one!] ---You're facing a performance review where you'll need to discuss a new company protocol that's making your work less efficient and more demanding. The change wasn't your supervisor's call, but you'll have to navigate this diplomatic minefield carefully. How do you voice concerns without burning bridges? ---Your brother lives five minutes away but weaponizes access to your beloved niece, only allowing visits when it suits him. He claims you're "obsessed" with her and don't care about him — though your relationship was strained long before she arrived. Is there a solution you're not seeing, or are you destined to watch her grow up from a distance? ---Recommendation of the Week: [The Sun-a-Wear UV Tracker] (https://sun-a-wear.us/) ---Your tech startup is opening a new office in your hometown, presenting a golden opportunity for growth. But as you attend networking events filled with CTOs and investors, imposter syndrome is hitting hard. You want to make meaningful connections but feel you have nothing to offer these power players. Could you be more valuable than you think? ---Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) ! ---Connect with Jordan on Twitter at [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) and Instagram at [@jordanharbinger] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) . ---Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) andInstagram [@gabrielmizrahi] (https://www.instagram.com/gabrielmizrahi/) . Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1104] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1104) <a... ... Read more

17 Jan 2025

1 HR 29 MINS

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17 Jan 2025

#1104

1103: Marcel Dirsus | How Tyrants Fall and Nations Survive

What can a country do to shake its pesky dictator problem? [How Tyrants Fall] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/1399809482/?tag=jordanharbing-20) author Marcel Dirsus is here to explain why it's difficult but not impossible! What We Discuss with Dr. Marcel Dirsus: ---Dictators are trapped on what Dr. Marcel Dirsus calls "the dictator's treadmill" — they can't safely step down because they've committed too many crimes to retire peacefully, but must keep running to survive. Statistics show 69% of dictators end up imprisoned, exiled, or killed. ---Dictators weaken their own militaries through "coup-proofing" — creating multiple competing security forces and promoting based on loyalty rather than competence. While this helps prevent coups, it makes their forces less effective against external threats. ---Natural resources like oil and diamonds help dictators maintain power because they can generate wealth without requiring an educated population or competent administrators. This allows them to focus on loyalty over capability in their government. ---Most dictators who fall (about 80%) are replaced by new dictators rather than democracies. Simply removing a dictator often leads to civil war or another authoritarian regime rather than democratic reform. ---There are effective, peaceful ways to gradually weaken dictatorships and empower democracy, such as supporting independent journalism, providing communication networks, and training civil society groups. These methods have historically helped create positive change without the catastrophic risks of violent intervention. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1103] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1103) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

14 Jan 2025

1 HR 25 MINS

1:25:27

14 Jan 2025

#1103

1102: College vs. Trades | Skeptical Sunday

Want to make bank without the bank breaking you? Anglo-Saxon poetry enthusiast [Nick Pell] (https://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/author/nicholas-pell) weighs trades against degrees on this week's Skeptical Sunday! On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss: ---While college graduates earn more on average ($77,000/year) compared to trade school graduates ($67,000/year) and high school graduates ($47,000/year), this comes with significant student loan debt — averaging $37,000 for a bachelor's degree. ---There's a severe shortage of skilled trade workers in America, with examples like a deficit of 500,000 plumbers and an anticipated shortage of 1.9 million manufacturing jobs, suggesting strong job security and demand in these fields. ---Advanced degrees show diminishing returns — a master's degree costs an average of $65,000 and only provides about a 16% salary increase, while a doctorate costs $127,000 for grad school alone with relatively modest income gains. ---The college versus trade school decision isn't purely financial — it should factor in personal aptitudes, desired lifestyle, and how someone wants to spend roughly one-third of their adult life working. ---There are multiple paths to success, and you can make informed choices by: taking a "gap year" to work and explore interests, completing general education requirements at more affordable community colleges, researching program costs versus expected salaries, and considering apprenticeships which have doubled since 2013 and offer paid training opportunities. ---Connect with Jordanon [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) , and [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/c/THEJORDANHARBINGERSHOW) . If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at [jordan@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:jordan@jordanharbinger.com) and let him know! Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1102] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1102) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro?<a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/"... ... Read more

12 Jan 2025

1 HR 00 MINS

1:00:28

12 Jan 2025

#1102

1101: Church, Steeple, and the Trafficked People | Feedback Friday

That slick businessman who bought your local church? His "art gallery" promises are looking more like a front for something sinister. It's Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger ( [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) ) and Gabriel Mizrahi ( [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) ) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) . Now let's dive in! On This Week's Feedback Friday: ---You live next to a historic church that was recently sold to a charismatic businessman with grand plans for an art gallery. But whispers of human trafficking and suspicious activities are swirling through your small town like autumn leaves. What's really happening behind those hallowed walls? ---You're locked out of your house, and the locksmith who finally shows up hits you with a bill that could buy a small yacht. But the real lock that needs picking? Your paralyzing fear of conflict. How do you build the backbone to stand up for yourself? ---Your neurodivergent 12-year-old son has been running a thriving business from your condo lobby, delighting residents with his entrepreneurial spirit. But now the building board is throwing bureaucratic thunderbolts his way. Can creativity trump red tape? ---You're crushing your career even on four hours of sleep with a six-month-old at home. But now you're caught in that classic new-parent paradox: how to keep climbing the corporate ladder while changing diapers? There's got to be a way to have it all, right? ---Recommendation of the Week: On Call ---A successful executive shares a story about dinner table epiphanies, early morning trains, and the cosmic calculus of how we spend our precious time. What he learned about the mathematics of moments will make you reconsider your own life's algorithm. ---Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) ! ---Connect with Jordan on Twitter at [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) and Instagram at [@jordanharbinger] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) . ---Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) andInstagram [@gabrielmizrahi] (https://www.instagram.com/gabrielmizrahi/) . Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1101] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1101) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider... ... Read more

10 Jan 2025

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10 Jan 2025

#1101

1100: James Patterson | Building the Architecture of Addictive Fiction

From advertising exec to America's storyteller-in-chief: prolific author [James Patterson] (https://www.jamespatterson.com/) shares his blueprint for turning creative chaos into literary gold. What We Discuss with James Patterson: ---Highly prolific author James Patterson maintains success through daily consistency — writing 350-365 days per year, getting up at 5:30 a.m., and viewing his work as "playing" rather than working. This dedication has led to over 400 million books sold. ---James' creative process involves extensive outlining (60-80 pages) but staying flexible within that structure. He keeps multiple projects (around 30) going simultaneously and moves between them if he gets stuck on one. ---James' breakthrough moment came when he realized he was "on the wrong side of the highway" — stuck in advertising traffic heading to a job he didn't want, while watching others freely driving in the opposite direction. This led him to leave his successful advertising career to write full-time. ---James' writing philosophy focuses on respecting the reader's time by following Leonard Elmore's advice to "leave out the parts people skip" and ensuring each chapter compels readers to turn the page. He emphasizes storytelling over showing off literary prowess. ---Anyone can improve their writing and creativity by breaking tasks into manageable pieces: if you're stuck, skip to another section and come back later; don't get too attached to any particular piece of writing; and remember that first drafts don't need to be perfect — you can always revise and refine your work as you go along. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1100] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1100) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

07 Jan 2025

1 HR 07 MINS

1:07:26

07 Jan 2025

#1100

1099: Syria | Out of the Loop

Assad fled, rebels took over, and Syria changed overnight. Intelligence analyst [Ryan McBeth] (https://www.ryanmcbeth.com/) maps out who won, who lost, and what's next on Out of the Loop! Welcome to what we're calling our "Out of the Loop" episodes, where we dig a little deeper into fascinating current events that may only register as a blip on the media's news cycle and have conversations with the people who find themselves immersed in them. On This Episode of Out of the Loop: ---After over a decade of civil war, Syrian President Bashar al-Assad fled to Moscow when his regime collapsed following a rapid 10-day offensive at the end of 2024. The collapse was accelerated by Hezbollah withdrawing forces to fight Israel, leaving Assad's already weak army severely undermanned. ---The new controlling force in Syria is HTS (Hayat Tahrir al-Sham), led by Hamed al-Golani. While HTS was formerly affiliated with Al-Qaeda, they have since distanced themselves and are showing potentially moderate tendencies, focusing on restoring basic services rather than implementing strict religious law. ---Turkey emerged as a major winner in this scenario, having strategically supported various rebel groups that helped bring down Assad's regime. Meanwhile, Russia and Iran are significant losers - Russia lost important Mediterranean naval access, and Iran lost a crucial supply route to Hezbollah in Lebanon. ---The Syrian civil war involved over 70 different factions, but they could be broadly categorized into three main anti-Assad groups: Islamist groups (like HTS), Kurdish groups (supported by the US), and moderate opposition groups. This complex web of alliances and conflicts made the situation particularly difficult to resolve. ---Despite the country's painful history, Syria has immense potential for rebuilding and renewal. The country was historically known for its rich culture, welcoming people, incredible food, and archaeological treasures. The current focus on restoring basic services and apparent willingness of different factions to cooperate suggests that with proper support and governance, Syria could begin healing and rebuilding its vibrant society. ---Connect with Jordanon [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) , on [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) , and on [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/c/THEJORDANHARBINGERSHOW) . If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on an Out of the Loop episode, drop Jordan a line at [jordan@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:jordan@jordanharbinger.com) and let him know! ---Connect with Ryan McBeth at his [website] (https://www.ryanmcbeth.com/) , [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/RyanMcbeth) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/therealryanmcbeth/) , and on [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@RyanMcBethProgramming) . If you'd like to stay on top of what's happening in the world, [subscribe to Ryan's Substack] (https://ryanmcbeth.substack.com/) ! Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1099] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1099) <a... ... Read more

05 Jan 2025

1 HR 04 MINS

1:04:42

05 Jan 2025

#1099

1098: Sanctioned Spank Sparks Sibling Split | Feedback Friday

Your sister gave you permission to spank her son. Now she's calling you a child abuser and diving deep into conspiracy theories. Welcome to Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger ( [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) ) and Gabriel Mizrahi ( [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) ) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) . Now let's dive in! On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss: ---You spanked your nephew once after he kicked your daughter, with your sister's prior permission. Now she's calling you a child abuser, your mother's caught in the middle, and there's a fascinating twist involving QAnon, church expulsions, and a high-profile abuse case. How does one find the way through this labyrinth of family dysfunction? ---Picture teaching 100 ESL students daily in a crowded hallway (yes, a hallway!) with no walls, while six precious years stand between you and a cushy pension. Your Etsy side hustle brings joy, but those morning tears on the commute tell a different story. What's the escape route from this educational pressure cooker? ---As a pastor and Army Reserve high-ranker, you counsel others through their darkest hours. But your 16-year-old daughter's bipolar diagnosis, self-harm history, and manipulative behaviors are testing your limits in ways no pastoral training could prepare you for. How do you help someone who refuses to be helped? ---Recommendation of the Week: Use AI in your everyday life. ---For 16 years, you lived in the shadow of narcissistic manipulation, watching your self-esteem erode like a sand castle in rising tide. Now that you've escaped, your ex-wife is spinning tales that would make Scheherazade blush, and you're left wondering: how do you rebuild your truth when someone else has been writing your story? ---Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) ! ---Connect with Jordan on Twitter at [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) and Instagram at [@jordanharbinger] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) . ---Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) andInstagram [@gabrielmizrahi] (https://www.instagram.com/gabrielmizrahi/) . Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1098] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1098) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including... ... Read more

03 Jan 2025

1 HR 26 MINS

1:26:33

03 Jan 2025

#1098

1097: Husband's Networking Involves Topless Twerking | Feedback Friday

Between the corporate ladder and the stripper pole lies your husband's idea of networking. Time to redefine some boundaries? Welcome to Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger ( [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) ) and Gabriel Mizrahi ( [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) ) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) . Now let's dive in! On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss: ---Your husband attended a "networking event" at a hotel that gradually evolved into something more...exotic. As the night wore on and clothes came off, he stayed for seven hours, claiming "this is just how men do things sometimes." Is maintaining professional connections worth the cost to your marriage? And was this event really as "surprising" as he claims? ---Your elder brother has a history of using you as his personal fall guy, and now he's sending bizarrely inappropriate gifts to your daughter — including items she's severely allergic to. When confronted, he laughs it off as mistakes and jokes. With shared power of attorney over your aging parents, how do you handle a sibling who might not just be clueless, but calculating? ---Follow-up from [episode 973] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/kids-not-possessed-she-just-needs-a-safe-nest-feedback-friday/) : After a lifetime of trying to be the perfect Indian daughter while falling in love with a British man, you've finally made your decision. With packed bags and a sedated cat, you're about to drop the bombshell on your traditional parents. How does one navigate the delicate dance between cultural expectations and personal truth? ---Recommendation of the Week: Tailored clothes. ---End-of-year reflections on the doozies, dumpster fires, and delights that came our way in 2024! ---Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) ! ---Connect with Jordan on Twitter at [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) and Instagram at [@jordanharbinger] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) . ---Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) andInstagram [@gabrielmizrahi] (https://www.instagram.com/gabrielmizrahi/) . Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1097] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1097) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including... ... Read more

27 Dec 2024

1 HR 34 MINS

1:34:35

27 Dec 2024

#1097

1096: Ali Abdaal | The Hidden Economics of Creative Success Part Two

[Feel-Good Productivity] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/1250865034/?tag=jordanharbing-20) author Ali Abdaal breaks down the real keys to sustainable success and authentic relationship building! [Part 2 of 2 — [find Part 1 here] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/ali-abdaal-the-hidden-economics-of-creative-success-part-one/) !] What We Discuss with Ali Abdaal: ---The Money-Time Paradox: The wealthiest people aren't always the happiest, especially when they become prisoners of their own possessions. As one billionaire demonstrated, owning 15 empty houses isn't freedom — it's just collecting very expensive headaches. The real wealth is having the autonomy to choose how you spend your hours. ---The Parenting Reality Check: Having kids changes everything in ways no amount of warning can prepare you for. It's like evolution has installed a cosmic memory filter that prevents parents from fully conveying just how intense it is — probably because if we truly knew, humanity would've stopped at cave paintings. ---The Two-Career Tango: Couples where both partners work intensely demanding jobs often face more stress than those where one partner has flexibility. It's not just about the money — it's about having someone with the bandwidth to manage life's endless parade of squeaky doors and donation runs. ---The "Freedom Investment" Principle: Financial freedom isn't about sipping mojitos on a beach — it's about having the ability to reinvest that freedom into what truly matters, like being present for your kids' early years or having the flexibility to take July off without asking anyone's permission. ---Here's something actionable you can do today: Run your numbers! Use a compound calculator to figure out your long-term financial runway. You might discover you're actually in a better position than you thought, and that knowledge alone can transform your relationship with work and time. As Jordan found out, you don't need to win the Powerball to feel secure — you just need to know your actual numbers. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1096] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1096) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

26 Dec 2024

1 HR 01 MINS

1:01:22

26 Dec 2024

#1096

1095: Ali Abdaal | The Hidden Economics of Creative Success Part One

[Feel-Good Productivity] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/1250865034/?tag=jordanharbing-20) author Ali Abdaal breaks down the real keys to sustainable success and authentic relationship building! [Part 1 of 2] What We Discuss with Ali Abdaal: ---High performers commonly experience imposter syndrome, but awareness that it's universal and building genuine professional competency helps manage these feelings over time. ---Relationships and "winning work" often matter more than technical skill. ---When starting a business, keep your day job until your time becomes the actual bottleneck — don't "burn the ships" prematurely as this creates unnecessary pressure and can lead to poor decisions. ---Help others without attachment to getting anything in return, but do it in a scalable way (like making introductions) — even if 99 percent never reciprocate, the 1 percent who do can create outsized opportunities. ---We share powerful insights about following genuine curiosity versus chasing metrics, and balancing passion with practicality — with more valuable perspectives on financial freedom, happiness, and building a sustainable career coming in part two later this week. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1095] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1095) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

24 Dec 2024

1 HR 12 MINS

1:12:14

24 Dec 2024

#1095

1094: Vanity Products | Skeptical Sunday

Balding blues? Magic pills? Mouse juice? Michael Regilio untangles the hairy history of vanity products on this week's Skeptical Sunday! Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition ofThe Jordan Harbinger ShowwhereJordanand a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and [podcaster] (https://www.michaelregiliocomedy.com/podcast) Michael Regilio! On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss: ---Hair loss treatments have evolved from ancient Egyptian mouse-grinding adventures to modern pharmaceutical solutions like minoxidil and finasteride — though these modern miracles come with some rather unsettling side effects, from growing unwanted breasts to potentially losing interest in, well, everything. ---Vanity-boosting discoveries often happen through delightfully accidental means — minoxidil started as an ulcer medication, while finasteride's development stems from studying a fascinating genetic condition in a Dominican Republic village where some children experience dramatic physical changes at puberty. ---Collagen supplements, while sounding like a smoothie made from the entire barnyard, actually show promising results for skin elasticity and cardiovascular health — though their benefits for hair and nails remain unproven despite widespread marketing claims. ---Teeth whitening has a rather colorful history, from ancient Romans' creative use of public urine collections (yes, really) to modern peroxide-based treatments, which thankfully carry far fewer risks than their historical counterparts. ---The most empowering approach to appearance-related concerns might be the one suggested by an 18th-century British newspaper: the best cure for something like baldness is simply not being bothered by it. This mindset doesn't just save money and avoid side effects — it offers a path to genuine self-acceptance that no bottle, cream, or ground-up mouse could ever provide. Sometimes the most revolutionary thing we can do is simply rock what we've got. ---Connect with Jordanon [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) , and [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/c/THEJORDANHARBINGERSHOW) . If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at [jordan@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:jordan@jordanharbinger.com) and let him know! ---Connect with Michael Regilioat [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/Michaelregilio1) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/michaelregilio/) , and [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpXvzUcF00hUwrjKkABEjpQ?view_as=subscriber) , and make sure to check out the [Michael Regilio Plagues Well With Otherspodcasthere] (https://www.michaelregiliocomedy.com/podcast) or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts! Full show notes and resources can be found here: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener" href="https://jordanharbinger.com/1094"... ... Read more

22 Dec 2024

51 MINS

51:45

22 Dec 2024

#1094

1093: When the Hunter Becomes the Honeypot | Feedback Friday

Your wife's cousin's boyfriend is catfishing you with his ex's photos. Plot twist: you know it's him and...kinda like it! Welcome to Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger ( [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) ) and Gabriel Mizrahi ( [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) ) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) . Now let's dive in! On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss: ---You discovered you're being catfished by your wife's cousin's boyfriend using his ex-girlfriend's photos. The twist? You've actually found him attractive at family events, and now you're enjoying this strange flirtation, knowing it's really him. How deeply do you sip this intoxicating blend of deception and desire? ---Your Lithuanian name creates challenges in professional settings — from constant pronunciation explanations to misgendering in emails. As you build your personal brand, you're wrestling with whether to adopt a more "local" name while still honoring your heritage. What's the right balance to strike here? ---Your son, a newly commissioned military officer, is struggling with stress and performance issues. While cleaning his room, you discovered ED medication, and now you're caught between parental concern and respecting his privacy. How involved should you be in this delicate matter? ---Your girlfriend's teenage brother was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder and believes their father's lies about maternal abuse. The family's pain is becoming unbearable to watch — but is it your place to intervene? ---Recommendation of the Week: [Accupressure mat] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071S819CN/?tag=jordanharbing-20) ---You've saved money for both your children's college education, but one is attending an expensive school while the other chose a more affordable option. You're grappling with fairness — should the funds be split equally, or should each child's full education be covered regardless of cost? ---Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) ! ---Connect with Jordan on Twitter at [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) and Instagram at [@jordanharbinger] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) . ---Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) andInstagram [@gabrielmizrahi] (https://www.instagram.com/gabrielmizrahi/) . Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1093] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1093) <a... ... Read more

20 Dec 2024

1 HR 12 MINS

1:12:43

20 Dec 2024

#1093

1092: Gene Simmons | KISS and Make-Up

From makeup to merchandising: Rock legend [Gene Simmons] (https://genesimmons.com/) reveals the business strategy behind KISS' 50-year reign as a cultural phenomenon. What We Discuss with Gene Simmons: ---According to Gene Simmons of KISS fame, pursuing wealth isn't just about personal gain but about creating value and jobs for others. Like a stone thrown into a pond, he sees wealth creation rippling outward to benefit society, even when the wealthy person might not be particularly altruistic. ---Gene's metamorphosis from an impoverished immigrant child who had never seen television or tasted jam into a global rock star serves as a powerful metaphor for the American Dream's transformative potential. ---KISS' innovative approach to band sustainability focused on building devoted fan loyalty rather than chasing hit singles, creating what Gene describes as an "album band" culture. This strategy, like planting a tree rather than picking flowers, prioritized long-term growth over immediate success. ---Behind the makeup and theatrical persona, Gene reveals himself to be an unexpectedly scholarly figure, displaying deep knowledge of theology, history, and business. His ability to counter religious critics with biblical verses and his understanding of entertainment industry economics show how knowledge can be wielded as both shield and sword. ---Gene demonstrates that reinvention is always possible through decisive action. As he puts it: "Don't like your looks? Change them. Don't like your name? Change it. Don't like where you live? Move." This philosophy of taking control of your circumstances, rather than being controlled by them, is something anyone can apply to their own life's journey, regardless of their starting point. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1092] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1092) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

17 Dec 2024

1 HR 27 MINS

1:27:12

17 Dec 2024

#1092

1091: Troubled Teen Industry | Skeptical Sunday

A $23B industry is warehousing and abusing teens under the guise of therapy. Survivor [Meg Appelgate] (https://www.instagram.com/megappelgate/) shares her harrowing story here on Skeptical Sunday. Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition ofThe Jordan Harbinger ShowwhereJordan and a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by [Meg Appelgate] (https://www.instagram.com/megappelgate/) , the CEO of [Unsilenced] (https://www.unsilenced.org/) , a grassroots organization dedicated to speaking out against institutionalized child abuse in the troubled teen and youth mental health industry! On This Week's Skeptical Sunday: <ul> <li>The Troubled Teen Industry (TTI) is a vast, multi-billion dollar system that operates with minimal oversight, annually affecting 120,000-200,000 youth. Like an invisible web, it captures vulnerable teenagers through deceptive marketing and scare tactics, turning typical teenage behaviors into perceived crises that supposedly require extreme intervention.</li> <li>The industry's roots are deeply concerning, stemming from controversial organizations like Synanon and The Seed. These programs' techniques were so severe that a 1974 Senate report compared them to Korean War prisoner brainwashing methods — a chilling foundation that still echoes through today's practices.</li> <li>The long-term impact on survivors is devastating and scientifically measurable through Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE) scores. Like a computer virus that corrupts system files, these experiences rewire the developing brain, leading to increased risks of physical and mental health issues - from depression to chronic diseases — that can persist throughout adulthood.</li> <li>Despite marketing themselves as therapeutic environments, many of these programs actually traumatize youth through practices like forced isolation, inappropriate restraints, medication misuse, and severe communication restrictions. It's akin to promising a safe harbor but delivering a perfect storm of institutional abuse.</li> <li>Positive change is happening through growing awareness and advocacy. Organizations like Unsilenced are making concrete progress - helping shut down 90 abusive programs since 2022, supporting survivors, and pushing for legislative reform. This momentum shows that with continued effort and awareness, we can protect vulnerable youth and create safer alternatives for struggling teenagers and their families.</li> <li>Connect with Jordanon [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) , and [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/c/THEJORDANHARBINGERSHOW) . If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at [jordan@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:jordan@jordanharbinger.com) and let him know!</li> <li>Connect with Meg Appelgate at [TikTok] (https://www.tiktok.com/@megappelgate/) and [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/megappelgate/) , visit [the Unsilenced website] (https://www.unsilenced.org/) , and make sure to read... ... Read more

15 Dec 2024

53 MINS

53:50

15 Dec 2024

#1091

1090: More Workplace Fails and Bad Boss Tales | Feedback Friday

When your hostile colleague starts dating a suspiciously perfect man online, do you warn her or let karma take its course? Welcome to Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger ( [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) ) and Gabriel Mizrahi ( [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) ) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) . Now let's dive in! On This Week's Feedback Friday: <ul> <li>You work at a brokerage firm where your colleague "Dolores," a self-appointed office manager in her sixties, went from being your mentor to your archnemesis after you made the mistake of pointing out some of her mistakes. When she started gushing about a handsome British architect she met through an online word game, you noticed some concerning patterns. Should you have warned her that she was definitely being set up for a scam, or was it right to let karma run its course?</li> <li>As a rising chef, you notice something off about your new boss's behavior, particularly around tip distribution and suspicious activities at odd hours. When the tips seem inconsistent and large wads of cash appear from nowhere, you start connecting troubling dots. What dark discoveries await?</li> <li>You're a department manager at a supermarket when your elderly janitor calls you in for an emergency with the freezer compressors. Upon arrival, you find him nearly naked, operating the floor buffer in just his underwear, claiming "it gets hot in here." But that's just the beginning of his odd behavior...</li> <li>You're a court reporter at an Ohio newspaper where your editor makes bizarre demands — like covering two trials simultaneously and writing about judicial rulings before they're issued. When you point out these impossibilities, he responds with "That's no excuse!" Where does this surreal situation lead?</li> <li>Recommendation of the Week: [Gmail keyboard shortcuts] (https://blog.hubspot.com/sales/gmail-keyboard-shortcuts) </li> <li>Working under the brilliant but destructive Helga, you navigate an environment where your leader's intelligence becomes a weapon rather than a tool for growth. As she critiques every move and demands constant rewrites without clear justification, you wonder if you can endure the true cost of working under such "genius."</li> <li>At an addiction treatment center run on nepotism, you encounter a CEO's son-in-law COO who exhibits concerning behavior — from inappropriate touching to racist comments. When a coworker is suddenly fired for exploring other opportunities, you realize your position might be precarious...</li> <li>Your boss styles himself as a mix between Tony Soprano and Michael Scott, oversharing personal tragedies within minutes of meeting you. When he reveals himself to be a volatile character who demands employees "die for his company," you start planning your escape. But can you get out unscathed?</li> <li>Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at <a href="mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com" target="_blank"... ... Read more

13 Dec 2024

1 HR 25 MINS

1:25:16

13 Dec 2024

#1090

1089: Victor Vescovo | Into the Abyss: Reaching Earth's Deepest Places

Explorer [Victor Vescovo] (https://www.instagram.com/victorlvescovo/) shares how he engineered a sub to reach 35,000 feet below the sea and what he's discovered in Earth's deepest trenches. What We Discuss with Victor Vescovo: ---Victor Vescovo led the Five Deeps expedition, becoming the first person to reach the deepest points of all five oceans. Prior to his expedition, several of these locations weren't even precisely mapped, requiring extensive sonar surveys to locate the actual deepest points. ---The average place on Earth is 4,000 meters underwater, and 71% of Earth is ocean — of which 75% remains completely unexplored. This means about half of our planet is still unexplored, and in many respects, we know more about the surface of Mars than our own ocean depths. ---The high pressures present at the deepest ocean points required innovative engineering solutions to navigate, including a perfectly spherical titanium pressure vessel that actually became stronger with repeated dives due to the intense pressure "reforging" the metal. ---Beneath 6,000 meters, the ocean is a sunless realm of absolute darkness. But even here, life thrives beyond the reach of light under pressure that would crush the average surface dweller, hinting at the flora and fauna we might expect to find on even the most extreme alien worlds. ---Anyone can become an explorer and push technological boundaries by breaking down seemingly impossible challenges into smaller, solvable problems. As Victor demonstrates, by carefully analyzing requirements, building the right team, and maintaining disciplined program management, even the most ambitious projects can be achieved through methodical execution and persistent dedication. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1089] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1089) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

10 Dec 2024

1 HR 38 MINS

1:38:37

10 Dec 2024

#1089

1088: Counterfeit Foods | Skeptical Sunday

From horse meat to wooden cheese, [Jessica Wynn] (https://www.instagram.com/iamjessicawynn/) exposes the counterfeit foods that the "agromafia" criminally sneaks onto our plates this Skeptical Sunday! On This Week's Skeptical Sunday: ---Food counterfeiting is a massive global criminal enterprise, with the "Agromafia" alone being a $16 billion-per-year industry. Criminal organizations have infiltrated every level of the food supply chain, from farming to distribution, making food fraud more profitable and less risky than traditional criminal activities. ---Many everyday foods are frequently counterfeited, including olive oil, honey, coffee, seafood, and spices. For example, studies found that 100% of sushi restaurants tested in New York City carried mislabeled fish, and many "extra virgin" olive oils fail authenticity tests. ---Food fraud isn't just about economic deception — it can pose serious health risks. Examples include melamine-tainted milk that sickened thousands of infants, nitrate-injected tuna causing food poisoning, and allergen concerns from undisclosed ingredients in counterfeit products. ---The global nature of our food supply chain makes regulation and enforcement extremely challenging. Products often cross multiple borders, making it difficult to track origins and enforce standards, while sophisticated criminal networks stay ahead of detection methods. ---Consumers can protect themselves by making informed choices: buying whole foods instead of processed ones (like whole coffee beans vs. ground coffee), purchasing from reputable suppliers, checking labels carefully, and when possible, buying directly from local producers. These simple steps can significantly reduce exposure to counterfeit foods while supporting legitimate producers. ---Connect with Jordan on [Bluesky] (https://jordanharbinger.bsky.social/) , [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) , and [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/c/THEJORDANHARBINGERSHOW) . If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at [jordan@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:jordan@jordanharbinger.com) and let him know! ---Connect with Jessica Wynn at [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/iamjessicawynn/) and [Threads] (https://www.instagram.com/iamjessicawynn/) , and subscribe to her newsletter: [Between the Lines] (https://jessicawynn.substack.com/) ! Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1088] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1088) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship... ... Read more

08 Dec 2024

1 HR 03 MINS

1:03:41

08 Dec 2024

#1088

1087: Can Trust Be Recovered After Diary Discovered? | Feedback Friday

Therapeutic journaling about an ex's job offer became relationship dynamite when your prying partner found it. What now? Welcome to Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger ( [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) ) and Gabriel Mizrahi ( [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) ) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) . Now let's dive in! On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss: ---You're suffering through the aftermath of a therapeutic journaling incident — your partner discovered your private writings about considering a business proposal from your narcissistic ex-husband. How will you navigate this breach of trust and the relationship strain it's causing? ---You're raising a teenager who's experimenting with alcohol, and as someone who's witnessed both the destructive power of addiction through your brother and the rigid structure of religious upbringing, you're seeking that delicate balance in parenting. What's the right approach? ---After dedicating three and a half years to a relationship with someone whose family dynamics are increasingly draining, you're questioning whether to stay. Her father's narcissistic behavior and constant drama are wearing you down — but is leaving the right choice? ---Recommendation of the Week: [Temporary tattoos] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08B4FT4HS/?tag=jordanharbing-20) . ---You're a telecommunications professional yearning to transition into addiction recovery work after experiencing profound connections during your own recovery journey. Despite setbacks and rejections, something keeps pulling you toward this path — but what's really holding you back? ---Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) ! ---Connect with Jordan on Twitter at [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) and Instagram at [@jordanharbinger] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) . ---Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) andInstagram [@gabrielmizrahi] (https://www.instagram.com/gabrielmizrahi/) . Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1087] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1087) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! <h3>This Episode... ... Read more

06 Dec 2024

1 HR 28 MINS

1:28:44

06 Dec 2024

#1087

1086: Ryan Holiday | How to Fix Your Life with Stoicism

Seeking fame and success can become an addiction that ruins what matters most. Stoic [Ryan Holiday] (https://ryanholiday.net/) explains how to find sustainable contentment instead! What We Discuss with Ryan Holiday: ---The hunt for fame and success can become addictive and create an insatiable desire for more, leading people to rationalize pursuing them at the expense of family time and personal well-being. ---The constant pursuit of growth and comparison metrics (book sales, download numbers, rankings) often detracts from the joy of doing work you love. ---Many successful people rationalize sacrificing time with their children by claiming it's "for the kids," when in reality it's often driven by their own ambition, ego, or insecurity. ---Historical perspective shows that even the most famous or successful people eventually fade from memory, suggesting that pursuing fame or status for its own sake is ultimately hollow. ---You can create a more fulfilling personal and professional life by focusing on doing what you love for its own sake rather than external validation. This means setting up your work to be as independent as possible from outside institutions and metrics, allowing you to maintain creative control and do things on your own terms. This approach leads to more sustainable success and greater personal satisfaction. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1086] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1086) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

03 Dec 2024

1 HR 33 MINS

1:33:09

03 Dec 2024

#1086

1085: Traditional Chinese Medicine | Skeptical Sunday

From Mao to Main Street: [Michael Regilio] (https://www.michaelregiliocomedy.com/podcast) unravels the surprising story behind Traditional Chinese Medicine's global rise on this week's Skeptical Sunday! Welcome to Skeptical Sunday, a special edition ofThe Jordan Harbinger ShowwhereJordanand a guest break down a topic that you may have never thought about, open things up, and debunk common misconceptions. This time around, we’re joined by skeptic, comedian, and [podcaster] (https://www.michaelregiliocomedy.com/podcast) Michael Regilio! On This Week's Skeptical Sunday: <ul> <li>The modern global presence of TCM (traditional Chinese medicine) is largely a result of political necessity rather than proven effectiveness. Surprisingly, it had been largely abandoned in China by the 1800s until Chairman Mao revived it in the 1960s as a solution to healthcare shortages — despite not personally believing in it himself.</li> <li>The scientific foundation of TCM's core concepts — chi, yin/yang balance, and meridians — remains unproven. Studies attempting to validate these practices face significant challenges, including the impossibility of true double-blind trials and concerns about data reliability, particularly in Chinese research where regulators found over 80% of clinical trial data to be fabricated.</li> <li>Acupuncture's effectiveness appears largely tied to the placebo effect, though this shouldn't be dismissed. Studies show "sham" acupuncture (needles placed randomly) produces similar results to "real" acupuncture, suggesting the specific placement of needles according to meridian theory may be less important than the overall experience and belief in the treatment.</li> <li>Cupping, while popularized by athletes like Michael Phelps, essentially creates controlled tissue damage through suction. Though it may temporarily increase blood flow, it can cause permanent skin damage if done repeatedly and may aggravate existing skin conditions.</li> <li>Chinese herbal medicine represents a bright spot in the TCM landscape, built on 500 million years of plant evolution and chemical development. Some traditional remedies have led to breakthrough modern treatments, like Artemisinin for malaria, showing how ancient wisdom can guide modern medical discoveries when subjected to rigorous scientific testing. This suggests that while we should approach traditional practices with skepticism, we shouldn't dismiss them entirely — instead, we can use modern scientific methods to identify and develop valuable treatments from traditional knowledge.</li> <li>Connect with Jordanon [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) , and [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/c/THEJORDANHARBINGERSHOW) . If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at [jordan@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:jordan@jordanharbinger.com) and let him know!</li> <li>Connect with Michael Regilioat [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/Michaelregilio1) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/michaelregilio/) , and [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpXvzUcF00hUwrjKkABEjpQ?view_as=subscriber) ,... ... Read more

01 Dec 2024

57 MINS

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01 Dec 2024

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1084: Dad's Kindness Flows But Her Instability Grows | Feedback Friday

Your sister-in-law's behavior grows more erratic while your father keeps extending lifelines. When does compassion become complicity? It's Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger ( [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) ) and Gabriel Mizrahi ( [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) ) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) . Now let's dive in! On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss: ---Your father has been extraordinarily generous in supporting your brother and his new wife, who's displaying increasingly erratic behavior — from throwing tantrums to making unusual demands. Now she's facing legal troubles, and your father's considering bailing her out again. How do you help him see that sometimes caring means taking a step back? ---You're a musician who's spent decades building an independent career, and your former mentor — once supportive but now oddly competitive — seems fixated on diminishing your achievements and claiming credit for your work. He's even referenced your medical condition in a song title. How do you handle this personally hurtful dynamic on a professional level? ---You're torn between honoring a $40,000 tuition repayment agreement with your current employer and accepting your dream job in Europe working on climate change solutions. As you approach 30, time feels precious, but so does financial stability. What price can you put on following your dreams? ---Your partner demands specific, scripted responses during arguments — requiring exact word choices and precise acknowledgments of past behaviors. While charming in public, they become controlling and threatening in private. How do you distinguish between reasonable needs and manipulation? ---Recommendation of the Week: [Sour Grapes] (https://www.amazon.com/Sour-Grapes-Rudy-Kurniawan/dp/B06XWKJN5F/?tag=jordanharbing-20) ---Following your mother's unexpected passing, you're seeking ways to honor her remarkable 45-year journey with rheumatoid arthritis and her impact on countless lives through charity work. How can small, meaningful actions create ripples of positive change in her memory? ---Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) ! ---Connect with Jordan on Twitter at [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) and Instagram at [@jordanharbinger] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) . ---Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) andInstagram [@gabrielmizrahi] (https://www.instagram.com/gabrielmizrahi/) . Full show notes and resources can be found here: <a... ... Read more

29 Nov 2024

1 HR 13 MINS

1:13:39

29 Nov 2024

#1084

1083: Mike Rowe | Rethinking Success in an Uncertain World

Uncertainty rules modern life — from work to technology to education. Mike Rowe of Dirty Jobs fame explores how embracing it might be the key to success! What We Discuss: ---Humans crave certainty, which can lead us to look for patterns that aren't there and make poor decisions. Being completely certain about something often indicates a problem in our thinking. ---Podcasting and media have evolved significantly, with success now requiring authenticity and strong relationships rather than just technical skills. The most valuable people often bring in business through relationships rather than direct work. ---The student debt crisis and college costs are systemic issues that won't be solved by debt forgiveness alone — the underlying problem is that education has become too expensive while not necessarily preparing students for available jobs. ---Modern technology and constant connectivity can prevent us from properly processing difficult decisions and uncomfortable situations. Sometimes we need to disconnect to think clearly. ---Success often comes from doing the basics well: showing up on time, taking initiative, and doing the right thing when no one is looking. These fundamental work habits can put you ahead of 90% of people and are skills anyone can develop with practice. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1083] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1083) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

26 Nov 2024

1 HR 22 MINS

1:22:23

26 Nov 2024

#1083

1082: Food Packaging | Skeptical Sunday

From shelf life to shelf appeal, [Jessica Wynn] (https://www.instagram.com/iamjessicawynn/) explores the science and psychology of food packaging on this week's Skeptical Sunday! On This Week's Skeptical Sunday: ---Food packaging evolved from natural containers (shells, leaves) to complex materials, fundamentally changing how we store and consume food. The industrial revolution particularly accelerated this evolution. ---Modern food packaging is heavily regulated, with strict requirements for nutritional labeling, ingredients lists, and safety standards. The FDA didn't mandate standardized nutrition facts panels until 1990. ---Package design psychology significantly influences consumer behavior — colors (red/yellow stimulate appetite), placement, and imagery affect purchasing decisions within 90 seconds of viewing. ---Smart packaging technology is emerging, with developments like RFID tracking and nanosensors that can detect food freshness, contamination, and proper storage conditions. ---Consumers can make a positive impact on this industry by supporting companies using sustainable packaging alternatives and staying informed about packaging innovations — this helps drive industry change while maintaining food safety and convenience. ---Connect with Jordan on [Twitter] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) , [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) , and [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/c/THEJORDANHARBINGERSHOW) . If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at [jordan@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:jordan@jordanharbinger.com) and let him know! ---Connect with Jessica Wynn at [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/iamjessicawynn/) and [Threads] (https://www.instagram.com/iamjessicawynn/) , and subscribe to her newsletter: [Between the Lines] (https://jessicawynn.substack.com/) ! Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1082] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1082) [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

24 Nov 2024

1 HR 22 MINS

1:22:06

24 Nov 2024

#1082

1081: Stuck Co-Parenting Lad with an Imprisoned Dad | Feedback Friday

Co-parenting with a narcissistic ex in prison wasn't part of the plan. Now he wants phone calls with your son. What could go wrong? This is Feedback Friday! And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger ( [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) ) and Gabriel Mizrahi ( [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) ) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) . Now let's dive in! On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss: ---You're co-parenting with your ex who is currently in prison for multiple crimes including drugs, guns, and stolen property. Your young son misses his dad and wants phone calls, but you're concerned about your ex's narcissistic tendencies and potential for retaliation. How do you protect both your son's heart and your safety? ---You've been a loyal employee for 11 years, but after your company was acquired, you discovered new hires are making significantly more than you. With a recent acquisition of an Indian company making everyone nervous about job security, how do you advocate for fair pay without rocking the boat? ---Your nephew's friend fell victim to a devastating online scam involving compromising photos, leading to tragic consequences. As these scams targeting young people become more prevalent, what can parents and communities do to prevent similar tragedies? ---Your fiancée bought a house without your input, following her parents' wishes rather than your shared plans. Now she wants to live alone first and might not give you space for your belongings. Is this just about the house, or is there something deeper going on? ---Recommendation of the Week: [Portuguese] (https://open.spotify.com/track/5v613SgVkVkCUxUlDZH5Xb?si=3d19a3bb03ae4cc9) [Reggae] (https://open.spotify.com/track/4SusWPOwLCdMpNyfKAoMFI?si=d2bd7eb607934466) [Music] (https://open.spotify.com/track/09h91oP3t1c5fSEI5P6maS?si=9afa6ab20a644a78) ---You're torn between joining the Marine Corps and pursuing graduate studies in Milan, Italy. Having experienced both the military culture and European life, you're struggling to choose between duty and adventure. Which path leads to your authentic self? ---Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [friday@jordanharbinger.com] (mailto:friday@jordanharbinger.com) ! ---Connect with Jordan on Twitter at [@JordanHarbinger] (https://twitter.com/JordanHarbinger) and Instagram at [@jordanharbinger] (https://www.instagram.com/jordanharbinger) . ---Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at [@GabeMizrahi] (https://twitter.com/GabeMizrahi) and Instagram [@gabrielmizrahi] (https://www.instagram.com/gabrielmizrahi/) . Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1081] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1081) <a... ... Read more

22 Nov 2024

1 HR 26 MINS

1:26:00

22 Nov 2024

#1081

1080: Dr. Alok Kanojia | How to Raise a Healthy Gamer

Technology is rewiring our brains and relationships. [Dr. Alok Kanojia] (https://www.healthygamer.gg/dr-alok-kanojia) explains how modern conveniences make us less resilient and what we can do about it! What We Discuss with Dr. Alok Kanojia: ---Technology and apps have become like an invasive species — our brains haven't evolved to handle them properly, leading to increased anxiety, depression, and difficulty forming relationships. ---Cultural conditioning that only validates male anger while dismissing other emotions results in psychological difficulties and destructive behaviors. ---The proliferation of convenience apps and services is diminishing our natural resilience and problem-solving abilities. ---Many young people struggle with purpose because external pressures and technology have drowned out their internal signals and emotional awareness. ---The good news is these issues can be addressed through intentional work on social skills, emotional awareness, and reducing technology dependence. Studies show even small interventions like watching educational content can improve mental health outcomes by ~10%, and more structured programs can show significant improvement in just three or four months. ---And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: [jordanharbinger.com/1080] (https://jordanharbinger.com/1080) If you love listening to this show as much as we love making it, would you please [peruse and reply to our Membership Survey here] (https://bit.ly/4dx3FPt) ? [And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here] (https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/id1344999619?mt=2&ls=1) — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally! This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: [jordanharbinger.com/deals] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/deals/) Sign up for [Six-Minute Networking] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at [jordanharbinger.com/course] (https://jordanharbinger.com/course) ! Subscribe to our once-a-week [Wee Bit Wiser] (https://www.jordanharbinger.com/news/) newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom! Do you even Reddit, bro? [Join us at r/JordanHarbinger] (https://www.reddit.com/r/JordanHarbinger/) ! ... Read more

19 Nov 2024

1 HR 35 MINS

1:35:11

19 Nov 2024

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1084: Dad's Kindness Flows But Her Instability Grows | Feedback Friday

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1080: Dr. Alok Kanojia | How to Raise a Healthy Gamer