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Terrible, Thanks For Asking podcast

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  Feelings & Co.  

Subscribe within Apple Podcasts for ad-free listening, bonus episodes, and access to our full archive. For all those perks and more, including a supportive community of Terrible listeners, mail surprises and live sessions with our team, join us on Patreon.com/ttfa! — It's a question we ask (and get asked) all the time: “How are you?” And normally we just respond with “Fine!” even if we’re totally dying inside, so everyone can go about their day. But it’s not always all that fine, is it? “Terrible, Thanks For Asking” is a show by author Nora McInerny that lets real people get real honest about how they’re really doing. It’s sometimes sad, sometimes funny, and almost always both. A production of Feelings & Co.

Subscribe within Apple Podcasts for ad-free listening, bonus episodes, and access to our full archive. For all those perks and more, including a supportive community of Terrible listeners, mail surprises and live sessions with our team, join us on Patreon.com/ttfa! — It's a question we ask (and get asked) all the time: “How are you?” And normally we just respond with “Fine!” even if we’re totally dying inside, so everyone can go about their day. But it’s not always all that fine, is it? “Terrible, Thanks For Asking” is a show by author Nora McInerny that lets real people get real honest about how they’re really doing. It’s sometimes sad, sometimes funny, and almost always both. A production of Feelings & Co.

 

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#111

The Resilience Myth with Soraya Chemaly

Years ago, when Nora was in the worst phase of her life (dead husband, dead dad, lost pregnancy) she heard a lot of people describe her as resilient. Those people meant it as a compliment, but to Nora it didn’t feel that way. She was tired, grieving, and lost so much in her life- the “resilience” people saw was often just…the privilege she had to survive it.  So when Nora got the new book, [The Resilience Myth] (https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Resilience-Myth/Soraya-Chemaly/9781982170769) by [Soraya Chemaly] (https://www.sorayachemaly.com/) , she devoured it. In this episode, Nora and Soraya talk about different ways to think about resiliency and how celebrating it can be a little toxic.  We are still on hiatus! But this episode in the main feed was brought to you by our TTFA Premium subscribers. Since the hiatus, we’ve been producing two episodes a month for people who support us on [Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/ttfa) and Apple Premium (join in your Apple podcast app). If you want more TTFA, consider joining us on one of those platforms.  _ Check out Nora on [YouTube] (https://www.youtube.com/@FeelingsandCo/videos) ! __ Find all our shows and our [store] (http://shop.feelingsand.co/) at [feelingsand.co] (http://feelingsand.co/) . — Find TTFA on social: [TTFA on Instagram] (http://instagram.com/ttfapodcast) | [TTFA on Facebook] (http://facebook.com/ttfapodcast) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

18 Jun 2024

1 HR 07 MINS

1:07:57

18 Jun 2024

#110

Now

When Nora was about to marry her first husband Aaron, they were in the thick of his cancer treatment. So the day before the wedding, she got a small tattoo to remind her to stay in the present moment.   This was an excerpt from Nora’s first book, It’s Okay To Laugh (Crying is cool, too) [which is available here.] (https://amzn.to/3wF0WDt) _ If you have anxiety, depression or any sense of the world around you, you know that not *everything* is going to be okay. In fact, many things aren’t okay and never will be! But instead of falling into the pit of despair, we’re bringing you a little OK for your day. Every weekday, we’ll bring you one okay thing to help you start, end or endure your day with the opposite of a doom scroll. Created and hosted by Nora McInerny. Find Nora’s weekly newsletter [here] (https://noraborealis.substack.com/) . We’re on YouTube, with new videos twice a week! Subscribe [here] (https://www.youtube.com/@FeelingsandCo) . _ “It’s Going To Be OK” is brought to you by The Hartford. The Hartford is a leading insurance provider that connects people and technology for better employee benefits.  Learn more at [www.thehartford.com/benefits] (http://www.thehartford.com/benefits) .  _ Share your OK thing at 612.568.4441 or by emailing a note or voice memo to [IGTBO@feelingsand.co] (mailto:IGTBO@feelingsand.co) . Start your message with “I’m (name) and it’s going to be okay.”  _ The IGTBO team is Nora McInerny, Claire McInerny, Marcel Malekebu, Amanda Romani and Grace Barry. _ The transcript for this episode can be found [here] (https://www.feelingsand.co/its-going-to-be-ok/now) . Find all our shows and our [store] (http://shop.feelingsand.co/) at [www.feelingsand.co.] (https://www.feelingsand.co/) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

18 Jun 2024

07 MINS

07:06

18 Jun 2024

#109

Becoming Fairy Godmother: Egg Donation and Creating A New Kind of Family

Two years ago Julia Winston was asked to help a gay couple start a family by donating her eggs. At the time, she was 38, single, and had no idea if she’d start her own family. Sometimes that made her feel insecure, so the opportunity to donate her eggs allowed her to help create a family, just not the one she imagined in her head. Since the donation, she’s gone through an emotional transformation that opened her eyes to all the different ways a family can look.  Julia is the host of [Refamulating] (https://www.refamulating.com/) , the newest podcast from the Feelings and Co universe. Listen to Refamulating now, wherever you get your podcasts. Follow the show on [Instagram] (https://www.instagram.com/refamulating/) .  _ This is our last episode of Terrible Thanks for Asking for a while. If you want to get new episodes of TTFA through August, consider [joining our Patreon.] (https://www.patreon.com/ttfa) (Or, if you’re an Apple Podcast listener, you can sign up for TTFA Premium right in the app!) Our Substack is a great way to connect with us and other listeners (and get more Terrible in your inbox). [Join us here] (https://ttfapodcast.substack.com/) . The episode transcript can be found [here] (https://ttfa.org/episodes/becoming-fairy-godmother) . — We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production! Foria: Experience your juiciest and deepest sensual experience with a bottle of Foria. FORIA is offering a special deal for our listeners. Get 20% off your first order by visiting [ foriawellness.com/TERRIBLE] (http://foriawellxness.com/TERRIBLE) OR use code TERRIBLE at checkout. I recommend trying their new Massage Oil combined with their Awaken Arousal Oil. You’ll thank me later. BetterHelp: Learn to make time for what makes you happy, with BetterHelp. Visit [ BetterHelp.com/TTFA] (http://betterhelp.com/ttfa) today to get 10% off your first month. [You can find our full sponsor list here] (https://ttfa.org/advertise-with-us) . — Find all our shows and our [store] (http://shop.feelingsand.co/) at [feelingsand.co] (http://feelingsand.co/) . — Find TTFA on social: [TTFA on Instagram] (http://instagram.com/ttfapodcast) | [TTFA on Facebook] (http://facebook.com/ttfapodcast)   See [omnystudio.com/listener] (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

02 Apr 2024

53 MINS

53:17

02 Apr 2024

#108

Your Favorite Obituaries

As we prepare for our indefinite hiatus, we wanted to remind you that we will still be making TTFA episodes on our [Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/ttfa) and Apple Premium feeds. If you aren't a premium member, we wanted to show you what kind of episodes we make over there by bringing one of our bonus episodes to the main feed. Recently, we asked listeners to send in obituaries about your dead people, and boy oh boy did you all deliver some gems that made us laugh, cry and reeeeeally want to double fist a Dr. Pepper with a Miller High Life.  In this bonus episode, Nora reads some of her favorites. _ Find Nora’s weekly newsletter [here] (https://noraborealis.substack.com/) . _ We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production! Foria: Experience your juiciest and deepest sensual experience with a bottle of Foria. FORIA is offering a special deal for our listeners. Get 20% off your first order by visiting [foriawellness.com/TERRIBLE] (http://foriawellxness.com/TERRIBLE) OR use code TERRIBLE at checkout. I recommend trying their new Massage Oil combined with their Awaken Arousal Oil. You’ll thank me later. BetterHelp: Learn to make time for what makes you happy, with BetterHelp. Visit [BetterHelp.com/TTFA] (http://betterhelp.com/ttfa) today to get 10% off your first month. [You can find our full sponsor list here] (https://ttfa.org/advertise-with-us) . — Find all our shows and our [store] (http://shop.feelingsand.co/) at [feelingsand.co] (http://feelingsand.co/) . — Find TTFA on social: [TTFA on Instagram] (http://instagram.com/ttfapodcast) | [TTFA on Facebook] (http://facebook.com/ttfapodcast)   See [omnystudio.com/listener] (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

25 Mar 2024

47 MINS

47:07

25 Mar 2024

#107

More Than A Survivor: Rape, Activism and what comes next with Sarah Super

In 2015, Sarah Super was raped by her ex-boyfriend Alex Neal. And she channeled that act of violence into a mission-driven organization that helped survivors of sexual violence feel seen and heard. 9 years after the night that changed her life, Sarah reflects on what it means to move forward with her life and to reclaim her identity as more than a survivor. Sarah was a guest on the first season of our podcast.To hear Sarah's original episode, Unbroken, [click here] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/unbroken/id1126119288?i=1000615188581) . — Want more TTFA? Become a [member of our Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/ttfa) !  Patrons get bonus episodes, invites to monthly office hours with Nora, and access to the full back catalog of episodes. Patrons are the only people who get other perks like discounted live event tickets or opportunities to sit in on an editing session for future episodes.  __ Our Substack is a great way to connect with us and other listeners (and get more Terrible in your inbox). [Join us here] (https://ttfapodcast.substack.com/) . __ Find all our shows and our [store] (http://shop.feelingsand.co/) at [feelingsand.co] (http://feelingsand.co/) . — Find TTFA on social: [TTFA on Instagram] (http://instagram.com/ttfapodcast) | [TTFA on Facebook] (http://facebook.com/ttfapodcast)   See [omnystudio.com/listener] (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

19 Mar 2024

48 MINS

48:25

19 Mar 2024

#106

Terrible, Thanks For Everything!!

We have a big update about the future of TTFA, and something a lot of you have been asking about since the last episode, where I mentioned *casually* in the credits that we were going to be taking an indefinite hiatus. I wanted to talk more about what that means going forward, and thank all of you for listening and supporting our show.  xo,Nora — You can read the transcript of this update [here] (https://ttfa.org/episodes/terrible-thanks-for-everything) . — We’ll be creating *NEW* episodes on Patreon through August 2024. [Consider joining us on Patreon] (patreon.com/ttfa) if you want to hear new episodes and access our back catalog.  — Find all our shows and our [store] (http://shop.feelingsand.co/) at [feelingsand.co] (http://feelingsand.co/) . — Find TTFA on social: [TTFA on Instagram] (http://instagram.com/ttfapodcast) | [TTFA on Facebook] (http://facebook.com/ttfapodcast)     See [omnystudio.com/listener] (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

04 Mar 2024

10 MINS

10:20

04 Mar 2024

#105

Time Capsule: The Silver Chain - Episode 1: The Silver Chain

Newsletters from an abandoned safe deposit box set host Paul Ditty on an investigation to learn all he can about The Silver Chain – a suburban Minnesota swing club from the 1970s –  and its members.  Minnesota journalist Jack El-Hai paints a picture of what suburban life was like in the 1970s and how this sparked a delayed and secret sexual revolution among middle-aged couples.  Paul attempts to reach several of the club's members. No one will talk until finally he reaches Carol. She hangs up on Paul, then eventually agrees to talk. But just as Paul is on his way to Modesto for the interview, an email from Carol’s daughter changes his course. Don't forget to subscribe to the Time Capsule feed wherever you listen to podcasts!Links: [Time Capsule Substack] (https://timecapsule.substack.com/) [TimeCapsulePodcast.com] (https://timecapsulepodcast.com/) [Jack El-Hai's Article] (https://www.gq.com/story/inside-secret-swingers-club-from-the-70s) See [omnystudio.com/listener] (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

29 Feb 2024

45 MINS

45:58

29 Feb 2024

#104

The One That Got Away

For years, Nancy could picture her ideal partner. She wanted someone who would make her laugh, who would love her son, and who would make her feel confident and empowered. When she met Noa, he checked all the boxes. Everything she thought other people made up about love suddenly came true. But…this perfect love didn’t last forever.  Today we hear from both Nancy and Noa as they perform an autopsy of sorts on their relationship and why it didn’t work.  –  Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. Consider [joining our Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/ttfa) to get bonus episodes, ad-free episodes, and join a community of Terribles.  Our Substack is a great way to connect with us and other listeners (and get more Terrible in your inbox). [Join us here] (https://ttfapodcast.substack.com/) .                       The episode transcript can be found [here] (http://ttfa.org/episodes/the-one-that-got-away) . — We’re lucky to only work with sponsors and brands we know and love. Using our links and codes saves you money and supports our independent production! [Foria] (https://www.foriawellness.com/?utm_source=terrible&utm_medium=collateral&utm_campaign=OGOface23&utm_term=&utm_content=&utm_source_platform=&utm_campaign_id=&utm_creative_format=&utm_marketing_tactic=) : FORIA is offering a special deal for our listeners. Get 20% off your first order by visiting [ foriawellness.com/TERRIBLE] (http://foriawellness.com/TERRIBLE) OR use code TERRIBLE at checkout.  [Sundays] (https://sundaysfordogs.com/TERRIBLE?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=sp&utm_campaign=terrible-thanks-for-asking) : Get 40% off your first order of Sundays. Go to [ sundaysfordogs.com/TERRIBLE] (http://sundaysfordogs.com/TERRIBLE) or use code TERRIBLE at checkout. [You can find our full sponsor list here] (https://ttfa.org/advertise-with-us) . — Find all our shows and our [store] (http://shop.feelingsand.co/) at [feelingsand.co] (http://feelingsand.co/) . — Find TTFA on social: [TTFA on Instagram] (http://instagram.com/ttfapodcast) | [TTFA on Facebook] (http://facebook.com/ttfapodcast)   See [omnystudio.com/listener] (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

19 Feb 2024

53 MINS

53:00

19 Feb 2024

#103

Time Capsule: The Silver Chain - Trailer

In the early 1990s, a cache of abandoned newsletters found its way from a safety deposit box in Minneapolis, Minnesota to the state’s historical society, where they were left to gather dust. The newsletters detailed the inner workings of a secret 1970s swingers society: The Silver Chain Social Club. Fifty years later, TV writer and host Paul Ditty tracks down the club’s surviving members to uncover the group’s mysterious history and the ties that connected its members long after the swingers club closed its doors for good. For a deeper look inside Time Capsule, read Paul's [newsletter] (https://timecapsule.substack.com) . Learn more about Time Capsule at [timecapsulepodcast.com] (https://timecapsulepodcast.com) .  See [omnystudio.com/listener] (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

15 Feb 2024

07 MINS

07:22

15 Feb 2024

#102

Grudge Book is Back!

Greetings, loved ones. We’re back with one of our time honored Terrible traditions: The Grudge Book. Sit back, get cozy, bring your petties, and enjoy this selection of listener grudges featuring the wisdom of Nora and Marcel.  [THEE Bath and Body Works Peach Bellini Rant Video] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0e-he_dU58) — Listener support makes our independent podcast possible. Consider [joining our Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/ttfa) to get bonus episodes, ad-free episodes, and join a community of Terribles.  Our Substack is a great way to connect with us and other listeners (and get more Terrible in your inbox). [Join us here] (https://ttfapodcast.substack.com/) . The episode transcript can be found [here] (https://ttfa.org/episodes/grudge-book-is-back) . — Find all our shows and our [store] (http://shop.feelingsand.co/) at [feelingsand.co] (http://feelingsand.co/) . — Find TTFA on social: [TTFA on Instagram] (http://instagram.com/ttfapodcast) | [TTFA on Facebook] (http://facebook.com/ttfapodcast) See [omnystudio.com/listener] (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

06 Feb 2024

45 MINS

45:59

06 Feb 2024

#101

The First Stone: Cheating, shame and a series of unfortunate men

Jenni was raised Mormon, and for the first part of her life, was a dutiful follower. She got married young, attended church, and was a loyal wife. But life got messy and complicated for Jenni, and she eventually made a choice that surprised her. A choice considered a sin in her culture, and a pretty hurtful thing to do by the rest of society: she cheated. For the last year, Jenni’s been grappling with the shame and guilt of this choice and how parts of her dating history led to this choice.  — Want more TTFA? Become a [member of our Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/ttfa) !  Patrons get bonus episodes, invites to monthly office hours with Nora, and access to the full back catalog of episodes. Patrons are the only people who get other perks like discounted live event tickets or opportunities to sit in on an editing session for future episodes.  — Our Substack is a great way to connect with us and other listeners (and get more Terrible in your inbox). [Join us here] (https://ttfapodcast.substack.com/) . The episode transcript can be found [here] (https://ttfa.org/episodes/the-first-stone) . — Find all our shows and our [store] (http://shop.feelingsand.co/) at [feelingsand.co] (http://feelingsand.co/) . — Find TTFA on social: [TTFA on Instagram] (http://instagram.com/ttfapodcast) | [TTFA on Facebook] (http://facebook.com/ttfapodcast)   See [omnystudio.com/listener] (https://omnystudio.com/listener) for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit [megaphone.fm/adchoices] (https://megaphone.fm/adchoices) ... Read more

23 Jan 2024

56 MINS

56:19

23 Jan 2024