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Love Life with Matthew Hussey podcast

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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

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  Matthew Hussey  

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

 

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#757

274: My Biggest Life Lessons From 2024

In this special episode, as we come into the final month of the year, I want to sit down and share some of my personal thoughts and lessons from 2024. Whatever challenges or struggles you've gone through this year, I hope this encourages you do your own reflection of the last 12 months and gives you a few helpful steps you can take into 2025. Take this moment now and give yourself the gift of some time spent looking back at what takeaways you can learn from your own story. And as always, be kind to yourself.  ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.askmh.com/) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.askmh.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ... Read more

10 hrs Ago

46 MINS

46:00

10 hrs Ago

#756

(Matt Monday): Why It Feels Nearly Impossible to Leave a Narcissist

Why does it feel nearly impossible to leave a narcissist?  If you’ve ever been in a narcissistic relationship (whether it be romantic, a friendship, or a family member) you know how hard it is to leave. In today's episode, I dive into this subject . . . and how to avoid the common traps that often keep us stuck in these toxic dynamics. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.askmh.com/) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.askmh.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ... Read more

02 Dec 2024

23 MINS

23:42

02 Dec 2024

#755

(Rewind): What You Need to Do When You Meet Someone You Like

Have you ever met someone you really liked and spent weeks terrified you were going to blow it?  You’d analyze every message they sent with your friends. You’d worry when they went silent for several hours, constantly checking your phone, looking for signs of hope.  Suddenly, you become a person you weren’t before: needy, anxious, possessive—and you can feel that energy making you more and more helpless.  I know what this is like, and trust me: if you ever want to build a great relationship without playing games, you need to break out of this mindset fast.  Here’s how you change it...  --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at →  [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.LoveLifeBook.com) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

29 Nov 2024

05 MINS

05:22

29 Nov 2024

#754

273: How to Stop Yourself Over-investing in Early Dating

Do you find it easy to fall for one person too quickly? Maybe you start dating with the intention of keeping your options open, but you find yourself repeatedly chasing the first person you like (even if they aren't showing the same level of effort in response). In this episode, Matt, Stephen and Audrey discuss how to date intelligently and find the balance between meeting enough people to give yourself options but also investing in the right person when they come along. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.askmh.com/) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> -- Follow Stephen <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/stephenhhussey/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">@stephenhhussey</a> Follow Audrey <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/theaudreyhussey/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">@theaudreyhussey</a> ... Read more

27 Nov 2024

48 MINS

48:12

27 Nov 2024

#753

(Matt Monday): 6 Signs They’re Serious About You

How do you find out where you really stand with someone? It's often hard figuring out how someone else sees your relationship potential, and finding the answer early on can save you a lot of time and unnecessary heartbreak. In today’s episode, I share 6 ways to know if someone is serious about you, no matter which stage of dating you’re in. By the end, you’ll know how to separate genuine intention for commitment from mere attention. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ... Read more

25 Nov 2024

24 MINS

24:28

25 Nov 2024

#752

(Rewind): They Told You They Wanted a Break? Here's the Perfect Response

What do you do if the person you are with comes to you telling you they want a break? You’re devastated, you’re scared, and every instinct in you tells you to fight for this person you care about so much. What would you say to them? In these moments we often do exactly the opposite of what we need to. If you’re in this situation, or you ever want to know what to do if someone says this to you again, please check out my new video. It’s going to give you the only response you’ll ever need... I’d really appreciate it if you would share this video with as many people you care about as possible. I believe that if a video like this was given to all of us at the beginning of adulthood, it would save us all years of unnecessary suffering. ----- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at →  [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.LoveLifeBook.com) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

22 Nov 2024

05 MINS

05:24

22 Nov 2024

#751

272: "My Partner Reconnected With Their Ex...Should I Be Worried?"

Even if you trust your partner, should you feel ok if they reconnect with an ex? Is it a red flag? Does it overstep a huge boundary? Are they being unreasonable, or are you? In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about the nuances of having friendships with your ex, when to see it as a problem, and how to have honest conversations that set your boundaries and express your feelings to your partner. ►► Never Face Your Love Life Alone Again Try Matthew AI at  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

20 Nov 2024

41 MINS

41:44

20 Nov 2024

#750

(Matt Monday): 7 Reasons You’ll Never Get Closure From a Narcissist

The rules are different when you’re in a relationship with a narcissist. You may walk on eggshells, question yourself, or feel like you can never do anything right in their eyes. And if they break up with you? It only leaves you with more confusion.   So what’s the right move in this situation? Should we stand up to them? Try to convince them with facts?   This is just one of the 7 reasons why you can never expect to get true closure from a narcissist—and what you can do to give closure to yourself—that I share in today’s new episode.   ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . →  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.askmh.com/) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.datingwithresults.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

18 Nov 2024

18 MINS

18:38

18 Nov 2024

#749

(Rewind): 3 Ways You’re Accidentally Scaring Them Away (and How to Stop)

It always surprises me how often a potentially great relationship is cut short because of avoidable mistakes and insecure behaviors that we haven’t learned to manage.   “But doesn’t love solve everything?”   Well, not exactly.   What often happens is that these toxic patterns slowly undermine every chance at love we find (or at least make the search much harder than it needs to be).   In this week’s Rewind episode, I want to share the three most common behaviors that can scare someone off before they have a chance to truly fall for you.   Avoid these, and you’ll find it much easier to let someone see your best qualities and build a healthy, happy relationship.   --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at →  [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.LoveLifeBook.com) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

15 Nov 2024

04 MINS

04:59

15 Nov 2024

#748

(Matt Monday): How to Stop Obsessing in Early Dating

How do you stop obsessing over someone you’ve recently started dating? When someone seems to tick all our boxes, it can be hard to NOT become flooded with thoughts of a possible future together. We anxiously wait for their text. We put them on a pedestal . . . and as a result, potentially push them away. In this week’s episode, I share 5 things you can do to stop falling for someone too quickly. By following these steps, you’ll be able to keep your value and actually enjoy dating instead of getting stuck in anxiety. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . →  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.askmh.com/) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.datingwithresults.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a>     ... Read more

11 Nov 2024

21 MINS

21:01

11 Nov 2024

#747

(Rewind): 3 Simple Ways to Get Them to Call You Instead of Just Texting

Over my career, I’ve had so many people ask me how to get someone to actually call them. We seem to live on our phones these days, and yet, it feels like no one wants to pick them up and actually have a conversation. We're all good with texting, posting on social media, or sending messages, but when it comes to hearing someone’s voice? Well, that seems like too much to ask. Or is it? I've seen people make this way more complicated than it needs to be, so let’s simplify things. If you're tired of texting endlessly and want to create a real connection through conversation, here are 3 killer techniques to get them to pick up the phone and call you... --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at →  [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.LoveLifeBook.com) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

08 Nov 2024

05 MINS

05:03

08 Nov 2024

#746

271: Why It’s Actually Good to “Settle” in Love | Feat. Oliver Burkeman

Today it's my pleasure to sit down with the excellent Oliver Burkeman ( [@oliverburkeman] (https://x.com/oliverburkeman?lang=en) ), author of the new book "<a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Mortals-Embrace-Limitations-Counts/dp/0374611998/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.fXmBIemrWY7IxC1PBOdhkSNES9KpSj1fdNGAmpqOPqBkZQpPLm3TJedC13QOJM8zU8-c_F5qp-m0btfwIYVBneKE--947QJ1Nxk8cileTEOK4WdMs2wEIl63DiPX9gJOIYReOMeDin667z9iwbL3xbP52q7NF0_UTrrCwx3mjFp_pQElR1IcZ3AcFOSUYZTNJ3MqBEVbCLjmmdam_C7r3daqFX8fkdH1DKqrSgTC4w8.bDVisSZqDRSgoWi2uWgBBsKggovVQyn5jUwrasOPrgs&dib_tag=se&keywords=meditation+mortals&qid=1730913169&sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Meditation for Mortals</a>", which I've found myself recommending to all my friends and family as his work has hugely influential on me in recent years. We sit down to discuss: - Why "settling" in relationships is necessary - How to find your Life Task - How to get over perfectionism - The power of intuition vs. reason - Being more present in your life + acceptance - Giving up on the illusion of "arriving" - How to get through difficult things, anxiety, and deal with your flaws And more! ►► Grab a copy of Oliver's wonderful new book <a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Mortals-Embrace-Limitations-Counts/dp/0374611998/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.fXmBIemrWY7IxC1PBOdhkSNES9KpSj1fdNGAmpqOPqBkZQpPLm3TJedC13QOJM8zU8-c_F5qp-m0btfwIYVBneKE--947QJ1Nxk8cileTEOK4WdMs2wEIl63DiPX9gJOIYReOMeDin667z9iwbL3xbP52q7NF0_UTrrCwx3mjFp_pQElR1IcZ3AcFOSUYZTNJ3MqBEVbCLjmmdam_C7r3daqFX8fkdH1DKqrSgTC4w8.bDVisSZqDRSgoWi2uWgBBsKggovVQyn5jUwrasOPrgs&dib_tag=se&keywords=meditation+mortals&qid=1730913169&sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Meditation for Mortals</a> ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . →  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.askmh.com/) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.datingwithresults.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

06 Nov 2024

57 MINS

57:54

06 Nov 2024

#745

(Matt Monday): 5 Mindsets to Heal Your Heartbreak

THIS is one of the top reasons why a breakup can feel so raw . . .   You may have only recently let your guard down and shown your real feelings, only to have the other person end things. This can feel especially painful because it’s like they’ve rejected you for who you truly are at your core.   But it doesn’t have to feel that way, because it’s not actually true. And in today’s new episode, I explore 5 different mindsets that can ease heartbreak and restore confidence so you can find the right person faster. ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . →  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

04 Nov 2024

21 MINS

21:55

04 Nov 2024

#744

(Rewind): They Left? This Reaction Makes Them Fight for You

When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into "panic mode." Why are they doing this? How can I be the person they want? What can I say to win them back? If you allow these swirling thoughts to take over, you’ll likely end up pushing them further and further away. Now, I’m not here to tell you whether or not you should give things another try with your ex. There are many factors to consider, which we can talk about another time. But what I do know is that if you want to have a real chance of reconnecting, you must understand this important truth before taking the next step... --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

01 Nov 2024

05 MINS

05:30

01 Nov 2024

#743

270: Q&A: Defining the relationship, Getting back with an ex, Standing out on a date

This week, I answered your questions live on a host of dating topics! Come join and listen in! :)  ►► Learn What It Takes to Get Real, Lasting Commitment. Watch the Limited-Time Replay of Casual to Committed now at:  [http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com] (http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com) ... Read more

29 Oct 2024

22 MINS

22:44

29 Oct 2024

#742

(Matt Monday): If You Want To Find Love With The Right Person, Pay Attention To THIS...

Tired of dating the wrong people? When we really want to find a relationship, saying “no” to the people who don’t align with our core values can feel scary . . . especially when we’re not meeting a lot of people we connect with. We may even start to loosen our standards and become attached to someone who’s only giving us crumbs. In today’s episode, I dive into the subtle-but-profound difference between those who successfully find love, and those who continue to remain in limbo. You’ll also learn how to cultivate the right culture in your life to attract a lasting, fulfilling relationship (plus I share a story from my younger days as a DJ). Let me know your thoughts in the comments! ►► If You’re Ready to Escape the Maze and Discover What It Takes to Get Real, Lasting Commitment Watch the Limited-Time Replay of Casual to Committed now at . . . → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com</a> ... Read more

28 Oct 2024

13 MINS

13:39

28 Oct 2024

#741

(Rewind): How to Be Brave in Love After You’ve Been Hurt

Have you ever been hurt badly by someone in love? Those wounds can stay with us a long time. They can stop us from taking chances again in love. They can make us afraid of getting close to someone again…  Afraid of being vulnerable again… Afraid of letting someone in… Because if the result of letting our guard down and choosing to love someone is that we give up all of our power, then why bother, right? Sure, we may be giving up the special experience of being in love, but at least we don’t have to experience those dreadful lows. If you can relate to this, today’s episode is for you. You’ll hear me doing a live demonstration with someone who is going through exactly this issue. And what I tell her may be exactly the words you need to hear right now. This episode isn’t a pep talk. It’s a rational, practical strategy for how to navigate your love life after someone has hurt you, or broken your heart or your trust (or all 3). ----- ►► Discover the Biggest Reason Why People Struggle to Get Commitment, and How You Can Avoid “Relationship Limbo” Once and for All. Watch the reply of my FREE Masterclass, "From Casual to Committed" before it expires at . . . <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com</a> ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

25 Oct 2024

06 MINS

06:16

25 Oct 2024