Love Life with Matthew Hussey podcast

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

 

#772

(Rewind): The #1 Cure for Your Broken Heart

I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had. If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. Life feels like white noise, and your every waking moment goes back to that feeling of loss and pain. We’ve all been there, right? But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food. It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me... --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . →  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at →  [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.LoveLifeBook.com) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

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#771

278: How To Know You're In The Wrong Relationship w/ Jillian Turecki

In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki ( [@jillianturecki] (https://instagram.com/jillianturecki) )—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of <a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Begins-You-Truths-About-Change/dp/0063374366/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.hFDNhN_qYXpmaXvSp4NlCaNASIIcOxMkO8m4bgiHqhe8oCHwTmbC6phECTYkAlc8f5oMzXEsE0oynBLHi7lMVctR-gmaxdx2dVxttxFruLFm13sMzhiVpeDm-MibcoBMFzX_uehXu3w5QuK6jFbeBFEYrzOtDnX-ChH2AV5d2lULRaVR1HeFlI5IiPw7M0EDOaj2foEyUoJ15w_vMx78jWBSDwGIEQaD-vvtXaSTsf8.ejGOBef8wm6TNeFZPUIRxS_eeFjKA5ypSn3s2sRJpwM&dib_tag=se&keywords=jillian+turecki&qid=1736362851&sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life</a>. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one: the relationship with themselves. She also hosts the popular <a href= "https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Jillian on Love</a> podcast. Topics Covered: ---The most common dating patterns that hold people back—and how to break them. ---How to know when you should accept someone's flaws vs. when they are fatal to the relationship. ---The danger of “playing house” in early relationships and how to have the difficult conversations. ---Moving past unchallenged limiting beliefs, including “I’m not lovable” or “all men cheat.” ---The crucial difference between chemistry and character—and how to avoid falling for the wrong people. ---What you should do in the first 5 dates to test compatibility ---How to make peace with your past, including complicated relationships with parents, to find freedom in your love life. ---How to move on from heartbreak and embrace the possibility of love again. ---The art of setting boundaries and recognizing when a partner's behavior doesn’t meet your needs. ✨ Follow Jillian Turecki online: ---Follow Jillian on Instagram: <a href= "https://instagram.com/jillianturecki" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">@jillianturecki</a> ---Order Jillian's new book: <a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Begins-You-Truths-About-Change/dp/0063374366/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.hFDNhN_qYXpmaXvSp4NlCaNASIIcOxMkO8m4bgiHqhe8oCHwTmbC6phECTYkAlc8f5oMzXEsE0oynBLHi7lMVctR-gmaxdx2dVxttxFruLFm13sMzhiVpeDm-MibcoBMFzX_uehXu3w5QuK6jFbeBFEYrzOtDnX-ChH2AV5d2lULRaVR1HeFlI5IiPw7M0EDOaj2foEyUoJ15w_vMx78jWBSDwGIEQaD-vvtXaSTsf8.ejGOBef8wm6TNeFZPUIRxS_eeFjKA5ypSn3s2sRJpwM&dib_tag=se&keywords=jillian+turecki&qid=1736362851&sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life</a> ---Listen to Jillian's podcast: <a href= "https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jillian-on-love/id1640172049" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Jillian on Love</a> ... Read more

08 Jan 2025

1 HR 06 MINS

1:06:44

08 Jan 2025


#770

(Matt Monday): How to Find Love & Level Up Your Confidence With These 7 Simple Steps

Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to:  • Boost your chances of finding love. • Make you a better conversationalist. • Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way).  • Increase your love for life.   Whether you want to be a little less shy or just want to level up in your social life, this is a must-listen. And it shouldn’t feel like work! It should get you excited and inspired.    Let’s do this together.   ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . .→ <a href= "http://www.MHRetreat.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.MHRetreat.com</a> ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a>   ... Read more

06 Jan 2025

24 MINS

24:45

06 Jan 2025


#769

(Rewind): Don't Even Think About Rekindling With Your Ex Until You Watch This...

Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace? It’s a profound form of mental torture. All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?” If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life… Or if you have an old flame who keeps coming in and out of your life… Please… watch this before you do anything else. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . →  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at →  [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.LoveLifeBook.com) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

03 Jan 2025

07 MINS

07:04

03 Jan 2025


#768

277: The #1 Tool to Reduce Anxiety in Your Relationships w/ Mel Robbins

Today I'm joined for an excellent conversation with my friend Mel Robbins ( [@melrobbins] (https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/?hl=en) , that will change the way you approach life’s challenges, relationships, and personal growth. Mel Robbins is a New York Times bestselling author and world-renowned expert on motivation and mindset. In this episode, she shares transformative insights from her groundbreaking new book, <a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Let-Them-Theory-Life-Changing-Millions/dp/1401971369" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">The Let Them Theory</a>. This one is packed with actionable advice to help you reduce anxiety and drama in your relationships, stop obsessing about micro-managing other people's emotions, build stronger connections, and focus on what truly matters. Topics Include: ---The core of The Let Them Theory: a simple, powerful mindset tool for managing what’s in your control. ---How to stop wasting time and energy trying to change or control others. ---The difference between acting out of guilt and making decisions aligned with your values. ---Strategies for creating healthy boundaries without guilt or resentment. ---Why jealousy is a signal of untapped potential—and how to use it to your advantage. ---The role of radical acceptance in improving relationships and finding peace. ---How to build a thriving social life by proactively creating connections. ---The transformative impact of giving up control to gain clarity and freedom. ---Mel’s personal stories of overcoming loneliness, setting boundaries, and rediscovering joy. Whether you’re struggling with difficult relationships, chasing unfulfilled goals, or seeking more happiness in your life, this episode will give you the tools to take back your power and live authentically.   ▼ Connect with Mel ▼ Get The Let Them Theory →  [https://LetThem.com] (https://letthem.com/) YouTube →   [https://www.youtube.com/c/melrobbins] (https://www.youtube.com/c/melrobbins) Instagram →  [https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/] (https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/) TikTok →  [https://www.tiktok.com/@melrobbins] (https://www.tiktok.com/@melrobbins) ... Read more

01 Jan 2025

1 HR 02 MINS

1:02:46

01 Jan 2025


#767

(Matt Monday): The 3 Biggest Money RED FLAGS in Relationships…

A few years ago, a top investing firm found that 41% of divorced Gen Xers and 29% of Baby Boomers said they ended their marriage due to disagreements about money.    Given that money can cause so much upset and even break up relationships, why don’t we talk about it more? What if your partner refuses to discuss money or has unhealthy money habits? What if you both have very different incomes and it makes your partner insecure? No matter what question you have about money and relationships, you can’t miss today’s video featuring my good friend—and bestselling author—Ramit Sethi (<a href= "https://www.instagram.com/ramit/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">@ramit</a>).  We go deep into topics such as:  ---The biggest red flags with money ---Having conversations about spending on luxuries and dividing finances ---Dealing with power imbalances between men and women with different incomes ---Insecurities and shame around money (or lack of it) ---How to use money to have a rich life and achieve your goals as a couple And more! --- Order Ramit's new book "<a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Money-Couples-Stress-Fights-Together/dp/1523523689/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2Q6GSMK3HU8S9&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.yYBkenGCxPA3pz9ZkCyda_kLpan7gnyLe5a5QCl9QfpGWjusjdqX_5wfyHnLfcOYD6DXlMhMiag9r9GLu5OpabzOcB_LcZRPzx_7ONjAJBXsd_8kf9pyTyQT0hT0Esn10wJc44QIXk6XHwxBIbWUNP7bY9FBKECx_1n29WJ7WLQE012irJm_wqaxT5Goob1YdZ9c_BtbuHPH-5jWO19SBCSYJEwSN2Bx6ctB-KZ-b68.SMkNFesExANBHZK_V6T2luGDQxFzhZSMwaV3qbAqeV4&dib_tag=se&keywords=money+for+couples+ramit+sethi&qid=1734980646&sprefix=money+for+co%2Caps%2C237&sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Money for Couples</a>" to take control of your finances in your relationships! ... Read more

28 Dec 2024

1 HR 43 MINS

1:43:07

28 Dec 2024


#766

(Rewind): Top 5 Dating Myths Holding You Back in Love

You know what drives me soooo crazy? Hearing men and women repeat the same dumb myths about relationships over and over again.  And I don’t blame anyone for believing them. The fact is that society, romantic movies, and even our friends and family are responsible for spreading certain “facts” about love and dating that just aren’t true. So today, I teamed up with my brother Stephen Hussey (co-writer of the "Get The Guy" book) to break down the top 5 annoying dating myths that need to end now. This is a fun one – can’t wait for you to see it. . . --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . →  [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at →  [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.LoveLifeBook.com) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

27 Dec 2024

07 MINS

07:31

27 Dec 2024


#765

(Matt Monday): 10 Ways to Get Over “Dating Disappointment”

Finding and attracting the relationship you really want can be filled with disappointment. You can have a bad date, or someone who flakes after you felt a real connection, and it can completely crush your hope. You may even feel like “It’s just never going to happen for me,” or worse, “I’ll never find someone like my ex.”   But these stories aren’t true. And it’s so important to reframe these moments so we don’t get swept up in our frustration. In today’s episode, I share the 10 best pieces of advice I’ve gathered over the years to help you get over your dating disappointment . . . and give you hope. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

23 Dec 2024

25 MINS

25:25

23 Dec 2024


#764

(Rewind): When You Feel Alone After Heartbreak (3 Secrets To Moving On)

When you get your heart broken, who do you turn to for advice? Family? Friends? Trawling around Reddit forums to see what other fellow sufferers have to say about your pain? All of this may help. Maybe. It struck me recently how we’re never really taught how to move on from the agony of losing someone we love. And if we’re not careful, following the behavior of the people around us can make us feel even worse. So. . . let’s pause. Take a breath. Get our s**t together again. It’s nearly 2025. Maybe you’re missing someone right now as the holidays roll around. But now is not the time to mourn. Now is the time to truly begin your healing and put yourself back together before next year begins. Here’s what you need to know to finally move on. . . --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → <a href= "http://www.askmh.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.AskMH.com</a> ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → [ http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.lovelifebook.com/) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.datingwithresults.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

20 Dec 2024

08 MINS

08:16

20 Dec 2024


#763

276: The Subtle Signs You're Forcing a Relationship With the Wrong Person

In this episode, I speak to Andre Duqum about the 4 levels of importance in a relationship, how to know if you’re with the right person, and dating strategy when you feel like your on a timeline because of your biological clock. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.datingwithresults.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ▼ Connect with Andre ▼ Know Thyself Podcast → <a href= "https://www.knowthyself.one/">https://www.knowthyself.one/</a> Youtube → ‪<a href= "https://youtube.com/@andreduqum?si=C_-VuoUPvzuDGQJv">@Andreduqum</a>‬  Instagram → <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/andreduqum">@andreduqum</a>   ... Read more

18 Dec 2024

27 MINS

27:00

18 Dec 2024


#762

(Matt Monday): 7 Crucial Steps to LET GO and MOVE ON From Someone

What can you do when you’re in a situationship and know you should end things . . . but you’re too hooked to risk letting them go? When you’re with them, it’s like all your dreams are coming true . . . but when they withdraw, you feel lost and confused. In today’s new episode, I share 7 steps to finally move on and get the love you deserve. And if you need help convincing your heart as well as your head, these steps will give you the courage you need to do it. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

16 Dec 2024

25 MINS

25:34

16 Dec 2024


#761

(Rewind): When They Say "I Need Time," You Say This...

Ever had someone who keeps you just on the edge? Who swings between making you feel like you’re the most important person in the world and suddenly pulling away and freaking out?   Yep, it’s totally normal.   Today, I’m going to share an exclusive video clip from a live seminar where you’ll see me in a Q&A addressing someone who went through this exact situation.   It’s easy to assume in these moments that you’re the problem or to think you somehow have to figure out what’s going on in their head and convince them to make the right choice.   Instead, I want you to do this... --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → [http://www.AskMH.com] (http://www.AskMH.com) ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → [ http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.LoveLifeBook.com) ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

13 Dec 2024

05 MINS

05:44

13 Dec 2024