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Love Life with Matthew Hussey podcast

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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

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  Matthew Hussey  

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

 

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#670

(Rewind:) If You've Ever Been Ghosted or Lied to, Watch THIS

It would be nice if we had a crystal ball telling us which romantic flings would work out at the very beginning so we didn’t invest precious time in the wrong people.   It can be hard to read someone’s intentions in the early stages. I can’t make you a foolproof lie detector, and I can’t guarantee you’ll never be ghosted again, but I can make you a competent “detector of intentions” so you have the best possible chance of investing your time into people who are serious about a relationship with you. --- ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign Up Now For My Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships.com → [http://www.The3Relationships.com] (http://www.The3Relationships.com) ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

Yesterday

08 MINS

08:37

Yesterday

#669

244: Stop These Insecure Dating Behaviors! - w/ Sabrina Zohar

Matthew sits down to talk with Sabrina Zohar (<a href= "https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar/?hl=en">sabrina.zohar</a>) on unrealistic expectations in dating, healing old wounds, setting boundaries, choosing a happy relationship, and how insecurities affect who we date. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►►Sign up Now For My Free Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at . . . → <a href= "http://www.The3Relationships.com">http://www.The3Relationships.com</a> ... Read more

15 May 2024

54 MINS

54:46

15 May 2024

#668

(Matt Monday): THIS Is The Most Dangerous Moment In Dating

So you just realized you actually like someone?  Hold up a second . . .   When we fall for someone in the early stages of dating, it’s very easy to drop our standards and lose sight of our boundaries. We check our texts constantly. We cancel other plans for them. We agree to live on their schedule.    This situation is especially dangerous for people who have a more anxious attachment style and tend to respond to relationship uncertainty by bending over backwards to keep someone happy.   In today’s new episode, I explore how different attachment styles respond in this situation, and how you can attract a healthy relationship where your standards and boundaries won’t be trampled. ►► Get Vulnerable Stories, Real Insights and Practical Tools Delivered Straight to Your Inbox Every Friday. Sign Up Now For My Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships.com →  [http://www.The3Relationships.com] (http://www.The3Relationships.com) ►► Get My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

13 May 2024

13 MINS

13:11

13 May 2024

#667

(Rewind): 5 Dating Hacks That Raise Their Attraction

There’s a line from the movie Vanilla Sky that I’ve always loved. It’s when Tom Cruise’s character realizes: “The little things... There’s nothing bigger, is there?”  That’s often true in attraction too.    So many people are looking for the huge epiphany, instead of the subtle-yet-powerful changes to their behavior that can skyrocket their results.  As you’ll hear in this episode, turning someone’s head doesn’t have to be complicated. --- ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → <a class="autolinked" href= "http://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-behavior="truncate">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a>   ... Read more

10 May 2024

06 MINS

06:41

10 May 2024

#666

(Matt Monday): Afraid You'll Never Find Love? You NEED to Hear THIS

Over the past week, so many of you have expressed how much Angela’s story in my new book, Love Life, touched you deeply (in the chapter titled “Have Hard Conversations”). So this week I thought I’d share the actual interview with her from my Live Retreat. I’ve found that one of the biggest confidence-killers in dating happens when we dwell on the reasons why someone may not be attracted to us. Our looks, our age, our past, even the fact that we have kids—the fear of rejection for who we are can stop us before we get started. Angela’s story is one of the most impactful I’ve heard on confidence and insecurity, and I think you’ll love hearing it in her own words. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► Transform Your Relationship with Life in 6 Magical Days. Learn More About My Retreat at. . . →  [http://www.MHRetreat.com] (http://www.MHRetreat.com) ... Read more

06 May 2024

27 MINS

27:50

06 May 2024

#665

(Rewind): 11 Signs They're Serious About You

Labels sometimes take longer to come than the feelings themselves, and our fear of getting hurt can make us all reluctant to be vulnerable and express what we feel.  As a result, so many people come to me asking . . . “Are we living in a time when people just don’t want to commit anymore?” “How do you know if someone is ready?”   These two questions pop up A LOT, and that got me thinking about my own thoughts on the subject . . .   In this rewind episode, I give you 11 specific signs to look for to determine if someone is serious about you. --- ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → <a class="autolinked" href= "http://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-behavior="truncate">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ... Read more

03 May 2024

11 MINS

11:56

03 May 2024

#664

243: How To Attract and Keep The Relationship You Really Want

Today Matt sits down with Lisa Bilyeu, author of <a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Radical-Confidence-No-BS-Lessons-Becoming-ebook/dp/B09JPHK9C3" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Radical Confidence</a>, to talk about how to escape our toxic cycles in relationships, overcoming low self-esteem, communicating with your partner (even when you have different love languages), attracting the right person, and how to figure out who is right for you. ►► Follow Lisa <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/?hl=en" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">@LisaBilyeu</a> ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → <a class="autolinked" href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-behavior="truncate">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ... Read more

01 May 2024

50 MINS

50:08

01 May 2024

#663

(Matt Monday): Want More Than A Situationship? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead

When we like someone, it’s tempting to move fast, let our emotions take over and simply do what feels good. But in this frenzy of excitement we can inadvertently end up on a path we don’t want to be on… In this clip I answer a question from someone who didn’t want to repeat the last 2 years of her life, which she spent in a ‘friends with benefits’ situation.   ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → <a class="autolinked" href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-behavior="truncate">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ... Read more

30 Apr 2024

11 MINS

11:15

30 Apr 2024

#662

242: 5 Things to Know Before You “Netflix and Chill” With Someone

You’ve been on a date or two with someone and things are going pretty well. Then suddenly they ask you, “Wanna come over to my place and watch a movie tonight?” Is it too soon? What if you like this person but you feel it’s moving a little too fast? In today’s video, I share 5 things you need to know before you “Netflix and chill” if you want more than just a casual hookup. ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” →  [http://www.DatingWithResults.com] (http://www.DatingWithResults.com)   ... Read more

26 Apr 2024

12 MINS

12:43

26 Apr 2024

#661

241: If You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People, Listen To This...

We may not realise it, but many of us subconsciously hide from real love because it forces us to be honest and show who we really are. And when we get threatened, we either go cold, hide, or lash out with passive aggression.  If you've struggled with emotional unavailability or always choosing the wrong people, this might be why... ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → <a class="autolinked" href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-behavior="truncate">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ... Read more

25 Apr 2024

32 MINS

32:52

25 Apr 2024

#660

240: My Brother Stephen Interviews Me About My New Book!

My brother and I sit down to talk about why I wrote my new book "Love Life", how dating has changed in the last 10 years, choosing the right person, and how to break toxic cycles in relationships.  ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com </a> ... Read more

24 Apr 2024

58 MINS

58:30

24 Apr 2024

#659

239: 4.5 Years Later... It's Here! (Huge Announcement)

Friends...it's finally happening :) ►► Get Your FREE Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Order Your Copy of Love Life to Enter the Love Life Giveaway at. . . →  [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.LoveLifeBook.com) ... Read more

23 Apr 2024

21 MINS

21:50

23 Apr 2024

#658

(Matt Monday): How to Deal With the Fear of Never Finding Your Person

I’ve been asked this question several times a week for the last 10+ years. You may feel SO ready to share your life with someone . . . only to have had dates that fizzled out or incompatible relationships . . . or perhaps you’ve remained single with no such person on the horizon. It can even begin to feel like that’s the way it will always be.   If you’re working through feelings of longing, loneliness, or sadness—or just want to feel more excited about dating—in today’s new episode, I share 3 tools that will help you effectively manage those difficult emotions, and give you real hope for the future. ► Want to Make 2024 The Year You Find Love? Join My Free Virtual Event Find Your Person on May 4. . . → [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.lovelifebook.com/) ... Read more

22 Apr 2024

19 MINS

19:42

22 Apr 2024

#657

(Rewind): 3 Texts You Can Send to Get Their Attention INSTANTLY

On dating apps, first impressions matter. And after you clear the first hurdle of endless swiping and find someone who piques your interest, it’s often the next step that’s the hardest . . . That is, of course: What on EARTH do you say to them?! You scan their bio, hoping inspiration will strike and you’ll manage to figure out the perfect opening gambit. You think: Would a simple “hey” or “great photo” show a lack of imagination? I’d like to just be myself, but it can feel so hard to be authentic without seeming too eager . . . Many times, thoughts like these make us overthink everything to the point where we end up sending something awkward . . . or worse, not sending anything at all, letting the opportunity of connection pass us by. So how can we make an impression on people who haven’t yet had the chance to meet us and see how awesome we are? In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you 3 openers you can send right away to stand out on a dating app. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.datingwithresults.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

19 Apr 2024

09 MINS

09:46

19 Apr 2024

#656

238: Why You SHOULDN'T Always Trust Your Instincts In Dating

We are often told to "trust our instincts" in love and relationships. But sometimes our first reaction can be unhealthy, impulsive, or come from bad patterns we have learned that cause us to self-sabotage. In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to question your instincts and make the right decision when you have an emotional reaction or become anxious in dating. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a>   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.datingwithresults.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

18 Apr 2024

28 MINS

28:37

18 Apr 2024

#655

237: How To Find Love With Anxious Attachment

Matt and Audrey had the pleasure this week of sitting down with Mark Groves, author of the new book "<a href= "https://www.amazon.com/Liberated-Love-Release-Codependent-Patterns/dp/B0C3P536ND/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1IYZFNAPO91MY&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.7wV6saMlx9gFgtTw3WEAEPRw6ElOtYMRmgywdYZJFRcvIgXjAE8nSFslkt9C7mqwWY3k_YY6YFRtz7E2HvK3rwCi_PQrbn9-nCmAqwg07KGC5Wm5mdvtja79PixhnBkLcpQLvQ7BMS7PspBT8te7HscU1p3wbm8IDyCi-Ry66fzBqwU0cMMajUHwkebPn2fCre8Cmx3ncDV8rK_QoGS85y2hTSFEv7O_M-YUV6J4w4Y.ehHQismlhC_CtXtC9YRbp2HYkKtvYzAI3-tm_E-SZi4&dib_tag=se&keywords=liberated+love&qid=1713378732&sprefix=liberated+lov%2Caps%2C616&sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Liberated Love</a>" and host of the  [Mark Groves] (https://markgroves.com/podcast/)  podcast. In this episode, we discuss anxious vs. avoidant attachment styles in love, how to overcome co-dependency, getting back together after a break up, and the crucial importance of TRUE honesty and facing reality in having fulfilling relationships. ►► Follow Mark on Instagram <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/createthelove/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">createtthelove </a>►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a>   ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.datingwithresults.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

17 Apr 2024

50 MINS

50:26

17 Apr 2024

#654

(Matt Monday): 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Dating

You know those moments where you look back and think, “I wish I’d known then what I know now”? Well, in today’s new episode, I share the 7 things I wish I knew back when I was dating. Hopefully you can learn from my mistakes in my 20s and 30s to save yourself extra time (and heartache)!   If you’ve ever found yourself giving more than the other person in your relationship, felt heartbroken that someone doesn’t like you back, or chased the wrong person, you can’t miss this! ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

15 Apr 2024

18 MINS

18:59

15 Apr 2024

#653

(Rewind): Feeling Insecure About Their Ex? WATCH THIS

Have you ever felt jealous about your ex’s previous partners? In the age of social media, it’s easier than ever to see our partner’s history and compare ourselves to our ex’s history. In this episode, we talk about the problem of this “retroactive jealousy”, how it affects us psychologically, and how to let go of it.   ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.datingwithresults.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

12 Apr 2024

12 MINS

12:03

12 Apr 2024

#652

236: Why You Should Feel Confident NOW

Many people think they need to wait to feel confident. Or they believe it's a special gift you're born with. Or they believe it's something that only comes after you achieve a certain goal.  Matt and Audrey sit down to explain why none of those are true. You can actually feel confident right now - and it starts with changing what part of your life you focus on. ►► Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Pre-Order Your Copy of Love Life Before April 23 to Enter the Love Life Giveaway. Learn More At. . . → <a class="autolinked" href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-behavior="truncate">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” →  [http://www.DatingWithResults.com] (http://www.DatingWithResults.com) ... Read more

11 Apr 2024

11 MINS

11:25

11 Apr 2024

#651

235: THIS Is a Common Tactic Used to Avoid Commitment

Matt and Audrey sit down to discuss the problem of settling for someone else's lack of commitment simply because you can't let them go, how to set boundaries, and what is required of us to choose the right person. ►► Get Your Free Ticket to Find Your Person LIVE on May 4 PLUS a Chance to Win a 1:1 with Matthew & SO Much More! Pre-Order Your Copy of Love Life Before April 23 to Enter the Love Life Giveaway. Learn More At. . . → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a>  ... Read more

10 Apr 2024

37 MINS

37:33

10 Apr 2024

#650

(Matt Monday): Is A Great First Date A Red Flag?

A bad date—where we know we won’t see the person again—can be frustrating since it wastes our time. But what’s even MORE frustrating? An amazing date with someone who just disappears after seeing us only once or twice. It leaves us wondering: “What happened?? I thought we had real chemistry!” In this episode, I explain exactly why someone pulls away after a first date… (and how you can tell the difference between someone who’s a keeper vs. someone who’s just telling you what you want to hear.)  ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a class= "yt-core-attributed-string__link yt-core-attributed-string__link--display-type yt-core-attributed-string__link--call-to-action-color" tabindex="0" href= "https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbFkwTlU1blZNdlhfbFVGbktRblFjTDFtcHhMZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZTFySlhJWVQ5Zno2bkFtNm52NkNiY1MwM0s5aWJ4VUhXMTBvUXl5X2xTeHRKSVVVNS1wcHFzZ2N0NV80TGdFSWR3R1RTWWVab3pnWEI4c1QtdDV4eFR3ZEhRMlNmQnprVUVjZmpTQkZmY2hId0VZWQ&q=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.DatingWithResults.com%2F&v=TPtK8Yu71ds" target="_blank" rel= "nofollow noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a>  ... Read more

08 Apr 2024

12 MINS

12:14

08 Apr 2024

#649

(Rewind) Why Did They Stop Chasing You?

In this episode, I share with you 3 mistakes we can fall into that have the potential to hurt desire. These 3 insights could mean the difference between piquing someone’s interest and a situation just fizzling out.   Once you’re aware of them, they’re extremely easy to spot . . . so you won’t inadvertently end up “8-Miling” yourself. (Trust me, it’ll make sense when you hear the episode.) ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → <a href= "http://www.DatingWithResults.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.DatingWithResults.com</a> ... Read more

05 Apr 2024

12 MINS

12:41

05 Apr 2024

#648

234: How To Have Honest Conversations About What We Want In Love

Ever felt like you're scared of expressing your honest feelings when dating or in a relationship? It can often feel scary to put ourselves on the line. Or to open up. Or to even admit to ourselves that we want to find love.  In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down to talk about why we act aloof in dating, fear of rejection, how we put up barriers that stop us truly connecting, and how to be honest about what we really want in love. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at →  [http://www.LoveLifeBook.com] (http://www.lovelifebook.com/)   ►► Join a Community of People Learning to Transform Their Impact with People, Their Happiness in Life and Their Love for Themselves. Subscribe to my Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at. . . → <a class="autolinked" href= "http://www.the3relationships.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer" data-behavior= "truncate">http://www.The3Relationships.com</a> ... Read more

03 Apr 2024

55 MINS

55:31

03 Apr 2024

#647

(Matt Monday): If You Hear THIS From Your Long-Distance Partner... RUN!

Long-distance relationships are a tough gig. You miss each other. You feel like a separate part of their life at times. And you don’t always know when you’ll be together again. So . . . is it worth it? Well, it depends. Long-distance relationships are tough, but there are warning signs that can help tell you if it’s likely to work long-term. In fact, there’s one thing someone can SAY to you that basically guarantees a long-distance relationship won’t last, and I share it in this episode. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► Join a Community of People Learning to Transform Their Impact with People, Their Happiness in Life and Their Love for Themselves. Subscribe to my Weekly Newsletter, The 3 Relationships at. . . →  [http://www.The3Relationships.com] (http://www.The3Relationships.com) ... Read more

01 Apr 2024

11 MINS

11:56

01 Apr 2024

#646

(Rewind): 5 Shortcuts to Finding Love (Even if You Hate Dating)

Dating fatigue is real. Given the option, I think most people would choose to bypass the process entirely and skip directly to being in a meaningful relationship. But since science isn’t quite there yet, how can you manage your energy so the dating process—the part you need in order to FIND that relationship—doesn’t burn you out before you even GET to the good stuff? In today’s video, I share 5 tips that will help you find an energy-replenishing relationship rather than an energy-depleting one. You’ll learn how to:   • Ease into getting to know someone rather than pinning all your hopes and dreams on them. • Communicate from a place of strength rather than insecurity. • Match your investment and energy to the stage of the relationship you’re actually in. You’ll want to bookmark this video and rewatch it before any date.   ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "https://www.lovelifebook.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay of my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . →  [The Love Life Reset REPLAY] (https://lovelifereplay.com/) ... Read more

29 Mar 2024

09 MINS

09:43

29 Mar 2024

#645

233: What We Wish We Knew BEFORE Planning Our Wedding

Some of our biggest milestones in life can also be the most stressful of our lives: buying a home, getting our first car, and even planning a wedding! In this episode, Matt and Audrey sit down with their wonderful wedding planners Lynden Lane to discuss what makes the perfect wedding, how to budget for a big event, and how to create the greatest memories with as little stress as possible. --- ►► Connect with Lynden Lane <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbW9rRm5PT2RqUXJyejhuMGJrai1RTHdZOS1SUXxBQ3Jtc0ttcTN5dTc1Q0M5NlhKd0ZqZllXajZaaDk2Z2s5a3Npa21yUUxmVENMNWlLUjloN3FjN19kbGVBcHpja2FOUXpmQy1LdFdveGZZWWp5NnZDRDQtUUhrTzhXOExlbnI2TnNlUDA5d1BfVTRYcmdabkVOMA&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Flyndenlane&v=4XTL5GYKrYY" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">@lyndenlane</a> ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> Thank You to Our Wedding Vendors! Design & Production: @lyndenlane Photography: @sarahfalugo.co Video: @giuliocantarella_wedding Florals: @keithjlaverty Paper Goods: @cecilespaperco Venue: @dimoradellebalze Rentals: @theark_ & @theonicollection Stylist: @nextlevelwardrobe Hair Stylist: @tonipellegrinoartandscience Dress: @pronovias DJ: @redshoela ... Read more

27 Mar 2024

1 HR 11 MINS

1:11:48

27 Mar 2024

#644

(Matt Monday): How Me and My Wife Met... (It's Not What You Think)

People ask me a lot, “How did you meet your wife?” Well, it wasn’t just one decision. It was actually a few simple steps that even an introvert like me could use to be in exactly the right place to meet Audrey when I did. I believe anyone can apply this advice in their dating lives to find love. So if you want to maximize your chances of meeting (and attracting) someone amazing, the 3 practical steps I mention in this episode could lead you to your person . . . possibly without you ever having to swipe right! ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► Ready to Get Off The Sidelines and Back Into Dating? Catch the Replay of The Love Life Reset at. . . →  [http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com] (http://www.LoveLifeReplay.com) ... Read more

25 Mar 2024

12 MINS

12:20

25 Mar 2024

#643

(Rewind): Don't Like Their Behavior? Use These 3 Simple Tips!

If you’ve been in the early dating stages with someone, you may have noticed after a few weeks when you get one of those “uh-oh” moments. Maybe they didn't call when they said they would. Or they're a little ignorant about something that’s important to you. Or appeared to take something you did for granted. It might not be terrible behavior, but you know it’s behavior you don’t want to be a pattern for the rest of your relationship. So how do you handle the conversation without letting your emotions get the better of you? I.e. without reacting in a way that would hurt rather than help the relationship... In this week’s episode, I’m going to give 3 steps of exactly how to handle this difficult conversation, so that you can handle it in a productive way when it happens. This is how you make them want to be a better person for you... ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "https://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay of my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . →  [The Love Life Reset REPLAY] (https://lovelifereplay.com) ... Read more

22 Mar 2024

09 MINS

09:27

22 Mar 2024

#642

232: How To Feel Worthy Of Love

What does it mean to truly accept every part of yourself? How do we let go of beating ourselves up for our mistakes and flaws and embrace who we are? There are so many things that can knock us off our path, make us feel shame, and cause us to feel unloveable. In this episode, Matthew explains how to build the foundations of self-compassion and stop basing our worth on the wrong things. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbW5oVjVqeUZUazNhcjF1WnluSzN0N2lYcjRBQXxBQ3Jtc0tsRFJZRlI0SnVRQl9NMFRHT1V6a1I1MXdjRUdWRC1vdFVQdklwRndyOEVzS1FMcHZKcnp3UFJ1Rk1Pbktwb1dDRTBQZThYYUdRX2Jsdm9kVEowWll0d0w1cndWWVEtM3dUemRkVGxBbkt1T09PZUE3WQ&q=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.LoveLifeBook.com%2F&v=Ej3_yYhxbY8" target="_blank" rel= "noopener noreferrer">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Watch the Replay to my Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . → [The Love Life Reset REPLAY] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lug5X3KKsaY)   ... Read more

20 Mar 2024

15 MINS

15:20

20 Mar 2024

#641

(Matt Monday): Are They Emotionally Unavailable? DON'T CHASE, Do THIS!

Have you fallen for someone who just can’t give you the same affection back? Emotionally unavailable people are the relationship version of junk food. You know it’s bad . . . but your addiction keeps you going back for more. This is nothing more than a formula for heartbreak. In today’s new episode, I dive into the psychology behind why we’re attracted to emotionally unavailable people, and why just because something’s scarce (such as someone’s attention) doesn’t mean it’s valuable. ►► Pre-Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → <a href= "http://www.LoveLifeBook.com" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">http://www.LoveLifeBook.com</a> ►► Conquer Your Dating Fears and Reinvent Your Approach to Finding Love Again. Join My FREE Virtual Event, The Love Life Reset. Find out How at . . . →  [http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com] (http://www.LoveLifeTraining.com) ... Read more

18 Mar 2024

10 MINS

10:26

18 Mar 2024