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How to Be a Girl

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Marlo Mack

How to Be a Girl is an audio podcast I produce about life with my six-year-old transgender daughter. It stars the two of us -- a single mom and a six-year-old "girl with a penis" -- as we attempt together to sort out just what it means to be a girl.

#42

A post-election message from Marlo

My daughter and I are stunned and sad, but we are doing OK. Here is something for you. Some words from me, with some music from my amazing daughter. ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/8a9d48fc-dc78-489a-a037-2a07fe7b5104/hands?format=1000w) Music credit: Improvisation on electric guitar, by M. Mack ... Read more

26 Nov 2024

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26 Nov 2024

#41

Episode XXXV: Unwelcome (Part II)

What happens when supporting your child means leaving your home? Meet my courageous friends from Montana, who are building a new life in a new state after anti-trans legislation targeted their young daughter. This is the second part in a two-part story. [Listen to Part One here.] (https://www.howtobeagirlpodcast.com/episodes/episode-xxxiv-unwelcome-part-i) ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/e2081dcb-c6c8-4d08-9df5-0b5a2aa8ca70/HTBAG-welcome-banner.jpg?format=1000w) Music credits: Game Hens by [Blue Dot Sessions] (https://www.sessions.blue) Chorus and Call, Detroit by [Podington Bear] (https://www.soundofpicture.com) ... Read more

22 Oct 2024

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22 Oct 2024

#40

Episode XXXIV: Unwelcome (Part I)

Imagine living in a place where your own child has been outlawed. This is happening, right now, all over the United States. In this episode, you’ll meet my new friends, a courageous and close-knit family who suddenly found themselves unwelcome in the place they had always called home. ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/735b78e2-46f3-4b41-aeef-c7fb0a86967f/squarespace-banner.jpg?format=1000w) Music credits: Night Light, Dowdy, Quarry Clouds, & November Mist, by [Blue Dot Sessions] (https://www.sessions.blue/) Pacific Tree Frogs by [Podington Bear] (https://www.soundofpicture.com/) ... Read more

07 Oct 2024

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07 Oct 2024

#39

Episode XXXIII: How We Are Now

It's been over two years. I wanted to let you know how we are doing. Thank you for your patience. (Spoiler: My daughter is still amazing.) ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/89c03aa2-72b1-4b1c-a901-009bea6c8f28/IMG_2691.JPG?format=1000w) MUSIC CREDITS: Tides (instrumental) by Benjamin Mullins (Courtesy of Audiosocket) Lost in the Dark (instrumental) by Forest Sun (Courtesy of Audiosocket) ... Read more

25 Dec 2023

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25 Dec 2023

#38

Episode XXXII: The Medical Stuff

For years, people have asked me what I would do when my daughter hit puberty. Was I going to let her do... “the medical stuff?" Well, right after the pandemic struck, so did puberty. And this is what my daughter (and her mother) decided to do. ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1631051952634-KDO1XWRR1GR2GNPW79DV/puberty-v2.jpg?format=1000w) If you're interested in learning more about our story, you can check out my memoir: [Audible Originals version ] (http://adbl.co/HowToBeAGirl) [Book version] (https://theexperimentpublishing.com/catalogs/fall-2021/how-to-be-a-girl/) Find us on Twitter: [@girlpodcast] (https://twitter.com/girlpodcast?lang=en) [Support HTBAG on Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/girlpodcast) MUSIC CREDITS: “Starlight” and “Little Dream” by Podington Bear “Hand of God” (instrumental) by Benjamin Mullins (Courtesy of Audiosocket) “Lonely Life” (instrumental) by Michelle Lewis (Courtesy of Audiosocket) “Climbing Clouds” (instrumental) by Jetty Rae (Courtesy of Audiosocket) ... Read more

06 Sep 2021

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06 Sep 2021

#37

Episode XXXI: M is for Middle School, Take Two

This episode is different from any of our previous episodes. It’s also a do-over, because the first version of this episode overlooked the fact that my daughter is growing up, fast. She’s almost a teenager, and we both agree that it’s time she took charge. So that’s what she did. [(Here’s a little more about how this episode came to be.) ] (https://gendermom.wordpress.com/2020/11/02/mom-learns-a-lesson/) ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1603922459051-J32M0YXCTEQXYUSM6JPG/Take2.jpg?format=1000w) Listen to the book! [How to Be a Girl on Audible Originals] (http://adbl.co/HowToBeAGirl) Find us on Twitter: [@girlpodcast] (https://twitter.com/girlpodcast?lang=en) [Support HTBAG on Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/girlpodcast) MUSIC CREDITS: “Edge of the World” (Instrumental) by Dot Dot Dot (Courtesy of Audiosocket) Filesharer's Lament by Podington Bear ... Read more

02 Nov 2020

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02 Nov 2020

#36

Episode XXX: Emma at last

I want you to meet my good friend, Emma. When she was a little girl, she was just like my daughter. But no one knew her for 60 years. I'm so glad she's here now. (Note: I recorded this interview early this year, when my daughter was still in elementary school. She just started middle school. Please stay tuned for an episode soon(ish) about that!) ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1569267461376-T6GJQ83OLHI0MRBLCIZW/Emma.jpg?format=1000w) ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1569268868530-CIV7Q8E2ANYFFOJE4Q41/Emma-and-M.jpg?format=1000w) MUSIC CREDITS: “Dust in Sunlight,” “Frosted Glass,” “Boardwalk,” and “Clair_De Lune Solo Piano” by Podington Bear "The Wah-Watusi" by The Orlons “In the Garden (instrumental)” by Jetty Rae (Courtesy of Audiosocket) “Like a Movie” by Nicole Reynolds (Courtesy of Audiosocket) ... Read more

23 Sep 2019

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23 Sep 2019

#35

Episode XXIX: Eleven

![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1548380806883-92W1IJUM314P2ICCQ5A8/Eleven.JPG?format=1000w) I sit down for a talk with my (almost) 11-year-old: Cliques, gossip, fashion, puberty, and how it feels to be a transgender tween. MUSIC CREDIT: “Little Girl” by Jetty Rae (Courtesy of Audiosocket) ... Read more

25 Jan 2019

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25 Jan 2019

#34

Episode XXVIII: The Tell

![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1546287868861-RA4U50C9KV8FV1K4VA36/THE-TELL-MAIN-IMAGE.jpg?format=1000w) A new friend at school. A poker lesson. A 10-year-old hatches a plan. MUSIC CREDITS: “Ganef” by Vagabond Opera and “Moonlight Love Affair” by Steve Rice (Courtesy of Audiosocket) “Chill Wave” by [Kevin MacLeod] (https://incompetech.com/) “The Reckoning” by Podington Bear Please consider checking out our [Support Page] (http://www.howtobeagirlpodcast.com/support) . Your help keeps this podcast going! ... Read more

31 Dec 2018

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31 Dec 2018

#33

Episode XXVII: Playdates with Christians

![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1543474261376-IQDKQI5QCF5PDBJOTEQU/church1.JPG?format=1000w) Are the new next-door neighbors going to let their daughters play with mine if they find out she's transgender? To attempt to answer this question, I seek expert advice from a new friend in the Bible Belt. MUSIC CREDITS: “Morning” by Nicole Reynolds, “Shall We Gather at the River” by Pat Holmberg, “Amazing Grace Solo Piano” by Lana Palmer (Courtesy of Audiosocket) "Canoe" by Podington Bear "Amazing Grace," piano and vocals by Miss M. Mack [Please consider supporting us on Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/girlpodcast]) . It really helps keep this podcast going! ... Read more

29 Nov 2018

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29 Nov 2018

#32

Episode XXVI: Sarah McBride

![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1541541890436-SAFX3OV4FL9ASAIJ0AZJ/SarahMcBride.jpg?format=1000w) Need to hear a positive story about politics? I know I do. Here's the inspiring story of Sarah McBride, the young transgender activist who gives me hope (and is my personal pick for the first transgender president). MUSIC CREDITS: "Halflight," “G Piano," “Across the River, and "Triste" by Podington Bear; “Asturias” by Isaac Albeniz (Courtesy of Audiosocket). Please consider [supporting us on Patreon] (https://www.patreon.com/girlpodcast) . It really helps keep this podcast going! ... Read more

06 Nov 2018

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06 Nov 2018

#31

Episode XXV: To Tell or Not to Tell? (Advice from HTBAG listeners)

![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1540934386269-1N1M7KMEMXDLDB9TJTBU/confused-mama.jpg?format=1000w) In the last episode, I asked my listeners to help me answer this question: Should my daughter tell the kids at her new school that she's transgender? In this episode, you will hear the wisdom that came back to me. My cup runneth over. MUSIC CREDITS: “Den," "Floating in Space," "Surface Tension," and "Threshold" by Podington Bear; "You Are a Memory" by Message to Bears (Courtesy of Audiosocket); and "Leave Them" and "Telling Me So" by St. Paul de Vence. Please consider [supporting us] (http://www.howtobeagirlpodcast.com/support) . It really helps keep this podcast going! ... Read more

30 Oct 2018

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30 Oct 2018

#30

Episode XXIV: Moving & Marrying, Part III - New School

![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1534746146730-Y7BEKZ6981UH1OUMMIX2/school.JPG?format=1000w) My daughter starts fifth grade at a new school next month. It's a fresh start, where no one knows that she's transgender. How do I handle this? How do I advise her? Should she keep her transgender status to herself or be more open? At the end of this episode, I'll be asking for your advice: What should I do? MUSIC CREDITS: "Sensitive" and "Constellation" by Podington Bear (licensed under [CC BY-NC 3.0] (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/3.0/) )and "Bloom" by Jahzzar (licensed under [CC BY-SA 4.0] (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/) ). ... Read more

20 Aug 2018

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20 Aug 2018

#29

Episode XXIII: Moving & Marrying, Part II - Won't you be my neighbor?

![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1533054480259-DDNK74USOOVLE9VDZEP1/HTBAG-NEIGHBOR.JPG?format=1000w) We've moved. To the suburbs. We're getting to know the new neighbors,and we're wondering: Will they accept us here? MUSIC CREDITS:"Glitter" and "Chauncy" by Podington Bear (licensed under [CC BY-NC 3.0] (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/3.0/) ) and "Bloom" by Jahzzar (licensed under [CC BY-SA 4.0] (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/) ). ... Read more

31 Jul 2018

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31 Jul 2018

#28

Episode XXII: Moving & Marrying, Part I - The Prince

![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1526541891593-UQ5L27ZCI46UUY47LPSB/2018-HTBAG-The-Prince.jpg?format=1000w) Did you know there's a wedding coming up, uniting an Englishman with an American bride? Listen now for ALL the juicy details on this intercontinental couple's forthcoming nuptials! (And hear what my daughter thinks of her soon-to-be stepdad.) MUSIC CREDITS: "Lord of the Land," "Evening Melodrama," "Master of the Feast," "The Rule," and "Bossa Bossa" by [Kevin MacLeod] (http://www.incompetech.com) ... Read more

17 May 2018

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17 May 2018

#27

Episode XXI: Going First

In this episode, my daughter and I get to talk with two of our heroes. Jazz Jennings is a reality TV star, LGBTQ activist, and arguably the most famous transgender teen in the world. Her mom Jeanette is as brave as they come. ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1525905524031-U61KRJECYC5DJD2CN8S9/Jazz-and-Jeanette.JPG?format=1000w) MUSIC CREDITS:“Springtime,” “Quartrefoil,” and “Blue” by Podington Bear (licensed under [CC BY-NC 3.0] (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/3.0/) )“Helice” by Monplaisir (licensed under [CC0 1.0] (https://creativecommons.org/publicdomain/zero/1.0/) )“Comedie” by Jahzzar (licensed under [CC BY-SA 4.0] (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/) ) ... Read more

10 May 2018

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10 May 2018

#26

Episode XX: The Betrayal

Of course I knew this was going to happen eventually. But that didn't make it any easier when it did. ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1524769655888-VIK3I1GOWYW1VBHB1VS7/betrayal.jpg?format=1000w) Music credits: “Chicxuclub” and “Transient” by Podington Bear “Undaunted” by [Kevin MacLeod] (https://incompetech.com/) “Dormir rien de plus” by Monplaisir ... Read more

26 Apr 2018

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26 Apr 2018

#25

We're back! Welcome to a new season!

After a pretty lengthy hiatus, we're back! The first episode of the 2018 season comes out next week. Here's a little taste of what's to come. ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1524088744192-ZEQ6QIV1VA3Z0BV5CPYF/2018-HTBAG.jpg?format=1000w) Music credits:"Lode Runner" and "Sorrento" by Podington Bear. ... Read more

19 Apr 2018

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19 Apr 2018

#24

We Shall Overcome

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15 Jan 2018

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15 Jan 2018

#23

A little girl, a holiday, big news, and... a miracle!

This mini-episode contains: One VERY excited little girl awaiting Santa, news of the big changes coming to our lives, my plans for the future of this podcast, and... a miracle! Music credits: Dee Yan-Key, "Santa on Tour" (licensed under [CC BY-NC-SA 4.0] (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-sa/4.0/) ) Borrtex, "Buying Presents" (licensed under [CC BY-NC 4.0] (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/4.0/) ) ... Read more

25 Dec 2017

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25 Dec 2017

#22

When it rains it pours

How can the best of times also be the worst of times? This spring nearly washed me away...but not quite. ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1499379272774-I8T0QL4RPXGCXH68EW7R/image-asset.jpeg?format=1000w) M. tries her hand at TV journalism. Music credit: David Mumford, “Singing in the Rain (Instrumental)"(licensed under [CC BY 4.0] (https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/) ) ... Read more

06 Jul 2017

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06 Jul 2017

#21

Episode XIX: Red State Mama

I thought I was pretty brave until I met my counterpart from a red state. ![image] (https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5372a3bde4b04b1ccbd379dc/1487789210417-UGAYXXYWZBM069X9JSM2/image-asset.jpeg?format=1000w) Music credits: "Telling Me So" and "Spring" (instrumental) by [St. Paul de Vence] (http://www.stpaulband.com/) ... Read more

22 Feb 2017

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22 Feb 2017

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#42

A post-election message from Marlo

#41

Episode XXXV: Unwelcome (Part II)

#40

Episode XXXIV: Unwelcome (Part I)

#39

Episode XXXIII: How We Are Now

#38

Episode XXXII: The Medical Stuff

#37

Episode XXXI: M is for Middle School, Take Two

#36

Episode XXX: Emma at last

#35

Episode XXIX: Eleven

#34

Episode XXVIII: The Tell

#33

Episode XXVII: Playdates with Christians

#32

Episode XXVI: Sarah McBride

#31

Episode XXV: To Tell or Not to Tell? (Advice from HTBAG listeners)

#30

Episode XXIV: Moving & Marrying, Part III - New School

#29

Episode XXIII: Moving & Marrying, Part II - Won't you be my neighbor?

#28

Episode XXII: Moving & Marrying, Part I - The Prince

#27

Episode XXI: Going First

#26

Episode XX: The Betrayal

#25

We're back! Welcome to a new season!

#24

We Shall Overcome

#23

A little girl, a holiday, big news, and... a miracle!

#22

When it rains it pours

#21

Episode XIX: Red State Mama