Relationscapes podcast

Relationscapes

Exploring the ever-changing terrain of relationships, gender, and sexuality. Award-winning journalist Blair Hodges talks to the best thinkers about who we are and how we connect with each other. (Formerly known as ”Family Proclamations.”)

Exploring the ever-changing terrain of relationships, gender, and sexuality. Award-winning journalist Blair Hodges talks to the best thinkers about who we are and how we connect with each other. (Formerly known as ”Family Proclamations.”)

 

#27

Coming of Age in a Cult and Beyond (with Guinevere Turner)

One January day in 1975, seven-year-old Guinevere Turner put on her best dress, hugged her favorite toy tightly, and waited for the spaceship to arrive. The world was ending and she would be saved, spirited away to Venus with the rest of her enormous and enlightened family. When the prophecy failed, the cult carried on. But Guinevere would soon find herself thrown out into the world beyond, where things somehow became more nightmarish than before. In this episode, Guinevere Turner joins us to talk about her remarkable memoir, <a href='https://amzn.to/4h72isd'>When the World Didn't End</a>. Show Notes Buy the book <a href='https://amzn.to/4h72isd'>here</a>. Read Guinevere's piece in The New Yorker that led to her memoir <a href='https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2019/05/06/my-childhood-in-a-cult'>here</a>.  About the Guest Guinevere Turner is an acclaimed screenwriter and director. She co-wrote the screenplays for American Psycho and The Notorious Bettie Page and, most recently, wrote the screenplay for Charlie Says. She also wrote and starred in the film Go Fish and was a writer and actor on Showtime’s The L Word. An essay she wrote for The New Yorker is the inspiration for this memoir. She lives in New York and Los Angeles. A full transcript is available here at <a href='https://www.relationscapes.org/p/turner-transcript/'>relationscapes.org</a>.  ... Read more

07 Jan 2025

1 HR 06 MINS

1:06:00

07 Jan 2025


#26

MINI EPISODE: In Defense of No-Fault Divorce (with Heather Quick)

In this episode: Family Proclamations is getting a new name! A few listeners sound off on their divorce experiences, and attorney Heather Quick stops by to talk about what to look for in a divorce lawyer.  Check out Heather's resources: <a href='https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/resources/'>Florida Women's Law Group resources</a> <a href='https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/resources/podcast/'>Women Winning Divorce podcast</a>   The full transcript of this episode is available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/quick-transcript/'>here</a>.  ... Read more

23 Dec 2024

31 MINS

31:55

23 Dec 2024


#25

Painfully Funny (with Paul Scheer)

Paul Scheer is an award-winning actor, screenwriter, comedian and podcast host of How Did This Get Made? So you'd think his most interesting life stories would be about his audition for Saturday Night Live or how he came up through improv comedy to star in shows like The League and Black Monday. Those are interesting stories, but in his new memoir, Paul gives center stage to family stories. Growing up with a loving mom and dad who divorced, the tyranny of an abusive stepfather, and what it's like to become a marriage partner and a parent in the shadow of traumatic experiences.  About the Guest Paul Scheer is author of the New York Times best-selling memoir, <a href='https://amzn.to/49ssdrC'>Joyful Recollections of Trauma</a>. He's a comedian and a Screen Actors Guild Award-winning actor from shows like The League, Veep, Fresh Off the Boat, and Black Monday. He’s a podcaster of the smash-hit How Did This Get Made and also Unspooled with his co-host Amy Nicholson. He lives in LA with his partner June Diane Raphael and their two kids.  Full transcript available here at <a href='https://www.relationscapes.org/p/scheer-transcript/'>relationscapes.org</a>.  ... Read more

10 Dec 2024

56 MINS

56:14

10 Dec 2024


#24

Beyond Barbie Feminism (with Rafia Zakaria)

Mainstream feminism today was created mostly by white women, for white women. It has soaked into American pop culture, social media, the economy, politics, and more. Rafia Zakaria wants that to change. In this episode, we discuss her book <a href='https://amzn.to/3CKvJS0'>Against White Feminism: Notes on Disruption.</a> About the Guest Rafia Zakaria is a Pakistani-American attorney, feminist, journalist, and author. Her books include he authored the books The Upstairs Wife: An Intimate History of Pakistan and Against White Feminism: Notes on Disruption.  ... Read more

26 Nov 2024

1 HR 02 MINS

1:02:50

26 Nov 2024


#23

Trans in the Latter Days (with Laurie Lee Hall)

Laurie Lee Hall was a promising college student studying architecture, and she was known to the world as a man. When she encountered The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints she saw a well-defined path that fit the gender she was assigned at birth. So she buried her past to become the perfect Mormon man.  Wearing her male disguise, she married, had children, and rose to the position of chief architect for the LDS Church, overseeing its most sacred building projects. But her past refused to stay buried. Could she become who she really was without risking her family, her career, and her church membership? Her whole world? About the Guest Laurie Lee Hall is author of Dictates of Conscience: From Mormon High Priest to My New Life as a Woman. She was raised in New England and trained in architecture at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute. Her career included managing design and construction programs for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as its chief architect. She simultaneously served in several ecclesiastical leadership positions until her church excommunicated her following her gender transition. Since then she has served on the executive committee of Affirmation: LGBTQ Mormons, Families & Friends. In 2023, she became the first transgender recipient of Affirmation’s Paul Mortensen Award, for leadership within the LGBTQ/Mormon-­adjacent community. She and her partner, Nancy Beaman, live in Kentucky and have nine children and twenty-­four grandchildren. ... Read more

12 Nov 2024

2 HR 05 MINS

2:05:26

12 Nov 2024


#22

Border Separations (with Efrén Olivares)

Trump's 2018 zero tolerance policy which separated immigrant children from their parents at the border with no plan for reuniting them shocked the conscience of many Americans. And even though Trump claimed to cease the practice within weeks, zero tolerance is rooted in American law that dates back 100 years and remains on the books today. It can easily happen again.  Efrén Olivares was on the front lines defending immigrant families, and the work was personal. Efrén himself is an immigrant, and he joins us to talk about his incredible book, My Boy Will Die of Sorrow: A Memoir of Immigration From the Front Lines.   About the Guest Efrén Olivares is the deputy legal Director of the Immigrant Justice Project at the Southern Poverty Law Center. He was the lead lawyer in a successful landmark petition to the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights on behalf of families separated under the zero-tolerance policy. He previously directed the racial and economic justice program at the Texas Civil Rights Project. His writings on immigration policy have been published by the New York Times, USA Today, and Newsweek. He has testified before Congress and at briefings on Capitol Hill about immigration and border policies. He was the first member of his family to attend college. He is a graduate of the University of Pennsylvania and Yale Law School. He is author of <a href='https://amzn.to/4hjNHdJ'>My Boy Will Die of Sorrow: A Memoir of Immigration From the Front Lines</a>.   ... Read more

29 Oct 2024

1 HR 11 MINS

1:11:00

29 Oct 2024


#21

MINI EPISODE: Return of the Childless Cat Ladies

"We are effectively run in this country via the Democrats, by a bunch of childless cat ladies who are miserable at their own lives and the choices that they've made and so they want to make the rest of the country miserable, too. And it's just a basic fact, if you look at Kamala Harris, Pete Buttigieg, AOC, the entire future of the Democrats is controlled by people without children. And how does it make any sense that we've turned our country over to people who don't really have a direct stake in it." —J.D. Vance, Republican Senator and Vice Presidential candidate  In this mini episode, historian Peggy O'Donnell Heffington returns to talk about how women without children became a focal point of the 2024 presidential election. Check out her full interview <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/e/heffington/'>here</a>.  Plus: ---Listener Voicemail ---Bonus preview of the terrific podcast, "<a href='https://www.refamulating.com/'>Refamulating</a>."  ... Read more

15 Oct 2024

37 MINS

37:20

15 Oct 2024


#20

Celebrating Black Womanhood (with Catherine Joy White)

As a Black woman growing up in England, Catherine Joy White sometimes felt out of place at home, but also disconnected from the heritage of her Jamaican ancestors. Until she began connecting with the stories of remarkable but often forgotten Black woman from history. Their stories helped her re-envision what beauty means, how silence can also be strength, what "self care" really means, and what courage looks like. She found fortitude which, like a thread of gold, can connect all of us to the past, keep us grounded in the present, and point us toward a better future.  About the Guest Catherine Joy White is author of <a href='https://amzn.to/3zduqJP'>This Thread of Gold: A Celebration of Black Womanhood</a>. She earned a Master’s Degree in Women’s Studies from Oxford. She is an actor, writer, filmmaker, and founder and CEO of the award-winning Kusini Productions, a company established to champion the voices of Black women. White is also a gender advisor to the United Nations, and was honored as a member of the Forbes 30 Under 30 Class of 2022.    ... Read more

01 Oct 2024

1 HR 12 MINS

1:12:45

01 Oct 2024


#19

The Challenges of Parenting Trans Kids (with Abi Maxwell)

Abi Maxwell's daughter wanted the pink shoes. She wanted to dress as a witch on Halloween in kindergarten. She wore her hair long and envied the dance costumes other girls got to wear for the recital. The problem was that Abi's daughter was "known" to her, and to their conservative New Hampshire town, as a boy. Suddenly, Abi's beloved hometown became engulfed in a hurricane of controversy with her daughter right in the eye of the storm. In this episode, Abi tells the story of how her own ignorance about trans people turned into understanding about her own daughter, and then fear for her family's safety.  About the Guest Abi Maxwell is author of the novels Lake People and The Den. After graduating from the writing program at the University of Montana, she spent many years working in public libraries. She is a dedicated advocate for the rights of transgender youth. Her latest book is called One Day I'll Grow Up and Be a Beautiful Woman: A Mother's Story. Full transcript available at <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/maxwell-transcript/'>familyproclamations.org</a>.  ... Read more

17 Sep 2024

1 HR 14 MINS

1:14:52

17 Sep 2024


#18

The Many Reasons Women Don't Have Children (with Peggy O'Donnell Heffington)

History is full of women who never gave birth to children, whether because they couldn't or even didn't want to. Historian Peggy O'Donnell Heffington says her research about women without children made her feel more settled about her own choice not to have kids, but it also surprisingly made her feel greater solidarity with women who make the opposite choice. She joins us to talk about her book <a href='https://amzn.to/3Mv6Bjv'>Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother</a>. About the Guest Peggy O'Donnell Heffington is Assistant Senior Instructional Professor and Associate Director of Undergraduate Studies at the University of Chicago. She teaches and writes on feminism, women's movements, and motherhood in American and European history. Her first book is called <a href='https://amzn.to/3Mv6Bjv'>Without Children: The Long History of Not Being a Mother</a> (Seal Press, 2023). Her writing has also appeared in Jezebel, the Boston Globe, Los Angeles Review of Books, and elsewhere. She received her PhD in History from the University of California, Berkeley. Full transcript available at <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/heffington-transcript/'>familyproclamations.org</a>.  ... Read more

03 Sep 2024

1 HR 28 MINS

1:28:39

03 Sep 2024


#17

Women's Reproductive Health Matters (with Dr. Karen Tang)

Up to 90% of women and trans men experience menstrual abnormalities or pelvic issues at some point in their lives. Dr. Karen Tang says too many people are suffering in silence, and that's why she wrote a comprehensive guide called <a href='https://amzn.to/4cZ5NiA'>It's Not Hysteria: Everything You Need to Know About Your Reproductive Health (but Were Never Told)</a>. We're talking all about reproductive health, so if you've ever met with a gynecologist, this one's for you. And if you haven't, this one is also very much for you!  About the Guest Dr. Karen Tang is author of It's Not Hysteria: Everything You Need to Know About Your Reproductive Health (but Were Never Told). She's a board-certified gynecologist, a minimally invasive gynecologic surgeon, and an internationally recognized leader in reproductive health, and social media. She received her MD and Masters in Public Health at Columbia University, her residency training in OB/Gyn at Beth Israel Deaconess/Harvard Medical School, and her fellowship in advanced gynecologic endoscopic surgery at Legacy Health in Portland. Her areas of medical expertise include endometriosis, fibroids, chronic pelvic pain, and gender affirming gynecologic care for transgender and non-binary individuals. Follow her on social media (@karentangmd) or learn more at <a href='https://karentangmd.com/'>karentangmd.com</a>.   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/tang-transcript/'>here at familyproclamations.org</a>.    ... Read more

20 Aug 2024

1 HR 11 MINS

1:11:45

20 Aug 2024


#16

Finding Happiness in Single Life (with Bella DePaulo)

Bella DePaulo has been single her entire life, but she doesn't want anyone's pity about that. This social psychologist loves being single, and she always has. In her latest book <a href='https://amzn.to/46eAMVi'>Single At Heart</a> she highlights the lives of people who are thriving not in spite of being uncoupled, but because of it. She joins us to talk about what her research uncovers about the "Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life." About the Guest Bella DePaulo has been described by The Atlantic as “America’s foremost thinker and writer on the single experience.” She is a social psychologist who earned her PhD at Harvard University and works as an academic affiliate in the Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences at the University of California, Santa Barbara. Her latest book is <a href='https://amzn.to/46eAMVi'>Single At Heart: The Power, Freedom, and Heart-Filling Joy of Single Life</a>. She also blogs at Psychology Today. A full transcript of this episode is available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/depaulo-transcript/'>here</a>. Recommend the show to a friend! Rate and review in Apple Podcasts and Spotify! ... Read more

06 Aug 2024

1 HR 14 MINS

1:14:29

06 Aug 2024


#15

Busting Myths About Only Children (with Lauren Sandler)

Lauren Sandler is an "only child" expert. She is one. She has one. And as an award-winning journalist, Lauren dug deep to answer some of the most pressing questions about singletons. Are they more lonely? Are they more selfish? Would they be better off with siblings? She answers these questions and more in her book, <a href='https://amzn.to/46bJrrt'>One and Only: The Freedom of Having an Only Child and the Joy of Being One</a>.  About the Guest Lauren Sandler is an award-winning journalist and author based in Brooklyn. She is author of multiple best-selling books including This Is All I Got: A New Mother’s Search for Home, Righteous: Dispatches from the Evangelical Youth Movement, and One and Only: The Freedom of Having an Only Child, and the Joy of Being One. Her essays and features have appeared in dozens of publications including Time, The New York Times, Slate, The Atlantic, The Nation, The New Republic, The Guardian, New York Magazine, and Elle. She has been on staff at Salon and at NPR, where she worked on All Things Considered, Morning Edition, Weekend Edition, and the Cultural Desk. And there’s even more! Visit <a href='https://www.laurenosandler.com/about'>laurenosandler.com/about</a> to see what she's up to now.   Complete transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/sandler-transcript/'>at familyproclamations.org</a>. ... Read more

23 Jul 2024

1 HR 34 MINS

1:34:25

23 Jul 2024


#14

When High Demand Religions Control Sexuality (with Sara Glass)

As an ultra-Orthodox Jew, Sara Glass was raised to believe her purpose in life was to marry a righteous man and bear children, all to the glory of God. On the outside, she was following that plan to perfection. But on the inside, something was pulling her in a very different direction. It was traumatic, and she would have to risk everything to find healing. Sara joins us to discuss her new memoir, <a href='https://amzn.to/3Lceud7'>Kissing Girls on Shabbat</a>. Note: This episode includes discussion of miscarriage and also sexual violence. Listener discretion is advised. If you or someone you know is experiencing intimate partner abuse, help is available. Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233, text the word "START" to 88788, or visit <a href='thehotline.org'>thehotline.org</a>.  About the Guest Sara Glass is a psychotherapist and writer in New York City. She earned her a Master’s in Social Work from Rutgers University and a PhD in Psychology from Capella University. She is the clinical director of Soul Wellness NYC, a private psychotherapy practice in Midtown Manhattan, and serves as a Clinical Supervisor for Jewish Queer Youth, a non-profit organization that supports and empowers LGBTQ youth. Learn more at <a href='https://www.drsaraglass.com/'>drsaraglass.com</a> or follow her on social media: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/drsaraglass/?hl=en'>@drsaraglass</a>.   Complete transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/glass-transcript/'>here: familyproclamations.org</a>. ... Read more

09 Jul 2024

1 HR 04 MINS

1:04:12

09 Jul 2024


#13

Learning About Masculinity Today from the Ancient Romans (with Mike Pope)

(Alternate title: "Roamin' Masculinity.") What does it mean to be a man? It depends on who you ask. And it depends on *when* you ask, because masculinity has always been a moving target. In this episode we travel back to ancient Rome, where manly men loved war, violence, and sexual conquest. Mike Pope says this history has powerful relevance for us today. We're talking about his book, Lucretius and the End of Masculinity.  About the Guest Mike Pope is Associate Professor of Classical Studies at Brigham Young University. He is author of the book, <a href='https://amzn.to/4cyKvry'>Lucretius and the End of Masculinity</a>.    Complete transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/pope-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

25 Jun 2024

1 HR 06 MINS

1:06:56

25 Jun 2024


#12

Nonbinary Thinking (with Eris Young)

Eris Young is author of the go-to book on everything non-binary. They break down the basics of the gender binary, painting a more expansive, inclusive, and accurate picture of human identity. What is it like to be nonbinary? What challenges do people face? What about healthcare for nonbinary folks? All this and more, as we talk to Eris Young about their book, <a href='https://www.hachette.co.uk/titles/eris-young/theythemtheir/9781785924835/'>They/Them/Their: A Guide to Nonbinary and Genderqueer Identities</a>. About the Guest Eris Young is a queer, transgender writer of fiction and nonfiction. Their books They/Them/Their: A guide to nonbinary and genderqueer identities (2019) and Ace Voices: What it means to be asexual, aromantic, demi or gray-ace (2022), are published by <a href='https://uk.jkp.com/'>Jessica Kingsley</a>. They were the writer-in-residence at <a href='https://lighthousebookshop.com/'>Lighthouse</a>, Edinburgh's radical bookshop, from 2019 to 2022, in 2020 received a <a href='https://www.scottishbooktrust.com/writing-and-authors/new-writers-awards'>Scottish Book Trust New Writer Award</a> for fiction, and are a 2023 <a href='https://freelancerawards.co.uk/'>IPSE Freelancer Award</a> finalist, in the Equality, Diversity and Inclusion category.   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/young-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

11 Jun 2024

1 HR 24 MINS

1:24:03

11 Jun 2024


#11

Living and Writing Through Divorce (with Maggie Smith)

Maggie Smith gives us an unflinching look at divorce today and what it means to live and write our own lives. Her best-selling memoir, <a href='https://amzn.to/3wJ2T1u'>You Could Make This Place Beautiful</a>, is a story about a mother’s fierce and constant love for her children, and a woman’s love and regard for herself. Need some divorce catharsis? Want to hear what it's like to keep going? Join us.    About the Guest Maggie Smith is a poet and best-selling award-winning author of the memoir, <a href='https://amzn.to/3wJ2T1u'>You Could Make This Place Beautiful</a>. She also wrote Good Bones and Keep Moving. Her writing has appeared in the New York Times, New Yorker, The Nation, The Paris Review, and The Best American Poetry. Her awards include the Academy of American Poets Prize, Pushcart Prize, and a fellowship from the National Endowment for the Arts.    Full transcript is available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/smith-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

28 May 2024

47 MINS

47:03

28 May 2024


#10

How Child Protective Services is Broken (with Jessica Pryce)

Jessica Pryce believed a career at Child Protective Services would be a rewarding way to help keep kids safe. What she learned on the job completely changed her mind, as the system itself kept getting closer and closer to home. Now she's a scholar of the system and works as a public advocate to help change it for the better.  About the Guest Dr. Jessica Pryce earned her Master's of Social Work degree from Florida State University and a PhD from Howard University. She is currently a research professor at Florida State University’s College of Social Work. Her book is called <a href='https://amzn.to/3UViiVH'>Broken</a>:<a href='https://amzn.to/3UViiVH'> Transforming Child Protective Services—Notes of a Former Caseworker</a>.   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/pryce-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

14 May 2024

1 HR 01 MINS

1:01:29

14 May 2024


#9

Caregiving for a Dying Parent with a Difficult Past (with Deborah J. Cohan)

Caregiving for aging and dying parents can be tough for anyone, but it's even tougher when it forces you to confront longtime family dynamics of abuse. Sociologist Deborah Cohan blurs the lines between academic research on family caregiving and violence, and her own personal story about a father she calls both adoring and abusive.  Her memoir is called <a href='https://amzn.to/4b6ffQ1'>Welcome to Wherever We Are: A Memoir of Family, Caregiving, and Redemption</a>. About the Guest Deborah J. Cohan is a professor of sociology at the University of South Carolina-Beaufort. She earned her PhD in Sociology and Joint Master of Arts in Women’s Studies and Sociology at Brandeis University. Alongside her many academic publications, she is the author of the popular blog “Social Lights” for Psychology Today.   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/cohan-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

30 Apr 2024

1 HR 16 MINS

1:16:06

30 Apr 2024


#8

Building LGBTQ Families (with Abbie E. Goldberg)

With the legalization of same-sex marriage in 2015, queer families are more visible today than ever. But the path to becoming a parent is complicated for LGBTQ people. We talk about about the challenges and joys of queer family building with expert Abbie Goldberg, author of <a href='https://amzn.to/3VX0aeB'>LGBTQ Family Building: A Guide for Prospective Parents.</a>   About the Guest Dr. Abbie E. Goldberg is a psychologist and researcher who provides LGBTQ parents and prospective parents with the detailed, evidence‑based knowledge they need to navigate the transition to parenthood and help their children thrive.    Full transcript of this episode available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/goldberg-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

16 Apr 2024

58 MINS

58:16

16 Apr 2024


#7

Luckily, Divorce Ain't What It Used To Be (with April White)

Divorce can be a difficult process today, but it's nothing compared to what it used to be. In the late 1800s, women from around the country had to fight for the right to separate from their husbands on their own terms. April White explains how their stories still impact us today.  About the Guest April White is author of <a href='https://amzn.to/3IH0Dua'>The Divorce Colony: How Women Revolutionized Marriage and Found Freedom on the American Frontier</a>. She has served as an editor and writer at Atlas Obscura and Smithsonian Magazine. Her historical stories have also appeared in publications including the Washington Post, Boston Globe Magazine and The Atavist Magazine.   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/white-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

19 Mar 2024

1 HR 06 MINS

1:06:05

19 Mar 2024


#6

The Truth About Interracial Adoption (with Angela Tucker)

Angela Tucker is a Black woman who was adopted by white parents as a very young child. Angela says transracial adoptees like her grow up wrestling with complicated feelings of gratitude and love, but also rejection, loss, and confusion about their heritage.  About the Guest Angela Tucker is author of <a href='https://amzn.to/3wClk7K'>“You Should Be Grateful:" Stories of Race, Identity, and Transracial Adoption</a>. Her family story was featured in the documentary Closure. She has over 15 years of experience working within adoption and foster care agencies, mentoring over 200 adoptees as founder of the <a href='https://www.adopteementorship.org/'>Adoptee Mentoring Society</a>. In addition to producing the podcast The Adoptee Next Door, she consulted with NBC’s This Is Us.   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/tucker-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

05 Mar 2024

1 HR 12 MINS

1:12:24

05 Mar 2024


#5

One Big Closeted Family (with Jessi Hempel)

When Jessi Hempel came out of the closet she had no idea her whole church-going family had been hiding in there with her. And things got complicated fast when the closet door kept swinging open.    About the Author Jessi Hempel is author of <a href='https://amzn.to/42IzjFd'>The Family Outing: A Memoir</a>. She is also host of the <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hello-monday-with-jessi-hempel/id1453893304'>award-winning podcast Hello Monday</a>, and a senior editor-at-large at LinkedIn. Her features and cover stories have appeared in Wired, Fortune, and TIME. She has appeared on CNN, PBS, MSNBC, Fox, and CNBC, addressing the culture and business of technology. Hempel is a graduate of Brown University and received a master’s in journalism from UC Berkeley. She lives in Brooklyn with her wife and children. REFERENCES Jessi Hempel, "<a href='https://time.com/4475634/trans-man-pregnancy-evan/'>My Brother’s Pregnancy and the Making of a New American Family</a>," TIME (Sept. 12, 2016).   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/hempel-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

20 Feb 2024

55 MINS

55:10

20 Feb 2024


#4

How Children's Rights Impact Everyone (with Adam Benforado)

One hundred years ago, a bright new age for children was dawning in America. Child labor laws were being passed, public education was spreading, and more. But Adam Benforado says America stopped short in its revolution of children's rights. Today, more than eleven million American children live in poverty. We deny young people any political power, while we fail to act on the issues that matter most to them: racism, inequality, and climate change. That's why Adam is calling for a new revolution for kids. He joins us to discuss his book, <a href='https://www.adambenforado.com/a-minor-revolution'>A Minor Revolution: How Prioritizing Kids Benefits Us All</a>. About the Guest Adam Benforado is a professor of law at the Drexel University Kline School of Law and the New York Times best-selling author of <a href='https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/599501/a-minor-revolution-by-adam-benforado/9781984823045/'>A Minor Revolution: How Prioritizing Kids Benefits Us All</a> and <a href='https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/221731/unfair-by-adam-benforado/'>Unfair: The New Science of Criminal Injustice</a>. His research, teaching, and advocacy is focused on children’s rights and criminal justice. A graduate of Yale College and Harvard Law School, he served as a clerk on the U.S. Court of Appeals for the District of Columbia Circuit and an attorney at Jenner & Block in Washington, D.C. He has published numerous scholarly articles, and his popular writing has appeared in The New York Times, Washington Post, Scientific American, Slate, and The Atlantic. He lives in Philadelphia with his wife and children.   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/benforado-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

06 Feb 2024

1 HR 20 MINS

1:20:49

06 Feb 2024


#3

Healing From Family Trauma (with Mariel Buqué)

Your family is...loving? Your family is...hurtful? Your family is...all this and more? If you feel overwhelmed when you think about your family, this episode will help you understand your anxiety and give you evidence-based tools to repair it.  Dr. Mariel Buqué is a leading specialist in trauma psychology. She says our physical and mental health challenges can be rooted in family trauma passed down through the generations—not just culturally, but even biologically.  We're talking about her new book, <a href='https://amzn.to/3Sm9JSM'>Break the Cycle: A Guide to Healing Intergenerational Trauma</a>.   About the Guest Dr. Mariel Buqué is an Afro-Dominican psychologist who received her doctorate in counseling psychology from Columbia University, where she also trained as a fellow in holistic mental health. She is a world-renowned intergenerational trauma expert.   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/buque-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

23 Jan 2024

1 HR 21 MINS

1:21:57

23 Jan 2024


#2

How the Female Body Drove Evolution (with Cat Bohannon)

Cat Bohannon says for far too long the story of human evolution has ignored the female body. Her new book offers a sweeping revision of human history. It's an urgent and necessary corrective that will forever change your understanding of birth and why it's more difficult for humans than virtually any other animal species on the planet.  Her best-selling book is called <a href='https://amzn.to/42cyFzw'>Eve: How the Female Body Drove 200 Million Years of Human Evolution</a>, and we're talking all about it in this episode.    About the Guest Cat Bohannon is a researcher and author with a Ph.D. from Columbia University in the evolution of narrative and cognition. Her essays and poems have appeared in Scientific American, Mind, Science Magazine, The Best American Nonrequired Reading, The Georgia Review, The Story Collider, and Poets Against the War. She lives with her family in Seattle.   Full transcript available <a href='https://www.familyproclamations.org/p/bohannon-transcript/'>here (familyproclamations.org)</a>. ... Read more

09 Jan 2024

1 HR 33 MINS

1:33:36

09 Jan 2024


#1

Introducing Family Proclamations - Trailer

Dad, mom, two kids, a white picket fence, and everybody knows their role. It's the classic nuclear family. I grew up believing this was the one right way to be a family—until I started getting to know real people who didn’t fit that mold. Now we're watching this old nuclear family model explode in real time, but we don't need to hit the panic button. We can let curiosity lead the way.    I'm Blair Hodges, host of Family Proclamations. I'm on a quest to find out everything I can about family, gender identity, and sexuality. I want you to join me. On this podcast I'm talking to best-selling authors about marriage, divorce, cohabitation, single adulthood, parenting, childlessness, adoption, fostering, gender identity, human biology, and lots more. We'll learn  more about different families and identities, past, present, and future. So please get ready to surrender old stereotypes and embrace new perspectives.    There’s no single way to be a family. And every kind of family has something we can learn from.   Family Proclamations arrives in January. Follow for updates on IG @famprocs. ... Read more

17 Jun 2023

01 MINS

01:11

17 Jun 2023