After the Affair

After betrayal, it’s easy to feel like you’re stuck reacting, trying to manage your partne... more

After betrayal, it’s easy to believe that your best days are behind you. That the pain you... more

Disgust isn’t just a passing reaction. For many betrayed partners, it’s a visceral, body-b... more

Understanding why someone betrayed you can be helpful. It can explain what happened. It ca... more

Betrayal leaves behind more than heartbreak, it leaves questions that echo in your mind da... more

Have you ever been told you're too emotional, or secretly believed it yourself? If conflic... more

You know your partner’s betrayal wasn’t your fault. You understand the logic. But still, d... more

When you suspect infidelity but don’t have the proof, it can feel like you’re living in em... more

When betrayal shatters your world, knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. In this e... more

You were the one who was lied to. The one who was betrayed. And yet somehow… you’re the on... more

There are moments when it all feels like too much, when the pain of betrayal, the weight o... more

After betrayal, it’s natural to want answers. Will they cheat again? Will we make it throu... more

After betrayal, many people feel like they’re walking around under a spotlight, like every... more

We’re wired to crave certainty. Especially after betrayal, when everything familiar sudden... more

We all say we don’t want to waste time, yet most of us do, especially after infidelity. We... more

After infidelity, it’s easy to feel like you have to do something, have to leave, have to ... more

After infidelity, it’s almost impossible not to compare yourself to the affair partner. We... more

Desire can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re caught up in an affair or emotional c... more

Betrayal isn’t just about broken trust, it’s about identity. For many men, their sense of ... more

Feeling trapped between two impossible choices? Whether it’s staying in a relationship aft... more

What if you could curate your thoughts like a bookshop owner curates their shelves? In thi... more

Do you ever feel like the evidence for your worst fears is everywhere? Whether it’s commen... more

In this episode of After the Affair, we explore a powerful metaphor, the “glass wall.” It’... more

In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with “Alan” and “Ann” (pseudonyms to protect their ... more

What is it about an affair that feels so intoxicating? Is it the person, the connection, o... more