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Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram podcast

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  Lovers and Friends with Shan Boodram  

There is so much great and life-changing information about sex and intimacy, but let’s face it, it can be dry as hell! Intimacy expert and sexologist Shan Boodram takes a deep dive into anything and everything about sex, relationships, and the science of attachment every week with expert guests and friends who will tell all. It’s everything The Talk should be.

There is so much great and life-changing information about sex and intimacy, but let’s face it, it can be dry as hell! Intimacy expert and sexologist Shan Boodram takes a deep dive into anything and everything about sex, relationships, and the science of attachment every week with expert guests and friends who will tell all. It’s everything The Talk should be.

 

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#107

106: Kerry Washington: We Are as Sick as Our Secrets

Kerry Washington, you read right. Award-winning actor, director, producer, and activist Kerry Washington. In support of the second season of her hit show UnPrisoned on Hulu Onyx Collective, Kerry stopped by Lovers and Friends to discuss what she learned from Paige, how learning that her biological father was a sperm donor changed her family for the better, therapy with her parents and husband, how real parents should get with their kids, her parenting philosophy and more. If you loved Kerry Washington in any of her classics, like Scandal or Django Unchained OR if you read her book Thicker Than Water, you will LOVE UnPrisoned and furthermore, this raw interview on the power and potential that comes when you heal the family by not being afraid to hurt or disappoint one another. Of course I couldn’t have Kerry Washington stop by and NOT talk about sex, reproductive rights and pole dancing - so expect that too :). ALSO relationship expert and UnPrisoned creator Tracy McMillan stops by to discuss the power of intuition. Watch the trailer to UnPrisoned [https://youtu.be/HIn14DY9eFA?si=2VxtEkm6V6_UT3kx ] (https://youtu.be/HIn14DY9eFA?si=2VxtEkm6V6_UT3kx) Watch UnPrisoned [https://www.hulu.com/series/unprisoned-5b48cecb-15b5-4e06-b475-f2ac5a64bd24] (https://www.hulu.com/series/unprisoned-5b48cecb-15b5-4e06-b475-f2ac5a64bd24) Follow Kerry Washington  [https://www.instagram.com/kerrywashington/?hl=en ] (https://www.instagram.com/kerrywashington/?hl=en) Watch her YouTube Show Street You Grew Up On [https://youtu.be/Omh270yZLbU?si=Fof717hAfW9Fz8iA ] (https://youtu.be/Omh270yZLbU?si=Fof717hAfW9Fz8iA) Read her Memoir Thicker than Water [https://www.amazon.com/Thicker-than-Water-Kerry-Washington/dp/0316497398] (https://www.amazon.com/Thicker-than-Water-Kerry-Washington/dp/0316497398) Follow Tracy McMillan [https://www.instagram.com/tracymcmillan/] (https://www.instagram.com/tracymcmillan/) Thanks to Our Sponsors  Hulu Onyx Collective Follow Shan [http://instagram.com/shanboodram ] (http://instagram.com/shanboodram) ... Read more

26 Jul 2024

1 HR 00 MINS

1:00:58

26 Jul 2024

#106

105: Kelly Rowland on Sex, Kink, Divorce and Repressed Desires

Kelly Rowland, you read right. This is a CAN NOT MISS, special release Lovers and Friends episode with Shan Boodram AND it is best experienced after you watch Mea Culpa now streaming worldwide on Netflix. In this intimate, first-of-its-kind conversation Kelly Rowland shares how she went from a sexually repressed upbringing to living up to her pleasure potential as a sensualist, plus how her sexual awakening gave her the confidence to play Mea in Mea Clupa alongside Trevante Rhodes, whom she shares very STEAMY sex scenes with on screen. Kelly also discusses her feelings on divorce, kink, toys in the bedroom, and overcoming the fear of being imperfect. Watch the trailer to Mea Culpa [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0g9YfjJSA] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0g9YfjJSA) Follow Kelly  [https://www.instagram.com/kellyrowland/] (https://www.instagram.com/kellyrowland/) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0g9YfjJSA] (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-p0g9YfjJSA) Thanks to Our Sponsors  DAME Head to [http://dame.com] (http://dame.com) at [dame.com] (http://dame.com) and if you’d like to pick something up, my code SHANLOVERS gets you 15% off at checkout ARYA  Head to [http://arya.fyi] (http://arya.fyi) to learn how they’re helping couples break their sexual routine and if you’re interested in trying it code SHAN15 gets you 15% off now Follow Shan [http://instagram.com/shanboodram] (http://instagram.com/shanboodram) ... Read more

26 Feb 2024

56 MINS

56:21

26 Feb 2024

#105

104: Ride Our Emotional Roller Coaster: The Concluding Episode of Lovers & Friends

Welcome to (some of) the best of Lovers and Friends the podcast. Hear from JESSIE REYES, MELISSA AND KEV OnSTAGE, ABBY DE LA ROSA, SHANOLA HAMPTON, TIM Chantrangsu aka DE LA GHETTO, DREW LOVE from THEY, RACHEL LINDSAY and GLO ATANMO during this special recap episode. THANKS TO OUR SPONSOR ONSEKIN Go to [http://oneskin.co] (http://oneskin.co) and 15% off with code LOVERS15 GLO ATANMO [https://youtu.be/lbIaM09t0ZU?si=GtWZkCBspPlmUA8f] (https://youtu.be/lbIaM09t0ZU?si=GtWZkCBspPlmUA8f) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/1W4xrpdCh0V3OwXZCYt1bO?si=mJNj1rxcQ7a333AUmgsqMA] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/1W4xrpdCh0V3OwXZCYt1bO?si=mJNj1rxcQ7a333AUmgsqMA) JESSIE REYES [https://youtu.be/7IbgI3-s7Ps?si=j0CL3b8gYqsNbqFe] (https://youtu.be/7IbgI3-s7Ps?si=j0CL3b8gYqsNbqFe) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/2w3jYgkVIgg2eQoYWuALhp?si=8q3ptyfKQbWn9FrrY3bZTA] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/2w3jYgkVIgg2eQoYWuALhp?si=8q3ptyfKQbWn9FrrY3bZTA) MELISSA AND KEV [https://youtu.be/hrMVcujhg1A?si=idb7xnDq8TX1aBh_] (https://youtu.be/hrMVcujhg1A?si=idb7xnDq8TX1aBh_) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/4NjXUyZ5suDL3ytxUALFV8?si=gg3B7zvfQnm5nS9XUpkyZA] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/4NjXUyZ5suDL3ytxUALFV8?si=gg3B7zvfQnm5nS9XUpkyZA) ABBY DE LA ROSA [https://youtu.be/aq8290G52_I?si=oaI5d_ALvuj82z9V] (https://youtu.be/aq8290G52_I?si=oaI5d_ALvuj82z9V) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/5AM2X8zNwmgV3koVtgemPC?si=pzqGDEw3QMCe8Awx9eFK7Q] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/5AM2X8zNwmgV3koVtgemPC?si=pzqGDEw3QMCe8Awx9eFK7Q) SHANOLA HAMPTON [https://youtu.be/J7PZakvvdCo?si=LDSbtyjNTKuNmZ1u] (https://youtu.be/J7PZakvvdCo?si=LDSbtyjNTKuNmZ1u) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/2pHr7jrSj7iQTZlsbIUoYV?si=-pk8WovdSbqLLyrXDrRpRg] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/2pHr7jrSj7iQTZlsbIUoYV?si=-pk8WovdSbqLLyrXDrRpRg) TIM DE LA GHETTO [https://youtu.be/G6WYaHFOjEU?si=uDvI7cap3yCs0srq] (https://youtu.be/G6WYaHFOjEU?si=uDvI7cap3yCs0srq) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/0VuY52Ct9XS9Wua4dtupO6?si=ZFMbJEQOQ56IuBADlxm8og] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/0VuY52Ct9XS9Wua4dtupO6?si=ZFMbJEQOQ56IuBADlxm8og) DREW LOVE [https://youtu.be/bdooXjRGprY?si=AG3KL1r-wAfeb8Gm] (https://youtu.be/bdooXjRGprY?si=AG3KL1r-wAfeb8Gm) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/39lGd7mxW9jvpGpOPYMKaj?si=ou8FILHeSGG7P21hCZwMog] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/39lGd7mxW9jvpGpOPYMKaj?si=ou8FILHeSGG7P21hCZwMog) RACHEL LINDSAY [https://youtu.be/bnEORZJD2pQ?si=LiHiZKFU1-_Cv8l6] (https://youtu.be/bnEORZJD2pQ?si=LiHiZKFU1-_Cv8l6) [https://open.spotify.com/episode/1kN3P1KoHI3LcnLNRgzY76?si=faUIGN4ATUaLvewVQ3AjCQ] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/1kN3P1KoHI3LcnLNRgzY76?si=faUIGN4ATUaLvewVQ3AjCQ) HELP WHY CAN’T I ORGASM [https://open.spotify.com/episode/2X8oEJMQ8JNSu6Psa53r7O?si=wJMEWu6vTmGpia1waTZ0Sw] (https://open.spotify.com/episode/2X8oEJMQ8JNSu6Psa53r7O?si=wJMEWu6vTmGpia1waTZ0Sw) ... Read more

27 Dec 2023

1 HR 28 MINS

1:28:08

27 Dec 2023

#104

103: Get the Fairytale You Need - Despite What You Think You Want feat. Damona Hoffman

FUCK the fairytale! How does that land on you? Does it make you go FUCK YES we need to be realistic about love OR does it make you go FUCK NO I desire the fairytale and that’s what I’ll get. Well when dating coach Damona Hoffman suggests you F the Fairytale, she kinda wants you to feel both. Tired of the same old dating game and ready to find real, lasting love? Join us in this episode of FUCK the Fairytale as we explore what a true fairytale relationship looks like with expert dating coach Damona Hoffman. We’ll challenge outdated ideas of the ideal partner and redefine what happiness looks like in modern relationships. Don’t miss your chance to discover true love - watch now! FOLLOW DAMONA HOFFMAN [https://www.instagram.com/damonahoffman/] (https://www.instagram.com/damonahoffman/) [https://damonahoffman.com/] (https://damonahoffman.com/)  Ritual Visit [http://ritual.com/LOVERS] (http://ritual.com/LOVERS) to start Ritual or add Synbiotic+ to your subscription today. Ritual is offering Lovers and Friends 30% off during your first month.  BetterHelp Visit [http://BetterHelp.com/lovers] (http://BetterHelp.com/lovers) today to get 10% off your first month.  HelloFresh Go to [http://HelloFresh.com/loversfree] (http://HelloFresh.com/loversfree) and use code loversfree for FREE breakfast for life!  Quince  Go to [http://Quince.com/lovers] (http://Quince.com/lovers) for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Damona Follow Shan [http://instagram.com/shanboodram] (http://instagram.com/shanboodram) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) ... Read more

20 Dec 2023

1 HR 07 MINS

1:07:30

20 Dec 2023

#103

102: If Someone Says I’m Too Feminine or Too Masculine, I Know We Won’t Work feat. Mal Wright

Are you ready to break free from outdated social norms and discover the real power of being true to yourself? Mal Wright from Netflix's The Ultimatum is here to share her story of why she chose to end her engagement, why gender has no place in sex, and the one thing her next partner must have. Don't miss this inspiring story and get ready to experience the liberating effects of embracing your true self!  Follow Mal  [https://www.instagram.com/igobymal/] (https://www.instagram.com/igobymal/) [https://malwright.komi.io/] (https://malwright.komi.io/) Thanks to Our Sponsors Dipsea Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to <a href="http://dipseastories.com/LOVERS"> [http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS] (http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS) </a> SKIMS SKIMS Holiday Gift Shop is now open at [http://SKIMS.com] (http://SKIMS.com) . Plus, get free shipping on orders over seventy five dollars. BABBEL Get 55% off at [http://Babbel.com/LOVERS] (http://Babbel.com/LOVERS) BetterHelp Visit [http://BetterHelp.com/lovers] (http://BetterHelp.com/lovers) today to get 10% off your first month.  Follow Shan [http://instagram.com/shanboodram] (http://instagram.com/shanboodram) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) ... Read more

13 Dec 2023

1 HR 10 MINS

1:10:05

13 Dec 2023

#102

101: A Therapist and Her Husband Chose To Be Childfree. Here's Why feat. Vanessa and Xander Marin

Are you curious why Vanessa and Xander, a happily married couple, chose not to have children? Find out by joining therapist Vanessa and her husband Xander as they share their personal story about why they chose to remain childfree. Tune in to learn more about their unconventional decision and how it has impacted their lives! Follow Vanessa and Xander Marin [https://sextalksbook.com/] (https://sextalksbook.com/) [https://vmtherapy.com/] (https://vmtherapy.com/) HelloFresh Go to [http://HelloFresh.com/loversfree] (http://HelloFresh.com/loversfree) and use code loversfree for FREE breakfast for life!  StoryWorth Go to [http://StoryWorth.com/lovers] (http://StoryWorth.com/lovers) and save $10 on your first purchase!  Zoc Doc Go to [Zocdoc.com/LOVERS] (http://Zocdoc.com/LOVERS) and download the Zocdoc app for FREE Follow Shan [http://instagram.com/shanboodram] (http://instagram.com/shanboodram) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) ... Read more

06 Dec 2023

45 MINS

45:14

06 Dec 2023

#101

99: If You Haven’t Found Your Go To Position, Try These from the Kama Sutra feat. Seema Anand

Becoming a Pro: Master These Kama Sutra Sex Moves and Take Things to the Next Level. Spend some quality time with Seema Anand as she guides you through the Kama Sutra to discover the perfect positions for your pleasure even if the penis is too big, too small, or not experienced enough. From beginner-friendly poses to more advanced options, you'll learn something new no matter your level. So if you haven't found your go-to position yet, tune in now and explore with Seema! Seema Anand is a London-based story-teller, mythologist, and narrative practitioner, known for her expertise in the field of ancient Asian narratives and their relevance in contemporary times. She is particularly well-recognized for her works in bringing to light the narratives surrounding female sexuality and empowerment that are deeply embedded in ancient texts, including the Kama Sutra. She has also authored several books where she delves into narratives of love, desire, and female beauty from an Asian perspective, enabling a deeper understanding and appreciation of these age-old philosophies. Seema holds a PhD in Narrative practices, positioning her as an authority in her field, which allows her to skillfully weave the ancient wisdom with modern narratives to foster understanding and empathy in today's society. Follow Seema [https://www.instagram.com/seemaanandstorytelling/?hl=en] (https://www.instagram.com/seemaanandstorytelling/?hl=en) [https://linktr.ee/seemaanandstorytelling] (https://linktr.ee/seemaanandstorytelling) Thanks to our Sponsors SKIMS SKIMS Holiday Gift Shop is now open at [http://SKIMS.com] (http://SKIMS.com) . Plus, get free shipping on orders over seventy five dollars. BetterHelp Visit [http://BetterHelp.com/lovers] (http://BetterHelp.com/lovers) today to get 10% off your first month.  This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp [http://betterhelp.com/lovers] (http://betterhelp.com/lovers) Get a break from your thoughts, with BetterHelp. today to get 10% off your first month.  UNCOMMON GOODS [http://UNCOMMONGOODS.com/Lovers] (http://UNCOMMONGOODS.com/Lovers) , for 15% off your first gift  OneSkin Get 15% off with the code Lovers15 at [http://oneskin.co] (http://oneskin.co) .  Follow Shan [http://instagram.com/shanboodram] (http://instagram.com/shanboodram) [Tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://Tiktok.com/shanboody) ... Read more

29 Nov 2023

56 MINS

56:21

29 Nov 2023

#100

98: Tonight's Conversation vs Lovers and Friends: Orgasm Gap and Relationships Being Mid

Today, we're joined by renowned guests from the popular podcast "Tonight's Conversation Podcast" – Ace Metaphor, Kita Rose, and Just Mike The Poet. This podcast is renowned for bringing together social media personalities, relationship experts, and therapists to explore themes related to love, dating, and relationships. Our discussion today centers on the dynamics of relationships, specifically focusing on the contrasting preferences of men and women in intimate settings. Additionally, we'll delve into a provocative topic: the impact of masturbation on one's sexual desire towards their partner. FOLLOW Tonight's Conversation [https://www.instagram.com/tonightsconversation/] (https://www.instagram.com/tonightsconversation/) [https://linktr.ee/tonightsconversationcards] (https://linktr.ee/tonightsconversationcards) ACE: [https://www.instagram.com/acemetaphor/] (https://www.instagram.com/acemetaphor/) KITA: [https://www.instagram.com/kitarose_/?hl=en] (https://www.instagram.com/kitarose_/?hl=en) MIKE: [https://tonightsconversation.vhx.tv/videos/tc-date-night-s1-e8] (https://tonightsconversation.vhx.tv/videos/tc-date-night-s1-e8) Thanks to our sponsors Dipsea Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to <a href="http://dipseastories.com/LOVERS"> [http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS] (http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS) </a> Ritual Ritual is offering my listeners 30% off during your first month. Visit [http://ritual.com/LOVERS] (http://ritual.com/LOVERS) to start Ritual or add Synbiotic+ to your subscription today Lume As a special offer for listeners of Lovers and Friends, new customers get $5 off Lume’s Starter Pack with our exclusive code and link. And for a limited time, returning customers can get $5 off their next purchase of $30 or more, too! Use code LOVERS at [http://LumeDeodorant.com] (http://lumedeodorant.com/) HelloFresh Go to [http://HelloFresh.com/loversfree] (http://hellofresh.com/loversfree) and use code loversfree for FREE breakfast for life! That means one breakfast item per box while your subscription is active.  ... Read more

22 Nov 2023

58 MINS

58:12

22 Nov 2023

#99

97: Why Is ShxtsNGigs Dominating the Sex / Relationship Podcast Game?

This episode is where raw opinions and humor collide! In this series, I sit down with James and Fuhad, the dynamic duo behind the top 5 Spotify podcast, ShxtsNGigs. Known for their unapologetically honest and often hilarious takes, these best friends have become a sensation among Gen Z audiences in the UK. Today we talk about what makes them different in a world of podcast about Sex/Relationships.  Follow  ShxtsNGigs   : [https://www.instagram.com/shxtsngigs/] (https://www.instagram.com/shxtsngigs/) Follow ShxtNGigs: [https://www.youtube.com/@ShtsNGigsPodcast] (https://www.youtube.com/@ShtsNGigsPodcast) Follow James Duncan : [https://www.instagram.com/jamesduncan/] (https://www.instagram.com/jamesduncan/) Follow Fuhad : [https://www.instagram.com/fuhad_/] (https://www.instagram.com/fuhad_/) Babbel  [Http://Babbel.com/LOVERS] (Http://Babbel.com/LOVERS) to Get 55% off at Babbel. Rules and restrictions may apply Skims Holiday Gift Shop is now open at [http://SKIMS.com] (http://SKIMS.com) . Plus, get free shipping on orders over seventy five dollars. OneSkin get 15% off OneSkin with our code LOVERS15 at [http://oneskin.co] (http://oneskin.co) this show is sponsored by BetterHelp Visit [http://BetterHelp.com/lovers] (http://BetterHelp.com/lovers) today to get 10% off your first month Follow Shan @shanboodram - IG @shanboody - Tik Tok @loversandfriends - YouTube ... Read more

15 Nov 2023

1 HR 07 MINS

1:07:03

15 Nov 2023

#98

96: I Love Older Men, but I Regret Dating Them in My Twenties feat. Anna Akana

Are you young and attracted to mature men? Many younger women are dating older men, but is it really worth it? Anna Akana was in her twenties when she had a public relationship with Ray Williams Johnson, and she's here to tell us why it was a huge mistake. Hear her story plus the joys of dating older men today. Learn why Anna thinks women younger than 25 should be warned about the possible repercussions before taking the plunge. Plus, find out why she's so happy now that she's dating a man in his sixties, another in his fifties, and even one woman in her forties! Dive into this episode now if you're interested in learning more about what it's like to date an older partner. Follow Anna Akana  [https://www.instagram.com/annaakana] (https://www.instagram.com/annaakana) [https://www.youtube.com/annaakana] (https://www.youtube.com/annaakana) [https://www.squadup.com/events/it-gets-darker-anna-akana-friends-1] (https://www.squadup.com/events/it-gets-darker-anna-akana-friends-1) Thanks to our sponsors First Leaf Go to [http://TryFirstleaf.com/LOVERS] (http://tryfirstleaf.com/LOVERS) to sign up and you’ll get your first SIX hand-curated bottles for just $44.95.  UNCOMMON GOODS To get 15% off your next gift, go to [http://UNCOMMONGOODS.com/LOVERS] (http://uncommongoods.com/LOVERS) HelloFresh Go to [http://HelloFresh.com/loversfree] (http://hellofresh.com/loversfree) and use code loversfree for FREE breakfast for life!  Zocdoc Go to [http://Zocdoc.com/LOVERS] (http://zocdoc.com/LOVERS) and download the Zocdoc app for FREE Follow Shan @shanboodram - IG @shanboody - Tik Tok @loversandfriends - YouTube ... Read more

08 Nov 2023

54 MINS

54:41

08 Nov 2023

#97

95: No, THAT’S Not Normal! How Hormones Could Be Impacting Your Sex Life and Health

Do you want to understand hormones better? Dr. Jolene Brighten is here to demystify the power of hormones and how they can affect fertility, sex drive, ADHD, how long it takes to orgasm, and period pain. Tune in as she explains what hormones are, their function and role in our bodies, plus how they can be managed for improved health and wellness. Learn from the experts! Don't miss out on this insightful educational experience with Dr. Jolene Brighten. Thanks to our sponsors One Skin [http://oneskin.co] (http://oneskin.co) and use code LOVERS15 at checkout for 15% off Dipsea Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to <a href="http://dipseastories.com/LOVERS"> [http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS] (http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS) </a> Quince [http://Quince.com/lovers] (http://Quince.com/lovers) for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. UNCOMMON GOODS [http://UNCOMMONGOODS.com/LOVERS] (http://uncommongoods.com/LOVERS) for 15% off Thanks to Our Guest [https://drbrighten.com/] (https://drbrighten.com/) [https://www.instagram.com/drjolenebrighten] (https://www.instagram.com/drjolenebrighten) Follow Shan: [http://instagram.com/shanboodram ] (http://instagram.com/shanboodram) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody ] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) ... Read more

01 Nov 2023

1 HR 12 MINS

1:12:42

01 Nov 2023

#96

94: Self Love: My Key to Not Being Blinded By Hurt and Constant Criticism

Are you struggling to understand what real self love looks like? Do you find yourself getting hurt or blinded by pain and not being able to move forward? In this special video, Shan Boodram will answer your questions on how to heal from hurt and cultivate a deeper sense of self love. Get ready for some never before heard revelations with some timeless gems - it’s time to discover the key to unlocking true peace and freedom. Tune in now and learn how real self love can free you from pain and hurt by embracing the nature of those very things. Thanks to the sponsors of this episode BetterHelp is sponsoring this episode Visit [http://BetterHelp.com/lovers] (http://BetterHelp.com/lovers) today to get 10% off your first month Ritual [http://ritual.com/LOVERS] (http://ritual.com/LOVERS) to start Ritual or add Synbiotic+ to your subscription today and get 30% off your first month Skims Go to [http://SKIMS.com] (http://SKIMS.com) and get free shipping on orders over seventy five dollars Factor Head to http://FACTOR [MEALS.com/lovers50] (http://MEALS.com/lovers50) and use code lovers50 to get 50% off Follow Shan: [http://instagram.com/shanboody] (http://instagram.com/shanboody) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) ... Read more

25 Oct 2023

1 HR 01 MINS

1:01:53

25 Oct 2023

#95

93: I Understand Jada Pinkett Smith and Will's Relationship because of This

Get an in-depth and candid look into the fascinating 40-year marriage of my parents, and see how their dynamic can shed light on the relationship of Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. I'm interviewing my parents to ask the questions we all want answered when it comes to a long-term relationship going through myriad ups and downs inclduing breakups, dating others, and going through social shame for staying through it all. Why is it still worth fighting for? Jada Pinkett Smith talks about this question in her new memoir, Worthy. Thanks to my parents for being apart of this episode follow my mom [https://www.instagram.com/yourtravelwitholivia] (https://www.instagram.com/yourtravelwitholivia) [https://www.youtube.com/c/YourTravelWithOlivia] (https://www.youtube.com/c/YourTravelWithOlivia) Thanks to the sponsors of this episode HelloFresh [http://HelloFresh.com/50lovers] (http://HelloFresh.com/50lovers) and use code 50lovers for 50% off plus free shipping! One Skin [http://oneskin.co] (http://oneskin.co) and use code LOVERS15 at checkout for 15% off First Leaf Try [http://Firstleaf.com/LOVERS] (http://Firstleaf.com/LOVERS) to sign up and you’ll get your first SIX hand-curated bottles for just $44.95  Books I suggested in this episode [https://www.amazon.com/shop/shanboody/list/3IM9P9FGJOL9J?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfshanboody_TFZ9F6EQ6YY0ZZYBYT2J] (https://www.amazon.com/shop/shanboody/list/3IM9P9FGJOL9J?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfshanboody_TFZ9F6EQ6YY0ZZYBYT2J) Follow Shan: [http://instagram.com/shanboody ] (http://instagram.com/shanboody) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody ] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) ... Read more

19 Oct 2023

1 HR 03 MINS

1:03:01

19 Oct 2023

#94

92: I Never Stayed Past the Honeymoon Phase and Here’s Why feat. Brenden Durell

Are you struggling with the fear of commitment? Feeling like there’s something wrong with you because all of your relationships have ended shortly after the honeymoon phase? You're not alone! Join Brenden Durell as he talks about his own experiences with the fear of commitment and how he learned to address it. In this video, Brenden will be opening up about why he never stayed past the honeymoon phase and how to combat the fear of commitment. It's time to give love another chance! Thanks to the Sponsors of this Episode Jenni Kayne [http://jennikayne.com] (http://jennikayne.com/) use the code LOVERS at checkout to get 15% off This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp [http://betterhelp.com/lovers] (http://betterhelp.com/lovers) to get 10% off your first month Dipsea Stories  <a href="http://dipseastories.com/LOVERS"> [http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS] (http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS) </a> for 30 days of full access for free  Babbel [http://babbel.com/lovers] (http://babbel.com/lovers) to Get 55% off  Rules and restrictions may apply. Follow Brenden  [https://www.instagram.com/brendendurell/?hl=en] (https://www.instagram.com/brendendurell/?hl=en) [https://mylinks.brendendurell.com/] (https://mylinks.brendendurell.com/) Follow Shan: [http://instagram.com/shanboody ] (http://instagram.com/shanboody) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) ... Read more

11 Oct 2023

1 HR 00 MINS

1:00:12

11 Oct 2023

#93

91: How I Stopped Searching for Love in Lost People feat. Leah Lamarr

How do we fix our desire for relationships with people that will inevitably become broken. And how do we stop ourselves from aligning healthy with boring? That’s what we’re talking about on this episode of Lovers and Friends.  Attraction, whether emotional, physical, or psychological, is a complex process. It can be influenced by numerous factors, from biology to personal history. If someone finds themselves repeatedly attracted to individuals with certain undesirable characteristics (like the makeup of a fuckboy: charismatic but not reliable, fun to be around but not fun to be apart from because communication is not stable or when out of sight they’re unpredictable, they make big plans but don’t consistently make the small actions to move towards that goal especially when it comes to you, etc…), understanding the underlying causes and taking conscious steps to modify patterns of attraction can be beneficial. Here's a scientific, step-by-step approach: Self-awareness and reflection  Next, Examine past patterns Understand the biology Cognitive-behavioral techniques  Increase self-worth Expand your social circle Educate yourself Avoid idealization practice mindfulness Follow Leah Lamarr [https://www.instagram.com/leahlamarr] (https://www.instagram.com/leahlamarr) [https://sociatap.com/leahlamarr/] (https://sociatap.com/leahlamarr/)   Show Love to Our Sponsors Zoc Doc Go to [Zocdoc.com/LOVERS] (http://Zocdoc.com/LOVERS) and download the Zocdoc app for FREE Hello Fresh Go to [http://HelloFresh.com/50lovers] (http://hellofresh.com/50lovers) and use code 50lovers for 50% off plus free shipping Skims Try The Cotton collection and more are available now at [http://SKIMS.com] (http://skims.com/) Plus, get free shipping on orders over seventy five dollars!  Extras in this episode The Art of Manipulation: Influence Human Behavior, Understand the Psychology of Manipulation, Effectively Manage People, and Get What You (Really) Want!  ========================================================================================================================================================= Follow Shan: [http://instagram.com/shanboody] (http://instagram.com/shanboody) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng ] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) ... Read more

04 Oct 2023

1 HR 11 MINS

1:11:02

04 Oct 2023

#92

90: Do Relationships Really Need To Be Hard Work? A Reality Check feat. Nina Westbrook

Have you ever been told that relationships require hard work? Well, it's time for a reality check with therapist Nina Westbrook who is married to NBA All Star Russel Westbrook! Nina shares their experiences and insights on relationships and even addresses people who say that Russel could do better than her- her response will inspire you. Follow Nina Westbrook [https://www.instagram.com/ninawestbrook] (https://www.instagram.com/ninawestbrook) [https://www.youtube.com/@TheRelationshipChronicles] (https://www.youtube.com/@TheRelationshipChronicles) [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-relationship-chronicles-with-nina-westbrook/id1696624137] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-relationship-chronicles-with-nina-westbrook/id1696624137) Thanks to our sponsors Factor Meals [http://FACTORMEALS.com/lovers50] (http://factormeals.com/lovers50) use code lovers50 to get 50% This video is sponsored by BetterHelp [BetterHelp.com/lovers] (http://BetterHelp.com/lovers) to get 10% off your first month Acorns [http://acorns.com/lovers] (http://acorns.com/lovers) to download Acorns to start saving and investing for your future today! Ritual [http://ritual.com/LOVERS] (http://ritual.com/LOVERS) to start Ritual or add Synbiotic+ to your subscription today. EXTRAS in this episode I reference Naval Ravikant And used a clip from Esther Perel’s videos [https://youtu.be/ejTBjX4Cu6Y?si=uy7tyOEeYAZnxs5Q] (https://youtu.be/ejTBjX4Cu6Y?si=uy7tyOEeYAZnxs5Q) Follow Shan: [http://instagram.com/shanboody] (http://instagram.com/shanboody) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) ... Read more

27 Sep 2023

1 HR 03 MINS

1:03:39

27 Sep 2023

#91

89: CONFESSIONS FROM A SEX COACH FOR MEN ft. Alex Grendi

Here’s what men don't tell you about how to be a better intimate partner…How do you get your man to go from bland to blazing in bed? Why should men stop watching porn? How do you encourage your man to ask for what he wants in bed? Are you missing out on pleasure by not using breathwork? Alex Grendi is a certified men’s sex coach who specializes in performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction. He’s here to talk about the importance of asking for what you want in the bedroom AND the struggle (especially for men) of figuring out what that REALLY is. Some of you have mentioned that you like the longer solo interview episodes and that’s what this is.  Follow Alex Grendi  [www.youtube.com/@alex.grendi] (http://www.youtube.com/@alex.grendi) [www.superiorlovers.com] (http://www.superiorlovers.com/) email - [alex@superiorlovers.com] (mailto:alex@superiorlovers.com) Thanks to our Sponsors Liquid IV [http://LIQUIDIV.COM] (http://LIQUIDIV.COM) using the promo code LOVERS at checkout for a 20% Skims [http://skims.com] (http://skims.com/) Dipsea http:// [DipseaStories.com/LOVERS] (http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS) Get an extended 30 day free trial  Hello Fresh <a href="http://hellofresh.com/50lovers"> [http://HelloFresh.com/50lovers] (http://HelloFresh.com/50lovers) </a> and use code 50lovers for 50% off plus 15% off the next 2 months! Follow Shan: [http://instagram.com/shanboody] (http://instagram.com/shanboody) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) ... Read more

20 Sep 2023

1 HR 09 MINS

1:09:38

20 Sep 2023

#90

88: An Uncommon Guide to the Kama Sutra (You'll Be Shocked By What We Found) feat. Seema Anand

The Kama Sutra, a renowned ancient Indian Sanskrit text, often perceived as a guide to sexual positions and techniques, is in fact a comprehensive guide to virtuous and gracious living. Written between 400 BCE and 200 CE by a sage named Vatsyayana, this text covers various aspects of life, including family, relationships, and personal conduct, amongst others. The Kama Sutra is a profound ancient text that offers wisdom not only on intimacy but on many facets of life. Its holistic approach to love and relationships makes it a rich resource for understanding ancient Indian society's perspectives on love, life, and morality. By exploring it in depth, you may find a plethora of wisdom that goes beyond the bedroom and offers insights into a virtuous and gracious life. On this episode we have Seema Anand guides us through what we missed while looking at the pictures of sex positions in the kama Sutra. Seema Anand is a London-based story-teller, mythologist, and narrative practitioner, known for her expertise in the field of ancient Asian narratives and their relevance in contemporary times. She is particularly well-recognized for her works in bringing to light the narratives surrounding female sexuality and empowerment that are deeply embedded in ancient texts, including the Kama Sutra. She has also authored several books where she delves into narratives of love, desire, and female beauty from an Asian perspective, enabling a deeper understanding and appreciation of these age-old philosophies. Seema holds a PhD in Narrative practices, positioning her as an authority in her field, which allows her to skilfully weave the ancient wisdom with modern narratives to foster understanding and empathy in today's society. Follow Seema [https://www.instagram.com/seemaanandstorytelling/?hl=en] (https://www.instagram.com/seemaanandstorytelling/?hl=en) [https://linktr.ee/seemaanandstorytelling] (https://linktr.ee/seemaanandstorytelling) Thanks to our Sponsors This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp [http://betterhelp.com/lovers] (http://betterhelp.com/lovers) Get a break from your thoughts, with BetterHelp. today to get 10% off your first month.  Babbel [http://Babbel.com/lovers] (http://Babbel.com/lovers) Get 55% off your Babbel subscription Zocdoc [http://Zocdoc.com/LOVERS] (http://Zocdoc.com/LOVERS) and download the Zocdoc app for FREE Follow Shan [http://instagram.com/shanboodram] (http://instagram.com/shanboodram) ... Read more

13 Sep 2023

57 MINS

57:32

13 Sep 2023

#89

87: How to Stay Together When The World Around You Is Falling Apart

This week I needed some breathing room so I brought in my ventilator aka husband Jared Brady. Listen to Pick a Side  [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4sasTfLuqSzV6hxtYKWSPu?si=12a9d1fbf6434ebe] (https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4sasTfLuqSzV6hxtYKWSPu?si=12a9d1fbf6434ebe) Thanks to Our Sponsor Hello Fresh Go to [http://HelloFresh.com/50lovers] (http://hellofresh.com/50lovers) and use code 50lovers for 50% off plus 15% off the next 2 months! ... Read more

06 Sep 2023

33 MINS

33:37

06 Sep 2023

#88

86: What it REALLY Takes to Get in the Mood at the Same Time Ft. Elaine Welteroth & Jonathan Singlet...

What does it take to get you in the mood? Maybe like some it’s strawberries and silk. Or maybe like many others, it’s a little more … nuanced than that. Jonathan Singletary and my husband Jared Brady teamed up to make a sexy song devoted to the women who do a lot and consequently, need a little more to get…there. When it comes to being horny aka getting in the mood, this conversation is often about what you can do to get there, but in this episode we go into what has to first be done, OR in some cases undone for it to become feasible for all parties. Getting horny seems simple when we look at it through a Super Bad lens, but when we insert real people with real lives we can appreciate this complex process that relies on an interplay of neurological, hormonal, emotional, and physiological cooperation. Thanks to Our Sponsors Ritual [http://Ritual.com/LOVERS] (http://Ritual.com/LOVERS) Ritual is offering my listeners 20% off during your first month FabFitFun [http://FabFitFun.com/LOVERS] (http://fabfitfun.com/LOVERS) Sign up at, customize your box, and get access to discounts up to 70% off on brands like Fenty, Free People, and Our Place - to name a few.  Dipsea <a href="http://dipseastories.com/LOVERS"> [http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS] (http://DipseaStories.com/LOVERS) </a> Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day FREE trial  MOOD:  [https://linktr.ee/jsingletary] (https://linktr.ee/jsingletary) Follow our guests Jonathan Singletary [https://www.instagram.com/jonathansingletary] (https://www.instagram.com/jonathansingletary) [https://linktr.ee/jsingletary] (https://linktr.ee/jsingletary) Elaine Welteroth [https://www.instagram.com/elainewelteroth] (https://www.instagram.com/elainewelteroth) [https://www.washingtonpost.com/advice/2023/02/14/ask-elaine-husband-new-mom-less-attracted/] (https://www.washingtonpost.com/advice/2023/02/14/ask-elaine-husband-new-mom-less-attracted/) Jared Brady [http://instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady] (http://instagram.com/enjoyjaredbrady) Follow Shan: [http://instagram.com/shanboody] (http://instagram.com/shanboody) [http://tiktok.com/shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) ... Read more

30 Aug 2023

1 HR 06 MINS

1:06:13

30 Aug 2023

#87

85: This Is What Happens When You Marry Your Maybe feat. The Marriage Pact Couples

Finding the one is a life quest, one that many people never complete. Some people don’t pick anyone, some people pick the wrong one, and some give up hope looking for the one and start considering the two, three, four or five… There’s no shame in this, especially when you both acknowledge this choice not to settle, but to secure the future you want by selecting a partner who may not tick all of your boxes, but you know that in time and when you’re both ready to make a mutual commitment - you just might be able make it work with them. This acknowledgement that I’m talking about often comes in the form of a marriage pact. A marriage pact is an agreement made by two people that states that if we are both still single by a certain due date, we will marry each other. People make these pacts for a number of reasons: fear of commitment or because the connection is right, but the timing isn’t. However in most cases, it’s an all-else fails backup plan. But, what happens when that fails to? Or perhaps even scarier - when the plan actually succeeds? Now what? That is what we are exploring on this episode of Lovers and Friends with the cast of The Marriage Pact streaming now on The Roku Channel. You can stream #TheMarriagePact FREE on a Roku, the Roku mobile app and http:// [therokuchannel.com] (http://therokuchannel.com/) . It’s also available on Samsung Smart TVs and Amazon Fire Sticks. Thanks to the sponsors of this episode  SKIMS Checkout the Cotton Collection and more at [http://SKIMS.com] (http://skims.com/) they offer free shipping on orders over seventy-five bucks! Hello Fresh Go to [http://HelloFresh.com/50lovers] (http://hellofresh.com/50lovers) and use code 50lovers for an amazing 50% off plus free shipping! Liquid IV Get 20% off when you go to [http://LIQUIDIV.com] (http://liquidiv.com/) and use code LOVERS at checkout BetterHelp Visit [http://BetterHelp.com/lovers] (http://betterhelp.com/lovers) today to get 10% off your first month. ... Read more

24 Aug 2023

1 HR 36 MINS

1:36:35

24 Aug 2023

#86

84: The TRUTH About Freaky Women and Men Who Can’t Stay with Them feat. Ashley Cobb

Do you marry the person that you have the best sex with? Ashley Cobb opens up about being the best every man has ever had and also struggling to find a man who’s capable of having her. Plus the men previously known as Enjoy the Podcast link up to share their insights on the Madonna Whore complex. So, this complex describes a psychological phenomenon in which a man's perception of women is divided into two distinct categories: the Madonna and the whore. The Madonna is perfect, pure, and really caring. She's the nurturing type and has qualities like innocence and morality. This side of the complex is associated with safety, comfort, and connection. The whore, on the other hand, is associated with sexual desire, sensuality, and eroticism. This side of the complex involves fantasies or desires for more adventurous or taboo experiences and whores are seen as mysterious and unpredictable.  If men have this complex and subscribe to its ideologies that a woman is either pure innocence or pure erroticism, it makes it tough for him to see one woman as both a sexual partner and someone he could have a real, serious relationship with. Watch full videos of Lovers and Friends podcast <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@loversandfriendspodcast"> [https://www.youtube.com/@loversandfriendspodcast] (https://www.youtube.com/@loversandfriendspodcast) </a> Thanks to the sponsors of this episode HoneyLove Get 20% Off your entire order (including the best bra you’ll own) with our exclusive link  [http://honeylove.com/LOVERS] (http://honeylove.com/LOVERS) . Babbel Ready to learn another language? Get up to 55% off at [http://Babbel.com/LOVERS] (http://babbel.com/LOVERS) Rules and restrictions may apply FabFitFun Sign up at [http://FabFitFun.com/LOVERS] (http://fabfitfun.com/LOVERS) to get access to discounts up to 70% off on brands like Fenty, Free People, and Our Place - to name a few.  BetterHelp Visit http:// [BetterHelp.com/lovers] (http://BetterHelp.com/lovers) today to get 10% off your first month Follow our guest Ashley Cobb <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sexwithashley/"> [https://www.instagram.com/sexwithashley/] (https://www.instagram.com/sexwithashley/) </a> ... Read more

16 Aug 2023

1 HR 01 MINS

1:01:17

16 Aug 2023

#85

83: Do YOU Do These 5 Things? Find Out If You're A Freak Or Prude ft. Andrea Lewis and Glam Erotica

Would you consider yourself a freak? Being freaky means you are open and willing to experiment and experience a variety of sexual activities.  That's what we are getting into this episode. Where do you scale on the levels of freaky? I’m joined by Andrea Lewis whom you may recognize from Degrassi or if you are a 90s baby then you may remember her for role in Cadet Kelly on the Disney Channel. Andrea’s latest starring role is “Three Ways”  which you can watch now on Hulu.  I am also joined by Tyomi,  a sexologist and sex therapist with over 12 years of experience.  She specializes in unlocking pleasure for clients and has over 140 million views on her youtube channel and she’s here to tell us about her definition of a freak. Thanks to the sponsors of this episode! Hello Fresh! Try out America’s #1 meal kit for yourself! Get 50% off plus free shipping! [https://www.hellofresh.com/50lovers] (https://www.hellofresh.com/50lovers) Zocdoc Download the app for free and find yourself a top-rated doctor! [https://www.zocdoc.com/lovers] (https://www.zocdoc.com/lovers) Follow Shan: [https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram] (https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram) [https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) [loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com] (mailto:loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com) Follow Andrea:  [https://www.instagram.com/andrealewis] (https://www.instagram.com/andrealewis) [https://www.instagram.com/blackbeautyeffect/] (https://www.instagram.com/blackbeautyeffect/) Watch Three Ways on Hulu:  [https://www.hulu.com/movie/three-ways-7afd18f4-5b2c-4097-b532-bd956aa21bd4] (https://www.hulu.com/movie/three-ways-7afd18f4-5b2c-4097-b532-bd956aa21bd4) Follow Tyomi:  [https://www.instagram.com/realglamazontyomi/] (https://www.instagram.com/realglamazontyomi/) [https://www.youtube.com/glamerotica101] (https://www.youtube.com/glamerotica101) ... Read more

09 Aug 2023

42 MINS

42:24

09 Aug 2023

#84

Saggy Breasts, Strong Confidence- Embracing Ourselves Before S*x ft Jessie Paege

What if I told you that the biggest turn off for partners can be your own self deprecating comments? The times you’ve said “oh no I haven’t shaved”   Have you ever wondered how your insecurities can affect your relationships? Self deprecating comments and insecurities play a vital role in how we interact with others, especially when it comes to intimacy. Remember that one time you excused yourself with your partner because you hadn’t shaved? Chances are you pointed out the elephant in the room that was only existent to you.  In this week’s episode, I am joined by Jessie Paege, a YouTube personality, actress, author, and entrepreneur. Through her comedic and relatable content, she has built an audience of over 2 million followers across her social channels. Jessie uses her platform to crush stereotypes and raise awareness of mental health issues and LGBTQ+ issues. Her debut book is called, Hey, It's Okay to Be You, which fits perfectly with our conversation about how insecurities play a role in our relationships.  Thanks to the sponsors of this episode!  OneSkin:  Get 15% off OneSkin with the code LOVERS at [https://www.oneskin.co/] (https://www.oneskin.co/) #oneskinpod #ad Ritual: There’s no more shame in your gut game. Get 20% off your first month.  Visit: [https://www.ritual.com/lovers] (https://www.ritual.com/lovers) Factor: Try Factor meals and get 50%off by visiting:  [https://www.factormeals.com/lovers50] (https://www.factormeals.com/lovers50) Follow Shan [https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram] (https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram) [https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) [loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com] (mailto:loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com) Follow Jessie:  [https://www.youtube.com/@jessiepaege] (https://www.youtube.com/@jessiepaege) [https://www.instagram.com/jessiepaege/] (https://www.instagram.com/jessiepaege/) [https://www.tiktok.com/@jessiepaege] (https://www.tiktok.com/@jessiepaege) ... Read more

02 Aug 2023

58 MINS

58:12

02 Aug 2023

#83

82: Pointless Sex? The Truth About Not Orgasming Feat. Pour Minds

Sex that doesn’t lead to orgasm.. Sound familiar? What if I said that sex that doesn’t lead to the big O can actually be very fulfilling and a lot more common than you think? Sexual experiences can encompass a wide variety of activities, such as kissing, touching, oral sex, manual stimulation, and penetration, among others. The experience and enjoyment of sex can vary greatly from person to person, and not everyone will achieve orgasm during sexual encounters. Some individuals may not experience orgasm at all, while others may experience it infrequently or under certain circumstances. The important aspect to remember is that sex should always be consensual, safe, and respectful of all parties involved. Communication and understanding between partners are essential to ensure that both individuals are comfortable and satisfied with their sexual experiences, regardless of whether orgasm occurs. That is exactly what I am talking about with my guests this week, Drea and Lex whom you may know from Pour Minds.  Thanks to the sponsors of this episode.  Rizos Curls Get 10% off your Rizos Curls order with promo code LOVERS at checkout  [https://bit.ly/3XOE8tZ] (https://bit.ly/3XOE8tZ) ) Liquid IV Get 20% off ANYTHING you order when you use promo code LOVERS http://LIQUID IV DOT COM. Skims Get free shipping on orders over seventy five dollars - all at  [http://SKIMS.com] (http://skims.com/) Better Help  get 10% off your first month of therapy by visiting http:// [BetterHelp.com/lovers] (http://BetterHelp.com/lovers)   Follow Pour Minds Listen to the podcast: [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/too-much-pressure-ft-dess-dior/id1438182646?i=1000580429867] (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/too-much-pressure-ft-dess-dior/id1438182646?i=1000580429867) Watch the YouTube videos: [https://www.youtube.com/@DreaAndLex/videos] (https://www.youtube.com/@DreaAndLex/videos) Follow Shan [https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram] (https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram) [https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) [loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com] (mailto:loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com) ... Read more

26 Jul 2023

56 MINS

56:12

26 Jul 2023

#82

81: Is SEX Ruined By OVERTHINKING? Tell the Truth, is it Pee? Is it Monogamy if We Have Threesomes? ...

This episode felt like a poon and the peen throwback.. If you know, you know! In this episode I sat down with my friend Ricky Shucks and we answered some of your best sex questions.  ---Am I ruining sex by overthinking? ---Is squirting actually pee?  ---Are we monogamous if I am still engaging in threesomes? Thanks to the sponsors of this episode! Fab Fit Fun If you join FabFitFun as a NEW seasonal member right now you’ll also get 20% off your membership so your 1st box is only $47.99 - for up to a $300 value box each season. Join today: [http://www.fabfitfun.com/lovers] (http://www.fabfitfun.com/lovers) Zoc Doc Find a top rated doctor for your needs today:  [http://www.zocdoc.com/lovers] (http://www.zocdoc.com/lovers) Honey Love  Treat yourself to the best shapewear and supportwear on the market plus save 20% off by visiting:  [http://www.honeylove.com/lovers] (http://www.honeylove.com/lovers) Hello Fresh  Try America’s # 1 meal kit for yourself:  [http://www.hellofresh.com/lovers50] (http://www.hellofresh.com/lovers50)   Follow Shan [ https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram ] (https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram) [ https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboody ] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng ] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) [ loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com ] (mailto:loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com) Follow Ricky [ https://www.instagram.com/rickyshucks/?hl=en ] (https://www.instagram.com/rickyshucks/?hl=en) [ https://www.goodiebrand.com/ ] (https://www.goodiebrand.com/) [ https://www.instagram.com/nochasergang/?hl=en ] (https://www.instagram.com/nochasergang/?hl=en) ... Read more

19 Jul 2023

59 MINS

59:57

19 Jul 2023

#81

80: Keke Palmer's Baby Mama Drama, Jonah Hill Gets Out Of Line with Boundaries, and Adam 22 Wants Ou...

Hello lovers and friends. This week’s episode is a little different and it’s because I had a lot to say on some trending pop culture news.  To start things off, Keke Palmer‘s partner Darius Jackson was trending for all the wrong reasons. In this episode we talk about the tweet seen across the globe. “It's the outfit tho.. you a mom.”  Next, we break down if Jonah Hill was out of line with his boundaries. A year after his split with ex girlfriend, Sarah Brady, Brady alleges that Hill emotionally abused her and she had the receipts to back up her claim. SHe posted screenshots of their exchange to her Instagram story that prompted widespread internet discourse about boundaries and whether Hill misused “therapy speak.” Lastly, to catch you up on the Adam22 and the Lena the Plug “drama”, the OnlyFans creator did her first scene with a male performer other than her husband. Lena’s husband, No Jumper founder Adam “Adam 22” Grandmaison, has said he was fine and encouraging of the scene. Thanks to the sponsor of this episode Better Help! Try therapy yourself and get 10% off your first month by going to: [https://www.betterhelp.com/lovers] (https://www.betterhelp.com/lovers) Follow Shan [https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram] (https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram) [https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboody] (http://tiktok.com/shanboody) [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng] (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSE2Lr9RfYXiFtiX1jk5qng) [loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com] (mailto:loversfriendspodcast@gmail.com) Articles: [https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/leylamohammed/keke-palmer-shamed-boyfriend-darius-jackson-outfit-mom] (https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/leylamohammed/keke-palmer-shamed-boyfriend-darius-jackson-outfit-mom) [https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-moms/news/keke-palmer-feels-powerful-as-a-mom-amid-darius-jackson-drama/] (https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-moms/news/keke-palmer-feels-powerful-as-a-mom-amid-darius-jackson-drama/) [https://www.forbes.com/sites/conormurray/2023/07/10/what-to-know-about-jonah-hills-emotional-abuse-allegatio] (https://www.forbes.com/sites/conormurray/2023/07/10/what-to-know-about-jonah-hills-emotional-abuse-allegatio) [https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/jonah-hill-texts-ex-sarah-brady-expose-therapy-speak-dangers-rcna93748] (https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/jonah-hill-texts-ex-sarah-brady-expose-therapy-speak-dangers-rcna93748) [https://www.hotnewhiphop.com/693883-lena-the-plug-adam22-simp-claims-response] (https://www.hotnewhiphop.com/693883-lena-the-plug-adam22-simp-claims-response) [https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-12283131/Adam22s-wife-says-theyve-sex-filmed-porn-scene-man.html] (https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-12283131/Adam22s-wife-says-theyve-sex-filmed-porn-scene-man.html) ... Read more

12 Jul 2023

42 MINS

42:01

12 Jul 2023