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The Gaslighting Effect

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Angela

I’m Angela. A writer, teacher, and cult survivor. After decades of being silenced, I’m finally finding my voice.

#47

Predators In Disguise: How image-obsessed people wreak havoc in recovery spaces

In this episode, Jessica, a self-described ExMormon sex worker, shares how she came to be ... more

21 Apr 2021

1 HR 13 MINS

1:13:46

21 Apr 2021

#46

A Beginner’s Guide to DARVO: deny, argue, reverse victim and offender

TikTok’s Maggie in Babylon joins this podcast episode to discuss how predators turn the ta... more

15 Apr 2021

54 MINS

54:57

15 Apr 2021

#45

5 Red Flags Of Predatory People

This episode is dedicated to the enabling attitudes and behaviors in the ExMormon communit... more

05 Apr 2021

44 MINS

44:46

05 Apr 2021

#44

Predators in ExMormon Spaces

An introduction to season 5, which will be devoted to talking about predatory behavior in ... more

02 Apr 2021

18 MINS

18:12

02 Apr 2021

#43

One trait abusers share

Why did my ex-husband get so angry? How could my mother gaslight me for a decade, yet beli... more

05 Sep 2020

15 MINS

15:51

05 Sep 2020

#42

Two Virgins: how shame ruins sex

A brief portrait of my sex life as a Mormon wife.

22 Aug 2020

35 MINS

35:08

22 Aug 2020

#41

Culture Wars In Mormonism

In 1980’s white suburbia, there was a mold we had to fit. Even the Mormons. Especially the... more

08 Aug 2020

27 MINS

27:16

08 Aug 2020

#40

Children Primed For Sexual Abuse: 4 ways parents set kids up to pick sexually abusive partners

A discussion of how a child can be groomed to accept sexual abuse even when parents never ... more

25 Jul 2020

24 MINS

24:32

25 Jul 2020

#39

The Politics of a Pandemic

A personal episode about the status quo in the United States during the Coronavirus pandem... more

10 Jul 2020

10 MINS

10:40

10 Jul 2020

#38

4 More Spiritual Abuse Tactics

What is Spiritual Abuse? The analysis of spiritually abusive tactics continues.

04 Jul 2020

32 MINS

32:38

04 Jul 2020

#37

4 Spiritual Abuse Tactics

What is spiritual abuse? A description of 4 tactics used in spiritually abusive communitie... more

27 Jun 2020

27 MINS

27:08

27 Jun 2020

#36

13 Emotional Abuse Tactics

13 ways a friend, partner, or family member can manipulate and control you without hitting... more

20 Jun 2020

49 MINS

49:30

20 Jun 2020

#35

10 Verbal Abuse Tactics

If your partner uses these ten tactics to keep you in a state of submission, you may be in... more

13 Jun 2020

28 MINS

28:41

13 Jun 2020

#34

Mourning

How I feel about the current unrest and racial injustices in my country.

05 Jun 2020

12 MINS

12:28

05 Jun 2020

#33

The Enmeshment Doctrine: when boundaries are forbidden

Your family might follow the enmeshment doctrine if your future has been planned out for y... more

30 May 2020

39 MINS

39:46

30 May 2020

#32

10 Things Keeping You In Unhealthy Relationships

No one gets a free pass to treat you like cr*p. Not even family. Especially not family.

23 May 2020

33 MINS

33:16

23 May 2020

#31

Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing: 7 signs a parent is manipulating you

My dad is father of the year... until he doesn’t gets his way. 7 signs someone you love ma... more

16 May 2020

33 MINS

33:48

16 May 2020

#30

Three Types of Perfectionism: the pitfalls of growing up in a perfect Mormon family

Dedicated to my father, I kick off season 3 by analyzing the home he grew up in and the po... more

09 May 2020

29 MINS

29:40

09 May 2020

#29

Healing Through Connection

How I went from believing God was outside myself and that my body was the enemy to integra... more

02 May 2020

34 MINS

34:06

02 May 2020

#28

Healing Through Touch

What exactly is touch deprivation? A list of comforting touch substitutes, the most healin... more

25 Apr 2020

32 MINS

32:28

25 Apr 2020

#27

Healing Through Reflection

Rumination and trauma. How to reflect on the bad while bringing in the good.

18 Apr 2020

24 MINS

24:30

18 Apr 2020

#26

Healing Through Self-Compassion

12 unwritten narcissistic family rules you must break to develop self-compassion. Plus, th... more

11 Apr 2020

30 MINS

30:32

11 Apr 2020

#25

Healing Through Self-Expression

An exploration of writing, art, and music as a means to process and heal from trauma.

04 Apr 2020

35 MINS

35:11

04 Apr 2020

#24

Workplace Mobbing: Resources For The Recovering

A rundown of YouTube videos, blogs, and books to help heal from workplace mobbing. Plus ni... more

28 Mar 2020

34 MINS

34:54

28 Mar 2020

#23

Moving On After Workplace Mobbing

The three degrees of mobbing injury and how I’ve been personally effected by the experienc... more

21 Mar 2020

29 MINS

29:25

21 Mar 2020

#22

Mobbing Stage Five: Expulsion

The reactions of my bullies after I formally resigned told me a lot about who they were. I... more

14 Mar 2020

45 MINS

45:36

14 Mar 2020

#21

Mobbing Stage Four: Misdiagnosis

When my mobbers and my administration joined forces, everything turned ugly.

07 Mar 2020

38 MINS

38:54