Mommying While Muslim podcast

Mommying While Muslim

Mommying While Muslim is a one of a kind podcast where two American born and bred Muslim moms share their experiences to raise second generation kids. Having experienced both pre and post 9/11 America, they're acutely aware of the unique challenges their families face on top of the regular messes that all moms share. Mommying While Muslim is a space to take back their stories, and tell those no one will air on the news or portray fully or fairly in the media. Zaiba Hasan and Uzma Jafri are moms first, careerwomen second, and global citizens at heart. They meet taboo topics head on because they weren't allowed to do it growing up, not at home or at school and work. They aim to better their immediate households, communities, and their momsisterhood the world over by telling the truths sometimes people don't want to face or to hear. Not everyone has the privileges they have and they are eager to learn, more than they are to share their own experiences. Always looking to give back, they find women and families who need a mic because no one needs a voice; they just need an opportunity to speak. Besides tough social issues, they also tackle political ones because when laws affect their kids, they're coming for them as well as the ones who make them! There's no lane that doesn't get taken here. Along the way, they recruit momallies for Muslim Americans who have been inordinately targeted for the last 20 years. True moms know that ALL our children deserve to be safe, loved, and happy, and we bust every yellow brick on the Islamaphobic road to make sure they all are. If you like good trouble, this one's for you!

Mommying While Muslim is a one of a kind podcast where two American born and bred Muslim moms share their experiences to raise second generation kids. Having experienced both pre and post 9/11 America, they're acutely aware of the unique challenges their families face on top of the regular messes that all moms share. Mommying While Muslim is a space to take back their stories, and tell those no one will air on the news or portray fully or fairly in the media. Zaiba Hasan and Uzma Jafri are moms first, careerwomen second, and global citizens at heart. They meet taboo topics head on because they weren't allowed to do it growing up, not at home or at school and work. They aim to better their immediate households, communities, and their momsisterhood the world over by telling the truths sometimes people don't want to face or to hear. Not everyone has the privileges they have and they are eager to learn, more than they are to share their own experiences. Always looking to give back, they find women and families who need a mic because no one needs a voice; they just need an opportunity to speak. Besides tough social issues, they also tackle political ones because when laws affect their kids, they're coming for them as well as the ones who make them! There's no lane that doesn't get taken here. Along the way, they recruit momallies for Muslim Americans who have been inordinately targeted for the last 20 years. True moms know that ALL our children deserve to be safe, loved, and happy, and we bust every yellow brick on the Islamaphobic road to make sure they all are. If you like good trouble, this one's for you!

 

#307

Tying the Knot in Faith

Brought to us by Living Our Beliefs podcast, our gracious hosts Meli Solomon <a href='https://www.instagram.com/melisolomon55/#'>melisolomon55</a> decided to bring together an interfaith discussion on marriage....not the successful ones or bad ones, but the ceremony itself. We were happy to participate and learned a lot about what we have in common. From Living Our Beliefs podcast: Wedding ceremonies are universal and central to many religious and cultural groups. But they vary widely. In this conversation with four guests from different religious traditions – Judaism, Mormonism, Islam and the Baha'i faith – we explore the role of the officiant, who that is, the role of the Divine, contracts and other things. This conversation grew out of the Elevate Podcasting summit hosted by BYU Broadcasting. Steve Perry, host of their In Good Faith podcast, has joined me in co-hosting this discussion.Tune in to learn more at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or head to our website and share with a friend you know who might like this episode. [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

19 Dec 2024

41 MINS

41:22

19 Dec 2024


#306

Witchy Quakers & Religious Magic

@sarajolena joins us on this episode to discuss religion, epistomology (meaning), colonization of earth and people, and magic, so hold onto your hijabs. We BARELY talked about HP on this episode, and instead focused on what animism, or "magic," can mean to people who profess deep religious faith. It may give some of us more to chew on than we first imagined.Furthermore, to have Sara Jolena describe herself as "witchy" Quaker was a very educational conversation, basically Uzma's nerdy HP dreams come true. We invite you to listen to the magical/spiritual work of motherhood. There is a lot to learn about our own biases against each other and against the earth. Tune in at 6pm EST om Apple podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, or head over to our website and check out Sara Jolena's website for great info and resources. [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

17 Dec 2024

59 MINS

59:20

17 Dec 2024


#305

The Gospel of Inclusion Part 2

⛪🕌✝🌙☪Thanks for coming back for PART TWO of this special episode with @3blackmenpod and @halfwaytherepodcast. This week, we continue to hear what a gospel of inclusion looks like by people who look and pray differently, but believe in the same God and values we think we need to save our ailing world. From our reactions to hidden and overt racism, to what is Godly behavior, and having tough conversations with those who may not practice as we do, we end up on a journey through rivers and streams to keep reaching for God.🎧📲💗We'd like to thank @byuradio and In Good Faith Podcast for hosting us and providing professional recording resources for this very special episode.  💗Links:1. <a href='https://www.patreon.com/threeblackmen'>3 Black Men Podcast</a>2. <a href='https://www.ericnevins.com/'>Halfway There Podcast</a>3. <a href='https://www.byuradio.org/in-good-faith'>In Good Faith Podcast</a>4. <a href='https://answersingenesis.org/church/pew-research-why-young-people-leaving-christianity/'>Young Christians</a>5. <a href='https://www.manyvoices.org/educate-my-faith-community/impact-of-exclusion-and-discrimination/'>Black Church Movemen</a>t6. <a href='https://gen.medium.com/cutting-online-services-is-an-act-of-exclusion-ae41b71959ff'>Virtual Church</a>7. <a href='https://www.worldvision.org/christian-faith-news-stories/best-christian-podcasts-grow-faith#1695148704511-b8018640-71b0'>Christian Podcasts</a> [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

22 Nov 2024

37 MINS

37:59

22 Nov 2024


#304

SERIES Interfaith Parenting in an Increasingly Secular World: The Gospel of Inclusion

⛪🕌✝🌙☪In this special TWO PART episode, @3blackmenpod and @halfwaytherepodcast help us dive into an essential conversation: fathering and parenting in a faith-centered world to create safe spaces for all children to embrace a gospel of inclusion. Our Christian brothers join us in candid and colorful conversation in a moment when it's hard to remember who or what to believe in anymoreTo all the Muslim men who've wanted to come on as guests, don't have FOMO! These are our brothers in faith, too, and we are so blessed that they've got not just our backs, but our children's as well. And, they're super fun to talk to, but you'll have to listen to get it. Dear Muslim moms and ALL moms, hear how fathers of faith guide their children spiritually while allowing them the freedom to explore and question everything. 🌻🌻 This first part of this series finds us exploring the challenges of passing on our faith to our children, avoiding weaponizing religion, and cultivating values that go beyond religious teachings. Tune in at 6pm EST and share this episode, follow our amazing guests, and come back next week for the close for even more topics we cover! 🎧📲💗We'd like to thank @byuradio and In Good Faith Podcast for hosting us and providing professional recording resources for this very special episode.  💗Links:1. <a href='https://www.patreon.com/threeblackmen'>3 Black Men Podcast</a> 2. <a href='https://www.ericnevins.com/'>Halfway There Podcast</a>3. <a href='https://www.byuradio.org/in-good-faith'>In Good Faith Podcast</a>4. <a href='https://answersingenesis.org/church/pew-research-why-young-people-leaving-christianity/'>Young Christians</a>5. <a href='https://www.manyvoices.org/educate-my-faith-community/impact-of-exclusion-and-discrimination/'>Black Church Movemen</a>t6. <a href='https://gen.medium.com/cutting-online-services-is-an-act-of-exclusion-ae41b71959ff'>Virtual Church</a>7. <a href='https://www.worldvision.org/christian-faith-news-stories/best-christian-podcasts-grow-faith#1695148704511-b8018640-71b0'>Christian Podcasts</a> [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

14 Nov 2024

34 MINS

34:02

14 Nov 2024


#303

Modern Muslim Parenting & Mental Health

New Episode Alert! 💡 This week, we’re diving deep into parenting mental health hurdles with the incredible Dr. Saira Pasha, AKA @drmindyourwellness. 🌱✨As Muslim American kids face rising pressures, mental health and substance abuse are real issues our community must confront. Join us as Dr. Pasha shares her insights on nurturing resilient, healthy minds in our kids while breaking stigmas around mental wellness. ❤️🧠Tune in for this empowering conversation—because it’s time we talk openly about the struggles and solutions that keep our kids healthy and thriving. 🎧Links:1. Find Dr. Pasha on IG: @drmindyourwellness2. Email Dr. Pasha: pashapsychiatry@gmail.com [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

24 Oct 2024

38 MINS

38:14

24 Oct 2024


#302

Muslim Parenting Styles Part II

What do you get when you cross a parenting and spiritual coach with a very spiritual Masters psychology student mom? Join us as we dive into the heart of Islamic parenting styles, exploring what it means to raise resilient Muslim children in America. Guest cohost today is a dear friend of ours, grand supporter of the podcast, and former guest, Saira Sufi of @teamwatience.From nurturing faith to navigating modern challenges, this episode is packed with wisdom on balancing tradition, love, and strength. 💪✨ Hear examples of these styles and challenges faced when practicing any combo of them in this episode that lends itself to real life practice.Tune in to hear how these incredible moms and their kids thrive in today’s world, staying true to their roots while building resilience for tomorrow. 💖🎙️ Links: [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

18 Oct 2024

45 MINS

45:39

18 Oct 2024


#301

Brave Muslim Parenting

Our guest today is Shahnila Ahmad, a fellow podcaster and ICF certified and Gottman certified emotional coach @bravemuslimparents. We talk to her about the struggles of parenting vs. kidding, emotional regulation, and navigating some challenging situations that inevitably arise. Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or head to our website to take a listen, and share this episode with a Muslim mum (or dad) navigating through the ins-and-outs of their parenting journey.Links:1. Follow Brave Muslim Parents on the web or to sign up for a workshop: https://bravemuslimparents.com/2. DM and follow on IG: @bravemuslimparents [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

10 Oct 2024

49 MINS

49:05

10 Oct 2024


#300

SERIES: Islamic Parenting Styles: Muslim Parenting Styles Part I

Noha Alshugairi, MS, LMFT and co-author of Positive Parenting in the Muslim Home, joins us today to be thanked for writing THE manual on Muslim American parenting we needed. Just kidding! Even she says that's not what it is, but it IS the text that gave us hope that there were other moms out there who knew our struggles and would help lighten them. On this episode, Khala Noha covers the role positive discipline plays in shaping emotionally resilient kids. What are the most common concerns that Muslim parents bring her, what cultural influences help or hinder Muslim families, and why must our kids fail? That last one really begs the question about why we parents are so afraid of failure. All this, and more, in store for our listeners.You might be surprised to learn what this therapist's beliefs and practices are about therapy and who should be doing it. What won't surprise you is her commitment to the spiritual development of Muslim parents and their kids. We didn't even release the episode and got eager listeners chomping at the bit to share how much they love Khala Noha, and everything they've learned from her. Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or head to our website to check out the latest. And do share this episode with 3 mom friends no matter what stage of parenting they're in. They'll love you for it! Links:1. Resources recommended by Khala Noha: <a href='https://sakina.gumroad.com/'>https://sakina.gumroad.com/</a> 2. Khala Noha's linktree with ALL the info you need: <a href='https://linktr.ee/sakinacounseling'>https://linktr.ee/sakinacounseling</a>3. Purchase for your home library: <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Positive-Parenting-Muslim-Home-Alshugairi/dp/0974295051/ref=b2b_gw_d_simh_a1_0_p/168-6299934-4144627?ie=UTF8&pd_rd_i=0974295051&pd_rd_r=1FG38V8BSCXTX08V34ZE&pd_rd_w=6gPrM&pd_rd_wg=I0bwE&pf_rd_i=b2b-desktop&pf_rd_m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_r'>Positive Parenting in the Muslim Home</a>4. Khala Noha on IG: @<a href='https://www.instagram.com/nohaalshugairi#'>nohaalshugairi</a> [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

03 Oct 2024

47 MINS

47:22

03 Oct 2024


#299

Empty Nesting With Tawakkul

As mothers, we spend years nurturing, guiding, and preparing our children to take flight. And then one day, they do. The once chaotic household grows quiet, and we're left standing in the wake of their departure. It’s a moment we always knew would come, but it doesn't make the transition any less complex. This week's episode dives deep into the feelings of an "empty nest" and challenges the idea of loss by reframing it as an opportunity for growth and reinvention—for both us and our children.Are we "empty" when our children leave, or are we setting them free to soar, to become who we raised them to be? The truth is, their independence is a reflection of our success as mothers. Every milestone they achieve, every risk they take, is proof that we've equipped them with the tools they need to navigate the world on their own terms.But this transition is also about us. We aren't just mothers—we are individuals who deserve to rediscover ourselves beyond the role we've played for so long. This is a chapter where we get to ask, "Who am I now?" and "What do I want to do?" It's not about losing ourselves; it's about reclaiming and redefining our identities. From exploring new passions to reconnecting with our dreams, this stage of life is as much about *our* growth as it is theirs.Tune in as we explore the bittersweet emotions of watching our children fly the nest and how we can embrace this season of transformation with grace, strength, and a little self-discovery. Whether you're on the brink of an empty nest or already navigating this new space, this conversation is for you. 💖👉 Listen now wherever you get your podcasts. Links: Sign up for 1 of 4 limited spots to lose the weight plaguing your peace: Email salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com! [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

27 Sep 2024

43 MINS

43:52

27 Sep 2024


#298

The Wonder Years

This week's episode is all about Zaiba and Uzma's experiences parenting teenagers with the challenges and joys that come with it. If you don't know why they're calling it "The Wonder Years," it's because they are OLD. How they navigate this phase of motherhood in the bread and circus of American culture is a must listen. 🔏 Limitations of parental control 📌 Teens asserting independence 🚸 Halal gender relations, including dating ☎ Open lines of communication If you're afraid of this phase of mommying, take a sneak peek now because you can't run away. If you can, let us know you're secret! Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or head to our website to take a listen, and share this episode with a mom of teens to let her know you appreciate the mental and emotional battles she wages daily. [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

19 Sep 2024

41 MINS

41:22

19 Sep 2024


#297

The Early Years of Motherhood

Parenthood can be a beautiful journey, but it also comes with its share of challenges, right out of the gate.  In this week's episode, we’re discussing the early years of parenting when loneliness, loss of identity, and postpartum mental health often overwhelm, sabotage, and debilitate some of us. We also explore what it means to raise spirited little ones while holding on to faith and hope. 🤍 Join us as we share stories, insights, and encouragement for every mom navigating this season. You’re not alone in this. Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or head to our website landing page and let’s walk this path together. 🎧✨ Share this episode with a new mom or mom to be and help her be more than a tablespoon of peanut butter. IYKYK Links:1. <a href='https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20230628-why-couples-fight-after-having-a-baby'>Relationships Post Baby</a>2. <a href='https://teachingmama.org/20-ways-to-keep-toddlers-busy/'>Keeping Toddlers Bus</a>y3. <a href='https://nisahelpline.com/get-help/'>NISA helpline</a> for women 1-888-315-64724. <a href='https://www.naseehausa.org/helpline-textline'>Naseeha mental health helpline</a> for teens 1-866-627-33425. Domestic violence numbers 1-800-799-7233 or Text “BEGIN” to 887886. Suicide risk line-Call 988 for 24/7 help, even if it’s just to talk [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

12 Sep 2024

37 MINS

37:12

12 Sep 2024


#296

SERIES: Phases of the Mom: Becoming Mommy Muslim Matrescence

There’s a lot to say about “mothers’ status” in Islam, but sadly, not enough about how to support her to maintain and thrive there. It’s hella lonely and confusing on these pedestals. We aren’t looking for trophies, just Jannah (heaven), but some of us get lost along the way. Good news! There’s a whole field of study about it! Matrescence, the developmental transition into motherhood, is both spiritual AND practical for Muslims. There’s no other way we know how to do things, but we weren’t always here. It took a long way, through a lot of parenting potholes and pitfalls to get where we are, and we aren’t done yet. Take a walk down memory lane with us and maybe tune in for some familiar experiences and sentiments. We didn’t mean to start the waterworks this early in the series, but here we are. Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or head to our website landing page. Share this episode with a new mama or even better, a mama to be, who can inshaAllah avoid curveballs where we did not.Links: 1--<a href='https://www.thebump.com/a/matrescence'>What is Matrescence?</a> 2--<a href='https://www.huffpost.com/entry/transition-motherhood-matrescence_l_63bf3275e4b0cbfd55ef26b0'>Huffpost</a> on matrescence 3--<a href='https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30826374/'>Neuroscience</a> of matrescence 4--Read more about matrescence by <a href='https://www.matrescence.com/'>Dr. Aurelie Athan</a> 5--Kevlar bulletproof hoodies (because America) ---1--https://wonderhoodie.com/collections/wonder-hoodie-bulletproof-clothing ---2--https://bulletproofeveryone.com/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwreW2BhBhEiwAavLwfF--spBxNBrMLb_uUFBE0pK9BGZDyRZe3jmeQG2YMy5F52UXB1WlhRoCLhQQAvD_BwE [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

06 Sep 2024

45 MINS

45:11

06 Sep 2024


#295

Replay: Does Shia/Sunni Matter in America?

☪☪On this popular replay from 2020 (can you believe it's been that long?!?!?!), podcaster mom, Farheen Raza @freeniraza, shared Shia history, practice, and whether or not sects make a difference in America. During this time of division and change in our nation, it DOES matter when we have schisms within Muslim America. Let's close those gaps together. A lot has changed for Farheen since we recorded this, so follow her and find out what that is.☪☪Part 2 of this conversation was aired in June 2020, and we encourage you to follow up with that one next. This week, tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, Amazon Music, or head to our website and listen on the landing page. Share this episode with your Muslim friends who you never thought to ask about their sect (and thank goodness you didn't!).Links: 1--Musings of a Modern Muslim podcast: <a href='https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/musings-of-a-millennial-muslim/id1489441261'>https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/musings-of-a-millennial-muslim/id1489441261</a> 2--On IG: @freeniraza [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

29 Aug 2024

32 MINS

32:28

29 Aug 2024


#294

Replay: Physical & Sexual Trauma and Leadership Accountability

TRIGGER WARNING:This is one of our favorite episodes because it's no one is above spiritual abuse, and everyone is vulnerable to falling victim to it. We need to have a means to bring leaders to account in this life so we can protect each other in the next one.FACE (Facing Abuse in Community Environments) addresses those leaders who have taken major missteps, endangering not just our community members, but our faith itself. The time to identify and repair is yesterday. The good news is, we can do it together.Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stiticher, Spotify, or head to our web landing page to listen, follow, and share. Links:1. Follow FACE on IG: @facingabuse2. FACE website: https://facetogether.org/32. <a href='https://facetogether.org/investigations/moatazmoftah-2'>Imam busted in AZ</a>4. <a href='https://facetogether.org/investigations/fatih-seferagic'>Qari busted in KS and TX</a>5. The FYI Spiritual Abuse Toolkit: https://thefyi.org/religious-spiritual-abuse-toolkit/ [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

22 Aug 2024

37 MINS

37:20

22 Aug 2024


#293

Replay: Childhood Sexual Abuse with Buddy Speaks

Trigger warning! This episode is NOT meant to be heard by children unless our mom audience feels they're ready for it. If you're a survivor of any sexual trauma, as a child or as an adult, you may not be ready for it either, so gauge your ability to revisit the past. We are here for you either way. If you need resources to deal with PTSD due to a history of abuse, we have links for you in the shownotes, and we are always just a DM/PM or email away. This episode IS meant to prepare us to hear the hard truths about child sex abuse, such as our personal experiences with it, how pervasive it is, and also new things, like how subversive it can be. Learn about grooming, disclosure, even forgivenesss, and how to be the safety net our kids need in the event that the worst should happen; may Allah SWT protect them all always. Ameen. Shariea Shoatz and our team made ourselves incredibly vulnerable in this episode because we trust our Muslim and non Muslim mom sisters to receive these hard truths in love and compassion, and to offer those in turn to themselves, as well as to their children. We are not alone in this. ... Sexual abuse doesn't happen because we are Americans and that's "this culture." NO! Sexual abuse doesn't monopolize any one country or society. Many cultures within and without the US have to deal with it, but we have the opportunity to dive deep into this difficult topic and figure out how to prevent and treat it. Mommying means rolling up our sleeves for the sake of the kids and our God-given duty to protect them at all costs.Shariea Shoatz is on the money when she says education is the best prevention, so that's where most of this conversation will be. Hugs for anyone who needs them after this one! Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or click on our bio to listen right on our website. Share this episode with all your mom friends because education is the best prevention.Links: 1--Follow Shariea on IG: @shariea_shoatz 2--Learn more about Buddy Speaks and purchase the book: <a href='https://buddyspeaks.org/home'>https://buddyspeaks.org/home</a>  3--The FYI <a href='https://thefyi.org/?s=sexual+abuse'>resources</a> on sexual abuse 4-- <a href='https://aboutislam.net/muslim-issues/n-america/muslims-enough-combat-child-sexual-abuse/'>Are Muslims Doing Enough to Combat Child Sexual Abuse?</a> ============================================================================================================================================================= [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

15 Aug 2024

43 MINS

43:44

15 Aug 2024


#292

Replay: Invisible Mom

Anyone ever feel self pity as you pick up in the kitchen at the end of the night, get laundry started or finished in the dark, put toys back where they belong, or end up refilling the tank at the most inopportune time because no one else did it? Are you the only one praying at salah time because your reminders fall on deaf ears or outright refusal? Review the status of mothers in Islam and be confident in our role as seen by our Creator. We believe in the angels recording even when people are not. Kids’ sense of security in knowing we are always there. They are taught early on “mother, mother, mother” and will never see us as “nobody.” And because Allah SWT sees us, can we ever be invisible?Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or click on our bio for the website to listen and share this with momsisters who may feel invisible. Shoot them a text that reads "I see you" and check out what happens.Links: 1--<a href='https://justbetweenus.org/relationships/parenting-advice/the-invisible-mother/'>The original article by Nicole Johnson that went viral</a> 2--<a href='https://muslimmatters.org/2016/07/25/its-not-mothers-or-fathers-day-but-imam-omar-suleiman/'>Omar Suleiman tribute to his parents</a> 3--<a href='http://www.quranreading.com/blog/status-of-mothers-in-islam-according-to-quran-and-hadith/'>Quranic &Hadeeth references on mothers’ status</a> [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

11 Aug 2024

34 MINS

34:26

11 Aug 2024


#291

Replay: My Muslim Kid & Drugs

Tina Khan joins us today to discuss her experience watching her son’s spiral into drugs and mental health crises and what it did to their family. This is definitely an episode you want to hear before you choose to let your kids listen in, but it really does merit a listen by young people to hear what drug addiction does, not just to an individual, but a family and community.Where are we as a Muslim community in terms of supporting our young Muslims struggling with drug addiction, and just as importantly to our momcrew, are we there for our moms who have a child in crisis like this? If not now, WHY NOT. If not now, WHEN?Tune in at 6pm EST tonight on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or click on our link in bio and SHARE this episode link with 2 moms you know so THEY know they’ve got allies and ears with us. Make sure you use your podcast app to look up the links on this one. Links: 1--Ten years of substance use research in Muslim populations: Where do we go from here?: <a href='https://quod.lib.umich.edu/j/jmmh/10381607.0010.103/--ten-years-of-substance-use-research-in-muslim-populations?rgn=main;view=fulltext'>https://quod.lib.umich.edu/j/jmmh/10381607.0010.103/--ten-years-of-substance-use-research-in-muslim-populations?rgn=main;view=fulltext</a>  2--Substance Abuse and Addiction in the Muslim Community: Facing Stigma and Seeking Support: <a href='https://www.ispu.org/substance-abuse-and-addiction-in-the-muslim-community/'>https://www.ispu.org/substance-abuse-and-addiction-in-the-muslim-community/</a>  3--Participate in Muslim drug treatment research study: <a href='https://betterconduct.org/'>https://betterconduct.org/</a>  4--Teena’s email: <a href='mailto:teena.khn@gmail.com'>teena.khn@gmail.com</a> 5--Listen to Teena on King of the World podcast: <a href='https://www.rifelion.com/shows/kingoftheworld'>https://www.rifelion.com/shows/kingoftheworld</a>  [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

08 Aug 2024

51 MINS

51:22

08 Aug 2024


#290

Softly Leaning into Toughness

In this episode, Zaiba discusses the concept of embracing challenges to develop many strengths, including the elusive growth mindset. It’s not just for kids, folks! Takeaways include ---Leaning into toughness to build resilience. ---Setting clear achievable goals ---Breaking down challenges into manageable steps can help in leaning into toughness. ---And many more! Tune in at 6pm EST and share this with an accountability partner. Don’t what that is? LISTEN!  [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

25 Jul 2024

20 MINS

20:24

25 Jul 2024


#289

Beat the Heat When Tempers Rise

Remember COVID cabin fever? And now it’s the middle of summer with all the kids home and some of us with hot flashes to boot. It’s a recipe for an explosion of tempers, so how do we manage ours? This is a great episode for those of us struggling to model prophetic behavior to our children, especially when  it comes to the critical sunnah of controlling our anger. Luckily, we still get to feel it. But it’s HOW we react that matters. Zaiba pulls out the stops on this one to offer some of her parenting coaching pearls, and Uzma is struggling, but always willing, to put them into practice. Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or head to our website to take a listen. Share this episode with your parenting partner and posse because anger management is something we always need reminders about. Links:Latest July 2024 <a href='https://www.hrw.org/report/2024/07/17/i-cant-erase-all-blood-my-mind/palestinian-armed-groups-october-7-assault-israel'>Human Rights Report</a>Resources debunking 10/7 atrocity propaganda 1--<a href='https://www.presstv.ir/Detail/2024/03/26/722543/New-York-Times-calls-Hamas-rape-story-false-'>https://www.presstv.ir/Detail/2024/03/26/722543/New-York-Times-calls-Hamas-rape-story-false-</a> 2--<a href='https://www.democracynow.org/2024/3/1/nyt_anat_schwartz'>https://www.democracynow.org/2024/3/1/nyt_anat_schwartz</a> 3--<a href='https://www.cnn.com/2023/10/12/middleeast/israel-hamas-beheading-claims-intl/index.html'>https://www.cnn.com/2023/10/12/middleeast/israel-hamas-beheading-claims-intl/index.html</a> 4--<a href='https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2023/10/decapitated-babies-claim-intent-dehumanization.html'>https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2023/10/decapitated-babies-claim-intent-dehumanization.html</a>  5--<a href='https://www.timesofisrael.com/how-2-debunked-accounts-from-zaka-workers-fueled-global-skepticism-of-oct-7-rape/'>https://www.timesofisrael.com/how-2-debunked-accounts-from-zaka-workers-fueled-global-skepticism-of-oct-7-rape/</a> 6--<a href='https://prospect.org/world/2024-03-20-what-really-happened-on-october-7/'>https://prospect.org/world/2024-03-20-what-really-happened-on-october-7/</a> 7--<a href='https://theintercept.com/2024/02/28/new-york-times-anat-schwartz-october-7/'>https://theintercept.com/2024/02/28/new-york-times-anat-schwartz-october-7/</a> 8--<a href='https://mondoweiss.net/2024/03/atrocity-propaganda-vs-the-testimony-of-atrocity/https://www.aljazeera.com/program/the-listening-post/2024/3/2/the-unraveling-of-the-new-york-times-hamas-rape-story'>https://mondoweiss.net/2024/03/atrocity-propaganda-vs-the-testimony-of-atrocity/https://www.aljazeera.com/program/the-listening-post/2024/3/2/the-unraveling-of-the-new-york-times-hamas-rape-story</a> 9--<a href='https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2024/3/21/october-7-forensic-analysis-shows-hamas-abuses-many-false-israeli-claims'>https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2024/3/21/october-7-forensic-analysis-shows-hamas-abuses-many-false-israeli-claims</a> [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

18 Jul 2024

37 MINS

37:12

18 Jul 2024


#288

Crazy New Summer Hobbies

Summers are long and hot, and thanks to global warming, even longer and hotter. But while we’re cooped up indoors waiting for the world to come to its flaming end, we don’t have to be bored. Remember that as our kids grow up, so do we, and we can rediscover old beloved hobbies or learn new ones. What are Zaiba and Uzma up to this summer and what are some of their inspirations, motivations, and tricks to these new hobbies? More importantly, what hobbies are getting you through this summer? Comment below to share or head over to our FB group. Just know if you don’t answer the questions or pass our vetting, you don’t get in. No trolls allowed. Tune in at 6pm EST and thanks for listening to our twofer episode drop this week! Links: 1--<a href='https://www.dropsitenews.com/p/on-the-record-with-hamas'>On the Record with Hamas by Jeremy Scahill</a> 2--<a href='https://theintercept.com/2024/07/08/scahill-and-grim-launch-new-media-outlet/'>Join Dropsite for real news you can use</a> 3--<a href='https://pointmetofirstclass.com/podcast'>Point Me to First Class podcast</a> [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

12 Jul 2024

30 MINS

30:41

12 Jul 2024


#287

SERIES: Chit Chats: Out of the Nest..Is It the Best?

Shownotes: This month’s Chit Chat Series addresses relevant mommying issues starting with the transitions we experience as adult children move out for college. Or go away for summer camp. Grief is real. So is the mental work WE have to do as moms to accept new roles and identities for ourselves as our kids enter the stage where they will spend the majority of their lives: adulthood. Join the spectators on the bench this episode to discuss important practical and emotional steps we can take with our kids to head out on the next part of this journey. Tune in at 6PM EST and don’t forget we have a two-fer tonight and may just need some extra time to clean it up and post it. In any case, you should have a couple of listens on your commute before the weekend hits! Links: 1--QuadM Shop: <a href='https://www.quadmshops.com/quadm-chicago-24'>https://www.quadmshops.com/quadm-chicago-24</a>  [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

12 Jul 2024

38 MINS

38:49

12 Jul 2024


#286

The Pros & Challenges of Being a Child of Immigrants

Tune in for this recap of our June series "Children of Immigrants!" We review episodes recorded this months, as well as lessons learned from them, but the meat of the talk is the good and bad things we inherit and how we use them to do better with our own kids.First generation Muslim Americans, we need you to listen in especially! This whole podcast, not just the episode, was Uzma's dream for you!Share this podcast with a friend who has an immigration story or two under their belt, too.Links: [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

28 Jun 2024

41 MINS

41:40

28 Jun 2024


#285

Creating the Lives We Want

Our guest this week is, Marena Riyad, comedienne, creative, crafter, community builder, and crash courser in life. We got some learning today! From kidnapping to "it takes a village" to "be A LOT uncomfortable" to get where we want to go in life, we found a lot of Marena's talking points really hit home. Young wisdom is so very humbling, especially when it clearly demonstrates how to reconcile immigrant histories and write our own chapters in them.  What does that look like when we grow up with stalwart models of resilience and sacrifice? It often means inheriting a strong work ethic and failure-is-not-an-option gameplan, but there is a room to follow our north stars. Marena demonstrates this beautifully. Whether you're an immigrant, a child of immigrants, or someone striving to make their mark in the world, this episode will resonate.  Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Amazon Music, or head to our website landing page for a compelling discussion on ambition, resilience, and the beauty of crafting a life that reflects both where we come from and where we're going.Links: 1--Marena Riyad on the Web: <a href='https://www.kufiyacomedytx.com/'>https://www.kufiyacomedytx.com/</a> 2--Marena Riyad on IG: @<a href='https://www.instagram.com/thehausofhenna/'>thehausofhenna</a>  [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

21 Jun 2024

40 MINS

40:30

21 Jun 2024


#284

From Barbados to Becoming: Building a Legacy for Change

We are celebrating Shellie McKinney of @momnetworkusa today, a first generation Muslim American and dedicated community organizer, who channels the resilience and spirit of her immigrant mother from Barbados. Growing up, Shellie learned from her mother's lead and "make lemonade" squeeze, founding an organization that is making the lives of our Muslim moms and children better.But what ARE the experiences of a first generation immigrant who code switches Bajan so adeptly, you wouldn't guess she's Brooklyn-born? And how do these experiences affect her mothering today? Hear how Shellie's late mother's love and strength lifted new immigrants, and inspired future generations to fully embrace their culture. Today, Shellie works tirelessly to build stronger, more inclusive communities, honoring her mother's legacy with every step she takes.🌟 Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Amazon Music, or head over to our website landing page, and follow MOMNetwork!Links:1. Follow MOMNetwork on IG: @momnetworkusa2. Shellie's reading: Atomic Habits by James Clear  [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

14 Jun 2024

34 MINS

34:12

14 Jun 2024


#283

SERIES Children of Immigrants: From Iraq to Independence

There's so much Zeena on the podcast, and you'll find out why next week!@zeena_altalib joins us for the first of our Children of Immigrants series this month, recounting her family's move to the US from Iraq, her experience of it as a teen and now, as a mom. At the end of the day, we determine that mothering is the same whether you are an immigrant mom or native born, but the paths to and from there may be different. Certainly, the challenges are!As a mom of boys and a business coach, Zeena's coping strategies are noteworthy, so grab a pad and pencil and listen to this one! As a child of immigrants, her aid to her parents is also something to write home about.Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Amazon Music, or head over to our website to launch, and share this episode with your immigrant parents.Links:1. Find Zeena Altalib on IG: @zeena_altalib [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

07 Jun 2024

40 MINS

40:13

07 Jun 2024


#282

Recap Tribute to Moms of Gaza

We recap this month's moving episodes that acknowledge the incredible burden of motherhood during genocide. Insha'Allah, that weight will be relieved from the shoulders and hearts of the Palestinian people, ameen. 🍉🍉If you've missed these episodes because you've been heartbroken and gaping at your phones over the ongoing horrors that have surpassed our wildest imaginations, we get it. But remember that our humanity relies on our steadfastness to it. We will NEVER normalize what's happening right now. We will NEVER accept it. And we will NEVER stop resisting. ✊🏾Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stiticher, Amazon Music, or head over to our website and share this episode with someone who doesn't know the difference between "Palestine" and "Pakistan." 🗺Links:1. To help transport refugees out of Rafah to Mawasi: Follow mohamed_elzomarFollow @oberlin4palestineDonate: <a href='https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-getting-out-of-gaza-death'>https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-getting-out-of-gaza-death</a>  2. To help Fidaa’s cousin reunite with her family, and her other cousins escape Rafah<a href='https://gofund.me/eb72560b'>https://gofund.me/eb72560b</a><a href='https://gofund.me/63a801df'>https://gofund.me/63a801df</a><a href='https://gofund.me/aec0ca32'>https://gofund.me/aec0ca32</a> 3. For an intro to the Palestinian struggleSaid, Edward W. The question of PalestineKhalidi, Rashid. The Hundred Years’ War on Palestine: A History of Settler Colonialism and Resistance, 1917–2017Pappe, Ilan. The ethnic cleansing of Palestine4. For a history of PalestineDoumani, Beshara. Rediscovering Palestine: merchants and peasants in Jabal Nablus, 1700–19005. For Nakba deniersAbdo,  Nahla, and Nur Masalha, eds. An oral history of the Palestinian NakbaAssad, Dawud. Palestine Rising: How I survived the 1948 Deir Yasin MassacreKhalidi, Walid (ed.), Sharif S. Elmusa, and Muhammad Ali Khalidi. All that remains: The Palestinian villages occupied and depopulated by Israel in 1948Masalha, Nur. Expulsion of the Palestinians. Washington, DC: Institute for Palestine Studies, 1992.Masalha, Nur. The politics of denial: Israel and the Palestinian refugee problem6. On resistanceDavis, Angela Y. Freedom is a constant struggle: Ferguson, Palestine, and the foundations of a movement [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

31 May 2024

28 MINS

28:38

31 May 2024


#281

Mom Made in Palestine

Today’s guest, Morgan Cooper @mashjar_juthour, has lived and breathed Palestine for over two decades and is online telling Americans what her experiences have been as a Christian human in the land. She’s witnessed the DAILY government apartheid and violence against indigenous people and hasn’t been shy to speak up, a warrior mom to Palestinian children being raised on their historical land. Your heart will swell with pride, and break when she shares what she has to teach her kids to be safe there. In this episode, you’ll note us trying not to say “West Bank,” given what she’s has taught us about the language of colonization and violence.  Morgan is a mom and environmental activist, preserving Palestinian land and culture in the ways she knows how: by raising proud Palestinian children, and supporting local female artisans so that the crafts of the land can recruit hearts outside of it. Handmade Palestine has been her passion project for almost a decade and through it, we can help support indigenous mothers and their liberation. Her message to Gazan mothers, well, another tearjerker. We thought about splitting this into two episodes, but it just couldn’t be done because of the efforts we had to let everyone know about on the ground to help Palestinian moms TODAY. So this may take the drive lines as well as your day’s errands to complete. For those out of school, it’s a good way to start a road trip, but we promise you’ll finish before you hit the next state.   Tune in at 6pm EST on Apple podcasts, Stitcher, Amazon Music, or head over to our website and take a listen, then share with ten friends who need to hear all about, and shop at, Handmade Palestine @handmadepalestine. Links: 1--Follow Morgan on IG: @mashjar_juthour 2--Email Morgan for a farm stay: <a href='mailto:Info@juthour.org'>Info@juthour.org</a>  3--Purchase Palestinians crafts from women led co-ops to support artisans and Mashjar: <a href='https://handmadepalestine.com/'>https://handmadepalestine.com/</a>  [Did you know you can send us a text? Feedback, questions, or recommendations welcomed!] (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/271577/open_sms) [Support the show] (https://www.patreon.com/mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast) 1. Web: <a href='http://www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com/'>www.mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>2. Email: <a href='mailto:salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com'>salam@mommyingwhilemuslim.com</a>3. FB: Mommying While Muslim page and Mommyingwhilemuslim group4. IG: @mommyingwhilemuslimpodcast5. YouTube: <a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrrdKxpBdBO4ZLwB1kTmz1w</a> ... Read more

24 May 2024

1 HR 10 MINS

1:10:17

24 May 2024