Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties podcast

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

 

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Episode 669: My Boyfriend is Threatened By My Journal

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner doesn't like that she has a past... more

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Episode 668: Caught in a Cycle of Emotional Hunger

Sam and Sierra answer a letter frome someone who is wondering if she chose the wrong guy [... more

12 Dec 2025

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Episode 667: Can a Work Crush Ever Be a Good Thing?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is taking solace in a work crush [Join us ... more

10 Dec 2025

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Episode 666: Are Long-Lasting Relationships Inherently Better?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if a longer relationship will... more

08 Dec 2025

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Episode 665: Navigating An Overly Negative World

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is seeking care in an uncaring world [Join... more

05 Dec 2025

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Episode 664: Do You Want Couple's Therapy With A Man Who Won't Say I Love You?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who went on vacation with her boyfriend and no... more

03 Dec 2025

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03 Dec 2025


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Episode 663: Panicking Over A Potential Proposal

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is panicking now that an engagement is on ... more

01 Dec 2025

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01 Dec 2025


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Episode 662: When People Pity Your Happy Single Life

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who is happy being single even though the world... more

28 Nov 2025

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28 Nov 2025


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Episode 661: The Shame We Carry

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who, like all of us, is holding onto shame she... more

26 Nov 2025

29 MINS

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26 Nov 2025


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Episode 660: My Boyfriend's Brother's Girlfriend Hates Me

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend's brother's girlfriend hates h... more

24 Nov 2025

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Episode 659: We're Not Meant to Hold Lightning

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has been left holding all the terrible thi... more

21 Nov 2025

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Episode 658: You Can't Compartmentalize Your Way Out of This

Sam and Sierra answer a letter whose married boyfriend's mother is about to pass away [Joi... more

19 Nov 2025

29 MINS

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19 Nov 2025


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Episode 657: The Familiarity of Self-Isolation

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who self isolates instead of seeking support f... more

17 Nov 2025

31 MINS

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17 Nov 2025


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Episode 656: It Could Be Different This Time

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like every new relationship is the s... more

14 Nov 2025

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Episode 655: When Self-Soothing Isn't Enough

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner won't introduce them to her frie... more

12 Nov 2025

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Episode 654: Missing His Kids More Than Him

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is grieving not being in her ex's kids' li... more

10 Nov 2025

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10 Nov 2025


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Episode 653: Responding Instead of Reacting Isn't Always Easy

On this main-feed release of a recent Patreon episode, Sam and Sierra talk about trying to... more

07 Nov 2025

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07 Nov 2025


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Episode 652: Changing Relationship Patterns

On this main-feed release of today's Patreon episode, Sam and Sierra answer a letter from ... more

05 Nov 2025

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Episode 651: When You *and* Your Therapist Get It Wrong

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who should have listened to us and not her the... more

03 Nov 2025

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Episode 650: Finding Belonging When Things Are Uncertain

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose entire fate seems to depend on her partn... more

31 Oct 2025

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31 Oct 2025


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Episode 649: Cheating Does Not An Open Relationship Make

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is openly discussing having another affair... more

29 Oct 2025

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29 Oct 2025