A Gay and A NonGay podcast

A Gay and A NonGay

In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends. 'Highly Recommended' Guardian 'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes 'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOut An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongay Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends. 'Highly Recommended' Guardian 'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes 'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOut An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongay Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed

 

#442

10 Years Of A Gay and A NonGay: A Gay Muslim's Journey to Acceptance with Mohsin Zaidi

This is a re-release celebrating a decade of love and allyship on A Gay And A NonGay. This... more

03 Dec 2025

23 MINS

23:18

03 Dec 2025


#441

10 Years Of A Gay and A NonGay: Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper

This is a re-release celebrating a decade of love and allyship on A Gay And A NonGay. This... more

26 Nov 2025

36 MINS

36:21

26 Nov 2025


#440

10 Years Of A Gay and A NonGay: Chickens

This is a re-release celebrating a decade of love and allyship on A Gay And A NonGay. This... more

19 Nov 2025

15 MINS

15:30

19 Nov 2025


#439

Live From The First-Ever Solihull Pride

We’re heading to Solihull for a special episode of A Gay And A NonGay! Recorded just days ... more

13 Nov 2025

20 MINS

20:20

13 Nov 2025


#438

Gogglebox, Gay Divorces and Going Kilimanjaro with Dan Lister

On this episode of A Gay And A NonGay, James and Dan are sitting down with the iconic Dani... more

05 Nov 2025

32 MINS

32:08

05 Nov 2025


#437

When Self-Love Becomes Too Much

James and Dan are back with another chaotic, hilarious episode of A Gay and A NonGay! This... more

29 Oct 2025

13 MINS

13:42

29 Oct 2025


#436

The Curious Case of Gay Dave

Dan and James are back with more A Gay And A NonGay for a wide-ranging conversation, start... more

22 Oct 2025

23 MINS

23:34

22 Oct 2025


#435

Straight Men Behaving Badly...

Why is it that straight men can seemingly never behave themselves in public? That's the di... more

15 Oct 2025

17 MINS

17:03

15 Oct 2025


#434

Pride, Refugees & The Politics Of Britishness

We're getting political on this episode of A Gay And A NonGay! Rylan’s controversial comme... more

08 Oct 2025

17 MINS

17:43

08 Oct 2025


#433

Sharing Your Location With A Partner? Think Again!

We're back with a new episode of A Gay And A NonGay! James and Dan are diving into the age... more

24 Sep 2025

27 MINS

27:29

24 Sep 2025


#432

Is Liking Pop Music Performative?

James and Dan are back with another hilarious deep dive into gay and non-gay life! Kicking... more

10 Sep 2025

31 MINS

31:45

10 Sep 2025


#431

Banning Songs At A Wedding?!

James & Dan's Webby Award has finally arrived... and it's going to cost HOW MUCH to get a ... more

03 Sep 2025

11 MINS

11:19

03 Sep 2025


#430

The Cost of Inauthenticity with Rich Clarke

Get ready for a raw and honest conversation on this episode of A Gay And A NonGay, as Jame... more

27 Aug 2025

38 MINS

38:11

27 Aug 2025


#429

Regional Gays & Lavender Marriages

We're here for another Summer episode of A Gay And A NonGay. With James at Edinburgh Fring... more

20 Aug 2025

32 MINS

32:06

20 Aug 2025


#428

Wearing A Rucksack With Both Straps

We have our first guest-free episode of A Gay And A NonGay in ages! We're diving into ever... more

13 Aug 2025

27 MINS

27:51

13 Aug 2025


#427

Why History Is Much More Gay Than You Think with Harry Tanner

We're diving in deep with historian and author Harry Tanner on this week's episode of A Ga... more

06 Aug 2025

43 MINS

43:12

06 Aug 2025


#426

Everyone's A Little Self-Obsessed with Eurovision winner JJ

We’re joined by Eurovision royalty on this episode of A Gay And A NonGay — the winner of t... more

30 Jul 2025

10 MINS

10:02

30 Jul 2025


#425

Pride, Protest, and Politics with Eva Echo

We have a record-breaker on the podcast this week! It's Eva Echo's third appearance on A G... more

23 Jul 2025

29 MINS

29:35

23 Jul 2025


#424

Staying Sober In The LGBTQ+ Community with Frankie Grande

We have pop royalty on this episode of A Gay And A NonGay as James and Dan are joined by a... more

16 Jul 2025

27 MINS

27:15

16 Jul 2025


#423

Why Do So Many Men Have No Mates? with Max Dickins

On this episode of A Gay And A NonGay, James and Dan are joined by author, comedian and ho... more

02 Jul 2025

35 MINS

35:24

02 Jul 2025


#422

Fighting HIV Stigma with Richard Angell

We’re joined by Richard Angell, OBE and Chief Executive of the Terrence Higgins Trust, on ... more

25 Jun 2025

36 MINS

36:29

25 Jun 2025


#421

Love Yourself Before You Love Another

If you can't love yourself, how can you love anybody else? On this episode of A Gay And A ... more

18 Jun 2025

22 MINS

22:55

18 Jun 2025