World famous relationship therapist <a href="https://www.instagram.com/estherperelofficial" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Esther Perel</a> has been studying relationships for over 40 years. She joins Nicole to share the most common problems couples seek therapy for, the 3 types of conflicts we fight over, and how to productively resolve them. Esther discusses how to get over "icks" while dating, and challenges us to ask ourselves: what "icks" would people find in you? They also explore exactly why modern dating feels so incredibly tough right now, the fact that therapy speak has gone mainstream thanks to shows like The Sopranos, and whether that's a good or bad thing. Plus, Esther shares a wild story about her first therapy session between a man and his AI girlfriend, and she totally flips the script on Nicole to ask the ultimate question: Would you date you?Celebrate the 20th anniversary of her groundbreaking book, <a href="https://www.estherperel.com/mating-in-captivity" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Mating in Captivity</a>.Watch this episode on our YouTube channel at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast</a><a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSd33e7dZVu87RXYXZpf2BRax8nGwxlwm3eSRp_Ee7JnGvXt8Q/viewform" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Take our listener survey</a> and shape the future of the podcast!Support this podcast by checking out our sponsor:• <a href="http://Chime.com/DATEME" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Chime</a>: Chime is not just smarter banking, it is the most rewarding way to bank. Join the millions who are already banking fee free today. Head to <a href="http://Chime.com/DATEME" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Chime.com/DATEME</a>.Follow:All Links: <a href="https://linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">linktr.ee/whywontyoudateme</a>Tour Dates: <a href="http://linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken</a>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@WhyWontYouDateMePodcast</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@whywontyoudatemepod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@whywontyoudatemepod</a>&nbsp;Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nicolebyer/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>X: <a href="https://twitter.com/nicolebyer?lang=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@nicolebyer</a>This is a <a href="https://headgum.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Headgum</a> podcast. Advertise on <a href="https://gumball.fm/shows/why-wont-you-date-me-with-nicole-byer" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Why Won't You Date Me?</a> via <a href="http://gumball.fm/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Gumball.fm</a>.See Privacy Policy at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.

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