The Forgiveness Trap: Why "Forgive and Forget" Perpetuates the Very Harm It Claims to HealDescription: Most people think forgiveness means welcoming harmful people back into your life. Veronica Monet reveals why this approach actually perpetuates cycles of abuse—and what real healing looks like.Guest Bio: Veronica Monet is a former high-end escort turned therapist and domestic violence counselor. Having survived childhood sexual abuse in what she describes as "a family of pedophiles," she now specializes in Internal Family Systems therapy and helping survivors break generational cycles of trauma. She's the author of the upcoming book "The Pedophile Who Loved Me: My Treacherous Path to True Forgiveness."Key Topics:Why religious forgiveness often enables continued abuseHow shame drives harmful behavior underground instead of stopping itThe difference between true forgiveness and dangerous reconciliationBreaking generational cycles of sexual abuse in familiesInternal Family Systems and how trauma creates "split" personalitiesWhy our approach to pedophiles may be creating more victimsThe hidden prevalence of incest in "normal" familiesHow to heal families and communities without enabling perpetratorsTIMESTAMPS: [00:00] Intro: Living in Tribes vs. Isolation [02:00] Polyamory as Community Support System [05:00] The Real Meaning of "Many Loves" [06:00] From Sex Work to Trauma Therapy [08:00] "The Pedophile Who Loved Me" - Why the Title Matters [10:00] The Dangerous Side of Religious Forgiveness [13:00] "Where Does the Misery Stop?" - Generational Trauma [16:00] Walking the Line Between Compassion and Accountability [20:00] How Trauma Creates Split Personalities 25:00] Multiple Personalities vs. Sub-Personalities [31:00] The Soul-Killing Nature of Child Sexual Abuse [37:00] Creating Safety for People to Come Out of Denial [42:00] Why Pedophiles Repeat and What We're Missing [48:00] Education Level and Sexual Abuse Patterns [52:00] Sex Work Safety vs. Other Professions [57:00] Why She Wouldn't Recommend Sex Work Today [1:05:00] Final Message: Healing Requires Treating Perpetrators as People This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit <a href="https://www.mindbodyhealthpolitics.org/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&#38;utm_campaign=CTA_2">www.mindbodyhealthpolitics.org/subscribe</a>

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