I’m excited to welcome back Jennie Young to the podcast. Jennie is here to talk about dating after divorce and how to protect yourself from getting tangled in the patterns you worked so hard to get yourself out of. She’s the creator of the Burned Haystack Dating Method — a sharp and fiercely feminist approach to spotting danger early in the dating process, and the author of the upcoming book Burn the Haystack In our conversation, Jennie and I dig into the realities of dating after divorce: from spotting danger in seemingly “safe” profiles to challenging the patriarchal scripts that keep women waiting to be chosen. Plus, we talk about shifting into the seat of choice, what it looks like to feel genuinely comfortable being single, and how these changes ripple out into raising kids with healthier expectations. ✨ Podcast episodes are available in two formats - audio and <a href= "https://youtu.be/Bzv_7uX90rY">video</a>! If you’d like to watch the video version of this episode, <a href="https://youtu.be/Bzv_7uX90rY" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">you can find it here</a>. What you’ll hear about in this episode: <ul class="wp-block-list"> <li>Jennie shares her origin story and the ah-ha moment that led to creating The Burned Haystack Dating Method (2:31)</li> <li>The feminist philosophy behind Burned Haystack and how it flips the traditional “pick me” script (5:33)</li> <li>Why green flags can actually be red flags in disguise: from love bombing to performative sensitivity (15:25)</li> <li>The importance of being comfortable (and even happy) being single before re-entering dating (32:44)</li> <li>What the “extinction burst” in the toxic manosphere means, and why starving it of attention is essential (35:09)</li> <li>How to shift the messaging for our kids so they grow up with healthier expectations and values (42:39)</li> </ul> Learn more about Jennie Young: Jennie Young is the creator of Burned Haystack Dating Method, a dating method grounded in applied rhetoric and feminist praxis. It is designed to combat many of the challenges of dating in a market that is too frequently mediated by misogynistic and patriarchal structures. She holds a Ph.D. in rhetoric and discourse studies from Case Western Reserve University and a satire writing certificate from Second City Chicago. Her work has been published in McSweeney’s, Ms. Magazine, HuffPost, and others and covered by major media outlets such as The New York Times, Newsweek, RollingStone, and others. Resources & Links: ALL NEW: The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast Episodes are <a href= "https://www.youtube.com/@YourDivorceSurvivalGuide" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Now Available on YouTube</a>! <a href="http://kateanthony.com/apply" target="_blank" rel= "noreferrer noopener">Focused Strategy Sessions with Kate</a> <a href="http://kateanthony.com/bundle" target="_blank" rel= "noreferrer noopener">The Divorce Survival Guide Resource Bundle</a><a href="https://kateanthony.com/decided/" target= "_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Phoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment Collective</a><a href= "https://www.instagram.com/kateanthony_divorcecoach/" target= "_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kate on Instagram</a><a href= "https://www.facebook.com/YourDivorceSurvivalGuide" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kate on Facebook</a><a href= "https://kateanthonydivorcecoach.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Kate’s Substack Newsletter: Divorce Coaching Dispatch</a> <a href= "https://www.harpercollins.com/products/burn-the-haystack-jennie-young?variant=43947396399138" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jennie’s book Burn the Haystack</a><a href= "https://burnedhaystack.substack.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noreferrer noopener">Jennie’s Substack, Burned Haystack</a><a href="https://jennieyoung.com/" target= "_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jennie’s website</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/9116647515019601" target= "_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jennie’s Facebook Group</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/word_case_scenario/" target= "_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Jennie on Instagram</a> <a href= "https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-317-burned-haystack-dating-method-with-jennie-young/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Episode 317: Burned Haystack Dating Method with Jennie Young</a> <a href= "https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-325-they-helped-me-find-love-now-theyre-interviewing-me-about-it-with-alyssa-dineen-and-jennie-young/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Episode 325: They Helped Me Find Love—Now They’re Interviewing Me About It! With Alyssa Dineen and Jennie Young</a> =================== DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM. =================== Episode link: <a href= "https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-336-breaking-patterns-choosing-power-dating-after-divorce-with-jennie-young/"> https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-336-breaking-patterns-choosing-power-dating-after-divorce-with-jennie-young/</a>

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