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Psychologist and relationship coach Sadia Khan joins James Smith to unpack the problem with dating apps, modern relationships, and the illusion of infinite choice. Together they explore why technology has made commitment harder, attraction more confusing and why everyone - men and women alike - are struggling to connect in an age of endless swiping.

Sadia reveals the psychology behind sex appeal, status and loyalty, explaining how dopamine, dating culture and false advice online are reshaping human relationships. From incel culture and OnlyFans to the fear of rejection and emotional detachment, this is a raw, unfiltered conversation about what’s gone wrong with love… and how to fix it.

She explains:
◼️ Why dating apps destroy genuine connection
◼️ How “too many options” kills commitment
◼️ The truth about sex appeal and attraction
◼️ Why men and women misunderstand each other online
◼️ The rise of transactional relationships in the digital age

00:00 – The Problem With People Being Single
01:48 – Three Main Problems: Options, Bad Advice & Monogamy
03:28 – Dating Apps: The Illusion of Choice
05:07 – Genetics, Status & What Women Actually Want
08:08 – The Secret Ingredient: Sex Appeal
11:19 – The Three A's: Attraction, Admiration, Adoration
13:32 – Women and Lust: The Sex Response
16:13 – Sexual Dominance vs Sexual Submission
19:30 – Anxiety Kills Sex Appeal
21:11 – OnlyFans: Manipulating Vulnerable Men
24:40 – Sex Workers and Materialistic Values
28:41 – Masturbation in Healthy Relationships
31:39 – The Sex Toy Epidemic
34:36 – Low Testosterone Nearly Ruined My Relationship
38:29 – Stress, Overtraining & Catastrophic Thinking
41:44 – Natural Ways to Boost Testosterone
44:13 – Why Genetics Matter: The TRT Debate
46:17 – Fat Acceptance vs Reality
49:38 – Why Staying Together Requires No Alternatives
51:14 – Two Types of Men: Loyal to the Woman vs Loyal to the Wife
52:35 – The Dubai Dating Scene Explained
55:34 – Why Russian Women Dominate Men in Dubai
58:38 – Escort Culture & Naive Men
1:01:12 – Corrupt Women vs Good Women
1:04:20 – The Danger of Being 39 and Single
1:08:05 – Four Things to Look For Before Having Kids
1:11:49 – Prenups: A Revealer of Character
1:15:12 – Why Your Partner Needs Financial Independence
1:18:05 – AI Relationships: Glamorizing Loneliness
1:19:22 – New Book: The 10 Red Flags
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