Why lowering your standards isn’t the answer, how to call friends without making it weird, and does it matter if everyone orders the same thing at a restaurant?

Episode highlights
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 <li>Try This at Home: Right-size your expectations. [00:14]
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 <li>Know Yourself Better: Do you split dishes with your dining partner, or order the same thing? Plus, a few restaurant hacks [00:24]
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 <li>Demerits & Gold Stars: Gretchen left her backpack in an Uber [00:50]
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Mentioned in this Episode
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 <li><a href="https://www.notarize.com">Notarize, an online notary service&nbsp;</a>
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 <li><a href="https://happiercast.com/602">Ep. 602, on spending money at home instead of on a vacation</a>
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 <li><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/quiz/five-senses-quiz/">Take the Five-Senses Quiz</a>
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 <li><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/quiz/the-gift-giving-quiz/">Take the Gift-Giving Quiz</a>
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 <li>Life in Five Senses by Gretchen Rubin (<a href="https://link.amazon/B06vLENPQ">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9780593442760">Bookshop</a>)&nbsp;
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 <li>Once Upon a Town: The Miracle of the North Platte Canteen by Bob Greene&nbsp; (<a href="https://link.amazon/B08NB4wF7">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9780060081973">Bookshop</a>)
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 <li>1873: The Rothschilds, the First Great Depression, and the Making of the Modern World by Liaquat Ahamed&nbsp; (<a href="https://link.amazon/B0hYgaBm0">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9781594204173">Bookshop</a>)
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 <li>Dad, Love, Me by Matthew Quick&nbsp; (<a href="https://link.amazon/B0idlm2fp">Amazon</a>, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/15926/9781668091753">Bookshop</a>)
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Connect with Us:
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 <li>Email: podcast@gretchenrubin.com
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 <li>Website: gretchenrubin.com
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 <li>Instagram: @gretchenrubin | @lizcraft
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 <li><a href="https://gretchenrubin.com/quiz/the-four-tendencies-quiz/">Take Gretchen's free Four Tendencies quiz</a>
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