Has there been a decline in "masculine" men? Some women on Tiktok seem to believe so. The phrase, "Who's gonna be the boys?" has been used online to refer to all the mundane things men are doing that could be described as feminine: wearing earrings, having a skin care routine, and even eating a banana, to name a few. But what does this online question about the alleged absence of masculine men say about our society’s expectations of men? And how might these expectations be causing problems for us all? To explore these questions, Brittany talks with <a href="https://maximumfun.org/about/team/shar-jossell/"target="_blank" >Shar Jossell</a>, entertainment journalist and culture critic, and <a href="https://us.macmillan.com/books/9780374395261/andifidiebeforeiwake/"target="_blank" >George M. Johnson</a>, author of All Boys Aren't Blue and the upcoming memoir, And If I Die Before I Wake. Looking for more conversations about gender and pop culture? Check out these episodes:  <a href="https://www.npr.org/2026/02/25/nx-s1-5725495/the-truth-about-men-on-the-down-low"target="_blank" >The truth about men on the 'down low'</a><a href="https://www.npr.org/2026/08/12/nx-s1-5928526/testosterone-doesnt-equal-masculinity"target="_blank" >Testosterone doesn't equal masculinity.</a> Support public media with NPR+ and enjoy perks for over 25 podcasts like this one. This show’s perks include sponsor-free listening. Learn more at <a href="http://plus.npr.org/"target="_blank" >plus.npr.org</a>. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for sponsorship and to manage your podcast sponsorship preferences. <a href="https://www.npr.org/about-npr/179878450/privacy-policy">NPR Privacy Policy</a>

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