<h2>What I Learned (and Relearned) at Empowered Podcasting Conference</h2>I got triggered at a podcasting conference last week, and honestly? I almost jumped out of my chair. Someone in the room said something that stopped me cold, and it's become one of the biggest lessons I'm bringing back to you this week — along with a story about a $230 million quarterback who won't take feedback, why "cheating off the smart kid" with AI is quietly ruining your podcast, and the subscription I found on my own bank statement that I'd been paying for and not even using. This episode is a mashup of my talk at Empowered Podcasting Conference 3 in Charlotte and everything I picked up just from being in the room. Let's get into it.<h2>It's Your Show. Own It.</h2>This is the one that made me want to stand up. Someone in a session said, "Well, I can't ask my guest to keep their answers short." Yes, you can. It's your show. If you're doing interviews, you're the goalie — it's your job to keep anything that doesn't serve your audience out of the episode. And if a guest rambles, that's usually on the host, not the guest. Give your guest a target before you hit record: who you're talking to, and whether you want short, medium, or long answers. A guest who doesn't get a target from the host should ask for one. Own your show. Set the boundaries. Your audience is who you're protecting.<h2>What Actually Makes Content Remarkable</h2>My talk was about what makes a podcast good, and I focused on what makes any content remarkable. I walked through a few movies to prove it:Saving Private Ryan — that D-Day opening wasn't new information (we all knew WWII was brutal), it was a new way of presenting it. People talked about it because nobody had seen it shown like that.The Sixth Sense — a tiny budget that beat big blockbusters like The Lone Ranger because of one twist: we don't find out Bruce Willis's character is dead until the end. People walked out of the theater and called a friend to say "you have to see this." That's the goal — content remarkable enough that it spreads on word of mouth alone.Gone with the Wind — a 1939 movie with an actual intermission, and people still talk about the burning of Atlanta (a real fire on the studio backlot, no CGI) and that last line — "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn" — which had audiences clutching their pearls. Again, something people had not seen before.Star Wars — I saw it eleven times as a kid, and even when half the theater had already seen it multiple times, everybody still cheered when the Death Star blew up. That's not just about the special effects. That's about how it made people feel.A podcast episode is content plus delivery — and delivery is you: your attitude, your confidence, your life skills. My rule of thumb for what makes a good episode: laugh, cry, think, groan, educate, or entertain. Save them time or save them money. Try to hit more than one of those in every episode.<h2>The Most Underrated Skill in Podcasting: Listening</h2>Everyone assumes the top skill is a great voice or being funny. It's not. It's your ability to listen — to your audience, and to feedback.Case in point: The Cleveland Brown's quarterback, the one we paid $230 million despite a stack of off-field allegations. He's not good at his job. When fans booed him, his response was basically "you guys don't like me" — not "I need to get better," not "tell me more." He made it personal instead of taking it as information. I hear the same thing constantly from podcasters. I'll offer to help someone grow their show, ask which episode they want me to listen to, and they'll say "oh, it's not the content." If you're not willing to actually hear feedback, don't be surprised when your show doesn't grow.<h2>The AI Shortcut That's Quietly Killing Your Voice</h2>This is the one I need you to sit with. There's a real strategy going around called the outlier strategy: if you and a competitor share an audience, and one of their episodes way outperforms their normal numbers, you make your own version of that topic. Legitimate strategy.Here's where it goes sideways — people are grabbing the transcript of that outlier video, feeding it to AI, and saying "rewrite this in my voice." And the whole reason they're doing a podcast in the first place is to be seen as a thought leader — using someone else's thoughts.It might work about 80% of the time (I'm making that number up), and that missing 20% is the part that's actually, uniquely you. Mark Maron said it best: "You're not thinking your own thoughts. You're a hack with an excuse for why you're failing."I'm not anti-AI — I use it to organize my own brain dumps into an outline. But when you let it write the content, you get exactly what everyone else already sounds like.Led Zeppelin became Kingdom Come became Greta Van Fleet. Cinderella became Girl School. The copy is never as good as the original, and eventually the audience notices.Which brings me to a phrase I have to credit to YouTuber <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@AprilynneAlter" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Aprillynne Alter</a>, because she said it better than I could: protect your intuition. When you let AI do all your thinking, you never actually process the information — and you lose your gut instinct for what your audience needs. That's exactly why I watched every single Dolly Parton video myself for last week's episode instead of asking AI to summarize them. I wanted that information in my head, not just in the output.Cheating off the smart kid might get you the grade. It won't get you the understanding.<h2>Own Your Audience — Don't Rent It From a Platform</h2>I had a great conversation with email marketing expert Paul Gouder about this. I moved my main marketing list from <a href="https://partners.kit.com/wcqdcqy9cu40" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Kit</a> (formerly ConvertKit) over to <a href="https://substack.com/refer/davejackson" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Substack</a>, and while my subscriber count is actually growing there, I can see in my stats that it's not driving nearly as much traffic to my website. Paul's question stopped me: "What do platforms do once they get popular enough? They change the rules." TikTok, Facebook, YouTube — every one of them eventually limits your reach to your own audience unless you pay up.Email doesn't have an algorithm. Those are people who raised their hand and said "I want more." I'd rather have a 40% open rate on my newsletter than a meaningless "view" on YouTube.And I export my list every single month just in case, because platforms can turn on you fast — there was a parenting podcast that got pulled off YouTube with zero warning, appealed to an AI system, got denied by that same AI, and only got reinstated after <a href="https://www.podnews.net" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Podnews</a>' James Cridland made it a public story. You don't want your show's survival to depend on someone shaming a platform into doing the right thing.<h2>Audit Your Subscriptions — You're Probably Bleeding Money</h2>My buddy Ralph Eastep Jr. — "the <a href="https://www.contentcreatorsaccountant.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">content creator's accountant</a>" — gave the keynote, and his advice was simple: go look at your podcast's checkbook.So I did. In five minutes I found I'd been paying $57 a month for an SEO mastermind I hadn't attended in ages, plus $10 a month for an email address I don't even use anymore. Close to $100 a month, gone, just from things I forgot to cancel. This is exactly why you want a separate bank account for your podcast — every charge in there is tied to something you're using for the show, and it makes the leaks obvious. If you need a separate account I use both <a href="https://supportthisshow.com/sofi" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Sofi</a> and <a href="https://acorns.com/share/?shareable_code=D4MHNS2&first_name=Dave&friend_reward=5" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Acorns</a>.<h2>Don't Copy the Gear. Be You.</h2>One more story from my talk. We all think if we buy the same mic or use the same host as someone successful, we'll get their results. It's not the gear. The band Extreme had guitarist <a href="https://youtu.be/sYpKg6HR1z8?si=VRdJJePizjvb6y5w&t=404" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Nuno Bettencourt</a>, who idolized Eddie Van Halen his whole career — and finally got to play Eddie's actual rig, in front of Eddie. He was sure he'd finally sound like his hero. Instead, he said it was "so horrible," because he just sounded like himself. Same thing happened in early podcasting — we all bought the same expensive mic because we wanted to sound like a famous podcaster. Lean into being you. You're already very good at it.<h2>Bonus: Sometimes "Remarkable" Means Remarkably Bad</h2>A tiny, ultra-low-budget Chinese film (reportedly made for around $200 by a mother and son on an iPhone) got pulled from theaters and mocked online as one of the worst movies ever. The memes were brutal. And because everyone was talking about it, curiosity took over — it ended up making an estimated $9.3 million. Remarkable works both ways.<h2>Quick Update on Episode 1049</h2>In <a href="https://www.schoolofpodcasting.com/1049" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">episode 1049</a>, I told you Spotify and YouTube signed onto a shared industry definition of what counts as a "view" or a "play." Well, weeks later, Spotify rolled out a button that lets listeners skip ads entirely, and YouTube quietly changed what counts as a view again — now just moving your mouse over a thumbnail can register as one.Mark your calendar: in a month or two, expect YouTube to brag about some absurd new view count and hope everyone forgot they moved the goalposts. These are the partners we're all supposed to shake hands and build agreements with.<h2>Thanks to Empowered Podcasting Conference</h2>Big thanks to Mark Ronick, Rich, and Jason for putting on another great Empowered Podcasting Conference, and to everyone I got to hang out with in Charlotte.Head to schoolofpodcasting.com and use the coupon code LISTENER for a monthly, quarterly, or yearly subscription — backed by a 30-day money-back guarantee. You'll get access to the courses, the community, and coaching. And if you want to catch every episode, follow the show at schoolofpodcasting.com/follow.Research Links<ul><li><a href="https://empoweredpodcasting.com/">Empowered Podcasting Conference</a></li><li><a href="https://supportthisshow.com/sofi">SOFI: Join Checking and Savings | You’ve been invited!</a></li><li><a href="https://acorns.com/share/?shareable_code=D4MHNS2&first_name=Dave&friend_reward=5">Acorns Banking - Earn Interest, Teach Your Children about Finances</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YiBI17oICI">Why No One Makes "Original" Videos Anymore</a></li><li><a href="https://www.schoolofpodcasting.com/start-a-newsletter/">Newsletters Part 2: How to Start a Newsletter Without Losing You…</a></li><li><a href="https://www.schoolofpodcasting.com/podcast-newsletters/">Want More Downloads? Ditch Social Media for Newsletters!</a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@AprilynneAlter">Aprilynne Alter - YouTube</a></li><li><a href="https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/movies/articles/200-chinese-movie-just-became-154906026.html">A $200 Chinese Movie Just Became the Most Profitable Film in History</a></li><li><a href="https://www.betterdave.com/gone-with-the-wind/">Gone with the Wind Rant - Building a Better Dave</a></li></ul> Mentioned in this episode:Question of the Month: Constructive and Deconstructive FeedbackThis month we are talking feefdback. What is the most constructive or deconstructive (or both) piece of feedback you've received. If you haven't asked for feedback, why not? I need your answer by September 25th (late entries won't be accepted) go to www.schoolofpodcasting.com/question and be sure to mention your show and your website address so I can link to it in the show notes.<a href="https://school-of-podcasting.captivate.fm/qotm">Question of the Month</a>Where Will I Be?I love meeting you when I'm out at events. Here are some of my next events:
Podcast Movement September 17-18
Podindy November 7th (use the coupon pacer at podindy.com)<a href="https://school-of-podcasting.captivate.fm/where">Where Will I Be?</a>Podpage Email AlertsPodpage just launched a feature called Episode Alerts. It automatically emails your subscribers the moment a new episode goes live — no third-party email tool needed. When you publish, Podpage sends the email, links listeners straight to the episode, routes replies to your own inbox, and handles unsubscribes automatically. They also run every email address through validation and monitor bounces/spam complaints to protect your sender reputation.

It's not meant to replace a full newsletter platform — no drip campaigns or segmentation — just a simple "hey, new episode's up" notification.

It's available for Pro and Elite users, with monthly sending caps of 500 emails on Pro and 5,000 on Elite. 

For more information see https://www.podpage.com/updates/introducing-episode-alerts/<a href="https://school-of-podcasting.captivate.fm/podpage">Podpage</a>Get Some Feedback On Your Show“Want honest, helpful feedback on your podcast? At the School of Podcasting, we host ‘Listening Parties’ where members share short clips and get constructive, encouraging critiques from fellow podcasters and myself. 
It’s a safe, supportive way to hear what’s working, fix what’s not, and make your show stronger fast.”
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