Executive coach and former CEO Martin Dubin joins AJ and Johnny to reveal the hidden blind spots that quietly sabotage leaders and high performers. From the Dunning–Kruger effect to the “fishbowl” and “cabana” phenomena, Marty shows how strengths overused become weaknesses, and why true growth requires identity shifts, not just behavior tweaks.
Packed with practical insights, he explains why emotions are data, how leaders unintentionally communicate even when silent, and why luck often comes down to context and fit. Whether you’re climbing the ladder or running the show, Marty offers a toolkit to see yourself clearly and lead more effectively.
What to Listen For
[00:00:00] Defining blind spots—and why they appear during change
[00:02:16] Why leaders at the top get less feedback and stagnate
[00:06:15] Strengths turning into liabilities when overused
[00:09:36] Identity vs. behavior: making the leap from executor to strategist
[00:12:41] Emotions as data: awareness, regulation, and reading others
[00:17:27] Stress, bottling up emotions, and worse decision-making
[00:23:16] The “TOO” test: when confidence, decisiveness, or organization go too far
[00:28:02] AJ’s technique: asking “What am I missing?” to reopen input
[00:32:06] The fishbowl and cabana effects: how leaders send unspoken signals
[00:36:22] Why copying billionaires fails—and how to adapt to your own context
[00:41:37] Acting “as if” to prepare for your next role
[00:46:42] Tools from Marty’s book Blindspotting to identify your own blind spots
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Episode resources:
<a href="https://www.martindubin.com/">Martin's Website</a>
<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Blindspotting-Whats-Holding-Back-Leader/dp/B0F84K3WN8/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.tTZX291djuCt3aHtTnjDFIEF2mWnQudRAC6BDz1pbtkDQPkLbx5__4td7FwdS_TO-RQmPdGAcLtNijvrBev6gPxee0_2Yu2f3fiHlnbE9-tEj7sb4biMUZyR7M_XNIr1N-r4-4EcDiJt2VTq2lZ3e8nqrSTFbgUmcptckc2EPJXpoTqUWERX_3zXTqB9_DcQQ9pYzeYPHCU4VTfbCMV2fykzZjSQLBuwdvE1_aE03SU.izBVbSpqpal36q1VSOLRNwoNfGRqmHpFt_KdcO6UrqU&dib_tag=se&keywords=blindspotting+Martin&qid=1755497897&sr=8-1">BlindSpotting</a>
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