What if the biggest threat to your productivity isn't your workload, your calendar, or your endless meetings—but the time you lose overthinking everything?
From replaying an awkward comment in a meeting to worrying about what your boss thinks, workplace stress, rumination, and self-doubt can quietly consume hours of your day.
In this episode of The Art of Charm, AJ Harbinger sits down with Neal Schore, author of The 25th Hour, to explore why our emotional reactions often sabotage productivity—and how to reclaim your time by learning to manage yourself instead of trying to control everyone around you.
Neal shares practical strategies for breaking negative thought patterns, overcoming imposter syndrome, navigating workplace conflict, and building the emotional intelligence needed to become a more effective communicator and leader.
You'll discover why complaining with coworkers can feel productive while accomplishing nothing, how to stop catastrophizing minor mistakes, and why changing small daily habits can transform how you show up professionally and personally.
What you'll learn:
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 <li>How to stop overthinking at work: Why replaying conversations, worrying about criticism, and second-guessing yourself drains your productivity.
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 <li>The hidden cost of workplace negativity: How complaining and commiserating create a cycle of stress that affects team performance.
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 <li>A practical technique for emotional regulation: Why pausing, checking someone's intent, and asking clarifying questions can prevent unnecessary conflict.
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 <li>How to overcome imposter syndrome: Why even successful CEOs struggle with self-doubt and how to challenge catastrophic thinking.
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 <li>The 99-and-1 exercise: A simple way to examine your worst-case fears and redirect your attention toward what you can control.
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 <li>How to break unproductive habits: Why deliberately changing small routines can help you interrupt automatic behavior patterns.
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 <li>Leadership and emotional intelligence: How self-awareness, communication, and your emotional responses influence workplace relationships.
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 <li>The 10-minute productivity exercise: Why doing absolutely nothing for 10 minutes can change how you value your time.
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Whether you're a leader navigating difficult workplace dynamics, a professional struggling with perfectionism, or someone who constantly feels there aren't enough hours in the day, this conversation offers practical tools for reclaiming your focus, improving your communication skills, and building more productive relationships.
About the guest
Neal Schore is an entrepreneur and author of The 25th Hour. Drawing on his business leadership experience and work with executives, Neal teaches an approach he calls You Manage You, focused on interrupting negative patterns, developing self-awareness, and redirecting energy toward productive action.
Episode Resources:
Website: <a href="https://nealschore.com">https://nealschore.com</a>
Learn more: <a href="https://www.25hourgroup.com">https://www.25hourgroup.com</a>
Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1668090120?th=1">The 25th Hour</a>
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Chapters
00:00 – Why overthinking and emotional stress are stealing your productivity
05:41 – Workplace negativity: How complaining and commiserating waste time
11:25 – Stop ruminating: Emotional regulation and better communication at work
17:14 – Overcoming imposter syndrome and catastrophic thinking with the 99-and-1 method
22:43 – Turn workplace stress into action and break negative thought patterns
28:17 – Leadership skills: Change workplace culture by changing your own behavior
33:41 – How to regain emotional control during stressful situations
39:21 – Building stronger relationships through self-awareness and emotional intelligence
45:52 – Executive presence, leadership blind spots, and the dangers of perfectionism
53:19 – The 10-minute productivity exercise to reclaim your time
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