#354: You know that feeling when your mom rearranges the table you just set, or your uncle makes that comment about your career, and suddenly you're spiraling?&nbsp; That's the first arrow - the hurt. The second arrow is all the stories your mind creates about how “she always does this” or “nothing I do is right.” But there's a third arrow that I haven't found anyone really talking about, and it's the most damaging one. Join me this week to discover how to recognize the third arrow when it shows up. You'll learn specific remedies you can use right now when that shame spiral starts, including how to name it, change your nervous system state before trying to change your thoughts, and talk to yourself like someone you love. Because once you see the third arrow, you can't unsee it. And that awareness gives you a choice you didn't have before. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: <a href="https://beatrizalbina.com/354" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://beatrizalbina.com/354</a> Order your copy of End Emotional Outsourcing here: <a href="https://beatrizalbina.com/book/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://beatrizalbina.com/book/</a> Follow me here: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/?hl=en</a>Mentioned in this episode:Buy Your Copy of End Emotional Outsourcing Today!Please support the book by reviewing it on Amazon or Goodreads. It helps the book reach more folks who are still living in old survival patterns and don’t have language for it yet. Drop your screenshot at beatrizalbina.com/book and you’ll get access to thank-you gifts and raffles for free breathwork sessions, coaching, and audiobook copies. I appreciate you more than you know.
 
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