This week, I chat with Pepper Kat about Western society's difficulty in embracing physicality and sexuality.  Pepper is an adult entertainer and podcaster who founded Design Your Dreamgirl to provide a space for all people to explore their desires with no judgment. Pepper and I discuss the spectrum of sexual fantasy, how shaming intimacy is the worst form of control, and why Sigmund Freud should probably be retired.REFERENCES:Pepper Kat’s website: <a href="https://www.pepperkat.com/">https://www.pepperkat.com/</a>Spicy Spectrum Podcast:  <a href="https://www.pepperkat.com/heartfelt-perspectives">https://www.pepperkat.com/heartfelt-perspectives</a>Follow Pepper on TikTok:  <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@_pepper_kat_">https://www.tiktok.com/@_pepper_kat_</a>Follow Pepper on Bluesky:  <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/pepperkat.bsky.social">https://bsky.app/profile/pepperkat.bsky.social</a>Follow Pepper on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/peppertheblackkat/">https://www.instagram.com/peppertheblackkat/</a>Follow Pepper on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091550276924">https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100091550276924</a>Follow Pepper on X:  <a href="https://x.com/BlackKatPepper">https://x.com/BlackKatPepper</a><ul><li>(00:00) - Opening credits
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<li>(00:37) - Show opening
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<li>(01:32) - Introducing Pepper Kat
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<li>(02:06) - From news producer to Design Your Dream Girl
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<li>(04:04) - Acknowledging desires reduces assault
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<li>(09:12) - Historical biases drive current views on sex
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<li>(13:48) - The spectrum of desire
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<li>(18:23) - Sex work keeps the world sane
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<li>(21:53) - Embrace your physicality
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<li>(26:59) - Voice as a method of affirmation
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<li>(29:16) - Intimacy takes many forms
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<li>(32:22) - Being confident neough not to lie to yourself
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<li>(36:45) - Why not just change social norms?
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<li>(41:29) - And it all comes down to control
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<li>(48:02) - Who can call Pepper Kat?
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<li>(50:47) - How to find Pepper Kat on the internet
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<li>(52:27) - Spicy Spectrum Podcast
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<li>(54:04) - Show closing
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<li>(55:48) - Closing credits</li>
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