Most people think promotions go to the person doing the best work. In reality, they often go to the person who looks like they’re already leading the room.
AJ and Johnny break down why competence alone can leave high performers overlooked, while confidence, visibility, and strategic positioning shape how leadership sees you. They explain the difference between self-promotion and executive presence, why working harder can actually keep you stuck, and how promotion decisions are influenced by the signals people notice in meetings.
You’ll learn a simple three-step technique called “summarize and steer” to organize a scattered conversation, clarify the real decision, and propose the next move. It’s a practical way to build influence, signal leadership, and become the person others look to when it matters. 
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<a>Alison Fragale: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1djb2mzj66p25tQmHe67sl?si=dd59ec873fa449e1</a>

<a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/74v1Y08rYxYClVFAP2xBaR?si=b00d45f476014bf9">Tessa West: https://open.spotify.com/episode/74v1Y08rYxYClVFAP2xBaR?si=b00d45f476014bf9</a>

<a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/08XveTtMJIYffPwjjVwpSM?si=db4f9da656fe46e8">Jeffery Pfeffer: https://open.spotify.com/show/08XveTtMJIYffPwjjVwpSM?si=db4f9da656fe46e8</a>

Chapters00:00 – Why the best worker gets passed over02:10 – Confidence signals what competence can’t04:00 – The hidden politics of promotion06:35 – Self-promotion vs. strategic positioning08:00 – Why meetings shape your reputation09:15 – The summarize-and-steer method11:40 – Three steps to lead without the title13:10 – Building executive presence over time14:00 – Your next-meeting challenge
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