Today, we’re exploring this question…What does it mean to feel truly worthy? Our guest is Psychologist, relationship expert and best selling author Dr. Marisa G. Franco. You may know her from&nbsp;her previous book, Platonic, which completely transformed how we think about friendship. In this discussion, We explore her groundbreaking new book,&nbsp;Worth, The New Science of Self Esteem and Secure Attachment.&nbsp;She begins by sharing her own vulnerable personal story of how her relationship's collapse revealed what she calls&nbsp;a "secure facade"—a protective play-acting of security that masked deep unworthiness and self-abandonment.She unpacks why our culture’s obsession with secure attachment has turned it into an exhausting status symbol. Marisa explains why the path to genuine healing isn't pretending we are perfectly secure, but embracing a "secure-ish" life where we acknowledge our anxieties and avoidances instead of shaming them. From the neuroscience of repressed emotions to practical exercises like memory reconsolidation, tapping, and present-moment reparenting, this conversation offers a powerful, science-backed roadmap to restoring your attachment to yourself.&nbsp;This is an episode about, letting go of the need to prove ourselves, and finding the freedom to to be exactly who you need to be.&nbsp;Resources: drmarisagfranco.comThanks to our Great Sponsors: Quince, Jones Road Beauty (try the miracle balm), Berkeley Life, Vinted.&nbsp;See Privacy Policy at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy</a> and California Privacy Notice at <a href="https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info</a>.

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