A "pathetic man" is the guy who gets you to take care of him, because he's purposefully not taking care of himself. These are the men who lean into the hardships of modern manhood...and expect women to sooth their pain. They're popping up in our TV shows, social media feeds, and real lives. So much so that Tiktoker Josh Lora (aka <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@tellthebeees"target="_blank" >tellthebeees</a>) has declared <a href="https://tellthebeees.substack.com/"target="_blank" >2026 the year of pathetic men</a>.  Host Brittany Luse and Josh raise a toast to the men who lean into the ways patriarchy and masculinity have failed them…maybe too much. Interested in other episodes about modern dating? Check these out:<a href="https://lnk.to/QZ81ex"target="_blank" >The Embarrassing Truth of Dating Men</a><a href="https://lnk.to/XIajWf"target="_blank" >Is he a good guy? Or is he manipulating you?</a> Support Public Media. <a href="https://plus.npr.org/"target="_blank" >Join NPR Plus.</a> Follow Brittany on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bmluse/?hl=en"target="_blank" >@bmluse</a> For handpicked podcast recommendations every week, subscribe to NPR’s Pod Club newsletter at <a href="http://npr.org/podclub"target="_blank" >npr.org/podclub</a>.  To manage podcast ad preferences, review the links below: See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for sponsorship and to manage your podcast sponsorship preferences. Learn more about sponsor message choices: <a href="https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices">podcastchoices.com/adchoices</a> <a href="https://www.npr.org/about-npr/179878450/privacy-policy">NPR Privacy Policy</a>

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