<a href="https://calendly.com/coaching-relationshiprenovation/rr-coaching-discovery-call" rel="nofollow">Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation Coaching</a><a href="https://a.co/d/5gu0hEO" rel="nofollow">Order Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from Amazon</a><a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/RelationshipRenovationPodcast" rel="nofollow">Join Our Patreon Community</a><a href="https://relationshiprenovation.com/" rel="nofollow">Take the Emotional Safety Assessment Quiz</a>Ever wondered why stress and shame seem to quietly erode intimacy in your relationship?Do you and your partner struggle to reconnect during overwhelming seasons—leaving both of you feeling misunderstood, rejected, or alone?Curious how to calm your nervous system and bridge the desire gap, even when it feels impossible?In this week’s episode of Relationship Renovation, EJ Kerwin and Tarah Kerwin dive into The Intimacy Gap (Part 2): The Silent Saboteurs — How Stress, Shame, and Mismatched Desire Sabotage Connection.Building on Part 1 of their four-part intimacy series, they unpack why intimacy doesn’t simply fade—it’s slowly chipped away by stress, shame, dysregulated nervous systems, and repeated miscommunication.Through honest, vulnerable stories about blending families, parenting challenges, and financial strain, EJ and Tarah reveal how nervous system overload is often misread as withdrawal or rejection. That misunderstanding fuels a painful cycle of blame, distance, and desire discrepancies that many couples mistake for incompatibility.In This Episode, You’ll Learn:<ul><li>How stress and shame shut down emotional and sexual desire</li><li>Why mismatched desire is normal—and what it actually means</li><li>How nervous system dysregulation masquerades as disinterest</li><li>Tools to shift from reactivity to curiosity</li><li>Practical steps to restore emotional safety and rebuild connection</li><li>Ways to communicate vulnerably when intimacy feels out of sync</li></ul>With research-supported insights and relatable real-life examples, EJ and Tarah show you how moving from “calm to connect” can help couples step out of shame, regulate together, and create a new intimacy story—one rooted in empathy, safety, and lasting closeness.If you’ve ever struggled with stress, shame, or desire differences in your relationship, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and real hope for rebuilding intimacy. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donations'>https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

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