What if the answer to your overwhelm isn’t a new planner or app—but a walk around the block, a shared meal, or a Saturday spent gardening? In this episode, Michael and Megan sit down with Arthur Boers, author of Living into Focus and Shattered, to talk about the kind of practices that help us resist the pressure of a hyperconnected world and even heal from generational trauma by reconnecting to what matters most. If you’ve ever longed to feel more grounded, whole, or present, this conversation will give you the language—and tools—you’ve been missing.Memorable Quotes<ol><li>“Technoloy itself is not the problem. Technology is human manipulation of nature for human priorities… The question is: Do we master technology or does technology master us?”</li><li>“What we ought to do is raise the thresholds against things that are not the priority… And then the other thing is lower the threshold for things that are your priorities."</li><li>“Focal practice is just helping us reclaim things that we knew or did before and helping us prioritize them, helping us have a different perspective on them.”</li><li>“Compassion is the way forward. It doesn’t help to school people who are struggling with these things—but to listen to them with patience and kindness and compassion can, in fact, make a difference.”</li><li>“Focal practices are about getting away from just acting automatically. That’s how I was raised: If you act automatically, it’s right. You’re justified… I’ve had to unlearn that.”</li><li>“It means a willingness to live with ambiguity and to live with pain and to live with things that aren’t resolved and hold there—that’s a hard learning.”</li></ol>Key Takeaways<ol><li>Focal Practices Are More Than Habits. Focal practices aren’t just routines—they’re meaningful rhythms that require intentionality, foster connection, and reorient us to what matters most.</li><li>Technology Calls For Discernment. Technology isn’t going anywhere—but the way we engage with it should be thoughtful. The key to balance? Honest conversations in community.</li><li>We Need Yellow Lights. In a culture of nonstop green lights (and plenty of red-light alarmism), we need more yellow lights—space to pause, reflect, and consider what’s truly right for the moment.</li><li>Brake Your Enthusiasm. Eager to dive headfirst into focal practices? That’s your cue to slow down. Start small, stay consistent, and let the benefits build over time.</li><li>An Unexpected Path to Healing. Focal practices don’t just bring focus—they can bring healing. By creating spaces of safety, embodiment, and rhythm, they can support recovery from trauma and help us move toward greater wholeness.</li></ol>Resources<ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Living-into-Focus-Choosing-Distractions/dp/1587433141">Living into Focus</a> by Arthur Boers</li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Shattered-Picks-Pieces-Fathers-Rage/dp/0802882463">Shattered: A Memoir</a> by Arthur Boers</li><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Way-Made-Walking-Pilgrimage-Santiago/dp/0830835075/ref=sr_1_1?crid=372H6COQWVX44&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.n-tRbines4WNQxZjtvWJ2-D_mk98KxmrPWEh7T8fv0y79ZW3wiqMB46r1oeSnSUh9Q7hOZaWeCGNz2cywNeP6y4VGY0PC6Yc4h1D62N3tD18bBiGQdk4OUO4EW5N02D8d5hTKdONfK9aD7hxCkXnA4b7qvm2gT69uVjji0l4DhY.MoMR473-G43z6qngo9b5A6ApvLCokbkbbk5f16dPdEM&dib_tag=se&keywords=the+way+is+made+by+walking&qid=1744837595&s=books&sprefix=the+way+is+made+by+walking%2Cstripbooks%2C109&sr=1-1">The Way is Made by Walking</a> by Arthur Boers</li><li><a href="https://www.arthurboers.com/">ArthurBoers.com</a></li></ul>Watch on YouTube at:  <a href="https://youtu.be/ypJvOm0z8IU">https://youtu.be/ypJvOm0z8IU</a>This episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound

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