“All couples fight. In fact, how they fight in the first three minutes predicts with 96% accuracy not only how the rest of the conversation will go, but how the rest of the relationship will go six years down the road,” says relationship expert Dr. Julie Gottman. Dr. Julie and John Gottman are founders of the Gottman Institute and the Love Lab where they study how to sustain love and health in relationships. They join Chris to discuss why more people now than ever are deciding to go solo, what a healthy end to a conflict looks like, and the 52 questions you should ask your partner before getting married.This episode is part of a series of bonus videos from "How to Be a Better Human." You can watch the extended video companion on the<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@TED/videos" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> </a>TED YouTube Channel and the extended interview on the TED Audio Collective YouTube Channel.WatchJulie and John answer listeners' questions:<a href=" https://youtu.be/nJ4RtT0T_BA" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://youtu.be/nJ4RtT0T_BA</a>Extended interview with Chris: <a href="https://youtu.be/CxW0JRAw8bk" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://youtu.be/CxW0JRAw8bk</a>FollowHost: Chris Duffy (Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chrisiduffy/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@chrisiduffy</a> |<a href="https://chrisduffycomedy.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://chrisduffycomedy.com/</a>)Guest: Dr. Julie and John GottmanLinksHumor Me by Chris Duffy (<a href="https://t.ted.com/ZGuYfcL" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://t.ted.com/ZGuYfcL</a>)<a href="https://www.gottman.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.gottman.com/</a>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gottmaninstitute/?hl=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@thegottmaninstitute</a>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/TheGottmanInstitute" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@TheGottmanInstitute</a>Linkedin: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-gottman-institute/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@the-gottman-institute</a>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@thegottmaninstitute?lang=en" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@thegottmaninstitute</a>Follow TED!&nbsp;X:<a href="https://www.twitter.com/TEDTalks" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://www.twitter.com/TEDTalks</a>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/ted" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://www.instagram.com/ted</a>Facebook:<a href="https://facebook.com/TED" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://facebook.com/TED</a>LinkedIn:<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/company/ted-conferences" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://www.linkedin.com/company/ted-conferences</a>TikTok:<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@tedtoks" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://www.tiktok.com/@tedtoks&nbsp;</a>Podcasts:<a href="https://www.ted.com/podcasts" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"> https://www.ted.com/podcasts</a>For the full text transcript, visit <a href="https://go.ted.com/BHTranscripts" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">go.ted.com/BHTranscripts</a>Interested in learning more about upcoming TED events? Follow these links:TEDNext:&nbsp;<a href="https://ted.com/futureyou" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">ted.com/futureyou</a><hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

Podurama

Home

Trending

Personal

Your Podcasts

New Episodes

My Files

Favourite Episodes

Tags (Folders)

Recently Played

Bookmarks

Followed Playlists

Why you need to learn how to fight in a relationship (w/ Dr. Julie and John Gottman)

How to Be a Better Human

AI Chapters

AI Insights

Reviews