We’re talking about sexual abuse on SelfWork today – so please, if you have sexual abuse in your history or have somehow been affected by it, listen carefully.Sometimes I receive a voicemail where I can hear the stark heartache that’s behind the message. And this week was no exception. The hurt expressed was so palpable for me. Not only hurt, but confusion and a huge sense of loss.Who was it from? She’s a therapist. A mom. A daughter, not in that order. Let’s call her Lisa.So, what had happened? Lisa’s very young daughter had told her that her mother’s husband, Lisa’s stepfather, had sexually molested her. And she’s struggling to handle the consequent tsunami of family distrust and estrangement between the members of her family – which is very common but still very painful. At the very time she feels she most needs her mother, her mom has taken her stepfather’s side and believes her granddaughter is making up something that didn’t happen.Maybe some of you tried to talk to a parent or a teacher or a pastor about being hurt sexually or any other way in your family. Not only were you not believed. You might’ve been blamed or warned not to tell “lies” about your family – or the perpetrator.Again, please take care in listening if you have a history of sexual abuse or were hurt in some way through sexual abuse. The sexual abuse hotline number/website below.<h3>Vital Links:</h3><a href="https://rainn.org/" rel="nofollow">The RAINN.org sexual abse hotline/website</a><a href="https://drmargaretrutherford.com/359-selfwork-talking-about-sibling-sexual-abuse-a-conversation-with-tedx-speaker-jane-epstein/" rel="nofollow">Jane Epstein&#39;s incredibly courageous journey</a>, revealing sibling sexual abuse<a href="https://drmargaretrutherford.com/when-granddaddy-is-a-sexual-abuser/" rel="nofollow">SelfWork episode on intrafamilial sexual abuse</a><h3>Advertisers&#39; Links and Special Offers:</h3>Have you been putting off getting help? BetterHelp, the #1 online therapy provider, has <a href="https://trybetterhelp.com/selfwork" rel="nofollow">a special offer</a> for you now!You can hear more about this and many other topics by listening to my podcast, <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/selfwork-dr.-margaret-rutherford/id1166015598?mt=2" rel="nofollow">SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford</a>. Subscribe to <a href="https://drmargaretrutherford.com/" rel="nofollow">my website</a> and receive my weekly newsletter including a blog post and podcast! If you’d like to join my FaceBook closed group, then click <a href="https://facebook.com/groups/SelfWork" rel="nofollow">here</a> and answer the membership questions! Welcome!My book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression is available<a href="http://perfectlyhiddendepression.com/" rel="nofollow"> here!</a> Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life.There’s another way to send me a message! You can record by clicking below and ask your question or make a comment. You’ll have 90 seconds to do so and that time goes quickly. By recording, you’re giving SelfWork (and me) permission to use your voice on the podcast. I’ll look forward to hearing from you!    Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFWORK for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

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