Somewhere in the past few years, you did something you love, with someone you love, for the very last time. And you had no idea when it happened. This solo episode is about why we cruise through our most meaningful endings, and why that might actually be the best possible news about how you've been living.In this deep-dive solo, Jonathan Fields unpacks an idea he calls unmarked lasts, the everyday endings that slip past without ceremony, starting with a story about fifteen years of chairlifts with his daughter and the ordinary Sunday that unceremoniously closed an era. It's a conversation built for anyone in their 40s, 50s, or beyond who has started to notice that the archive of things that ended is getting fuller, and wonders if they should have been paying better attention.In this episode, you'll explore:<ul><li>Why the baby book has a page for every first and not a single page for the lasts, and what that asymmetry does to us</li><li>The structural reason you cannot catch a casual last while it's happening, no matter how present or grateful you become</li><li>What researcher Hal Hershfield discovered when he asked people to imagine a meaningful place for the very last time, and the surprising thing that didn't happen to their happiness</li><li>The centuries-old Portuguese word for the ache you've probably never been able to name</li><li>Two kinds of lasts, and the completely different thing each one asks of you</li></ul>The endings you can't remember may be the strongest evidence of a life you were fully inside of.<a href="https://www.goodlifeproject.com/podcast/anticipatory-grief-saudade-meaning-midlife-nostalgia" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Episode Transcript</a>Next week, guest host Cynthia Morris is sitting down with Susan Bratton to talk about why desire in midlife doesn't fade so much as it gets misread, and what actually rekindles it at any age. Be sure to follow Good Life Project wherever you get your podcasts so you don't miss that or any upcoming episodes!Check out our sponsors and resources: <a href="https://www.goodlifeproject.com/sponsors/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Visit Our Sponsor Page</a><hr> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

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