What if the secret to a healthy, lasting relationship isn’t finding “the right person”… but designing the relationship that’s actually right for you? We’re here with Ellecia Paine who experienced first-hand what it&#39;s like to be in a relationship that looks good on the outside but feels empty on the inside, – and how she used this experience to completely redefine what she was looking for in a partnership. We discuss how to break out of the inherited “shoulds” when searching for love, why it&#39;s not &#34;too much&#34; to ask for more when it comes to your relationship, and how to create a structure that’s built for who you are, whether you’ve found your person or not.TW: We talk about an abusive relationship at the start of the interview.Follow Ellecia @elleciapaine and check out her work at: https://www.elleciapaine.com/Take the Dating Archetypes quiz now: https://howtobedateable.com/HOW TO BE DATEABLE IS OUT! Order now: https://howtobedateable.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Our Sponsors: * Bioma Health: Get an extra 15% off with the code Dateable at https://gobioma.com/DATEABLE * Happy Mammoth: Try Prebiotic Collagen Protein and Hormone Harmony risk-free AND get 15% off your order at https://happymammoth.com with the code DATEABLE * Quince: Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Washington Red Raspberries: Find more details on where to find American frozen red raspberries, plus recipe ideas and cooking tips at https://redrazz.org Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donations'>https://redcircle.com/dateable-your-insiders-look-into-modern-dating-and-relationships/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a> Privacy & Opt-Out: <a href='https://redcircle.com/privacy'>https://redcircle.com/privacy</a>

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S21E14: Designing The Love Life That's Meant For You w/ Ellecia Paine

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