<a href="https://calendly.com/coaching-relationshiprenovation/rr-coaching-discovery-call" rel="nofollow">Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation Coaching</a>Or email us directly at <a href="mailto:coaching@relationshiprenovation.com" rel="nofollow">coaching@relationshiprenovation.com</a> with the subject line “Couples Coaching Application.” <a href="https://a.co/d/5gu0hEO" rel="nofollow">Order Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from Amazon</a><a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/RelationshipRenovationPodcast" rel="nofollow">Join Our Patreon Community</a><a href="https://relationshiprenovation.com/" rel="nofollow">Take the Emotional Safety Assessment Quiz</a><h3>Highlights from the Episode</h3><ul><li>How Sex Turns Transactional: Tarah shares a story from a recent couples session: “If you do this and you do it well, I’ll give you sex.” Sound familiar? Turns out, it’s more common than we think.</li><li>Both Partners Are Responsible: EJ and Tarah reflect on their own patterns of expectation, let-down, and the rewards/punishments that silently build up over time.</li><li>Unspoken Stories Drive Anxiety: Ever felt relief when your partner wasn’t expecting sex… or disappointment when connection didn’t lead there? You’re not alone. Opening up those stories, rather than burying them, is the first step to real change.</li><li>Emotional Safety is Key: The hosts discuss how building a foundation of emotional safety—being able to share, be transparent, and give verbal appreciation—creates true desire and real intimacy.</li><li>Actionable Tools: From ‘The Frisky Scale’ (yes, really!) to conversation starters on how you want to feel valued outside the bedroom, EJ and Tarah give you practical ways to break the transaction cycle.</li></ul> Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donations'>https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

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