<p>This week on Real Talk with Rachael I'm speaking with the authors of <a href="https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/book" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Pastors' Wives Tell All: Navigating Real Church Life with Honesty and Humor</a>, Stephanie Gilbert, Jessica Taylor, and Jenna Allen. They are also the cohosts of the <a href= "https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pastors-wives-tell-all" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Pastors’ Wives Tell All podcast</a> - a podcast by pastors’ wives for church leaders and anyone desiring to peek inside their proverbial glass houses. As best friends from three different churches and denominations, they are breaking down walls within the Church and crushing pastor wifey stereotypes with a little ministry therapy and a whole lot of Jesus—plus the occasional <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/pastorswivestellall/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Instagram</a> dance party!</p> Key Points from Our Conversation: <ul> <li>So often people pressure pastor's wives to meet certain expectations. When they don't, it can leave congregants feeling disappointed. The best way to not get lost in other's expectations of you is to remember who you are and who you belong to. We do not seek the approval of man, but rather to serve Christ.</li> <li>It's common for people to assume pastor's wives are too busy or that they have a large community they spend time with, but truthfully being a pastor's wife can be lonely. Support your pastor's wife by checking on her and including her in your events.</li> <li>When you're part of a pastor's family, it puts your life on display. People always seem to catch you in your worst moments and it can create disillusionment. The best solution is to create a new culture of vulnerability. Only then will walls start to break and change will happen.</li> <li>Seeking counseling is unfortunately still a taboo subject in the church. Some consider it a sign of weak faith and others believe that it's an attempt to replace God's counsel, but seeking therapy is not an either/or, it's a both/and. Faith is our foundation, but the Bible advises us to seek wise counsel. Lay down your pride and seek counseling from God and a professional therapist. What you don't talk about owns you.</li> <li>Changing the stigma around therapy in the church starts from the top. Your pastor is not a licensed counselor and there are times when it's wise to seek a licensed professional therapist.</li> </ul> Let’s Get Real Practical: <ul> <li>Do you have a negative stigma about seeing a counselor? Ask the Lord if He's directing you to see a counselor. You can find a list of Christian counselors at <a href= "https://aacc.net/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The American Association of Christian Counselors</a> or through <a href= "https://www.focusonthefamily.com/christian-counselors-network/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Focus on the Family's Christian Counselor Network</a>.</li> </ul> <p>Connect with Pastors' Wives Tell All: <a href= "https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">website</a> | <a href= "https://www.instagram.com/pastorswivestellall/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Instagram</a> | <a href= "https://www.facebook.com/pastorswivestellall" target="_blank" rel= "noopener">Facebook</a> Connect with Rachael: <a href= "https://www.rachaelgilbert.com/">website</a> | <a href= "http://www.instagram.com/rachaeljgilbert">Instagram</a> | <a href="http://www.facebook.com/rachaeljoygilbert">Facebook</a></p>

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