Krystina used to host gatherings all the time. Then came kids and the pandemic, and the parties ground to a halt. She’s feeling a renewed urge to bring people together—specifically her inspiring, badass female friends—but every time she starts to plan something meaningful, she balks. On this episode: How To!’s Courtney Martin connects Krystina with Katherine Goldstein of the <a href="https://thedoubleshift.substack.com/">Substack</a> and podcast <a href="https://thedoubleshift.substack.com/podcast">The Double Shift</a>. Katherine shares what she’s learned from her new project, <a href="https://thedoubleshift.substack.com/p/how-to-find-your-people-club">The How To Find Your People Club</a>, including a guiding principle: Don’t overthink it.
More from The How to Find Your People Club: <a href="https://thedoubleshift.substack.com/p/8-ways-to-embrace-deep-casual-hosting?r=2i5e&utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email">8 Ways to Embrace “Deep Casual Hosting” (So You’ll Actually Do It)</a>
<a href="https://thedoubleshift.substack.com/p/lets-host-a-deep-casual-gathering?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email">More Advice for the “Deep Casual” Hosting Movement!</a>
<a href="https://thedoubleshift.substack.com/p/a-research-backed-method-to-ramp">A Research-Backed Method to Ramp Up Our Social Skills</a>
<a href="https://thedoubleshift.substack.com/p/a-nitty-gritty-guide-to-finding-a">A Nitty-Gritty Guide to Finding a Community That’s Right for You</a>
If you liked this episode, check out <a href="https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2022/12/priya-parker-on-throwing-an-amazing-party">How To Throw a Party They’ll Remember</a> and <a href="https://slate.com/podcasts/how-to/2024/02/how-to-find-new-friends">How To Find Friends in Unexpected Places.</a>
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