Author and educator Kirsty Loehr joins Jaimie to share her beautifully messy story of queer family building — from reciprocal IVF with her ex-wife to co-parenting their 4-year-old son and now navigating life in a blended family with her new partner and her partner’s two kids.Kirsty talks candidly about the breakup that came just months after welcoming her son, the challenges of 50/50 custody, and learning to blend families while balancing love, chaos, and new beginnings. She also shares the inspiration behind her new book, A Short History of Queer Parenting, a funny, accessible, and essential look at how queer families have always existed — even when history tried to erase us.It’s honest, hopeful, and very, very lesbian.🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways<ul><li>Reciprocal IVF and Family Dynamics: Kirsty shares her experiences with reciprocal IVF, offering insights into queer parenting and the unique challenges and triumphs they bring.</li><li>Single and Blended Parenting: Insights into the evolution from single to blended parenting, discussing both the struggles and profound bonds formed.</li><li>Legal Aspects of Queer Parenting: Legal navigation within queer parenting, particularly regarding reciprocal IVF and parental rights.</li><li>The Evolution of Queer Parenting: Kirsty&#39;s new book highlights the historical journey of LGBTQ&#43; parenting, from legality issues to personal anecdotes, providing a comprehensive view of queer family growth.</li><li>Strength in Community: The importance of shared experiences and community support in navigating the complexities of queer family life.</li></ul>🏳️‍🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈<ul><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kirsty_loehr?igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw%3D%3D&utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet" rel="nofollow">Kirsty Loehr</a> (she/her) is a writer, English teacher, and examiner based in Brighton, England. She’s the author of A Short History of Queer Parenting and A Short History of Queer Women. Her work celebrates queer lineage, visibility, and the many ways LGBTQIA&#43; people create and nurture families.</li></ul>🏳️‍🌈 Thanks to our sponsor <a href="https://www.cryobank.com/search/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a>!If you’re listening to this show, there’s a good chance you’re building your family the queer way — and might need a little help in the sperm department. 🩵 Use code QUEERFAM25 at <a href="https://cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">cryobank.com</a> for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!🏳️‍🌈<a href="https://travelbrilliant.net/mbg/gwk-spring-break-2026/" rel="nofollow"> Book with GWK&#39;s Spring Break Cruise Vacation!</a> Join Jaimie and her family (and other LGBTQIA&#43; families) on a 3 night cruise in the Bahamas. Be sure to mention that you heard about it here! Click that link ➡️ <a href="https://travelbrilliant.net/mbg/gwk-spring-break-2026/" rel="nofollow">https://travelbrilliant.net/mbg/gwk-spring-break-2026/</a>🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned<ul><li><a href="https://oneworld-publications.com/work/a-short-history-of-queer-women/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQMMjU2MjgxMDQwNTU4AAGnqfJcAhWiRNQZcy3rB6dbw7jpxpm_19hAZoUp0Vhb2XHyeNIg54czKjnwQb8_aem_3eG2y8Y10XRbChn1HC8WEA" rel="nofollow">Find Kirsty’s books</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/kirsty_loehr/" rel="nofollow">Follow Kirsty on Instagram</a></li><li><a href="https://cryobank.com/" rel="nofollow">California Cryobank</a> – Use code QUEERFAM25.</li></ul>🏳️‍🌈 Interested in advertising? 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