Most of us are so certain about, well, everything. We think we can predict what's coming, what that off-hand comment really meant, what that look was about, what's going to go wrong. And according to Dr. Ellen Langer, that certainty is making us miserable… and possibly making us sick.Dr. Langer is a psychologist, Harvard professor, and the "Mother of Mindfulness." In her book&nbsp;The Mindful Body, she makes the case that the way we think directly shapes the way we heal, age, stress, and recover. Her conclusion: the mind and the body were never two separate things to begin with. And we have far more agency over both than we've been led to believeIn this episode you'll learn:➡️ What mindfulness (and mindlessness) really is➡️ The one question that can dissolve stress almost instantly➡️ Why the story you tell yourself is more powerful than what actually happened➡️ The study that proved people lost weight without changing their diet or exercise➡️ The difference between nervousness and excitement (and why it matters)➡️ Why certainty is a sign of mindlessness (not intelligence)➡️ How your body heals faster or slower based on what you believe➡️ Why "fighting" an illness is the wrong mindset➡️ The simple reframe that turns every negative trait into a strength➡️ Why confident people don't need to rely on certaintyIn this conversation, Ellen makes the case that virtually all of us are mindless almost all of the time. And the moment you recognize that, everything opens up. Your health, your relationships, your ability to recover from hardship.The obstacle, it turns out, has always been the assumption that there was nothing left to question.This… is A Bit of Optimism.+ + +To buy a copy of Dr. Ellen Langer’s books&nbsp;The Mindful Body: Thinking Our Way to Chronic Health&nbsp;and&nbsp;Finding Happy, head to:&nbsp;<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://www.ellenlanger.me/">https://www.ellenlanger.me</a>+ + +Chapters<h3>Chapters</h3><ul><li>00:00:00 Stress Is a Story We Tell Ourselves</li><li>00:01:27 What Mindfulness Actually Means</li><li>00:02:59 Why Everything You Know Is Probably Wrong</li><li>00:04:29 One Plus One Doesn't Always Equal Two</li><li>00:06:59 Are We Wired for Stress or Taught to Be Stressed?</li><li>00:08:16 When Ellen's House Burned Down: Finding Gifts in Tragedy</li><li>00:13:19 Is This a Tragedy or an Inconvenience?</li><li>00:19:24 Nervous or Excited? The Olympic Athletes' Secret to Reframing Stress</li><li>00:22:26 The First Step to Mindfulness: Embracing Uncertainty</li><li>00:23:15 Behavior Makes Sense From the Actor's Perspective</li><li>00:33:24 Context, Context, Context: Who Gets to Decide?</li><li>00:42:41 Mind Over Matter: The Stories That Started It All</li><li>00:46:24 The Counterclockwise Study: Turning Back Time in Five Days</li><li>00:47:07 The Chambermaid Study: When Work Becomes Exercise</li><li>00:49:47 Wounds Heal Based on Perceived Time, Not Real Time</li><li>00:52:01 Are We Mindless Almost All the Time?</li></ul>+ + +Simon is an unshakable optimist. He believes in a bright future and our ability to build it together.Described as “a visionary thinker with a rare intellect,” Simon has devoted his professional life to help advance a vision of the world that does not yet exist; a world in which the vast majority of people wake up every single morning inspired, feel safe wherever they are and end the day fulfilled by the work that they do.Simon is the author of multiple best-selling books including&nbsp;Start With Why,&nbsp;Leaders Eat Last,&nbsp;Together is Better, and&nbsp;The Infinite Game.+ + +Website:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="http://simonsinek.com/">&nbsp;http://simonsinek.com/</a>Leaderful: <a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" class="link" href="https://simonsinek.com/leaderful">https://simonsinek.com/leaderful</a>Podcast:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="http://apple.co/simonsinek">&nbsp;http://apple.co/simonsinek</a>Instagram:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://instagram.com/simonsinek/">&nbsp;https://instagram.com/simonsinek/</a>Linkedin:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://linkedin.com/in/simonsinek/">&nbsp;https://linkedin.com/in/simonsinek/</a>Twitter:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://twitter.com/simonsinek">&nbsp;https://twitter.com/simonsinek</a>Facebook:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://www.facebook.com/simonsinek">&nbsp;https://www.facebook.com/simonsinek</a>Simon’s books:The Infinite Game:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://simonsinek.com/books/the-infinite-game/">&nbsp;https://simonsinek.com/books/the-infinite-game/</a>Start With Why:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://simonsinek.com/books/start-with-why/">&nbsp;https://simonsinek.com/books/start-with-why/</a>Find Your Why:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://simonsinek.com/books/find-your-why/">&nbsp;https://simonsinek.com/books/find-your-why/</a>Leaders Eat Last:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://simonsinek.com/books/leaders-eat-last/">&nbsp;https://simonsinek.com/books/leaders-eat-last/</a>Together is Better:<a target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer" class="link" href="https://simonsinek.com/books/together-is-better/">&nbsp;https://simonsinek.com/books/together-is-better/</a>

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