Parenting is hard. It may be the most ambiguous job you’ll ever have. Not only do you have to wait literally years to see what the “finished product” truly is – you have to get through adolescence and social media influence and screen time and drug use and hurt from relationships and broken bones and just basic screw-ups on your part – but there’s no guaranteed rule book.<h3>Parenting has stages...</h3>Today’s episode is on the stage of parenting, where you leave the “teaching” stage of parenting to the “consulting” stage. You move from having a very central, controlling role with your kids to a less primary, but still very important role. You don’t tell them what to do necessarily – but you offer guidance. And if they fall, you help them get up. You show your belief in them – you don’t try (as hovering helicopter or even worse lawn-mower parents do) to make sure they’re not facing any obstacles. You may think you see the obstacle before they do – but they’re grown. And they’ve got to live out their choices – just as you did. Or hopefully you did.We’ll be using three different listener comments or questions – and as always, thank you for writing in!<h3>Advertisers&#39; Links and Special Offers:</h3>Have you been putting off getting help? BetterHelp, the #1 online therapy provider, has <a href="https://trybetterhelp.com/selfwork" rel="nofollow">a special offer</a> for you now!Find out what your &#34;true age&#34; is! Go to https://trudiagnostic.com/selfwork to sign up and get a discount for being a SelfWork listener!Manage your hormones with the help of Happy Mammoth, a leader in women&#39;s health! Go to https://happymammoth.com/selfwork to order!You can hear more about this and many other topics by listening to my podcast, <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/selfwork-dr.-margaret-rutherford/id1166015598?mt=2" rel="nofollow">SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford</a>. Subscribe to <a href="https://drmargaretrutherford.com/" rel="nofollow">my website</a> and receive my weekly newsletter including a blog post and podcast! If you’d like to join my FaceBook closed group, then click <a href="https://facebook.com/groups/SelfWork" rel="nofollow">here</a> and answer the membership questions! Welcome!My book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression is available<a href="http://perfectlyhiddendepression.com/" rel="nofollow"> here!</a> Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life.There’s another way to send me a message! You can record by clicking below and ask your question or make a comment. You’ll have 90 seconds to do so and that time goes quickly. By recording, you’re giving SelfWork (and me) permission to use your voice on the podcast. I’ll look forward to hearing from you!   Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code SELFWORK for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com * Check out TruDiagnostic and use my code SELFWORK for a great deal: https://www.trudiagnostic.com Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

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