<a href="https://calendly.com/coaching-relationshiprenovation/rr-coaching-discovery-call" rel="nofollow">Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation Coaching</a><a href="https://a.co/d/5gu0hEO" rel="nofollow">Order Relationship Renovation at Home Manual from Amazon</a><a href="https://www.patreon.com/c/RelationshipRenovationPodcast" rel="nofollow">Join Our Patreon Community</a><a href="https://relationshiprenovation.com/" rel="nofollow">Take the Emotional Safety Assessment Quiz</a>﻿In this first episode of our four-part series The Intimacy Gap, E.J. and Tarah Kerwin explore why most couples experience differences in emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy — and how these discrepancies can lead to frustration, disconnection, or misunderstanding.They share the real numbers (80% of couples face this issue), explain how attachment styles and nervous system regulation impact intimacy, and offer tools to start healing the distance.If you’ve ever felt like one partner wants more closeness than the other — emotionally or sexually — this episode will help you understand why and begin building empathy, safety, and lasting connection.Topics Covered:<ul><li>What the “intimacy gap” really means</li><li>Emotional vs. physical vs. sexual intimacy differences</li><li>How upbringing and attachment shape desire</li><li>Practical tools for curiosity instead of blame</li><li>How to start safe, non-defensive conversations about intimacy</li></ul><h2></h2><h2>Timestamps</h2>00:00 – Introduction Welcome to The Intimacy Gap (Part 1) on the Relationship Renovation Podcast.01:35 – Why “The Intimacy Gap”? Why so many couples experience emotional, physical, and sexual disconnect.03:20 – Understanding Intimacy Discrepancies What it means when one partner wants more closeness or connection than the other.05:45 – The 80% Statistic Why 80% of couples face intimacy differences — and why it’s normal.07:50 – Beyond Sex: Emotional & Physical Intimacy How affection, vulnerability, and communication are part of intimacy.11:20 – How Intimacy Areas Interconnect How emotional, physical, and sexual connection overlap and affect each other.15:40 – Real-Life Example: Planning & Affection Tarah and E.J. share a story about differing needs for dates and affection.19:10 – Attachment Styles & Upbringing How childhood patterns and attachment shape intimacy as adults.23:15 – Nervous System Regulation & Shame Why stress and shame block connection — and how to rebuild safety.26:30 – From Blame to Curiosity Turning frustration into curiosity and self-reflection.30:00 – Tools for Talking About Intimacy Simple ways to have calm, open conversations about desire differences.33:15 – Final Reflections Encouragement for couples to keep growing through empathy and understanding.35:00 – Resources & What’s Next Info on Relationship Renovation at Home, Patreon community, and Part 2: The Silent Saboteurs. Support this podcast at — <a rel='payment' href='https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donations'>https://redcircle.com/he-said-she-said/donations</a> Advertising Inquiries: <a href='https://redcircle.com/brands'>https://redcircle.com/brands</a>

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