Silence is where negotiators accidentally give away money.
AJ and Johnny break down why the hardest part of a negotiation often isn’t knowing what to ask for—it’s resisting the urge to speak when the other person goes quiet. That uncomfortable pause can make you lower your number, over-explain your position, or negotiate against yourself before the other side has said anything at all.
You’ll learn how to anchor confidently, hold eye contact, count through seven seconds of silence, and respond without immediately defending or discounting your ask. Whether you’re negotiating salary, contract terms, or a major purchase, this episode shows how staying calm and quiet can shift the pressure back across the table.
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Chapters
00:00 – The two words that cost you leverage01:00 – Why silence makes people fold02:30 – The cheapest move in negotiation03:20 – How anchoring shapes the entire conversation04:20 – Say your number without apologizing06:10 – Know your number before you walk in07:10 – The seven-second silence method08:00 – What your body should communicate09:20 – What to say when they finally break10:35 – Salary negotiation example14:20 – How to challenge “standard terms”16:20 – What to do if seven seconds isn’t enough18:30 – Trading instead of conceding19:00 – Your silence challenge for the week
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