Most people think men’s sexual orientation is pretty straightforward: if you&#8217;re gay, you only sleep with men, and if you&#8217;re straight, you only sleep with women. But things aren&#8217;t always that simple. In today’s show, we’re exploring a reality that doesn’t fit the script—gay men who are out and confident in their identity, but who sometimes sleep with women.
I am joined once again by <a href="https://joekort.com/">Dr. Joe Kort,</a> the clinical director and founder of <a href="https://crsh.com/">The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health</a> in Royal Oak, Michigan. He is a board-certified clinical sexologist and author of multiple books, including <a href="https://amzn.to/3MgL1mi">Cracking the Erotic Code: Helping Gay Men Understand Their Fantasies.</a>
Some of the specific topics we explore in this episode include:
<ul>
<li>What are the main reasons why some gay men have sex with women?</li>
<li>Why might a woman want to have sex with a gay man?</li>
<li>Does your sexual behavior necessarily have to align with your sexual identity?</li>
<li>Why do people sometimes engage in behaviors that don&#8217;t seem to match up with their sexual orientation?</li>
</ul>
You can <a href="https://joekort.com/">visit Joe&#8217;s website</a> to learn more about his work.
Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at <a href="http://speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology">speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.</a>
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