Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at <a href="http://fleshlight.sjv.io/PrivatePartsUnknown">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>.

For the 210th episode of Private Parts Unknown, host Courtney Kocak welcomes Cris Mazza, author of the new memoir, <a href="https://bookshop.org/a/85623/9780820367545">The Decade of Letting Things Go</a>.
The book traces Cris’s journey through the aftermath of menopause and her search for self-acceptance amid a growing list of losses. In this episode, we discuss her lifelong experiences with anorgasmia, sexual dysfunction, and gender dysphoria—and how these shaped her relationships, identity, and creative work. It’s a fascinating and refreshingly honest conversation about intimacy, identity, and what it means to let go of expectations.
For more from today's guest, Cris Mazza:
<ul>
 <li>Check out Cris's website <a href="https://cris-mazza.com/">cris-mazza.com</a>
</li>
 <li>Order Rachel's book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Write-Erotica-Rachel-Kramer-Bussel/dp/1627783199">⁠⁠</a><a href="https://bookshop.org/a/85623/9780820367545">The Decade of Letting Things Go</a>
</li>

</ul>
Psst, Courtney has an 0nIyFan$, which is a horny way to support the show: <a href="https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/cocopeepshow⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>

Private Parts Unknown is a proud member of the Pleasure Podcast network. This episode is brought to you by:
<ul>
 <li>Our Sponsor, FLESHLIGHT, can help you reach new heights with your self-pleasure. Fleshlight is the #1 selling male sex toy in the world. Looking for your next pocket pal? Save 10% on your next Fleshlight with Promo Code: PRIVATE at <a href="http://fleshlight.sjv.io/PrivatePartsUnknown">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠fleshlight.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>.</li>
 <li>STDCheck.com is the leader in reliable and affordable lab-based STD testing. Just go to <a href="http://ppupod.com/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ppupod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>, click STDCheck, and use code Private to get $10 off your next STI test.</li>
 <li>Explore yourself and say yes to self-pleasure with Lovehoney. Save 15% off your next favorite toy from Lovehoney when you go to <a href="http://lovehoneyus.sjv.io/PrivatePartsUnknown">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠lovehoney.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> and enter code AFF-PRIVATE at checkout.</li>
 <li><a href="https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/PrivatePartsUnknownAds⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a></li>
</ul>

If you love this episode, please leave us a 5-star rating and sexy review! —> <a href="https://ratethispodcast.com/private">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ratethispodcast.com/private⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> 

Psst... sign up for the Private Parts Unknown newsletter for bonus content related to our episodes! <a href="https://privatepartsunknown.substack.com/welcome">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠privatepartsunknown.substack.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>

Let’s be friends on social media! Follow the show on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/privatepartsunknown/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsunknown⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> and Twitter <a href="https://twitter.com/privatepartsun">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@privatepartsun⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a>. Connect with host Courtney Kocak <a href="https://www.instagram.com/courtneykocak/">⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@courtneykocak⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠</a> on Instagram and Twitter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a>

Podurama

Home

Trending

Personal

Your Podcasts

New Episodes

My Files

Favourite Episodes

Tags (Folders)

Recently Played

Bookmarks

Followed Playlists

Life Without Orgasm: Cris Mazza on Anorgasmia, Gender Dysphoria & Letting Go

Private Parts Unknown: Sex & Love Around the World

AI Chapters

AI Insights

Reviews